Big Sexy Chat Podcast

Chrystal & Merf

Big Sexy Chat: 2 Rad Fatties Unapologetically Sitting Around Chewing the Fat! Current Events, Hot Topics, Viewer Questions, and Vibe of the Week. Fat Politics, TV Shows with fat characters, ditching diet culture, #sexnotdiets, sex, sex toys, relationships, mental wellness, sex toy reviews, cannabis, cbd, medical fatphobia, glorifying fat bodies, movies, current events, hot topics, fashion, lingerie, Black Lives Matter, and pretty much anything under the big fat sun! Email: Sexy@bigsexychat.com

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Joyful Inclusive Movement: Wendy's Journey to Fat-Positive Fitness
May 5 2024
Joyful Inclusive Movement: Wendy's Journey to Fat-Positive Fitness
Send us a Text Message.Embark on an enlightening journey with Wendy, the visionary behind Joyful Inclusive Movement, as she opens up about her path to becoming a fat-positive personal trainer and beacon for body liberation. This episode isn't just a chat; it's a heartfelt exploration of Wendy's transformation from struggling with an eating disorder to empowering others to find joy in movement, regardless of body size. Through her candid recount of overcoming workplace toxicity and her battle with ADHD, Wendy inspires a shift in the fitness narrative, advocating for a world where every type of body is celebrated and supported in their pursuit of health and happiness.As we peel back the layers of fitness and self-discovery, we uncover the truth about the physical and mental metamorphosis that comes from embracing our unique bodies. Wendy guides us through the nuances of tailoring fitness plans, the critical role of mindset in shaping our health, and the transformative power of personal commitment – highlighting the Harvard study that showcases the incredible impact of recognizing the value of everyday physical activities. Wendy also shares the deeply moving account of a client's journey through gender identity and body positivity, emphasizing the importance of patience and the customizing of workouts to emotional states, thereby illustrating fitness as a compassionate and healing force.Dive deep into the heart of what it means to reclaim one's narrative, as Wendy discusses the empowering act of embracing terms like 'fat' and recognizing the significance of bone density and muscle mass in our overall well-being. We explore the practice of setting intentions, the fortitude found in gratitude, and the profound influence of supportive partners in fitness endeavors. This episode isn't just about moving your body; it's about transforming your life, with Wendy's guiding voice illustrating how to create a trauma-informed approach to exercise and how to find joy in every step of your health journey. Join us for an episode that is as transformative as it is uplifting, offering not just stories but also a blueprint for nurturing an inclusive and supportive fitness community.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Glitz, Glam, and Community Impact: What's New For The Full Figured Industry Awards
Apr 10 2024
Glitz, Glam, and Community Impact: What's New For The Full Figured Industry Awards
Send us a Text Message.Step into the glimmering world of the Full Figured Industry Awards, where Tawana Blassingame, the founder and force of nature behind the event, joins us to share the sparkle and substance of the latest celebration. As we unpack the 2023 awards, the conversation glides from the heartfelt acceptance speeches to the meticulous process that ensures each nominee is duly recognized. Our own encounter with the nomination system takes center stage, revealing how adjustments in the process have elevated the fairness and prestige of these accolades.Surprises are the heartbeat of any awards ceremony, and this episode is no different as we peel back the curtain on the nomination journey. Gasp along with us as we recount the moments where unsuspecting winners were showered in glory, and learn how the Full Figured Industry Awards has become a beacon of diversity and inclusion, continuously breaking barriers with categories like Silver Fox. We spotlight the array of ways sponsors can bask in the limelight of this burgeoning event, and playfully muse about the dream partners we envision joining our constellation of supporters.Finally, we amplify the power of self-nomination, especially when it comes to the impactful Community Service Awards. Tawana demystifies the process, championing the bold move of putting oneself forward, and we outline the critical timelines to keep the awards soaring to new heights. Yet amidst the celebration and empowerment, we take a moment to draw boundaries on respect within our community and a chuckle at the quirky sign-offs that have become our endearing trademark. So plug in and join us for a whirlwind of inspiration, gratitude, and a healthy dose of glam on this episode of Big Sexy Chat!Vote for your 2024 FFIA Award Choices!https://www.theffias.com/voting2024Check out Tawana!https://www.tawanablassingame.com/Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Nacho Everyday Pick-Up Line: Dating While Fat
