Modern Husbands Podcast

Today we welcome Dr. Jessica Higgins to discuss how to manage conflict in marriage. Dr. Jessica Higgins is a Licensed Psychologist and Licensed Professional Counselor. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and a M.A. in Counseling Psychology. Dr. Higgins is also the founder and creator of Connected Couple, which is a comprehensive, research-based, transformational, relationship program. Questions00:00 Introduction01:07 Why are couples often shocked or surprised when conflict emerges in their relationship, especially in early phases of marriage?05:15 What do you see as two conflicting needs in a relationship and how this is often a point of tension in a marriage?13:27 Many times couples will identify "a breakdown of communication" as a culprit of conflict in a marriage? What do you think?22:04 What is the criticism and defensiveness loop? Why is the criticism and defensiveness loop so problematic? 32:00 Three tips that are simple enough to each be shared in less than a minute, for folks to de-escalate a conflict? 34:33 Can you share with our listeners more about where they can learn about you and your podcast?35:33: What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave with our listeners?Where to learn more about Dr. Jessica Higgins: DrJessicaHiggins.comClick here to download the Shifting Criticism GuideClick here to listen to the Empowered Relationship PodcastSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we are going to talk with Ashley Quamme about marriage and money conflict: how to work through the tough stuff. Ashley has been a couple’s therapist for well over a decade. She holds a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy, a graduate certificate in Financial Therapy, and holds designations as a Certified Financial Behavior Specialist® and Certified Financial Therapist-Practitioner. Questions00:00 Introduction00:45 Let’s say you want to change some bad financial decisions being made in the marriage, but your spouse doesn’t. How do you engage the unengaged partner?08:07 Nobody wants to argue about money in their marriage, but sometimes doing something about it is difficult. How do you motivate clients to take action through conversation?12:18 Money is emotional, and it can be hard to look at life through the lens of someone else when you’re frustrated yourself. In that case, what are some tools you can use to improve empathy and your own active listening skills? 16:11 It is not uncommon for a saver and a spender to marry one another. How do you address the saver/spender dynamic in marriage?22:05 Financial infidelity, that is intentionally deceiving your partner about money, is a problem in nearly half of marriages. Walk us through how couples can navigate the problems that arise from financial infidelity.25:41 Tell us about your new podcast!27:48 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice listeners can use today?ResourcesBrene Brown on Empathy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZBTYViDPlQBeyond the Plan Podcast: https://www.beyondthefp.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

For today’s episode, we are going to start thinking rich. Adrian Brambila, the son of immigrant parents from Mexico, rose to TikTok stardom by redefining “real wealth,” and showcasing his journey of earning $1.7 million in one year while living in a van.Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP® is a financial psychologist, professor, and researcher who has co-authored eight books on the psychology of money. He comes from a broken family and grew up poor but still became a millionaire in his 30s. Today, he is the world’s leading expert in the psychology of money.They are today’s guests and the coauthors of the book, Start Thinking Rich, which is precisely what we will talk about on today’s episode. Enjoy the show.00:00 Introduction01:46 What motivated you to read Start Thinking Rich07:45 Only poor people think the system is rigged13:00 How to avoid the wrong mentality 17:00 Poor people buy stuff, rich people own time.30:32: If you want to get rich, go to college, get rich, and buy a house (or not)34:45 Is it better to rent or buy a house?40:42 Get a roommate, get on the bus, get sober, get bald, and get a side hustle or shut up and be poor43:30 The ultimate side hustle for kids48:20 It’s not your fault if you were born poor, but it’s your fault if you die poor.54:45 One piece of simple and actionable advice for your marriageLink to purchase the book: https://startthinkingrich.com/modernhusbands Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

The great news is that Inflation is back to 2-3%, but the prices for some of what we buy remain high. In today’s episode, entitled Why Prices are Higher: Just the Facts!, we address why. Our guests are Dr. Jennifer Davidson and Mike Raymer. Dr. Davidson is the President of the Nebraska Council on Economic Education and the Associate Professor of Practice in Economics at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Mike Raymer is the Executive Director of the Georgia Council on Economic Education and a former award winning economics educator. You will finish the podcast understanding how to spot the nonsense shared on social media and some news outlets so you and your partner can have an informed fact based conversation about inflation, and how you can manage it in your home.Show Notes00:00 Introduction02:40 What is inflation and how is it measured?06:23 Who is primarily responsible for managing inflation in the United States?14:04 If inflation is down, why are groceries still expensive?22:50 What were the contributing factors to the inflation spike post 2020?29:05 How did the United States manage inflation, relative to the rest of the world?33:26 The opposite of inflation is deflation. What is worse, a 10% rate of inflation or 10% rate of deflation, and why?35:53 What are some practical ways couples can manage higher prices?39:16 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with as it pertains to higher prices? ResourcesSearch article title "Why Prices are Higher: Just the Facts!" at modernhusbands.com for the data points and resources mentioned in the episode.Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Jay Zigmont, PhD, MBA, CFP® is the Founder and CEO of Childfree Wealth®, a life and financial planning firm dedicated to helping Childfree and Permanently Childless people. Childfree Wealth is the first life and financial planning firm dedicated to serving Childfree people.Dr. Jay is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, Childfree Wealth Specialist, and author of the book “Portraits of Childfree Wealth” and the upcoming book “The Childfree Guide to Life and Money.” Dr Jay is the co-host of the Childfree Wealth podcast. His Ph.D. is in Adult Learning from the University of Connecticut.He has been featured in Fortune, Forbes, MarketWatch, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Business Insider, CNBC, and many other publications.  In 2023, he was named a “Rising Star” by Financial Planning.Childfree Wealth https://childfreewealth.comChildfree Wealth Podcast: https://childfreewealth.buzzsprout.comNew book: The Childfree Guide to Life and Money: https://www.amazon.com/Childfree-Guide-Life-Money-Management/dp/1728297346Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:41 What does it mean to live a childfree life?0:02:49 Can you tell us the difference between childfree and childless couples?0:03:45 Can you share a bit about your background and what inspired you to work with childfree couples?0:08:15 What is the difference between the FIRE and the FILE movements?0:12:00 What are the common misconceptions or different perceptions that people have about childfree couples?0:21:50 The Gardener and the Rose0:26:50 What advice do you have for couples on setting new personal and joint goals after their children have moved out?0:31:22 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice for our listeners that you would like to conclude with today?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Aja Evans is a speaker and soon-to-be author of her debut book, Feel Good Finance. She is the incoming President of the Financial Therapy Association, consults with fintech companies, and has been featured in major news outlets such as The New York Times, Business Insider, NerdWallet, and CNBC.Today we discuss the essentials of a good relationship, such as managing finances as a couple, handling income swings, and dividing household responsibilities. She discusses joint finances, separate accounts, and the importance of early money conversations in relationships. Key TakeawaysEarly money conversations in relationships are crucial for aligning financial goals and expectations.Managing monthly income swings requires careful budgeting and preparation, especially in professions with variable income.Dividing household responsibilities and tasks requires open communication and understanding of each other's preferences and strengths. Open communication is crucial for managing household responsibilities and addressing financial disagreements within a marriage.Understanding one's money story and its influence on financial decisions is essential for a healthy financial relationship within a marriage.Aja's upcoming book, Feel Good Finance, focuses on the importance of understanding individual money stories and their impact on financial beliefs and patterns within a marriage.Listener Notes0:00 Introduction1:09 Can you introduce yourselves and give us a brief background on your journey together as a couple?5:02 How do you divide your finances as a couple?9:20 How did you approach your initial conversations about money?10:15 What was your approach to paying off the student loans you brought into the marriage?12:14 How do you ensure both partners have a say in financial decisions?16:12 How do you handle managing significant swings in household monthly income? 18:14 How do you divide the tasks needed to run your home?25:04 What advice do you have for other couples who struggle with financial disagreements?33:30 Changing gears for a moment, can you share a bit about your upcoming book Feel Good Finance? 37:00 How can couples with two different money stories work through their differences?42:08 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you can share with our listeners? Order or Preorder Aja’s book, Feel Good Finance: Untangle Your Relationship with Money for Better Mental, Emotional, and Financial Well-Being: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/759700/feel-good-finance-by-aja-evans/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Today’s discussion is with Cara Macksoud and centers around how couples can navigate money habits in marriage. Cara Macksoud began her career on the New York Stock Exchange at the age of 17 while simultaneously attending NYU Stern School of Business where she majored in finance. Cara eventually became the youngest woman to earn a seat to trade on the New York Stock Exchange. She is the mother of five and CEO of Money Habitudes, a game-like assessment – played either via