Modern Dadhood | Unpacking Fatherhood + Parenting for Dads (and Moms!)

Modern Dadhood, Adam Flaherty

Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket are two dads from suburban New England. And while they might think they’re pretty funny and cool, the world clearly does NOT need another white dude ramble-cast. That’s why Modern Dadhood explores what it really means to be a "dad" in 2024 through candid, authentic, and often hilarious conversations with diverse dads of all walks of life… including famous dads, NOT famous dads, dads-to-be, step dads, grand dads, trans dads, and more. By celebrating present, engaged parenting and commiserating over common fatherhood challenges, listeners will gain new perspectives and feel empowered to become more present and mindful fathers, raising the next generation of kick-ass, world changing kids. Expect a mix of humor, heart, and 90s nostalgia in each episode. #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenting #dadding #dadpodcast #parentingpodcast read less
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Episodes

Breathe, Feel, Then Move | Ryan Cooper on Fitness, Breathing, Combating The Dad Bod
Apr 19 2024
Breathe, Feel, Then Move | Ryan Cooper on Fitness, Breathing, Combating The Dad Bod
Dads, raise your hand if becoming a parent resulted in falling out of healthy routines like exercise and mindful eating? Yeah, same here. And it's only natural... when there's a new baby in the picture your priorities immediately shift to your partner, the baby's well-being... and your own survival. But months (or years) later, it can be very intimidating to think about combating that "dad bod," and often, we don't even know where to start. Fitness founder Ryan Cooper joins us to share some actionable tips dads can use to revitalize their fitness journeys. As a bonus, Ryan extends listeners an exclusive Modern Dadhood discount code for his online fitness program CooperFit. Stick around to the end for an emotional roller coaster of a Kisses & Disses segment!Episode 103 of Modern Dadhood opens with a chat about the infamous "dad bod" and the factors that contribute to it being so common among dads in the earliest stages of parenthood. The guys talk about their own relationships with diet, exercise, and wellness around the time when their kids were born, and where things stand now, years later.The guys welcome Ryan Cooper into the conversation. Ryan is a model, an actor, a producer, and founder of CooperFit, an online physical fitness program for men and women in which Ryan programs weekly routines that include exercises, pilates, meditation, breathing, and more. Ryan shares about his personal journey as a dad of one daughter, what led him to start CooperFit, and how his program can benefit dads who might not now where to start when it comes to getting their health back on track. Conversation topics include:•  What CooperFit is, and how it offers structured convenience for busy dads•  Fitness as a form of therapy form to tackle the root of problems•  The importance of stepping out of your comfort zone•  The real value of breathing and breathwork•  How modeling behavior can positively influence children•  And moreRyan generously offers a deeply discounted rate for listeners of Modern Dadhood using the code DAD50 when you sign up for CooperFit using this link.After the interview, the guys share a very nice podcast review from a happy listener and a... not-so-nice one. Leave your review and you might be featured in a future episode! LINKSCooperfit (homepage)Cooperfit Modern Dadhood Exclusive Offer - Use code DAD50Ryan Cooper (Instagram)Caspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Rewind Episode | Matt Gourley on Being a New Dad, Finding Balance
Apr 6 2024
Rewind Episode | Matt Gourley on Being a New Dad, Finding Balance
Episode 59 originally aired in February, 2020.Becoming a new parent can be a special kind of mayhem. Add a global pandemic into the mix, and the chaos of the first few months are elevated to a new level. But depending on your situation, those challenges may be coupled with opportunity. In Episode 59, podcaster, producer, actor, and all around creative human, Matt Gourley, joins the conversation to discuss the joys, challenges, and insanity of new fatherhood—and how this shift has helped him discover some new perspective on what’s truly important. Episode 59 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with a short discussion about the podcast's brief winter hibernation where the guys describe life chugging forward and the typical