Mar 31 2024
Nacho Everyday Pick-Up Line: Dating While Fat
Send us a Text Message.Have you ever swiped right and felt a world of judgment staring back at you? Victoria Nachos joins us on Big Sexy Chat to candidly unfold the plus-size dating diaries with humor and bold truth that will leave you both roaring with laughter and nodding in solidarity. From her anonymous blogging roots to authoring books on sex and dating, Victoria brings to light the thrills and spills of seeking love online while embracing every gorgeous curve.This episode isn't just about anecdotes; it's an exploration of the digital dating landscape that has evolved, sometimes for the worse, over the years. We tackle the tribulations faced by a woman in her 40s who is dissecting age preferences on apps, confronting societal pressures, and owning her confidence amidst the chaotic world of modern romance. Navigate with us through the fascinating dynamics of today's dating scene, where the quest for genuine connections often collides with starkly different intentions. But there's more to this journey than just navigating the rough waves of the online dating world. We celebrate the victories in self-acceptance, the power of an authentic dating profile, and the liberating ability to express one's desires boldly and without apology. So, join us and Victoria, as we traverse the spectrum of human connection, from the humorous misadventures to the inspiring tales of self-love and the bravery to be unabashedly yourself in the search for someone who appreciates all that you are.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Unapologetically Fatastic: Stories of Empowerment From Fat Con
Mar 20 2024
Unapologetically Fatastic: Stories of Empowerment From Fat Con
Send us a Text Message.Our first treasure trove of conversations from Fat Con is kicking off with Briq House, a Seattle-based erotic entrepreneur whose mission is to celebrate sexuality and foster sexual healing in black and brown communities. From the pulse-racing finale of Fat Con's fashion show to the critical discussions around safe, sex-positive spaces, we navigate the intersections of fat positivity, identity, and community empowerment with our guests, leading us through a series of transformative and heartening insights.This episode isn't just about the defiance it represents; it's about the local ripples of impact, the crusade for diverse voices in sex tech, and a stirring keynote that stirs the soul, pushing us to embrace our complete selves. Our special moments with Tigress Osborn and the stories of self-discovery underscore the boundless potential that lies in community involvement and the courage to stand firm in one's identity. Conversations take a heartfelt turn as we celebrate the hard-won coalitions and legislative victories that underscore the 'Size Freedom' campaign, driving the narrative change around fat acceptance. We relive the magic of events from Fat Con that offer a haven for fat positivity, where the boldness of fashion and the strength found in affirmation illuminate the chapters of our advocacy. Mx Pucks A' Plenty joins us, adding depth and perspective, leaving us with a sense of anticipation for the equitable changes on the horizon. So, if you're ready to be inspired by the beauty of self-acceptance and the power of collective action, this episode promises to be a turning point.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Midlife Mayhem: Embracing the Chaos of Perimenopause & Beyond
Feb 16 2024
Midlife Mayhem: Embracing the Chaos of Perimenopause & Beyond
Send us a Text Message.As we traverse the shifting sands of perimenopause and menopause, it can often feel like uncharted territory. That's why we invited Karelin, a licensed marriage and family therapist and menopause coach, to walk us through this landscape with humor, empathy, and a treasure trove of expertise. Her voice joins ours in a chorus that sings of the complexities, the emotional rollercoaster, and the surprisingly sparse map of information that leaves so many women feeling lost. We're here to place more markers on that map, to share anecdotes that echo your own, and to affirm that the journey, while unique for each woman, is one we can navigate together.Throughout our conversations, we don't just talk about perimenopause; we get personal. From mood swings that can feel like tidal waves, to the hot flashes that could probably toast marshmallows, we lay it all out. We share laughs over the unexpected – like the time sweat patches became my unexpected accessory