Big Sexy Chat Podcast

Send us a textAre societal stereotypes about body image and size finally being dismantled in pop culture? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we celebrate both the triumphs and setbacks of fat representation in media. We kick off with an enthusiastic spotlight on Michelle Buteau’s "Survival of the Thickest," applauding its clever writing and diverse cast, while lamenting the loss of "Somebody Somewhere," a gem in queer culture representation. Our conversation turns somber as we dissect Ryan Murphy's "Grotesquery," critiquing its harmful depiction of fat characters through outdated stereotypes.Shifting gears, we tackle the complex intersection of body image and celebrity influence. Our discussion zeroes in on the backlash faced by Lizzo, who finds herself in hot water for promoting weight loss, seemingly contradicting her earlier body positivity advocacy. We ponder the pressures placed on celebrities like Gabourey Sidibe, whose personal health choices ignite public debate and highlight the ongoing tension between personal autonomy and public expectation. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on the societal implications these high-profile narratives hold for the fat liberation community.We conclude by celebrating the often-overlooked voices of plus-size men in fashion and society. Figures like Bruce from Chubster, Big Burr, and Jeff Jenkins are pushing boundaries, proving that joy and confidence do not conform to size. However, we also caution against the recent shift among some influencers towards fitness-focused content in the Ozempic era. Throughout, we emphasize the importance of allyship and authentic representation, championing influencers and organizations that are reshaping the narrative around body image. Join us as we advocate for a more inclusive future, where everyone, regardless of size or shape, is celebrated and respected.Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textDiscover the secrets and mysteries of female anatomy that will make you question everything you thought you knew. Prepare for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we kick off with a bizarre tale of a book club member with two vaginas, leading us into a fascinating discussion about the clitoris and its complex history. From Matteo Columbo’s supposed "discovery" in 1559 to the ancient understanding of this unique organ, we unravel the misconceptions and the ongoing societal struggle to properly recognize female pleasure. You'll laugh, you'll learn, and you might just find yourself amazed by how society's understanding of the clitoris has evolved—alongside some truly historical mishaps.Explore the elaborate structure of the clitoris that goes way beyond what meets the eye. We dive into the hidden anatomy, including the clitoral legs and the myriad of sensations they can provide. Whether it's through a tender touch or the modern wonders of suction-based toys, we celebrate the amazing diversity of pleasure experiences. We also share insights into how the clitoris continues to grow as we age, transforming the narrative around aging and pleasure into something positive and empowering. Join us as we emphasize the importance of clitoral awareness and how understanding personal preferences can enhance your sexual health.Finally, let’s break the taboo around female sexuality and empowerment. From the historical suppression of female pleasure to the inspiring rise of women in the sex toy industry, we're on a mission to promote body-positive and inclusive conversations. Get ready to explore erogenous zones like the A-spot, G-spot, and C-spot, and discover techniques that can elevate your intimate experiences. We reflect on today's learnings and encourage you to reach out with your questions and feedback. Join us in our quest to create an understanding community where everyone is comfortable exploring their own anatomy and pleasure.Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver wondered how reclaiming the word "fat" can become a badge of pride and empowerment? Our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat welcomes Grim, a multifaceted powerhouse and celebrated figure in the fat-positive community. Join us as Grim takes us through her eclectic journey from retail management to becoming a spicy model, psychic death doula, and burlesque performer. Discover how she built a significant following on platforms like OnlyFans and created a welcoming community with her weekly $10 tarot readings that celebrate fierce fat positivity and diversity.Grim opens up about her transition from stand-up comedy to burlesque, finding confidence and joy in performances despite societal challenges. From whimsical acts like Grimace to Alice Cooper, her journey is filled with resilience and creativity. We'll also hear the harrowing tale of her battle with cancer and the medical fat phobia she faced, showcasing her perseverance and spirit in the face of adversity. The conversation then delves into the reclaiming of the word "fat," transforming it from a hurtful term to a badge of pride that empowers her and others.The episode doesn't stop there; we touch on Grim's multifaceted career in holistic and psychic practices, including her roles as a death and sex doula. We explore the frustrations of dealing with societal fat phobia and celebrate body confidence with a lighthearted segment on sex and powerful tools like the Hitachi wand. Don't miss this vibrant and inspiring conversation, and be sure to connect with us on Big Sexy Chat across all social media platforms. Thank you for being part of our community!Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textWhat if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight. You'll hear the touching story of Asherlee, who found solace in Dr. Robert's unique approach, and discover why finding a doctor like him is a rare treasure.We tackle the often overlooked challenges faced by obese patients in the healthcare system. From the psychological toll of misdiagnoses to the emotional relief of being truly listened to, we unearth the critical need for holistic and individualized care. Dr. Robert recounts a transformative moment when a patient's persistence led to the discovery of a rare diabetes type, underscoring the necessity for doctors to listen beyond appearances and biases. We also delve into the systemic shortcomings in medical training that fail to address body diversity and anti-fatness.Shifting to a more intimate subject, we explore the intersection of sexual health and larger bodies. Dr. Robert offers expert advice on navigating anatomical challenges and emphasizes the importance of communication and comfort with one's body. From innovative sex toys like the Balldo to making pelvic exams more comfortable, we provide actionable insights to enhance sexual satisfaction and access. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and combat fat phobia in healthcare while also celebrating body positivity and sexual empowerment.Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textWhat if the love you sought could be found in multiples? Join Merf and Asherlee, our phenomenal producer and editor, as she unravels the complexities of polyamory. Asherlee, who steps in for Chrystal in this episode, shares her personal journey into polyamory, distinguishing it from swinging and revealing the dynamics of her own relationships, including her unique satellite connections. From the importance of responsible relationship management to the necessity of open, honest communication, this discussion offers a wealth of practical insights for anyone curious about or involved in polyamorous relationships.Have you ever wondered how different relationships can meet various emotional needs without creating hierarchies? In this episode, we explore the concept of emotional currency and how polyamorous relationships can complement rather than compete. We dive into the experiences of "thirds," tackling societal pressures and the feelings of exclusion they often face. With references to valuable resources like the book "Polysecure," we provide guidance on navigating personal insecurities and societal norms that challenge the desire for love and significance in non-monogamous relationships.Navigating the world as a BBW in the poly community comes with its own set of challenges. Our conversation touches on the impact of fatphobia and fetishization on romantic interactions, and why it's crucial to seek balanced and equitable relationships. We also unpack the myths surrounding "unicorns" and the problematic nature of "unicorn hunting." This episode encourages listeners to share their experiences, ask questions, and engage with our community on social media. Whether you're polyamorous, poly-curious, or just interested in understanding more about non-monogamous lifestyles, this episode celebrates resilience and the pursuit of meaningful connections.If you're interested in checking out Polysecure: Click hereTo check out the glossary of Polyamory terminology: Click hereVisit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver wondered about the hidden secrets of female ejaculation? Join us on Big Sexy Chat as we welcome the passionate and knowledgeable Kim Airs, who takes us on a journey from her mundane marriage to becoming a sex industry veteran. Kim shares her captivating experiences from the late '80s involving public sex, sex toys, and porn, leading to the opening of her own store, Grand Opening. Discover her adventures in California and her extensive work with major sex toy manufacturers, all while riding her motorcycle and living out her dreams.Unlock the mysteries of the G-Spot with our detailed instructions and hand demonstrations guided by Kim herself. Learn how to find and stimulate the G-Spot for an enhanced sexual experience and understand the role of the paraurethral sponge in sexual health. Kim's insights into recognizing the sensations associated with G-Spot stimulation will help you embrace and enjoy these experiences fully, making this episode perfect for anyone eager to deepen their understanding of sexual pleasure.Get ready for a mix of humor and enlightenment as we delve into personal anecdotes and misconceptions about female ejaculation. From funny incidents with medical professionals to stories of mailing panties to a boss, this episode is packed with laughter and education. We also explore the evolution of sex toy design, the impact of women in the industry, and tips for selecting the best toys for different body types. Tune in for an episode that's as entertaining as it is informative, all infused with Kim’s infectious enthusiasm and expert knowledge.Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver wondered how TV shows like Bridgerton are reshaping our perceptions of body positivity and sexuality? Join us as we uncover Nicola Coughlin's empowering stance on body image and her witty response to the press, all while debating Hollywood's narrow definition of plus size. We also tackle the evolving portrayal of sex scenes in Bridgerton, noting the community's mixed reactions to the shift away from explicit content. Our admiration for Nicola shines through as we advocate for more diverse body representations on the small screen.Shifting gears, we celebrate Nicola Coughlin beyond Bridgerton, spotlighting her activism, especially her support for Palestine. We reflect on the latest Bridgerton season, appreciating its character development and feel-good vibes. As we stroll down memory lane remembering TV series with 23-episode seasons, we offer a humorous critique of Bridgerton’s historical liberties and share our excitement for future seasons and deeper character arcs.In our deep dive into diverse sexualities, we shed light on less-discussed identities like AroAce and demisexuality, explaining their unique nuances. We kicked off our new Unplugged mini-episodes with artist Kat Coulter, sharing her fears of live appearances and insights on balancing engaging content for social media. Wrapping up, we discuss personal experiences with sex toys and the importance of building a supportive fat girl community for open discussions about body positivity and sexuality. Don’t forget to subscribe to BigSexyChat to stay connected with our vibrant community!Visit: AdamandEve.com. Use code BIGSEXY for 50% Off 1 Item + Free Shipping in the US & Canada + Free Rush Processing*some items may not be eligible for full discountSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver wondered what it takes to challenge societal norms and gain recognition for advocating fat acceptance? Meet Tigress Osborn, the Executive Director of NAAFA, who has recently made it to Time Magazine's prestigious Health 100 list. Join us for an invigorating conversation as Tigress shares her personal journey in combating size discrimination, the thrill of being spotlighted in Time, and the vital role of fat-positive language in mainstream media.Our deep dive into the pervasive impact of size discrimination uncovers heartfelt anecdotes from Tigress and other fat activists. From microaggressions in everyday settings to the importance of representation and allyship, we discuss the social barriers that fat individuals face and the collective efforts needed to dismantle these biases. Hear about the photo shoot that brought the community together and the significance of allies in amplifying the voices of those affected by size discrimination.In our final segments, we celebrate the strides made in body size representation and systemic change. Learn about Pinterest's innovative initiatives for inclusivity, the success of NAAFA's fundraising campaigns, and advocacy efforts in legislation and healthcare. Merf joins us for closing remarks filled with personal stories and empowering messages, emphasizing the importance of uplifting language. Discover how to connect with NAAFA and our community, and support the ongoing fight for fat liberation. Don't miss this compelling episode of Big Sexy Chat!https://time.com/6967232/tigress-osborn/Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEmbark on an enlightening journey with Wendy, the visionary behind Joyful Inclusive Movement, as she opens up about her path to becoming a fat-positive personal trainer and beacon for body liberation. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a heartfelt exploration of Wendy's transformation from struggling with an eating disorder to empowering others to find joy in movement, regardless of body size. Through her candid recount of overcoming workplace toxicity and her battle with ADHD, Wendy inspires a shift in the fitness narrative, advocating for a world where every type of body is celebrated and supported in their pursuit of health and happiness.As we peel back the layers of fitness and self-discovery, we uncover the truth about the physical and mental metamorphosis that comes from embracing our unique bodies. Wendy guides us through the nuances of tailoring fitness plans, the critical role of mindset in shaping our health, and the transformative power of personal commitment – highlighting the Harvard study that showcases the incredible impact of recognizing the value of everyday physical activities. Wendy also shares the deeply moving account of a client's journey through gender identity and body positivity, emphasizing the importance of patience and the customizing of