physical cards or online – to help people understand and talk about their finances in a fun, constructive way. TakeawaysOpen and honest communication is crucial for addressing money habits in marriage.Celebrating wins, no matter how small, strengthens the relationship.Understanding and utilizing each other's strengths can lead to better financial decisions.Avoiding conversations about financial habits can create resentment and strain in the relationship.Asking your partner what they would do if they won the lottery can provide insight into their priorities and values.Chapters00:00 Introduction00:50 Cara’s Journey: From Coffee Runner to Money Habitudes05:20 Advice for Dual Career Parents12:10 Understanding Money Habitudes16:30 Attitudes About Money and Relationship Dynamics24:13 Dealing with Bad Financial Habits in Marriage25:28 Positive Financial Behaviors in Relationships30:38 Simple and Actionable Advice Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

In this episode we discuss with Chris Taylor various topics including personal finance journalism, tipping culture, impulse buying on social media, the relationship between money and happiness, and the importance of time in personal finance.Mr. Taylor is a Senior Correspondent for Reuters, contributor to the WSJ Buy Side & Fortune, with published articles in the Financial Times, CNBC, Money Magazine, and many more. TakeawaysPersonal finance journalism should focus on the emotional aspects of money to resonate with readers.Tipping culture is at a tipping point, with people becoming more reluctant to tip in various situations.Impulse buying on social media can be prevented by waiting before making a purchase and creating friction in the buying process.Money can create happiness up to a certain level, but beyond that, the correlation between money and happiness diminishes.The hedonic treadmill is the tendency to always want more money and possessions, but it doesn't lead to long-term happiness.Building wealth and financial security is best achieved by starting early and giving investments time to grow.Time is the most powerful factor in personal finance, and starting early in investing can lead to long-term financial security.Chapter Markers00:00 Introduction00:50 Canadian Culture and Healthcare07:30 Favorite Money Lessons for His Kids10:30 The Emotional Side of Personal Finance Journalism12:06 The Tipping Culture Debate15:00 Preventing Impulse Buying on Social Media19:20: Happiness and Money25:15 The Most Important Personal Finance LessonSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Zach Watson is a Certified Fair Play Facilitator who coaches directly from personal experience, implementing the principles and systems of the Fair Play Method along with a mixture of teachings from his mindfulness training, while being a public educator and habit setting that he’s been coaching for 7 years.Zach has well over one million followers on his various social media platforms. Essential TakeawaysThe mental load and invisible labor often fall on women in managing a home.Regular communication and feedback sessions with your partner are crucial for creating a fair division of labor.Tools like the Fair Playbook or the Persist app can help identify and distribute responsibilities.Setting clear expectations and boundaries is essential to avoid resentment and improve teamwork at home.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Zach Watson08:44 Creating a Fair and Balanced System09:48 The Importance of Clear Communication12:41 Providing Feedback to Share the Workload17:23 Gradual Implementation of New Responsibilities21:50 Challenges and Solutions for Couples25:50 Handling Different Standards of Care33:25 Simple and Actionable AdviceFollow Zach: https://zachthinkshare.com/linktree1 Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Abby Davisson has dedicated her career to helping others achieve their goals, first as a social innovation leader and now as an author, speaker, and entrepreneur. Abby is the co-author of Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life’s Biggest Decisions and co-founded the Money and Love Institute. Abby holds a BA from Yale University and an MBA and MA in Education from Stanford University. Today’s episode will cover how couples can integrate money and love in decision-making, steps couples can take to establish a strong financial foundation in marriage, and much more.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:02 What inspired you to co-author "Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest Decisions," and how can it help couples manage their finances?05:05 Can you explain the concept of integrating money and love in decision-making, as outlined in your book?08:03 What are some practical steps couples can take to establish a strong financial foundation in their marriage?11:46 Should you live together before marriage? What does the research find?16:05 How do you suggest couples approach the topic of money early in their relationship to ensure transparency and trust?25:57 What role does communication play in managing finances together, and how can couples improve their financial conversations?28:15 Can you share some common financial pitfalls that couples should avoid to maintain a healthy financial relationship?31:18 Tell us about the course you are teaching this fall?32:39 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice for our listeners that you would like to conclude with today?Money and Love Institute (and book): https://www.moneyloveinstitute.com/Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Jackie Cummings Koski, a single mom of one adult daughter who retired as a millionaire at the age of 49. She is the author of the recently released “F.I.R.E. for Dummies.” Jackie earned CFP® and AFC® credentials; and went back to school to get a master’s degree in financial planning & financial therapy from Kansas State University.Today’s episode is jam packed with FIRE movement tips! Enjoy the show.