at a crucial meeting – and we lean into the serious, discussing the support that can make all the difference. Partners who can ride out the storm with us, medical professionals who listen, and personal toolkits that help manage the myriad symptoms. We discuss the role of HRT, navigating body acceptance, and even how a sprinkle of micro-resiliency can be your best friend during a sleepless night.But we don't stop there. As we wrap up, we brush on the interplay of alcohol with hormones, and the value of somatic therapy for emotional regulation. And because menopause can affect more than just our bodies, we touch on the evolving understanding of sexuality, stress management, and the sheer power found in community solidarity. Plus, we've got a Nordic romance recommendation you won't want to miss. Join us, and Karelin, for an episode that feels like your favorite cozy chat - full of insights, strategies, and a whole lot of shared experiences.To check out Karelin, head on over to her website: www.karelinwadkins.com; or her YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beemindful147Referenced during the episode: The book series is Underworld Gods by Karina Halle River of Shadows (Underworld Gods Book 1) https://a.co/d/7IlXewbSupport the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Unwrapping Pleasure: 3 Fatties, 4 Toys
Feb 7 2024
Unwrapping Pleasure: 3 Fatties, 4 Toys
Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered if those high-end sex toys are really the key to unlocking uncharted territories of pleasure? Well, buckle up, because we've got the lowdown on the latest gadgets from We-Vibe and Womanizer that might just revolutionize your Valentine's Day—and every steamy session thereafter. Your favorite trio, Chrystal, Merf, and the ever-efficient Asherlee, bring you unfiltered insights and hearty laughs as we dissect everything from the "USS Orgasm" to app-controlled titillators that could make even the most stoic of us blush.This episode isn't just about getting off; it's a treasure trove of practical knowledge—think of it as your sexy, savvy friend who's not afraid to spill the tea on durability and discreet operation. We share our personal escapades with these toys, evaluating everything from their whisper-quiet motors to their splash-proof prowess. And for those moments when you're cursing at finicky charging ports, we've got you covered with some life-pro tips because, let's face it, nothing kills the mood like a vibrator that won't buzz to life.As we wrap up, we can't help but rave about the Womanizer vibes that left us reeling with their magnetic charging marvels and lingering climaxes. If you've been eyeing up a sensual present for that special someone—or yourself (no judgment here)—this chat might just tip the scales. So, pull up a chair, pop in those earbuds, and join our candid convo; you might just find your next guilty pleasure or, dare we say, a new best friend for your bedside drawer.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Bonus Episode: Big Sexy Chat Joins Fat and Fucked
Jan 26 2024
Bonus Episode: Big Sexy Chat Joins Fat and Fucked
Send us a Text Message.Ever felt like you're a square peg being nudged into a round hole? That's the daily reality for many fat individuals navigating a society that's often less than accommodating. Buckle up as I, Susie Hooker, and the renowned Dr. Kristen Auber join forces with the effervescent Murph and Crystal from Big Sexy Chat. Together, we unravel the layers of fat sexuality, the battle for justice, and the victories that come with living authentically large. Expect a spread of topics as rich and varied as Murph's cherished soups and as soulful as Crystal's preferred Adele ballads, all wrapped up in our no-holds-barred conversation.Gather 'round the table; we've got a feast of revelations from the frontline of content creation. Murph and Crystal, with their sass and savvy, peel back the curtain on the highs and lows of producing a podcast that champions fat liberation. We've weathered the storm of social media censorship and grown together through technical mishaps and linguistic tics. If you're hankering for an authentic portrayal of fat life, complete with the empowering soundtrack of our struggles, you're in the right place. We're tossing the mic back and forth, celebrating each other's quirks, and inviting you to find your voice amidst the chorus of change.We're not just talking the talk; we're walking the walk – even when that walk means navigating airplane seats that seem to shrink by the minute. Our conversation takes a turn through the capitalist maze of plus-size fashion and the complex decisions surrounding weight loss surgery. It's not just about embracing our fatness; it's about demanding the space, dignity, and respect we deserve. From challenging the narrow confines of the fashion industry to advocating for inclusive furniture designs, this discussion is a rallying cry for systemic change and the joyous embrace of every roll and curve. Join us as we champion the fat revolution, one podcast episode at a time.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