madness of having young kids. Adam shares the story leading up to landing a conversation with new dad Matt Gourley. Matt is the host of Superego, producer and co-host of Conan O'Brien Needs a Friend, actor, musician, and designer. In our time together, we discuss topics including:•  Finding peace in the first few months of parenthood•  The importance of a paternity leave•  Redefining work/life balance•  The importance of maintaining a sense of self•  Anxiety associated with trying to keep your newborn safe during the pandemic•  What kind of dad Matt envisioned he'd be before having kidsPost-guest, Marc shares a whopper of a Did I Just Say That Out Loud? which can't be described... the story must be heard to be believed.LINKS:Matt Gourley (website)Matt Gourley on TwitterMatt Gourley on InstagramHousecat And HomeKeys to the KingdomMallwalkin'TownlandSuperegoConan O'Brien Needs a FriendWith Gourley and RustI Was There TooJames BondingCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeRed Vault AudioStuffed Animal  #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Many Ways To Say I Love You  |  Dr. Francois Clemmons on Cosmic Fatherhood + Fred Rogers
Mar 22 2024
Many Ways To Say I Love You | Dr. Francois Clemmons on Cosmic Fatherhood + Fred Rogers
For those of us who grew up watching Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, Fred Rogers taught us many lessons via his cast of characters in the Neighborhood of Make-Believe; the most prominent of which is that there are many ways to express your love and appreciation for someone. One member of that cast in particular, Dr. Francois Clemmons ("Officer Clemmons" on the show), carries forth that message even today. Dr. Clemmons joins us to discuss his "cosmic father, cosmic son" relationship with Fred Rogers, spreading love and kindness through music, and how paternal love can flourish even in the absence of a biological relationship.The guys kick off Episode 101 of Modern Dadhood with a short therapy session where Marc vents about the illnesses that have run rampant in his home and the unfortunate passing of the Checket family dog. The guys quickly celebrate crossing the 100 episode threshold, give major thanks and props to audio engineer + mixer Pete Morse, and let the audience know about the passing of Aram Delgado, the son of the late Modern Dadhood guest and Sesame Street star Emilio Delgado.The guys transition to their recent conversation with teacher, actor, singer, and "cosmic father" to many, Dr. Francois Clemmons. For decades, Dr. Clemmons played the beloved character Officer Clemmons on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, and in the early days, he quickly developed a professional relationship and close personal friendship with Fred and Joanne Rogers. Dr. Clemmons joins us to talk about his lifelong desire to be a father, and how he has achieved that despite not having biological kids of his own. He also shares about experiences working with Mister Rogers, including the famous scene where the two men bathe their feet in a kiddie pool on a hot day. Other conversation topics include:•  Fred & Francois' mutual love of studying and discussing the Bible•  Francois' sexuality and how it was handled on and off the show•  Life lessons that Francois learned from his time on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood•  Francois' passion for mentoring students in a fatherly manner•  The Harlem Spiritual Ensemble•  The historical significance of the most famous "Officer Clemmons" scene•  Francois' ability to identify cosmic parents around the world•  And more!LINKSDr. Francois Clemmons (homepage)Most Famous Officer Clemmons Scene (with commentary)Won't You Be My Neighbor documentary (Netflix)Francois Clemmons' GoFundMeAram Delgado GoFundMeRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Boredom Is The Birth of Art  |  Author Brady Smith on Parenting, Skateboarding, Kids' Books
Mar 8 2024
Boredom Is The Birth of Art | Author Brady Smith on Parenting, Skateboarding, Kids' Books