workouts to emotional states, thereby illustrating fitness as a compassionate and healing force.Dive deep into the heart of what it means to reclaim one's narrative, as Wendy discusses the empowering act of embracing terms like 'fat' and recognizing the significance of bone density and muscle mass in our overall well-being. We explore the practice of setting intentions, the fortitude found in gratitude, and the profound influence of supportive partners in fitness endeavors. This episode isn't just about moving your body; it's about transforming your life, with Wendy's guiding voice illustrating how to create a trauma-informed approach to exercise and how to find joy in every step of your health journey. Join us for an episode that is as transformative as it is uplifting, offering not just stories but also a blueprint for nurturing an inclusive and supportive fitness community.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textStep into the glimmering world of the Full Figured Industry Awards, where Tawana Blassingame, the founder and force of nature behind the event, joins us to share the sparkle and substance of the latest celebration. As we unpack the 2023 awards, the conversation glides from the heartfelt acceptance speeches to the meticulous process that ensures each nominee is duly recognized. Our own encounter with the nomination system takes center stage, revealing how adjustments in the process have elevated the fairness and prestige of these accolades.Surprises are the heartbeat of any awards ceremony, and this episode is no different as we peel back the curtain on the nomination journey. Gasp along with us as we recount the moments where unsuspecting winners were showered in glory, and learn how the Full Figured Industry Awards has become a beacon of diversity and inclusion, continuously breaking barriers with categories like Silver Fox. We spotlight the array of ways sponsors can bask in the limelight of this burgeoning event, and playfully muse about the dream partners we envision joining our constellation of supporters.Finally, we amplify the power of self-nomination, especially when it comes to the impactful Community Service Awards. Tawana demystifies the process, championing the bold move of putting oneself forward, and we outline the critical timelines to keep the awards soaring to new heights. Yet amidst the celebration and empowerment, we take a moment to draw boundaries on respect within our community and a chuckle at the quirky sign-offs that have become our endearing trademark. So plug in and join us for a whirlwind of inspiration, gratitude, and a healthy dose of glam on this episode of Big Sexy Chat!Vote for your 2024 FFIA Award Choices!https://www.theffias.com/voting2024Check out Tawana!https://www.tawanablassingame.com/Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textHave you ever swiped right and felt a world of judgment staring back at you? Victoria Nachos joins us on Big Sexy Chat to candidly unfold the plus-size dating diaries with humor and bold truth that will leave you both roaring with laughter and nodding in solidarity. From her anonymous blogging roots to authoring books on sex and dating, Victoria brings to light the thrills and spills of seeking love online while embracing every gorgeous curve.This episode isn't just about anecdotes; it's an exploration of the digital dating landscape that has evolved, sometimes for the worse, over the years. We tackle the tribulations faced by a woman in her 40s who is dissecting age preferences on apps, confronting societal pressures, and owning her confidence amidst the chaotic world of modern romance. Navigate with us through the fascinating dynamics of today's dating scene, where the quest for genuine connections often collides with starkly different intentions. But there's more to this journey than just navigating the rough waves of the online dating world. We celebrate the victories in self-acceptance, the power of an authentic dating profile, and the liberating ability to express one's desires boldly and without apology. So, join us and Victoria, as we traverse the spectrum of human connection, from the humorous misadventures to the inspiring tales of self-love and the bravery to be unabashedly yourself in the search for someone who appreciates all that you are.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textOur first treasure trove of conversations from Fat Con is kicking off with Briq House, a Seattle-based erotic entrepreneur whose mission is to celebrate sexuality and foster sexual healing in black and brown communities. From the pulse-racing finale of Fat Con's fashion show to the critical discussions around safe, sex-positive spaces, we navigate the intersections of fat positivity, identity, and community empowerment with our guests, leading us through a series of transformative and heartening insights.This episode isn't just about the defiance it represents; it's about the local ripples of impact, the crusade for diverse voices in sex tech, and a stirring keynote that stirs the soul, pushing us to embrace our complete selves. Our special moments with Tigress Osborn