That's A Wrap: Fat Joy
Jan 1 2024
That's A Wrap: Fat Joy
Send us a Text Message.As the curtain falls on another vibrant season of Big Sexy Chat, we can't help but bask in the glow of our favorite moments and the electric anticipation for what's around the corner. Picture us at Fat Con in Seattle, mingling with fellow advocates, sharing laughter and forging deeper connections within the fat liberation movement. It's been a year of profound growth, from reveling in Aubrey Gordon's melodic wisdom to tackling the pervasive issue of medical fatphobia head-on. We've been inspired by Aubrey's transformation from an anonymous blogger to the subject of a documentary that may soon dazzle on the Oscar stage, and we're eager to keep this momentum rolling into the next year.Imagine the sweet scent of liberation as Ohio ushers in a new era with the legalization of recreational marijuana, a game-changer for both politics and pleasure. Our recent episode was a romp through the lush fields of this fresh legislation, from the medicinal to the downright amusing. Budtenders, the unsung heroes of this green revolution, have enlightened us on the finer points of cannabis enjoyment, leading to some unforgettable tales and well-earned recognition. As we've navigated family feasts and fended off food critics with style, our advocacy guests have armed us with the ultimate guide to confident clapbacks and self-love during the holiday season and beyond.Looking ahead, 2024 promises to be a treasure trove of influential voices and groundbreaking conversations. We're set to explore the rollicking terrain of polyamory, the spicy secrets of sexual turn-ons, and the real-talk of dating while fat—and we're not doing it alone. Expect guest spots from the likes of Kate McKinnon and the big gay podcast hosts, as we continue to break down barriers and champion inclusivity. From the empowering escapades at Mary Lambert's babe camps to the relatable hilarity of "Survival of the Thickest," we're on a quest to redefine beauty standards and celebrate the richness of diversity. Strap in, listeners—our journey is one of joy, empowerment, and a whole lot of big sexy chat.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
A Stand For Self-Love: Amy's Advocacy
Nov 27 2023
A Stand For Self-Love: Amy's Advocacy
Send us a Text Message.Join us for a heartfelt chat with Amy Pence-Brown, a body image activist who's changing the narrative around body acceptance. This isn't your typical conversation, as we traverse the diverse facets of Amy's life - from standing blindfolded in a marketplace clad in a bikini to her roles as a poet, blogger, fat liberationist, and feminist. This episode provides a front-row seat to Amy's vulnerability and her relentless advocacy for acceptance of all body sizes.We don't stop at body positivity though. We confront the challenging subject of weight loss medications and their disturbing trend among children. Could you imagine the impact on their tender self-esteem? We also shed light on the emerging movement of death positivity in America. Amy's creativity shines through as we discuss her innovative project of reimagining the 1950s pin-up girl, Hilda, to promote body positivity. Amy's tireless work as the founder of Boise Rad Fat Collective further emphasizes her commitment to the cause. As we wrap up, the theme of self-acceptance remains front and center. Amy's viral video promoting self-love certainly got people talking and we get to delve into the impact it's had. The nuggets of wisdom in this chat are certainly worth your time. And if you're inspired by Amy’s message, which we’re sure you will be, we invite you to connect with her online. Tune in for an uplifting exploration of body positivity, self-love, and acceptance. You'll be left contemplating your own relationship with your body, and hopefully, a little more empowered to love yourself, just as you are.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Gettin' Vibey With It
Nov 6 2023
Gettin' Vibey With It