What do bugs, sandwiches, skateboarding, comics, Saved By The Bell, mural painting, a chicken coop... and DADHOOD all have in common? Well, they have author and artist Brady Smith in common. (Duh.) Brady returns to the podcast to chat about many of the seemingly random things listed above... but most of all, how much he and his wife Tiffani Thiessen love being Harper and Holt's parents. After, Adam shares a straight-forward but delightfully odd Did I Just Say That Out Loud?Despite being a rather epic milestone, Episode 100 of Modern Dadhood starts off like most other episodes, with a quick catch-up between the guys. Marc shares about his twin boys' epic Star Wars themed 6th birthday party (complete with home-made games) before they welcome author, artist, and friend to the show Brady Smith back for a second appearance. Brady shares what's new in his fatherhood journey (Spoiler alert: lots of skateboarding & Sephora), how he and Tiffani work hard to raise creative, kind, and empathetic kids, and he shares a teaser of his newest book "Bug Sandwich." Topics include:•  The feeling of celebrating your partner's 50th birthday•  Getting comfortable being the "dorky" skateboarding dad•  The freedom of self-employment•  The unexpected challenges of painting a mural•  The first time Brady's daughter watched "Saved By The Bell"•  Involving Brady's kids in his work•  And more!After, Adam discloses an odd dinnertime exclamation in an installment of "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?"Episode art photography by Rebecca SanabriaLINKSBrady Smith (official website)Brady Smith (Instagram)Bug Sandwich (Powell's books)Random Acts of Drawness!You're Missing It!Red Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed AnimalModern Dadhood (website)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Rewind Episode | Danny Tamberelli on Nickelodeon, Nostalgia, Fatherhood
Mar 1 2024
Rewind Episode | Danny Tamberelli on Nickelodeon, Nostalgia, Fatherhood
A Day-Glo orange splatter of paint. A geyser of green slime. A seductive forearm tattoo named Petunia. If this doesn't conjure up some serious nostalgia, you either weren't a kid in the 90s, or your mom banned you from watching Nickelodeon. We invited Nick veteran and new dad Danny Tamberelli to the podcast to chat about growing up in the spotlight and how fatherhood is treating him 19 months into his journey. Tune in to find out whether Danny and Adam have actually been cosmically linked ever since one fateful day in 1997 at Universal Studios. Also, Marc exclaims profanities as he is doused with bodily fluids. Episode 35 of Modern Dadhood opens with a brief conversation about milk, and speculation on why Adam's daughters both decided that they no longer care for it. The guys briefly address their guest selection process before introducing Danny Tamberelli into the conversation. Danny is best known for playing little Pete on Nickelodeon's The Adventures of Pete and Pete in the 90s, though he continued with the network for over a decade, appearing in seasons of All That and the game show Figure It Out. Additionally, Danny appeared in films such as Igby Goes Down and The Mighty Ducks, acting alongside former Nickelodeon pal Kenan Thompson, and has voiced many animated characters for television and video games. Danny discusses the events that led to him landing prominent acting roles as a child, as well as his own experience as a new dad to 19 month old Alfie. Topics include:•  The joy of being the fun uncle•  An examination of Sandra Boynton's catalog•  Old fashioned names coming back into style•  Being a child actor•  Weezer's Blue album•  How creativity can evolve when you become a fatherThe episode culminates with a rather "shitty" installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud? [Episode Transcript] LINKS:Danny Tamberelli (official website)Tuesdays With Alfie (Instagram)The Adventures of Danny and MikeJounceNostalgia PersonifiedMan Boobs ComedyThe Undone SweatersThe Adventures of Pete And Pete (YouTube)Danny + Katelyn's booksRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed AnimalModern Dadhood (website)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
What Is a "Lead Dad" ...And Could I Be One? | Paul Sullivan on Fatherhood
Feb 16 2024
What Is a "Lead Dad" ...And Could I Be One? | Paul Sullivan on Fatherhood
When you hear the phrase "Lead Dad," what does it make you think? A "stay at home" dad? A dad who prides himself on being the more involved parent? To Paul Sullivan, Founder of The Company of Dads, being a "Lead Dad" is much different... and many of us naturally fall into the category. Hear Paul discuss The Company of Dads' mission to inspire more men to be Lead Dads, and inspire families to experience their full potential. At the end, Marc shares a curious installment of "Did I Just Say That Out Loud?" Modern Dadhood Episode 98 opens with a brief catch-up between the guys before Adam shares about a video that recently crossed his feed about a group of dads who meet at a local elementary school to greet kids as they arrive for their school day. The video was shared by Paul Sullivan, Founder of the Company of Dads and father of three daughters between 6 and 14. Paul joins us to chat about his organization, its mission, and what it means to be a "Lead Dad." Topics of conversation include:•  How did The Company of Dads come to be?