and the stories of self-discovery underscore the boundless potential that lies in community involvement and the courage to stand firm in one's identity. Conversations take a heartfelt turn as we celebrate the hard-won coalitions and legislative victories that underscore the 'Size Freedom' campaign, driving the narrative change around fat acceptance. We relive the magic of events from Fat Con that offer a haven for fat positivity, where the boldness of fashion and the strength found in affirmation illuminate the chapters of our advocacy. Mx Pucks A' Plenty joins us, adding depth and perspective, leaving us with a sense of anticipation for the equitable changes on the horizon. So, if you're ready to be inspired by the beauty of self-acceptance and the power of collective action, this episode promises to be a turning point.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textAs we traverse the shifting sands of perimenopause and menopause, it can often feel like uncharted territory. That's why we invited Karelin, a licensed marriage and family therapist and menopause coach, to walk us through this landscape with humor, empathy, and a treasure trove of expertise. Her voice joins ours in a chorus that sings of the complexities, the emotional rollercoaster, and the surprisingly sparse map of information that leaves so many women feeling lost. We're here to place more markers on that map, to share anecdotes that echo your own, and to affirm that the journey, while unique for each woman, is one we can navigate together.Throughout our conversations, we don't just talk about perimenopause; we get personal. From mood swings that can feel like tidal waves, to the hot flashes that could probably toast marshmallows, we lay it all out. We share laughs over the unexpected – like the time sweat patches became my unexpected accessory at a crucial meeting – and we lean into the serious, discussing the support that can make all the difference. Partners who can ride out the storm with us, medical professionals who listen, and personal toolkits that help manage the myriad symptoms. We discuss the role of HRT, navigating body acceptance, and even how a sprinkle of micro-resiliency can be your best friend during a sleepless night.But we don't stop there. As we wrap up, we brush on the interplay of alcohol with hormones, and the value of somatic therapy for emotional regulation. And because menopause can affect more than just our bodies, we touch on the evolving understanding of sexuality, stress management, and the sheer power found in community solidarity. Plus, we've got a Nordic romance recommendation you won't want to miss. Join us, and Karelin, for an episode that feels like your favorite cozy chat - full of insights, strategies, and a whole lot of shared experiences.To check out Karelin, head on over to her website: www.karelinwadkins.com; or her YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beemindful147Referenced during the episode: The book series is Underworld Gods by Karina Halle River of Shadows (Underworld Gods Book 1) https://a.co/d/7IlXewbSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver wondered if those high-end sex toys are really the key to unlocking uncharted territories of pleasure? Well, buckle up, because we've got the lowdown on the latest gadgets from We-Vibe and Womanizer that might just revolutionize your Valentine's Day—and every steamy session thereafter. Your favorite trio, Chrystal, Merf, and the ever-efficient Asherlee, bring you unfiltered insights and hearty laughs as we dissect everything from the "USS Orgasm" to app-controlled titillators that could make even the most stoic of us blush.This episode isn't just about getting off; it's a treasure trove of practical knowledge—think of it as your sexy, savvy friend who's not afraid to spill the tea on durability and discreet operation. We share our personal escapades with these toys, evaluating everything from their whisper-quiet motors to their splash-proof prowess. And for those moments when you're cursing at finicky charging ports, we've got you covered with some life-pro tips because, let's face it, nothing kills the mood like a vibrator that won't buzz to life.As we wrap up, we can't help but rave about the Womanizer vibes that left us reeling with their magnetic charging marvels and lingering climaxes. If you've been eyeing up a sensual present for that special someone—or yourself (no judgment here)—this chat might just tip the scales. So, pull up a chair, pop in those earbuds, and join our candid convo; you might just find your next guilty pleasure or, dare we say, a new best friend for your bedside drawer.