Send us a Text Message.Are you ready to take your intimate moments to a whole new level? This episode promises a fun and open discussion about our favorite sex toys and aids. From the unassuming yet miraculous coconut oil that Merf swears by, to the infamously named but game-changing "Womanizer", we've got plenty of tips and tricks to enhance your pleasure. We also discuss the importance of skincare, given the high concentration of nerve endings in certain areas, and dive into a frank discussion about vaginal health. Ever wondered how the sex toy industry has evolved over the years? We have a fascinating chat about the progression from a male-dominated industry to one that is more inclusive towards women. We explore some innovative toys, like the Satisfy-R Top Secret, a wearable vibrator with cutting-edge features, and the iconic rabbit vibrator, beloved by many thanks to "Sex and the City". Plus, we chat about the often-overlooked importance of lube, especially for those with larger labia.But what good are sex toys without proper maintenance? We shed light on this often overlooked aspect, discussing the importance of using medical-grade silicone and how to avoid your toys melting into each other. We also give some handy tips on how to clean glass toys, along with delving into the benefits of sensation play. We wrap up by discussing the need for accessible sex toys suitable for different body sizes and disabilities. Because pleasure is for everyone. So, join us, Chrystal and Merf, as we share our love for these aids and how they can change your intimate life for the better.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Empowerment through AllGo: Vision for a Size-Friendly World
Oct 23 2023
Empowerment through AllGo: Vision for a Size-Friendly World
Send us a Text Message.Ever been caught in an uncomfortable situation just because you're in a larger body? Want to find places where you can be comfortable without the fear of judgment? Our guest for today, Nyemade, shares her experiences that led her to join the team of AllGo, a Yelp-like review app designed specifically for fat people. Born out of her and AllGo founder, Rebecca's, struggles to find non-fat phobic doctors and other services, AllGo aims to create a world where people of all sizes can be comfortable. Nyemade takes us on a journey from her early years in Liberia, refugee experiences, and her eventual move to the US. We discuss her vision for AllGo and the potential it has in not only providing a much-needed service, but also in combating the societal stigma that fat people often face. We delve into the revenue streams for the app, the significant differences between AllGo and the National Plus Guide, and the promising future of AllGo. Our conversation goes deeper as we explore AllGo's potential in promoting mental wellness and self-advocacy. Nyemade enlightens on how the app can support inclusivity, and help users to stand up for their needs in uncomfortable situations. We also touch on societal pressures around body weight, health, and the judgment and misunderstanding that follow. Finally, we take a brief detour into the world of kink, discussing how online platforms like Fetlife can assist in exploring sexuality. Tune in and get ready to see the world through a different lens.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Community Connections: From Ozempic to Microaggressions
Oct 7 2023
Community Connections: From Ozempic to Microaggressions
Send us a Text Message.How often do you find yourself grappling with societal pressures about body image or worrying about the implications of taking diabetes medication? If these questions resonate with you, then our latest episode of Big Sexy Chat is right up your alley. We don't shy away from the hard stuff, in fact, we dive right into a poignant discussion about Metformin and Ozempic, and their potential ramifications. Merf offers insights from his personal experiences with these medications, and we go as far as dissecting the controversies and lawsuits surrounding Ozempic—an eye-opening segment, to say the least.But it's not all pharmaceutical talk, we have some exciting news to share! In January, we're partnering with FatCon and Pucks aplenty for a live event in Seattle. What a joy it is to anticipate being in the same room again, sharing our stories and experiences. Of course, the safety of our community is paramount, so we stress the importance of vaccination and mask-wearing for all attendees. This event, we hope, is a beacon of optimism for all of us craving that human connection after a challenging couple of years.From discussions about microaggressions to extolling the virtues of Liberator's plus-size furniture for sex, we cover a lot of ground in this episode. Can you imagine the comfort and flexibility of sex furniture that actually caters to larger bodies? It's about time! We also emphasize the importance of supporting small businesses and friends' ventures, not necessarily with money but by sharing their content and spreading the word. So, join us for this enlightening chat, and don't forget to follow, like, and subscribe to Big Sexy Chat. You won't want to miss out!Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Size Doesn't Define Your Experience: Disneyland Edition
Sep 26 2023
Size Doesn't Define Your Experience: Disneyland Edition