•  What is a Lead Dad?•  By labeling oneself a Lead Dad, is it taking credit from the mom?•  Average maternity & paternity leaves in the USA•  Resources available to Lead Dads•  And more!Stay tuned for an installment of Did I Just Say That Out Loud? featuring the newly 6-year-old Checket twins.LINKS:The Company of DadsThe Company of Dads (Instagram)Paul Sullivan (LinkedIn)Red Vault AudioSpencer AlbeeCaspar BabypantsStuffed AnimalModern Dadhood (website)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Parenting Podcast Collab | Margaret Ables + Amy Wilson of What Fresh Hell
Feb 2 2024
Parenting Podcast Collab | Margaret Ables + Amy Wilson of What Fresh Hell
What fresh hell is this episode all about? Well, it's a collaboration with our new friends Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, hosts of the popular momhood podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood. The four parenting podcasters waste no time digging into why there are so many more motherhood podcasts than fatherhood podcasts, the value of gaining new perspectives, and how the role of the father has dramatically shifted over the decades... and could stand to continue evolving!Episode 97 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with Adam ribbing Marc for neglecting to call or text him on his birthday which he shares with both his dad and his daughter. Marc clearly feels no guilt, and Adam proceeds to inhale a helium balloon to introduce the show. The guys quickly welcome Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson, hosts of the podcast What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood into the conversation to discuss the "WHY" behind each podcast, the moms' take on the current state of fatherhood, and more. Topics include:•  The story behind the name (and phrase) "What Fresh Hell"•  How topics are chosen for their motherhood podcast•  The benefits of having access to experts and people we admire•   How "Modern Dadhood" is different than "Modern Fatherhood"•  How women and men often prioritize the role of "parent" differently•  Shifting gender roles•  And more!After the interview, the guys share a roller-coaster-of-a Kisses & Disses segment.LINKS:What Fresh Hell (Podcast)What Fresh Hell (Website)WFH (Instagram)WFH (TikTok)Red Vault AudioSpencer AlbeeCaspar BabypantsStuffed AnimalModern Dadhood (website)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (TikTok) #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
An Actor's Guide to Thriving in Single Parenthood  |  George Basil on Fatherhood, Raising a Teenager
Jan 19 2024
An Actor's Guide to Thriving in Single Parenthood | George Basil on Fatherhood, Raising a Teenager
Being a single parent may result from an unplanned pregnancy, the relationship between two partners evolving or ending, or a purposeful decision. No matter the reason, it's fair to assert that single parents will navigate some unique challenges when raising a kid. George Basil (HBO's Crashing, Netflix's Flaked) joins us to reflect on raising his teenage daughter as a working actor and improv comedian, and how their relationship, in many ways, is a true partnership. George hangs around for a round of Confessions!The guys kick off Episode 96 of Modern Dadhood with a quick discussion on dinnertime conversations with our kids and the types of questions which can inspire them to open up and share about their school day. The guys waste no time introducing actor and improv comic George Basil who listeners might know as Lief from HBO's "Crashing" starring comedian Pete Holmes, Cooler from Netflix's "Flaked" acting opposite Will Arnett, or the clothing shop proprietor in the Barbie movie. George is a proud parent to his teenage daughter Lula, and he joins us to share his story of bringing her up as a single dad and working actor in LA. Topics include:•  George's self-described partnership with his daughter.•  The joy of traveling abroad with his kid•  Acting with, and directing his daughter•  The benefit of introducing new partners to your child•  The importance of inspiring a love for creativity in our kids•  Getting the call to be cast in Barbie•  And more!At the end of the chat, George sticks around for a gut-busting Confessions session. LINKS:Crashing (HBO/Max)Flaked (Netflix)Six Pack (Short Film)Peanut (Short Film)Red Vault AudioSpencer AlbeeCaspar BabypantsStuffed Animal #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight | A Chat With Santa Claus