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:19 Where did your passion for financial independence come from?03:42 What is the FIRE Movement08:52 The difference between FI and FIRE12:15 Can you walk us through the mindset and psychology of FIRE?17:17 Was there a moment while you were building up to your FIRE movement that you realized how incredible of an experience the journey was for you? 21:07 How do you organize your finances for FIRE?29:14 Make the company pay the 401k fee.30:58 What are your favorite hacks to increase your savings and investing commitments?34:21 What strategies do you recommend to reduce your debt, expenses, and taxes? 46:14 Can you FIRE with debt?49:45 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?Jackie's Book, FIRE for Dummies: https://www.amazon.com/FIRE-Dummies-Business-Personal-Finance/dp/1394235011Catching Up to FI Podcast: https://catchinguptofi.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.We welcome Paige Connell to today’s episode and we discuss how working husbands can best support their working wives in a marriage that values teamwork. Paige is a working mother of four who uses her platform with a massive and quickly growing following on TikTok and Instagram to share her thoughts on the mental load, parenting, and her career. Her goal is to raise awareness about the mental load of motherhood and advocate for equitable relationships for couples. 00:00 Introduction02:04 Paige, let’s start with sharing a little bit about yourself. Can you tell us a bit about your family?05:30 Let’s start with the problem that gets the headlines in the press: the cost of child care. How does the cost of child care impact your family, and others who follow you?08:40 The locus of control for you and our listeners is how we can work through this problem. Understanding this, can you walk us through how working husbands can use parental leave to support their spouses and children?16:47 As parents transition into childcare, the mental load of managing a home can begin to take its toll. What is the mental load, and how can a couple work together to avoid placing an unfair burden of the mental load on one spouse?24:40 Some of our listeners are exploring childcare options. Can you walk us through the different types and the associated costs? 32:40 As children grow, so does the need for planned and thoughtful shared parenting styles. Can you walk us through what this journey has looked like for you? 38:50 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to share to our listeners that they can apply in their lives?Follow Paige Connell https://www.sheisapaigeturner.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Jon Macaskill, a retired Navy SEAL Commander turned leadership and mindfulness coach. During his 24-year Navy career, he served in multiple highly dynamic leadership positions from the battlefield to the operations center and the board room.On today’s episode, we discuss the strategies he uses, and you can use, to stay strong for your family. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:03:08 Can you share a bit about your career as a Navy SEAL?0:05:54 How do you handle the mental switch from being in a high-stakes operational mindset to a more relaxed home environment?0:11:14 Can you share specific strategies or mental frameworks you learned in the SEALs for maintaining a healthy work-life balance?0:18:26 What routines or rituals from your SEAL training that you've adapted to help maintain a sense of calm and focus at home?0:22:06 In what ways do you communicate with your family about the demands of your work, and how do you ensure that your home life remains a priority?0:25:37 Why is self empathy an important building block toward being an empathetic spouse and parent? 0:32:02 According to your book, motion is lotion for the body. What does this mean, and how do you put this into practice? 0:34:50 What is one simple and actionable piece of advice you want to share with our listeners?Purchase Jon’s Book “Unleashing Inner Strength: A Navy SEAL's Guide to Preparedness, Resilience, Grit, and Compassion Through Mindfulness” https://www.amazon.com/Unleashing-Inner-Strength-Preparedness-Mindfulness/dp/B0CHGC1XGG NuCalm: https://nucalm.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dustin Voss. Dustin is the Financial Education Specialist for Chicago Public Schools where it is his job to make sure all of Chicago's children gain a foundation in Financial Literacy. Dustin has been a long time advocate and teacher of Financial Literacy, including serving on the IL Governor's Task force for Financial Empowerment and being on the oversight board for CPS's 403b/457 program. Dustin and his wife Nora are an educator-couple navigating the joys and difficulties of raising a family and caring for a dependent elder. On today’s episode, Dustin shares how his young family has navigated the high cost of childcare and home buying in one of the nation’s most expensive cities and how they work together as a team.