Send us a Text Message.Do theme parks cater to all body sizes? Let's explore this with Sam, our Disney expert and advocate for inclusivity in the theme park industry. Growing up as a larger-bodied individual, Sam's journey to self-acceptance has been an inspiration. Hear her candid stories about facing weight-based discrimination and how her unwavering sense of justice has shaped her identity. Discover how her love for Disney was born from the joy she found in the inclusive rides that accommodated her larger-bodied family. As we delve deeper into the issue of theme park accessibility, we discuss the often overlooked need for adaptability in these spaces. Sam's tips and tricks on dressing comfortably for theme parks, handling potential fat-phobic remarks, and using companion bathrooms at Disney will be invaluable for our listeners. Don't miss out on her witty advice on wearing clothes that dry quickly and her genius hack for wearing a hat with Mickey Mouse ears.Wrapping up our chat, we get a sneak peek into Sam's tattoo sleeve of fat Disney characters and her gratitude towards Disney for making their rides accessible to all. Hear about her unique experiences, like surviving a two-week Disney World trip in sandals, and the ways her family enjoys the park with their own food due to allergies. Through Sam's words, the message is clear: if something doesn't fit, it's not you - it's capitalism. Celebrating body positivity and inclusivity, Sam encourages all larger-bodied individuals to fully enjoy theme parks. Tune in for this empowering chat, it’s one you won't want to miss!Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Fierce Fatties Flying
Sep 13 2023
Fierce Fatties Flying
Send us a Text Message.Ever wrestled with a standard airplane seatbelt, praying for just an inch more of slack? Ever felt the unwelcome scrutiny of fellow passengers as you board, the silent judgment heavy as lead? Buckle up for a journey through the not-so-friendly skies as we tackle the unspoken challenges of flying while fat. We'll shine a spotlight on the airline industry's troubling approach to passenger comfort and examine the implications of policies that squeeze profits at the expense of people. Ever had someone else's toes creep into your personal space during a long haul flight? We'll share personal stories of in-flight discomforts and microaggressions, while also touching on the positives, like the unexpected luxuries of first-class flying. We'll navigate the turbulence of Southwest Airlines' Person of Size policy and the potential impact of New Zealand Airlines' controversial survey. Through it all, we'll underline the emotional toll of these experiences and the need for a more accommodating, respectful travel environment. But this isn't just a one-way conversation. We want to hear your in-flight experiences, your tips for staying comfortable and calm, and your thoughts on how to challenge the rampant fatphobia in the aviation industry. We'll also chat about representation, dishing on our favorite fat-positive influences in the media and the necessity of normalizing fat bodies in all contexts. So, whether you're a seasoned jet-setter or preparing for your maiden voyage, join us for an illuminating discussion on the highs and lows of flying while fat.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Bedtime is Sexy Time with Big Fig Mattress and Morgie Mone
Aug 31 2023
Bedtime is Sexy Time with Big Fig Mattress and Morgie Mone
Send us a Text Message.Prepare for an eye-opening and inspiring dialogue between your hosts, yours truly, and two incredible women in the world of body positivity – the remarkable Morgie Mone, and the insightful Lindsy from Big Fig Mattress Company. As we take an enlightening journey through the world of fat liberation, you'll discover how Morgie has crafted a powerful platform for encouraging self-love and embracing our bodies, just as they are. Along the way, we'll shine a spotlight on Big Fig Mattress Company's mission in not only providing comfort for people of all sizes, but also fostering body positivity and fat liberation.Let's heat things up a little as we discuss the spicy topic of sex and the role Big Fig Mattress plays in providing a supportive base for couples of all sizes. Lindsy dishes out valuable insights around their company's commitment to breaking barriers and pushing for inclusivity. We'll also discuss how Morgie, as a leading plus size black woman, is inspiring others to reinforce their relationships and break free from societal norms and expectations around love. As we wrap up, we dive into how Morgie selects brands that align with her core values, and how this has enabled her to guide her community towards exploring more options. Make sure to stick around for our intriguing chat about the Barbie movie, the crucial need for more body positivity in media, and our future endeavors to champion fat liberation and inclusivity. Join us on this riveting journey as we celebrate the beauty of embracing our bodies and championing self-love. You're in for a truly enlightening experience!Fat people have sex, too! Thank you to Big Fig Mattress for recognizing this fact! Fat people have Fat money to buy stuff with! Brands: Stop leaving so much money on the table.Also, at the end of our podcast, Monie and Lindsy share their favorite romance goodies with all of us. #bigfigmattress #bigsexychat #getyoursSupport the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