Dec 15 2023
Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight | A Chat With Santa Claus
In our holiday 2023 episode, we landed an interview with Father Christmas himself, Santa Claus. This episode is designed for parents and kids to enjoy together, as we ask Santa some hard-hitting questions which are on the minds of children around the world... and Santa delivers! Happy Holidays from our families to yours. We are grateful for you!Episode 94 of Modern Dadhood is a unique one-- it's meant to be enjoyed by both parents and kids, as the guys got VERY lucky and booked an interview with Father Christmas himself, Santa Claus. Adam asks Santa a number of questions which many young people wonder about in hopes of shining a bit of light on some of the bigger mysteries of Santa's superhuman capabilities.After the interview, Marc shares about an illness he's been dealing with and how his wife Jamie has risen to the occasion to make the holiday season special for the boys even though Marc's been unable to contribute.Adam closes out the episode by sharing a preview of his almost 10-year-old's progress playing the recorder. (Spoiler alert, she's gotten very good very quickly!)HAPPY HOLIDAYS from our families to yours. Thank you for listening. We appreciate you and wish you a happy, healthy, entertaining, and prosperous 2024. LINKS:NORAD Santa TrackerModern Dadhood InstagramModern Dadhood FacebookModern Dadhood TikTokModern Dadhood YouTubeRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal Music #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Reviving Empathy Through Images of Real Leadership | Photographer Pete Souza on Empathy, Dignity, Fatherhood
Nov 10 2023
Reviving Empathy Through Images of Real Leadership | Photographer Pete Souza on Empathy, Dignity, Fatherhood
There are certain qualities, like leadership, empathy, kindness, respect, and compassion, that we all aspire for our children to embody as they grow. In this episode, Adam and Marc get a bit deep with Pulitzer Prize winner and Official White House photographer for two presidential terms, Pete Souza, who had the remarkable opportunity to capture these qualities in iconic moments throughout the Obama presidency. The guys chat with Pete about dangerous situations, split-second decisions, and the tremendous responsibility of working in the highest office in the land, documenting the values we wish to see in our leaders and our children.Episode 93 of Modern Dadhood opens with a conversation about storytelling and what features make for a strong spoken word story. The guys waste no time welcoming Pete Souza into the chat. Pete's credits an accolades include International Photography Hall of Fame Inductee, Pulitzer Prize winner, documentary film subject, and Chief Official White House Photographer for both terms of Barack Obama's presidency. He has taken some of the most iconic photos in history over his decades-long career, and while he still stays very busy putting out books, public speaking, and teaching photography workshops, his main photography subject matter... has become his grandkids.Pete opens up about his method for capturing authentic moments with a leader who exemplifies traits that all parents hope to see in their children. Topics include:•  Pete and his wife Patti's marriage and children•  How Pete's "always on" work schedule impacted his personal life•  The choice to work under physically dangerous circumstances•  The shift from film to digital photography•  The qualities that make a photo "authentic"•  And more!LINKS:Pete Souza (official)Pete Souza (Instagram)Pete Souza (Twitter/X)The Way I See It (Documentary on Amazon Prime Video)Red Vault AudioSpencer AlbeeCaspar BabypantsStuffed AnimalPETE'S BOOKS  (please buy locally if you can!)Obama: An Intimate PortraitShade: A Tale of Two PresidentsDream Big Dreams Photographs from Barack Obama's Inspiring & Historic Presidency Young ReadersRise Of Barack ObamaThe West Wing and Beyond: What I Saw Inside the Presidency #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Encouraging Independence and Personal Responsibility in Our Kids  |  Bunthol Kim on Teenage Fatherhood
Oct 20 2023
Encouraging Independence and Personal Responsibility in Our Kids | Bunthol Kim on Teenage Fatherhood