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:02 Can you share a bit about your professional background and your partner’s?0:02:33 How did you and your partner meet? 0:04:02 How did you manage your careers after the birth of your baby? 0:09:19 How has becoming a parent impacted your approach to personal finance?0:18:42 Can you share some practical tips for budgeting with a new addition to the family?0:27:39 What financial decisions did you and your partner make to prepare for parenthood?0:37:33 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you have, based on our conversation today?Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Ann Silvers, a mental health counselor and author. On today’s episode we discuss the lessons learned from one of her books, Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It's Time to Get Real About It. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction00:40 Usually when we are talking about partner abuse we think of men abusing women. What made you write about partner abuse when men are the target instead of the source?05:18 It’s surprising that a woman is writing about the abuse of men. How frequently does it occur?10:38 How do you define partner abuse? And what kind of abuse are you talking about?13:07 What kind of reaction do you get when you talk about women abusing men?15:08 You talk about forms of partner abuse I had never really thought of before.a. Can you give us some examples of financial abuse?b. What do you mean by legal abuse?c. You mentioned spiritual abuse. What is that?24:55: Why do people use any power they have to abuse their spouses?30:51: How do men get pulled into these types of relationships?36:04 What is one piece of simple actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?Additional Resources and InformationContact: Ann Silvers, M.A. 253-853-7049, Ann@annsilvers.com, http://www.annsilvers.comAbuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, and It's Time to Get Real About It: Abuse OF men BY women: It happens, it hurts, and it's time to get real about it: Ann Silvers M.A.: 9780983433873: Amazon.com: BooksHow Many Men are Abused by Women? – Ann Silvers, MAHow Women Financially Abuse Men – Ann Silvers, MAHow Women Legally Abuse Men – Ann Silvers, MAWhat is Spiritual Abuse in Marriage and Relationships? – Ann Silvers, MA8 Red Flags the Pregnancy is a Trap – Ann Silvers, MABaby Traps: Fake Positive Pregnancy and Paternity DNA Tests – Ann Silvers, MASubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dr. Brenda Volling who is a developmental psychologist and award-winning educator and researcher at the University of Michigan. Her research focuses on early social and emotional development with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, parent-child interaction, and family relationships. Dr. Volling works primarily with young fathers during the perinatal period and the transition to fatherhood and studies men’s mental health, father-child relationships, and co-parenting. Her research has been showcased on CBS Sunday Morning, the BBC, the Washington Post, the New York Times, and Parents magazine. On today’s episode we discuss the essential role fathers play in the early years of a child’s development. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:15 From a 20,000 foot view, can you share a bit about your research on the role of fathers for infant development?13:56 What steps should fathers take to prepare for their first born? 25:13 What outcomes have you found with fathers who form a strong bond with their children as infants? 32:43: What can fathers do as caregivers that is most meaningful for their child's development? 40:14: Where can folks turn to learn more about you and your work?41:25 What advice do you have for our listeners that is simple and actionable?The Volling Lab: https://sites.lsa.umich.edu/volling-lab/our-team/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Dr. Jason Frishman who has been working for 25 years to support individuals, groups, families, organizations and businesses. He believes that our lives are adventurous, and we can and should be an active, engaged author of our own adventure stories!Dr. Frishman is a practicing licensed therapist. He is a Psychologist and Doctorate with specific training in Collaborative, Narrative, and Adventure therapies. He is the Founder of JourneyMen, which inspires committed, well-balanced men to successfully journey through life with responsibility, meaning and intention. For today’s episode we will discuss the common mental struggles men face and strategies to overcome them.Enjoy the show.Questions Answered00:00 Introduction01:05 As the founder of Journeymen, what inspired you to focus on addressing the mental health challenges specific to men?04:37 Can you share some insights into the common mental struggles that men often face in today's society?10:00 In your experience, what are some of the key reasons men may hesitate to seek help for their mental health, and how can this barrier be overcome?26:55  Can you discuss the importance of fostering emotional intelligence in men and how it contributes to their overall mental well-being?30:05 What are the coping mechanisms that men employ, and are there healthier alternatives that you recommend?33:59 What role do relationships and social connections play in supporting men's mental health, and how can individuals cultivate these supportive networks?40:16 Are there specific mindfulness or self-care practices that you recommend for men to incorporate into their daily lives to promote mental well-being?50:00 Where can our listeners learn more about you and your work? www.JourneyMenFoundation.comTop 10 Fastest Ways DADS can CONNECT with Their Kids https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfmq-j2esfmrp_NlvrP0Tn40hKbfLrbtUL0TXWGsx4kizSqUQ/viewformSubscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.For more than two decades, master money coach Mikelann Valterra, MA, AFC®, has helped folks transform their relationship with money. A highly respected expert in financial psychology, she is the author of Rise Above the Money Fog and has been quoted in national publications, including Forbes, USA Today, and Business Insider. Mikelann is an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®) and holds a master’s in psychology and consciousness studies. On today’s episode, we will discuss the money fog, and what it means to you and your partner. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:15 Where does your passion for financial psychology come from?0:07:12 What has been the biggest change in financial psychology over the past 25 years? 10:18 What is a money fog? 12:26 Can you explain your acronym, FOG? 13:47 What are some of the hidden impacts of the money fog? 16:41 What is the origin of the money fog? 22:22 What is your favorite story of someone who rose above the money fog?24:48 Where can listeners go to learn more about you?25:33 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?ResourcesSeattlemoneycoach.com Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Adrienne Hines, Ohio's renowned bankruptcy expert with nearly three decades of experience. Adrienne has redefined bankruptcy, transforming it from a daunting concept into a tool for financial wellness and dignity. She's more than a lawyer; she's an ally who combines sharp legal expertise with deep empathy, guiding those in financial distress towards stability. Adrienne uses TikTok to challenge bankruptcy myths and promote financial literacy. Her innovative approach earned her the 2023 Best Bankruptcy Advice Award at the FinTok Awards by Debt.com. In today’s episode we'll talk about all things bankruptcy in marriage, ranging from how to prevent it, when it is appropriate, and many things in between. Enjoy the show.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:05 How does bankruptcy work and what are the differences between Chapters 7 and 13 bankruptcy? 0:04:48 How long does bankruptcy take? 0:07:53 Do you lose your retirement in any type of bankruptcy?0:12:51 What are some common questions or concerns your social media followers and clients have regarding bankruptcy and marriage? How do you address these concerns?0:14:46 Can your spouse file bankruptcy without it including your own personal assets? If so, can you explain how this works? 0:20:36 What are the common origins of bankruptcy?0:24:28 Is it possible for your spouse to file bankruptcy without including the personal assets accumulated in marriage?0:26:12 Fast Facts GameCan bankruptcy stop a foreclosure?Can bankruptcy stop eviction?Can bankruptcy stop wage garnishment?Is the following possible in the bankruptcy process?Filing bankruptcy without losing house Filing bankruptcy with a student loan Filing bankruptcy to stop foreclosure Filing bankruptcy to keep your car Filing bankruptcy to eliminate credit card debtFiling bankruptcy to eliminate student loansFiling bankruptcy to eliminate medical debtFiling bankruptcy to eliminate private student loansFiling bankruptcy to eliminate your car loan0:30:05 What is one simple lesson you want listeners to walk away with this episode?0:32:30 Where can people go to follow you?Follow @theladylikelawyer on all platforms https://www.theladylikelawyer.com/ Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.Today we welcome Sean Mullaney who is the President of Mullaney Financial & Tax, Inc. Through Mullaney Financial & Tax, Sean provides advice-only financial planning for a flat fee. Sean writes the Plutus Award winning blog FITaxGuy.com on the intersection of tax and financial independence and has been quoted in media outlets including The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and MarketWatch.Today we will discuss how spouses can use retirement savings to reduce their taxes. Enjoy the show!Note: The discussion is intended to be for general educational purposes and is not tax, legal, or investment advice for any individual. Brian, Dr. Bruce, and the Modern Husbands podcast do not endorse Sean Mullaney, Mullaney Financial & Tax, Inc. and their services.Questions Answered0:00:00 Introduction0:01:00 How does a traditional 401k reduce an investors tax burden when investing?0:05:48 What is the difference between a traditional IRA or 401k and an IRA? And what are the differences between a Roth 401k, Roth IRA, and Spousal IRA? What is a spousal IRA?  0:14:04 What are some of the misconceptions around some investing option terms?0:16:32 Why would someone choose to invest in some sort of IRA rather than a traditional tax shelter where the investor receives a tax deduction when they contribute?0:23:23 How can it help parents who don't work outside of the home? 0:26:04 Should people contribute to traditional retirement accounts or Roth retirement accounts?0:28:57 One simple piece of advice based on the conversation 0:30:12 Where listeners can learn more from Sean about tax tips. Additional ResourcesSean Mullaney YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SeanMullaneyVideos Spousal Roth IRA: https://www.modernhusbands.com/post/the-spousal-ira Sean Mullaney on X: https://twitter.com/SeanMoneyandTax Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!NewsletterFacebookYouTubeLinkedInInstagramTwitterTikTokSubstack