The Rise of Body Inclusivity in Media and Society
Aug 14 2023
The Rise of Body Inclusivity in Media and Society
Send us a Text Message.Ever wondered how fat representation in media is evolving? We're taking the conversation head-on, exploring the latest characters in shows like Never Say Never and Survival of the Thickest. We are also chuffed to chat about the upcoming Fat is Fashion documentary and Bridget Everett's new show. But, it's not all roses. We tackle some tough topics like the extreme dieting actors undertake for roles, and the societal implications that come with it.We also get real about the dangers of weight loss surgery and yo-yo dieting, with a poignant reflection on the unfortunate passing of Lisa Marie Presley. We dig into the world of adult films, specifically our new sponsor BBW Triple X Adventures, and the importance of diverse body representation. But it's not all about media, we also tap into our own experiences and beliefs about parenting in a fat-phobic world. We share advice for parents on how to inspire body positivity and inclusivity in their kids, and foster healthy relationships.We wrap it all up by diving into our community updates. We talk about the much-anticipated FatCon and the Full Figure Industry Awards. Plus, we discuss some racy topics like liberator and inclusive sex furniture that are creating waves in the industry. We're all about sparking conversations, challenging norms, and building a community. So, hit that subscribe button, share the love, and don't forget to email us your thoughts and questions at sexy@bigsexychat.com!Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
The Full-Figured Industry Awards: An Inside Look with Tawana Blassingame
Aug 3 2023
The Full-Figured Industry Awards: An Inside Look with Tawana Blassingame
Send us a Text Message.What would it mean to you if you could be part of a community that not only recognizes your talents but also celebrates your uniqueness? Imagine an environment where plus-size individuals are valued and their contributions to their industry are rewarded. This is exactly the world, Tawana Blassingame, Executive Producer of The Full Figured Industry Awards and CEO, Editor in Chief of Queen Size Magazine. We are privileged to sit down with her in this episode as she shares her journey and aspirations, her love for podcasting, and the intricacies behind the Full Figure Industry Awards.Tawana pulls back the curtain on the nomination and voting processes that make up the Full Figure Industry Awards, emphasizing the importance of impartiality and alliances within the industry. She reveals the satisfaction she gains from seeing the impact that plus-size representation in mainstream awards can offer. We also discover Tawana's insights into the gaps in men’s fashion within the plus-size industry and discuss her creative hobby - soap making! We wind down with an honest conversation about our personal lives. Tawana conquers her nerves for on-camera interviews, and we both share our own experiences in our careers and our journey with mental health. We reflect on the importance of the communities we serve and express our gratitude to our listeners. We hope that by joining us, you too will appreciate the magic of awards, fashion, and community building in the plus-size industry. Tune in for an enlightening chat and be inspired.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
The Power of Community: Mx. Pucks A'Plenty talks FatCon
Jul 9 2023
The Power of Community: Mx. Pucks A'Plenty talks FatCon