Is there a "right" way to reach our children to be independent and self-reliant? If we always do everything for them, they may never learn to own their responsibilities. But it can be emotionally trying (and short-term inconvenient) to allow them to fail and learn from their mistakes. B Kim joins us to discuss his family's approach to instilling a sense of personal responsibility in their two teenage kids, allowing them to fail safely, and preparing them for adulthood. Don't miss a "squeaky" new installment of So That's a Thing Now! at the end of the episode.In Episode 92 of Modern Dadhood, Adam and Marc open with a discussion of Marc's idyllic, spontaneous neighborhood gathering which resulted in Marc being moderately "lubricated" for our episode. The guys chat about the first month of school for their kids, including their morning routines, and how each family navigates moving things along in the morning to ensure that everything gets done before their kids are off to school for the day. They welcome in Bunthol "B" Kim, and the conversation pivots from "what happens if they miss the bus?" to "what happens if they run out of money?" B shares his family's approach to instilling a sense of personal responsibility, ways in which he has allowed his kids to "fail safely," and times that his kids have pleasantly surprised him with their self-reliance.Listen to the end where Adam shares about his fourth grader's current music class lesson that will bring back memories for most listeners!Links:Creatives Not Robots (B's creative social gathering)Red Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal Music #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
The Art of Explaining Farewells | Mortician Victor M. Sweeney on Fatherhood, Death, Balance
Sep 29 2023
The Art of Explaining Farewells | Mortician Victor M. Sweeney on Fatherhood, Death, Balance
There are a million idioms about death: It's "the only certainty in life." It's "the end of the road." It's "the great equalizer." But even as adults, death can be impossibly difficult to understand and process, let alone to know the best way to explain death to our kids. Mortician Victor M. Sweeney joins the conversation to share his wisdom on how to answer our kids' questions, and why it's important to include them and be honest with them rather than try to shield them or protect them from grief. Stick to the end for a segment on good and bad death scenes in children's movies! Episode 91 of Modern Dadhood gets right down to business with Adam and Marc chatting about discussions they've had with their kids around the concept of death. They share about their own experiences with attending funerals, and how they've broached the subject when their kid have brought it up. They introduce Victor M. Sweeney into the conversation. Victor is a dad of 4 who has worked in the funeral industry for the last 15 years, earning the reputation of a sought-after funeral director and mortician. Victor opens up about his career, the relationship between his line of work and his family, and some ideas on how to include young people in the death process.Post interview, Marc names a number of death-related scenes in kids movies and the guys rate them on a "helpful or hurtful" scale, debating whether the scenes could support a kid's understanding of death, or simply traumatize them.Links:Wired Segment 1Wired Segment 2Wired Segment 3Wired Segment 4Victor M. Sweeney (Instagram)Red Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
The Unattainable Myth of Work-Life Balance | Young Han on Fatherhood, Business, Happiness
Jul 21 2023
The Unattainable Myth of Work-Life Balance | Young Han on Fatherhood, Business, Happiness
"Work-Life Balance" is a buzzworthy phrase that has taken on new meaning since 2020. And it's a funny one, because it essentially divides your time into two camps: Work... and everything else. As parents, we all strive to set boundaries such that when we're NOT working, we can be present with our family or rediscover our sense of self... but it's rarely as simple as it sounds. In fact, Young Han, an entrepreneur, business consultant, and father who has ownership in over a dozen companies, would argue that human beings aren't even programmed to segment our lives in that way. Young shares his method for prioritizing both the work he is so driven to do with the family he loves so much... and the challenge of staying present and focused throughout. Stick around until the end to hear Marc's misophonia-themed installment of "So That's a Thing Now!"Episode 89 of Modern Dadhood opens with a discussion between Marc and Adam about the challenges of being present with your family when work is busy. They discuss how they individually manage