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver felt like you're a square peg being nudged into a round hole? That's the daily reality for many fat individuals navigating a society that's often less than accommodating. Buckle up as I, Susie Hooker, and the renowned Dr. Kristen Auber join forces with the effervescent Murph and Crystal from Big Sexy Chat. Together, we unravel the layers of fat sexuality, the battle for justice, and the victories that come with living authentically large. Expect a spread of topics as rich and varied as Murph's cherished soups and as soulful as Crystal's preferred Adele ballads, all wrapped up in our no-holds-barred conversation.Gather 'round the table; we've got a feast of revelations from the frontline of content creation. Murph and Crystal, with their sass and savvy, peel back the curtain on the highs and lows of producing a podcast that champions fat liberation. We've weathered the storm of social media censorship and grown together through technical mishaps and linguistic tics. If you're hankering for an authentic portrayal of fat life, complete with the empowering soundtrack of our struggles, you're in the right place. We're tossing the mic back and forth, celebrating each other's quirks, and inviting you to find your voice amidst the chorus of change.We're not just talking the talk; we're walking the walk – even when that walk means navigating airplane seats that seem to shrink by the minute. Our conversation takes a turn through the capitalist maze of plus-size fashion and the complex decisions surrounding weight loss surgery. It's not just about embracing our fatness; it's about demanding the space, dignity, and respect we deserve. From challenging the narrow confines of the fashion industry to advocating for inclusive furniture designs, this discussion is a rallying cry for systemic change and the joyous embrace of every roll and curve. Join us as we champion the fat revolution, one podcast episode at a time.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textAs the curtain falls on another vibrant season of Big Sexy Chat, we can't help but bask in the glow of our favorite moments and the electric anticipation for what's around the corner. Picture us at Fat Con in Seattle, mingling with fellow advocates, sharing laughter and forging deeper connections within the fat liberation movement. It's been a year of profound growth, from reveling in Aubrey Gordon's melodic wisdom to tackling the pervasive issue of medical fatphobia head-on. We've been inspired by Aubrey's transformation from an anonymous blogger to the subject of a documentary that may soon dazzle on the Oscar stage, and we're eager to keep this momentum rolling into the next year.Imagine the sweet scent of liberation as Ohio ushers in a new era with the legalization of recreational marijuana, a game-changer for both politics and pleasure. Our recent episode was a romp through the lush fields of this fresh legislation, from the medicinal to the downright amusing. Budtenders, the unsung heroes of this green revolution, have enlightened us on the finer points of cannabis enjoyment, leading to some unforgettable tales and well-earned recognition. As we've navigated family feasts and fended off food critics with style, our advocacy guests have armed us with the ultimate guide to confident clapbacks and self-love during the holiday season and beyond.Looking ahead, 2024 promises to be a treasure trove of influential voices and groundbreaking conversations. We're set to explore the rollicking terrain of polyamory, the spicy secrets of sexual turn-ons, and the real-talk of dating while fat—and we're not doing it alone. Expect guest spots from the likes of Kate McKinnon and the big gay podcast hosts, as we continue to break down barriers and champion inclusivity. From the empowering escapades at Mary Lambert's babe camps to the relatable hilarity of "Survival of the Thickest," we're on a quest to redefine beauty standards and celebrate the richness of diversity. Strap in, listeners—our journey is one of joy, empowerment, and a whole lot of big sexy chat.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textJoin us for a heartfelt chat with Amy Pence-Brown, a body image activist who's changing the narrative around body acceptance. This isn't your typical conversation, as we traverse the diverse facets of Amy's life - from standing blindfolded in a marketplace clad in a bikini to her roles as a poet, blogger, fat liberationist, and feminist. This episode provides a front-row seat to Amy's vulnerability and her relentless advocacy for acceptance of all body sizes.We don't stop at body positivity though. We confront the challenging subject of weight loss medications and their disturbing trend among children. Could you imagine the impact on their tender self-esteem? We also shed light on the emerging movement of death positivity in America. Amy's creativity shines through as we discuss her innovative project of reimagining the 1950s pin-up girl, Hilda, to promote body positivity. Amy's tireless work as the founder of Boise Rad Fat Collective further emphasizes her commitment to the cause. As we wrap up, the theme of self-acceptance remains front and center. Amy's viral video promoting self-love certainly got people talking and we get to delve into the impact it's had. The nuggets of wisdom in this chat are certainly worth your time. And if you're inspired by Amy’s message, which we’re sure you will be, we invite you to connect with her online. Tune in for an uplifting exploration of body positivity, self-love, and acceptance. You'll be left contemplating your own relationship with your body, and hopefully, a little more empowered to love yourself, just as you are.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textAre you ready to take your intimate moments to a whole new level? This episode promises a fun and open discussion about our favorite sex toys and aids. From the unassuming yet miraculous coconut oil that Merf swears by, to the infamously named but game-changing "Womanizer", we've got plenty of tips and tricks to enhance your pleasure. We also discuss the importance of skincare, given the high concentration of nerve endings in certain areas, and dive into a frank discussion about vaginal health. Ever wondered how the sex toy industry has evolved over the years? We have a fascinating chat about the progression from a male-dominated industry to one that is more inclusive towards women. We explore some innovative toys, like the Satisfy-R Top Secret, a wearable vibrator with cutting-edge features, and the iconic rabbit vibrator, beloved by many thanks to "Sex and the City". Plus, we chat about the often-overlooked importance of lube, especially for those with larger labia.But what good are sex toys without proper maintenance? We shed light on this often overlooked aspect, discussing the importance of using medical-grade silicone and how to avoid your toys melting into each other. We also give some handy tips on how to clean glass toys, along with delving into the benefits of sensation play. We wrap up by discussing the need for accessible sex toys suitable for different body sizes and disabilities. Because pleasure is for everyone. So, join us, Chrystal and Merf, as we share our love for these aids and how they can change your intimate life for the better.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textEver been caught in an uncomfortable situation just because you're in a larger body? Want to find places where you can be comfortable without the fear of judgment? Our guest for today, Nyemade, shares her experiences that led her to join the team of AllGo, a Yelp-like review app designed specifically for fat people. Born out of her and AllGo founder, Rebecca's, struggles to find non-fat phobic doctors and other services, AllGo aims to create a world where people of all sizes can be comfortable. Nyemade takes us on a journey from her early years in Liberia, refugee experiences, and her eventual move to the US. We discuss her vision for AllGo and the potential it has in not only providing a much-needed service, but also in combating the societal stigma that fat people often face. We delve into the revenue streams for the app, the significant differences between AllGo and the National Plus Guide, and the promising future of AllGo. Our conversation goes deeper as we explore AllGo's potential in promoting mental wellness and self-advocacy. Nyemade enlightens on how the app can support inclusivity, and help users to stand up for their needs in uncomfortable situations. We also touch on societal pressures around body weight, health, and the judgment and misunderstanding that follow. Finally, we take a brief detour into the world of kink, discussing how online platforms like Fetlife can assist in exploring sexuality. Tune in and get ready to see the world through a different lens.Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Send us a textHow often do you find yourself grappling with societal pressures about body image or worrying about the implications of taking diabetes medication? If these questions resonate with you, then our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat is right up your alley. We don't shy away from the hard stuff, in fact, we dive right into a poignant discussion about Metformin and Ozempic, and their potential ramifications. Merf offers insights from his personal experiences with these medications, and we go as far as dissecting the controversies and lawsuits surrounding Ozempic—an eye-opening segment, to say the least.But it's not all pharmaceutical talk, we have some exciting news to share! In January, we're partnering with FatCon and Pucks aplenty for a live event in Seattle. What a joy it is to anticipate being in the same room again, sharing our stories and experiences. Of course, the safety of our community is paramount, so we stress the importance of vaccination and mask-wearing for all attendees. This event, we hope, is a beacon of optimism for all of us craving that human connection after a challenging couple of years.From discussions about microaggressions to extolling the virtues of Liberator's plus-size furniture for sex, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. Can you imagine the comfort and flexibility of sex furniture that actually caters to larger bodies? It's about time! We also emphasize the importance of supporting small businesses and friends' ventures, not necessarily with money but by sharing their content and spreading the word. So, join us for this enlightening chat, and don't forget to follow, like, and subscribe to Big Sexy Chat. You won't want to miss out!Support the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!