Send us a Text Message.Oh, my stars! We're buzzing with anticipation as we welcome the effervescent Mx. Pucks A'Plenty, co-founder of FatCon.org, into our auditory space! Brace yourself for an invigorating conversation that spans the universe of event planning, fat positivity, and the power of community. Buckle in as we unpack the details of FatCon, a festival that's set to resound with the joy of celebrating all bodies. From tantalizing fashion shows to engaging keynote speakers, this event is a ground-breaking testament to inclusivity and love.Let's wander together through the labyrinth of planning a burlesque festival and the rollercoaster journey of bringing FatCon into existence. Hear Pucks' tales of venue hunting, overcoming hurdles, and the fortuitous support that brought dreams to life. We also drift into the realm of art, acknowledging the creative geniuses behind FatCon's logos and sharing chuckles over Josh King's whimsical weed strain illustrations. Pucks even lets us peek into their fashion escapades - mesh has never seemed so chic!And that's not all, darlings! Amidst our chatter, we extend the conversation about promoting queer events, envisioning a 'Fat Nudity Day', and the power of unapologetic fatness. We muse about size-inclusive fashion and the need for brands to step up. Finally, we share our excitement about Pucks' recent accolades, their contributions to the Queer Prom, and the nomination of our very own podcast for the Soul Figure Industry Awards. We'll also let you in on how you can contribute to FatCon's growth and amplify its message of love and acceptance. Trust me, you won't want to miss this vibrant exploration of community, self-love, and unapologetic joy!Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Pleasure Pot: Merging Cannabis and Sensual Exploration ft. Ashley Manta
Jun 25 2023
Pleasure Pot: Merging Cannabis and Sensual Exploration ft. Ashley Manta
Send us a Text Message.Imagine the possibilities when combining the powerful worlds of sex and cannabis. That's exactly what Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex and relationship coach, has done by creating the term "Cannasexual", which she defines as "mindfully and deliberately combining sex and cannabis to deepen intimacy and enhance pleasure." We had the chance to explore Ashley's personal journey with cannabis, how it has changed her sex life, and her expansion into the realm of psychedelics and altered states.www.CannaSexual.com is Ashley's website. Playboy Magazine blog about weed and sex:https://www.playboy.com/read/playboy-advisor-weed-sexAshley shared her insights on the unique experience of visiting a cannabis store, the delicious smell of cannabis, the range of THC levels and how they affect people differently, as well as the intersection between cannabis and sex toys. We also discussed how body size and weight don't necessarily impact THC levels, the endocannabinoid system, and the power of CBD products combined with sex toys. Ashley has some real gems to share when it comes to the right approach for using cannabis and psychedelics in sex and relationships.In this fascinating conversation, Ashley opened up about her use of cannabis and psychedelics in her sex life, the intentional approach required when entering into a partner space while in an altered state, and her experiences teaching these practices to her clients. We also discussed the potential effects and dangers of getting too high and methods for regulating back down. Tune in as we explore the world of adult freedom, privacy, and the politics of cannabis and psychedelics.Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!
Your Body, Your Rules: Battling Fat-Phobia and Exploring The Kinky F's
Jun 11 2023
Your Body, Your Rules: Battling Fat-Phobia and Exploring The Kinky F's
Send us a Text Message.Are you ready for an empowering and entertaining conversation exploring the world of body positivity and self-love? Join your favorite hosts, Crystal and Merf, as we discuss the crucial work of the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) in advocating for fat people's rights, particularly in the medical field. We also tackle the pressing issues of fat-phobia, discrimination in the workplace, and the power of holding people accountable for their fat-phobic comments and actions.In this episode, we also dive into the impact of Twitter's new blue checkmark policy on marginalized communities and the questionable motives behind Metta's association with it. But don't worry, we keep things light with a hilarious take on how people in San Jose are reacting to Elon Musk. Additionally, we explore the fascinating worlds of hair, plus-size fashion, and fetishes. From H&M's recent move to offer clothing in size 3X and 4X online but not in stores to the psychology behind fetishism and the prospect of creating an OnlyFans account for foot and penis evaluations, we've got it all covered!Lastly, let's talk about self-care and body image. We share some valuable strategies for managing negative body image thoughts, and we even review the We-Vibe Nova sex toy! As always, we're here to keep you connected with Big Sexy Chat and our upcoming events. You won't want to miss this engaging, empowering, and downright entertaining episode. So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into another incredible episode of Big Sexy Chat!Support the Show.BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at Sexy@BigSexyChat.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!