their time, and the pros and cons of working from home, including setting appropriate expectations with co-workers and clients. Adam shares a recent conversation he had with Young Han, an entrepreneur who owns stake in over a dozen businesses via his business consulting agency Owners Club. On his podcast, The Girl Dad Show, Young interviews successful businesspeople about how they structure their lives to prioritize what's most important to them. Young shares his philosophy that work-life balance is a myth, and they discuss other topics including:•   A mutual appreciation of coffee•  The struggle to be a better dad than your own•  The importance of self-care•  Modeling behavior to be benchmarks, not to raise clones of ourselves•  Why Young considers work-life balance a myth•  And more!LINKSOwners ClubThe Girl Dad ShowForever Young AgencyRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Understanding Our Digital Footprint | Marc Groman on Online Privacy for Kids
Jul 7 2023
Understanding Our Digital Footprint | Marc Groman on Online Privacy for Kids
One of the most important things we must drive home to our children before putting a device in their hand, according to Privacy Professional Marc Groman, is that what they share on the internet should be treated as public and permanent... even if they only intend for one person to see it. Groman, who served in the Obama administration as chair of the Federal Privacy Council and Senior Advisor for Privacy in the White House, joins us to discuss kids and online privacy. This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Episode 88 of Modern Dadhood opens with the guys catching up about their recent outing to Boston to see recent guest Dustin Nickerson perform, and a chat about sexting before they pick up with part 2 of a conversation about privacy, social media, and digital footprints with Privacy Professional Marc Groman. Topics of conversation include:•  The surprising responses from people over 20 when asked about their first devices•  The responsibility of parents AND industry to teach privacy protection•  Privacy protection legislation currently being developed by Marc and others•  Privacy concerns with online gaming•  The "wrong question" most parents ask about devices and screen time•  How AI forces us to recalibrate our "bullshit meters"•  And more!Stick around until the end for a new installment of "Instant Regrets!"Links:Their Own Devices (Marc's phenomenal podcast)Marc @ Family Online Safety InstituteRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal Mr. Boodaddy "No Shirt Like My Dad" #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Raising Privacy-Conscious Kids in the Digital Age  |   Marc Groman on Fatherhood and Privacy
Jun 23 2023
Raising Privacy-Conscious Kids in the Digital Age | Marc Groman on Fatherhood and Privacy
We've all heard (or experienced) the horror stories around cyber bullying, the consequences of sexting, or kids accidentally blowing through thousands of dollars on a popular video game. And as dads, contemplating how (and when) to grant our kids access to certain types of technology can be overwhelming. But even beyond which social media accounts or how much screen time we allow, it's imperative that they understand privacy. It's a big, loaded word, and thankfully there are experts like Marc Groman who can help us understand the important benefits of protecting one's privacy... and the very real threats when we don't. Listen to the end for a hilarious Father's Day-themed quiz! [This is part 1 of a 2 part episode.]Episode 87 of Modern Dadhood kicks off with some shared stories between Marc and Adam about their kids' struggles with listening, and a great recommendation from Marc on how to entice your kids to be self-accountable. The conversation transitions to privacy and technology when Adam asks Marc about how he intends to address privacy protection when his twin five-year-olds are old enough to start really interacting with internet enabled devices. Spoiler alert: neither dad has a great plan!The guys welcome privacy professional Marc Groman into the conversation. Among many other privacy-related jobs, credentials, and accolades, Marc was the first chief privacy officer of the US Federal Trade Commission, and he served in the Obama administration as chair of the Federal Privacy Council and Senior Advisor for Privacy in the White House. Marc and his husband David Reitman have a 17 year old son who they no longer monitor on social media, and trust that he has a good understanding of privacy-related issues! The conversation covers a LOT of ground, including:•  Kids' inability to perceive potential consequences of their actions•  Why smartphones should not be called "phones" at all.