How many times recently have you told someone this or heard this from someone else - "are you evening listening to me?!" I believe that every couple and individuals in any type of relationship have had this phrase come up more than once. The reality is, one of the biggest sources of relationship conflict is poor listening skills. This is because we are not born with good listening skills but rather good listening skills are exactly that, a skill. This means they need to be learned, developed, and honed. There is no better place to make sure you are listening well than in the relationships that are most important to you. If you are struggling with communication and listening, this episode is for you.