•  How social platforms stoke FOMO which is very harmful to kids•  The question that's far more important than "what's the right amount of screen time?"•  What you post is permanent•  The vital importance of being familiar with the platforms and games your kids are using•  And more!If you've made it this far, you're in for a treat: Marc has cooked up some Father's Day themed trivia!Subscribe to Modern Dadhood to be alerted when Part 2 of this episode drops on Friday 7/7.Links:Their Own Devices (Marc's phenomenal podcast)Marc @ Family Online Safety InstituteRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal  #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
The Funny Side of Fatherhood  |  Comedian Dustin Nickerson on Fatherhood, Comedy, and Work Ethic
Jun 9 2023
The Funny Side of Fatherhood | Comedian Dustin Nickerson on Fatherhood, Comedy, and Work Ethic
It was never all that easy to predict the future, but it always felt like there were at least a few things you could rely on. However, these days, the fate of even some of the more historically steadfast institutions is murky at best: for example, the notion of attending college to get a degree so you can venture out on the path to your career. What will any of that look like in five or ten years? Will affordable higher ed even exist? Will AI scoop up all the jobs? Will our kids live with us until they have kids? Comedian, podcaster, husband, and dad of three Dustin Nickerson can tell you that regardless of the ambiguity the future may hold, modeling a strong work ethic can have a net positive effect on the kids who witness it. Listen in as Adam, Marc, and Dustin wax philosophical about standup comedy, raising kids, strong work ethic, and the permission to laugh. Episode 86 of Modern Dadhood opens with a quick catch-up about the recent podcast siesta and a few laughs about recent celebrity dad news before the guys welcome Dustin Nickerson into the conversation. Dustin is a stand-up comedian, a husband, a father of three (including two teenagers!) an author and a fellow podcaster. The guys hit it off quickly, covering topics such as:•  The challenges of touring with three kids at home•  Touring alone vs. with family•  The craziness of teaching your kid to drive•  The shift in work ethic and motivation to leave home•  The uncertain future of higher education•  Finding true happiness in your career•  And more! LINKSDustin Nickerson (official)Dustin Nickerson (YouTube)Dustin Nickerson (Instagram)Dustin Nickerson (TikTok)How to Be Married to Melissa (book)Don't Make Me Come Back There (podcast)Red Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
An "Epical" Orlando Vacation | Universal Orlando Resort 2023
May 5 2023
An "Epical" Orlando Vacation | Universal Orlando Resort 2023
Adam and his 9-year-old daughter Summer share about their epic family vacation to Orlando which included several days at Universal Orlando Resort, and their once-in-a-lifetime invitation to join hosts David and Kari on the Discover Universal podcast.Episode 85 of Modern Dadhood, a "bonus episode," opens with a chat about April vacation. Marc shares that at 5 years old, his twin boys don't yet conform to school vacation schedules, but that Kindergarten is feeling closer and closer, with the boys quickly realizing that big changes are coming.Adam shares about his recent Orlando vacation which included several fun-packed days at Universal Studios Orlando, Universal's Islands of Adventure, and Universal's Volcano Bay. He shares the story of how this crazy vacation came to be, and how he and his family ended up in Universal's Radio Broadcast Studio for an episode of the Discover Universal podcast.The guys play back a detailed recap of the vacation by Adam and his 9 year old daughter Summer, which includes discussion of attractions in all of Universal's parks (including the Wizarding World of Harry Potter) and Volcano Bay.LINKSNatural Nature Youth  (9 year old Summer's podcast)Universal Orlando ResortDiscover Universal PodcastUniversal Studios FloridaUniversal's Islands of AdventureThe Wizarding World of Harry PotterJurassic ParkUniversal's Volcano BayUniversal's Endless Summer Resorts: Dockside Inn and SuitesUniversal on InstagramUniversal on TwitterUniversal on FacebookRed Vault AudioCaspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeStuffed Animal #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast