Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-10-05-24&el=podcast In this episode, we dive deep into the complex dynamics of narcissism and high-conflict relationships with renowned attorney, author, and negotiation expert Rebecca Zung. Rebecca shares her journey from a successful high-net-worth divorce litigation practice to her work today, where she helps individuals understand and negotiate with narcissists. She explains the difference between overt and covert narcissists, offering practical strategies for identifying and dealing with them in both personal and professional settings. We explore the psychological underpinnings of narcissistic behavior, how it manifests in relationships, and why conventional negotiation tactics don’t work. Rebecca introduces her SLAY method, designed to empower individuals to reclaim their power and navigate narcissistic dynamics effectively. Whether you're facing a narcissist in court, at work, or in your personal life, this episode is filled with valuable insights on how to protect yourself and emerge victorious in the most challenging situations. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:02 - Rebecca Zung’s Backstory 06:41 - Identifying a Covert Narcissist 13:11 - How People Become Narcissists 17:32 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 18:23 - Narcissists & Arrested Development 24:17 - Splitting 25:53 - Leverage Points 33:28 - SLAY Methodology, S: Strategy 33:37 - L: Leverage 35:20 - Manipulating the Supply 40:43 - A: Anticipate the Type of Narcissist 41:32 - Grandiose Narcissists 42:14 - Covert Narcissists 47:27 - Y: You 49:11 - Authentic Power: Glinda 51:17 - Find More Rebecca Zung Content 53:40 - Conclusion  Connect with Rebecca: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnhT4fBE1OWOn7c0Quxdf4w Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/ Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Tune in for an enlightening conversation that offers essential tools for anyone dealing with narcissistic behavior. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-10-02-24&el=podcast In this insightful episode, we explore the roles of mothering and fathering in romantic relationships and how these dynamics can shape your emotional experiences. Are you always the one caretaking, organizing, or emotionally supporting others, often at your own expense? Thais dives into the root causes behind these tendencies, including childhood experiences, and offers practical advice on how to break free from these patterns. Learn how to foster reciprocal relationships, avoid burnout, and set healthy boundaries to ensure your emotional well-being. Tune in to discover transformative strategies to create healthier, more balanced relationships and take steps toward a more fulfilling connection with yourself and others. If you’re ready to transform your relationships and move away from over-giving, this episode is for you! Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-09-30-24&el=podcast In this transformative episode, we dive deep into the healing journey for individuals with different attachment styles—whether you are a fearful avoidant, dismissive avoidant, or anxiously attached. Mike and Thais share their personal experiences with depression, vulnerability, and the power of meditation in healing. From emotional regulation techniques to actionable insights on reprogramming core wounds, this episode provides a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to break free from negative thought patterns and cultivate emotional resilience. Whether you're dealing with anxious thoughts or looking for ways to support a loved one through tough times, this episode is packed with valuable advice to help you thrive emotionally. Plus, don't miss our special discussion on the role of gut health in mental well-being and how small lifestyle changes can make a big difference. Tune in for one of our most insightful conversations yet! Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 02:15 - Most Effective Tools for the Journey to Heal 02:30 - Mike’s Response (as a Former DA) 14:26 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 15:17 - Thais’ Response (as a Former FA) 18:46 - Seinfeld 20:22 - Meditation Takes Time 24:02 - Hello Fresh 25:29 - Are DAs and FAs Prone to Depression? 25:48 - Mike’s Response 30:33 - Thais’ Response 39:56 - NEA 41:14 - Gut Health 43:00 - Quince 44:31 - Deep Rest 46:18 - Mike’s History with Depression 48:51 - There Are Many Paths to Healing 50:44 - You Don’t Have to Push People Away 54:22 - Conclusion  Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get free personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-28-24&el=podcast In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, co-hosts Thais Gibson and Mike dive deep into the complex world of avoidant attachment styles. They explore how dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants behave when they’re interested in someone and discuss the nuances of boundaries in relationships, from survival boundaries to the challenges avoidants face in setting healthy limits. Whether you’re trying to understand why someone may pull away or how to navigate the dating world with an avoidant attachment, this episode offers valuable insights. They also answer listener questions about spotting signs of true interest from avoidants and how to approach difficult conversations about boundaries and expectations. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation that aims to shed light on the intricacies of attachment and connection. Don't miss the opportunity to learn how these attachment styles can heal and transform to form more secure, fulfilling relationships. Plus, hear the hosts share their personal journeys from avoidance to secure attachment. Listen now on Spotify, iTunes, or watch the video version on YouTube. Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 02:32 - Signs a DA is Interested in a Relationship 15:06 - Signs an FA is Not Interested in a Relationship 23:37 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 24:32 - Struggling to Set Boundaries 25:09 - Mike’s Response (as a Former DA) 33:55 - Thais’ Response (as a Former FA) 45:55 - Poking Fun 51:16 - Hello Fresh 52:43 - Indeed 54:36 - Reddit Question 55:52 - Mike’s Response 01:00:38 - Thais’ Response 01:05:29 - Moving On From an Ex 01:08:44 - Date at Your Own Pace 01:11:41 - Conclusion Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get free personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-26-24&el=podcast In this episode, we explore the concept of "monkey branching" in relationships, particularly as it relates to the avoidant attachment style. Have you ever noticed an avoidant partner quickly moving on from one relationship to another without missing a beat? Hosts dive into why this happens, the emotional and behavioral signs to watch out for, and how to navigate these situations in your relationship. We'll cover the five key signs that an avoidant might be emotionally disengaging and seeking validation elsewhere, even while still in the relationship. You'll learn how to address these red flags, prevent emotional distance, and make the tough decision of when to stay or walk away. Whether you have an avoidant partner or want to understand the behavior of avoidants better, this episode is packed with practical insights to help you navigate relationship dynamics more effectively. Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get free personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-23-24&el=podcast In this insightful episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Di Zio delve into the complexities of attachment styles, focusing on fearful and dismissive avoidants. They reflect on their own attachment journeys, revealing personal regrets, breakthroughs, and lessons learned. Listeners will gain a deep understanding of how attachment styles shape relationship dynamics and how to move toward more secure connections. The episode explores why dismissive avoidants tend to avoid vulnerability, how fearful avoidants react when feeling hurt, and why some relationships break down over minor conflicts. The hosts share practical tools to navigate these challenging patterns, answer listener questions about navigating relationship challenges, and offer advice on how to communicate effectively in difficult conversations. Tune in to discover actionable strategies for healing attachment wounds and building stronger, healthier relationships. Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 02:44 - Former DA Regrets - Mike 16:04 - Former FA Regrets - Thais 26:23 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 27:13 - Question 1 29:11 - Mike’s Response 38:21 - Thais’ Response 42:31 - Hello Fresh 43:58 - Indeed 45:52 - Question 2 46:33 - Mike’s Response 50:19 - Thais’ Response 56:46 - Conclusion  Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get free personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-21-24&el=podcast In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of healing and self-discovery with breathwork expert Giovanni Bartolomeo. Our guest shares their inspiring personal story of moving from an unfulfilled life to one of purpose through breathwork. We explore how breathwork can unlock emotional breakthroughs, support mental clarity, and help resolve physical ailments such as chronic stress and autoimmune issues. From ancient practices to modern applications, learn how to reconnect with your body and mind through powerful breathwork techniques. Whether you're new to breathwork or a seasoned practitioner, this episode will guide you on how to use breath as a tool for mental, emotional, and physical transformation. Tune in to discover how breathwork can help release buried trauma, enhance creativity, and bring clarity and peace into your life. Find Gio Online: Website: https://elementalrhythm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elementalgio/ Timestamps 00:00 - Intro 01:14 - Gio and Getting Into Breathwork 16:56 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 17:45 - How Breathwork Works 19:06 - How Breathwork Functions 23:22 - Why Breathwork is Important 25:43 - How Breathwork Can Affect You 26:56 - Getting Started 28:19 - What Does Good Breathwork Look Like? 33:00 - Big Breaths vs Deep Breaths 34:11 - Getting Started: 7-Day Practice 39:07 - What is a Breathwork Track? 45:50 - Hello Fresh 47:18 - Indeed 49:10 - Gio’s Breathwork Retreat Story 56:07 - Gio’s Experience With Breathwork 59:26 - Find More Gio and PDS Content 1:01:10 - Conclusion  Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into a crucial topic for those navigating relationships: the differences between a covert narcissist and someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment style. If you’ve ever questioned whether your partner's distant behavior is just part of their attachment style or a sign of something deeper, like covert narcissism, this is the episode for you. We explore nine key differences between these two often-confused personality types, offering insight into how both can affect relationships. Learn how covert narcissists subtly manipulate and prioritize admiration, while dismissive avoidants are more focused on independence and emotional distance. We also discuss how trauma can spread from one partner to another and what it takes for someone to grow and change in a relationship. Whether you're currently in a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this episode will help you distinguish between the two and decide what steps to take next. Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-19-24&el=podcast Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Zeo dive into common fears and challenges in relationships, particularly for individuals with dismissive or fearful-avoidant attachment styles. They explore the emotions and thoughts behind major relationship steps like moving in together and answer listener questions from Reddit and YouTube. Topics include understanding the avoidant mindset, how attachment styles influence cheating, and navigating difficult conversations around sensitive topics like pornography. Tune in for insights, practical advice, and personal stories on how to cultivate secure and healthy relationships. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 02:34 - Moving in With a Partner 04:21 - DAs Need Time Alone 07:27 - DAs and Co-Regulation 09:14 - Living With Your Partner: DA Stages 11:51 - Shame and Acceptance 13:21 - FAs Fears in Relationships 17:26 - Assuming Childhood Experiences into Adulthood 21:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 21:54 - DAs / FAs and Cheating 23:07 - Mike’s Response 26:02 - Why They Cheat 27:04 - DAs: Talk to Your Partner 31:43 - Meeting Your Needs 36:32 - Routines to Stay Connected 40:27 - Hello Fresh 41:54 - Indeed 43:46 - Question 44:16 - Mike’s Response 47:55 - Thais’ Response 53:26 - Find the Root Cause 56:05 - Talk to Your Partner (Mike) 57:40 - Talk to Your Partner (Thais) 59:09 - Find More Mike DiZio and PDS Content 59:46 - Conclusion  Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_id=sdQsYwFOJyQ&utm_content=mp-09-16-24&el=podcast Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Thais Gibson sits down with Eric Zimmer, host of The One You Feed podcast, to explore how understanding human behavior can lead to profound changes in life. Eric shares his personal journey from addiction to becoming a behavior change expert. Together, they unpack strategies for breaking bad habits, overcoming cognitive distortions, and creating sustainable changes through actionable steps. Eric offers insights for anyone struggling with "all-or-nothing" thinking and explains how our bad habits are actually coping mechanisms. If you've ever felt stuck in your personal growth journey, this episode will provide you with a roadmap to navigate change and self-control. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:15 - Eric Zimmer’s Backstory 04:07 - Eric Zimmer’s Upbringing 08:39 - Catalyst for Change 10:53 - Getting Started 15:14 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 16:05 - Advice for "All or Nothing" Thinkers 21:17 - Bad Habits are Coping Mechanisms 25:15 - Bad Habits are Strategies to Meet Our Needs 27:04 - There is No 'One Size Fits All' Solution 31:04 - Hello Fresh 32:31 - Indeed 34:23 - Shame 38:02 - Habits That Matter 41:09 - Roadmap to Change 45:38 - The Transtheoretical Model 48:20 - The 6 Barriers to Self-Control 48:58 - Example: The Insignificance Trap 51:14 - Final Thoughts 52:05 - Find More Eric Zimmer Content 52:48 - Conclusion Find Eric Online: Website: https://www.oneyoufeed.net/about-eric-zimmer/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/one_you_feed/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheOneYouFeedPod Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_id=AO0Ro2Fq4TY&utm_content=mp-09-14-24&el=podcast Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode, we explore how avoidant attachment styles impact sexual intimacy. Discover the surprising neurochemical effects that sex has on individuals with avoidant tendencies and how it can either draw them closer to their partner or push them further away. We dive into the two main behavioral patterns of avoidant attachment, exploring the five key pillars of intimacy—mental, emotional, romantic, physical, and sexual—and how avoidants navigate them. Learn about the role of oxytocin, dopamine, and other neurochemicals in creating bonding, safety, and connection during sex. Whether you're in a relationship with someone who has an avoidant attachment style or want to understand your own behaviors, this episode sheds light on how intimacy can lead to deeper emotional and romantic bonds, even for avoidants. Join us as we decode the complexities of avoidant attachment and provide tools for navigating intimacy with more understanding and compassion. Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-09-11-24&el=podcast Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Di Zio dive deep into the complexities of attachment styles, offering personal insights and practical advice for anyone navigating relationships. Both former avoidants who have worked hard to become securely attached, Thais and Mike share their own experiences, discussing how they’ve overcome challenges and what they continue to work on. This episode cracks open the quandary of what happens when it is the avoidant attachment style who is on the receiving end of a breakup. Thais and Mike also answers viewer questions such as how to respond to breakups initiated by a secure partner as well as confronting dismissive avoidants on their white lies. Whether you're trying to understand yourself or a loved one better, this episode provides valuable tools and perspectives to help you on your path. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:01:29 - Topics for Discussion 00:02:53 - Mike Shares His Experience with Processing Breakups 00:04:31 - Reflecting On Distracting/Avoiding Oneself 00:05:59 - Timeframes From Breakup 00:11:11 - Behaviors Following a More Painful Breakup 00:12:42 - Amicable Breakup 00:16:15 - Confronting An Ex Reaching Out 00:19:08 - Deadlines 00:20:17 - Thais Shares from Her Fearful Avoidant Experience 00:23:17 - Distracting Activities for the Fearful Avoidant 00:31:39 - PDS 7-Day Free Trial 00:32:29 - Reddit User Question: How Do DAs Respond to Breakups With a Secure Partner? 00:41:05 - Advice For the Reddit User 00:43:04 - HelloFresh Ad 00:44:31 - Indeed Ad 00:46:23 - Reddit User Question: How Do I confront My DA Boyfriend About Lying To Me? 00:57:19 - Advice For the Reddit User 01:00:39 - Conclusion Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free at The Personal Development School for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_id=sdQsYwFOJyQ&utm_content=mp-09-09-24&el=podcast Get FREE breakfast for life at https://www.HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at https://www.indeed.com/thais Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we are thrilled to welcome Sabrina Zohar, dating coach and host of the Do the Work Podcast. Sabrina shares her powerful journey of overcoming life's challenges, from family health crises to navigating toxic relationships, and how these experiences shaped her approach to dating and communication. We dive into the emotional rollercoaster that is modern dating and uncover how black-and-white thinking can sabotage relationships. Sabrina explains how to remain curious, overcome fears of abandonment, and improve communication while staying true to your own needs and boundaries. Key moments include how to handle texting anxiety, the importance of addressing non-negotiables early, and showing up authentically in relationships. Sabrina also discusses strategies to navigate conflict, remain open to growth, and find alignment in dating through honest, empathetic communication. Don't miss out on her invaluable advice for anyone looking to build meaningful connections and foster emotional intimacy in their romantic life. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:22 - Sabrina Zohar’s Backstory 05:23 - Pain is not Exclusively Bad 07:38 - Texting in the Dating Stage 11:07 - Black & White Thinking in the Dating Stage 15:37 - Remain Curious & Communicate with Positivity 23:30 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 24:22 - Showing Up & Doing the Work 28:02 - Relationships Are Not Just About Love 31:17 - Discussing Non-Negotiables in the Dating Stage 34:24 - Hello Fresh 35:51 - Indeed 37:44 - Key Takeaways: Communication 47:14 - Advice on Communication: Overcoming Fear 51:37 - Find More Sabrina Zohar Content 52:56 - Conclusion Guest Information: Website: https://www.sabrinazohar.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Sabrina_zohar Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=youtube-podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-09-07-24&el=youtube Get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh! https://www.hellofresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit at Indeed! https://www.indeed.com/thais Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we dive into the deep impact of parentification on the fearful avoidant attachment style. Host Thais Gibson explains how this dynamic of role reversal in childhood can lead to challenges in adult relationships, such as fear of closeness, sabotaging intimacy, and taking on excessive responsibility. Learn the key signs of parentification, how it shapes your attachment style, and discover four powerful strategies to start healing today. Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-09-05-24&el=podcast Let’s connect! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to support your personal development journey! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Di Zio dive deep into the complexities of attachment styles, offering personal insights and practical advice for anyone navigating relationships. Both former avoidants who have worked hard to become securely attached, Thais and Mike share their own experiences, discussing how they’ve overcome challenges and what they continue to work on. This episode explores the reactions of fearful avoidants and dismissive avoidants after a heated argument and how it is handled by both attachment styles. Thais and Mike also discuss why certain attachment styles may or may not want children and the experiences leading up to those decisions. Whether you're trying to understand yourself or a loved one better, this episode provides valuable tools and perspectives to help you on your path. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:02:12 - Viewer Question: Why Don’t Avoidants Want To Have Kids? 00:03:01 - Mike Shares His Reasons 00:06:07 - The Support System of Having Children 00:08:36 - Fear of Disempowerment 00:10:36 - Thais Shares from the Fearful Avoidant Perspective 00:13:14 - The Helicopter Parent 00:17:21 - Thais Answers Whether FAs Want Kids 00:19:10 - Shout Out to APs 00:20:01 - HelloFresh Ad 00:21:28 - Indeed Ad 00:23:21 - When Avoidants Freeze Up and Go Into Detachment Mode 00:24:23 - Mike Shares His Detachment Experiences 00:26:08 - Reconnection Phase 00:27:23 - Afraid of Overreacting and Saying Something Wrong 00:29:21 - Modelling From Parents 00:31:42 - Stonewalling and Icing the Other Person Out 00:36:38 - Fearful Avoidants and Spitefulness 00:41:58 - Mike Share His Insights How to Cope When a Partner Shuts Down 00:43:49 - Resolution 00:45:56 - Moving Forward Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=youtube-podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-09-02-24&el=youtube Get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh.com/freethais Get a $75 Sponsored Job Credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/THAIS Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Find Mike Online: https://www.instagram.com/dareal_mikedee #TheThaisGibsonPodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais welcomes John Assaraf, a world-renowned mindset and small business growth expert, to discuss the transformative power of the subconscious mind. John shares his extraordinary journey from building five multimillion-dollar companies to becoming a leading figure in personal development. With appearances on Larry King Live, Anderson Cooper, and The Ellen DeGeneres Show, as well as starring in 14 films including "The Secret" and "Quest For Success" with Richard Branson and the Dalai Lama, John brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to the conversation. John reveals the secrets behind his success, including the incredible story of manifesting his dream home through the power of vision boards. He and Thais explore the science of neuroplasticity, the law of attraction, and practical strategies for rewiring your brain to achieve your goals. You'll learn how to tap into your brain’s superpower, shatter limitations, and achieve your life’s biggest dreams with the guidance of one of the industry's most inspiring voices. John is also the founder of myNeuroGym.com, a platform revolutionizing mindset coaching and mental fitness training, and the creator of the powerful “Innercise” app, which helps people rewire their brains for unstoppable success. Tune in and discover how to unlock the potential of your subconscious mind with this enlightening episode. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:36 - John Assaraf’s Backstory: Real Estate to Psychology 02:50 - John Assaraf’s Backstory: The Vision Board 07:47 - John Assaraf’s Backstory: Childhood 17:38 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 18:28 - Getting Started: Energy & Awareness 21:09 - Getting Started: Create a New Reality 26:22 - Mint Mobile 27:35 - Quince 29:07 - You Can Change 31:33 - You Are a Miracle 33:30 - Innercise 34:52 - Daily Habits: Gratitude 36:12 - Daily Habits: Connect to the Source 38:26 - Daily Habits: Having a Clear Vision 42:49 - Take Action 44:20 - Find More John Assaraf Content 47:44 - Conclusion Connect with John Assaraf: Facebook: www.facebook.com/johnassarafpage Instagram: www.instagram.com/johnassaraf Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-08-31-24&el=podcast Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at mintmobile.com/Thais Go to Quince.com/thais for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive deep into the challenges faced by those with a Fearful Avoidant attachment style, often referred to as disorganized attachment. If you find yourself struggling with intense triggers in your relationships—leading to actions you later regret—this episode is for you. We explore the roots of these emotional responses, the impact of past traumas, and how your subconscious mind plays a role in perpetuating these cycles. Through understanding how triggers work, both emotionally and physiologically, you'll gain insights into why you might feel overwhelmed and stuck in certain situations. We discuss the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses, and how they manifest in those with Fearful Avoidant tendencies. This episode also introduces the BTEA framework—Beliefs, Thoughts, Emotions, Actions—and how you can start identifying and reprogramming your own patterns. By the end of the episode, you'll have a clearer understanding of your triggers and actionable steps to start healing and transforming your relationships. Tune in for a mini-masterclass on overcoming your biggest triggers and reclaiming your emotional balance, and stay tuned for an exercise that will help you map out your personal triggering patterns. Whether you're seeking to stop sabotaging your relationships or simply want to move from a state of surviving to thriving, this episode provides the tools you need to start that journey. Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Intro 00:02:00 - What Is a Trigger? 00:05:36 - What Is Happening In This Triggering Event 00:06:14 - Emotions Commonly Felt When Triggered 00:06:53 - Fight or Flight Response 00:07:38 - The Amygdala and Hypothalamus 00:10:15 - Strain that Triggers Put on the Mind and Body 00:12:14 - IAT Fall Promo 00:13:07 - Exercise: BTEA 00:17:47 - 7 Day Free Trial 00:18:59 - Conclusion Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mg-08-29-24&el=podcast Become a certified relationship coach to secure your financial future with our IAT™ Program.   https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-live&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-08-29-24&el=youtube Follow Us for Daily Relationship Insights and Breakthroughs on Our Social Channels! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Can This Be Fixed?, hosts Thais Gibson and Mike Di Zio dive deep into the complexities of attachment styles, particularly focusing on the dynamics of dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment styles. Drawing from personal experiences and professional insights, they explore the challenges of navigating relationships, the concept of "phantom exes," and the often overlooked inner struggles of those with avoidant tendencies. Mike shares his journey from being a dismissive avoidant to becoming secure, offering a unique perspective on what it's like to look back on past relationships with a new understanding. Thais, on the other hand, provides valuable insights into the fearful avoidant experience, discussing the ambivalence and challenges that come with deepening commitment in relationships. Listeners will gain a better understanding of how unmet needs, defense mechanisms, and communication patterns play crucial roles in shaping relationships. The hosts also tackle a question from their Reddit thread about the best way to suggest learning about attachment styles to a partner without triggering defensiveness or shutting down communication. Whether you're new to the concept of attachment styles or have been exploring them for a while, this episode offers practical advice, heartfelt stories, and strategies to foster healthier, more secure relationships. Tune in to learn how to identify and work through these attachment patterns for a more fulfilling connection with yourself and others. Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:23 - Regret & Going Back to an Ex (Mike) 05:06 - Mike Now, in Secure Attachment 07:06 - Regret & Going Back to an Ex (Thais) 10:41 - Thais Now, in Secure Attachment 13:13 - Avoidants & Friends with Benefits 15:08 - Supporting FA Partners Who Fear Commitment 18:26 - Supporting DA Partners Who Fear Commitment 23:12 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 24:31 - Did Mike Have a Phantom Ex When He Was DA? 27:13 - Does Mike Have a Phantom Ex Now as a Secure Attachment? 28:52 - Being Friendly with Exes (Mike) 35:18 - Did Thais Have a Phantom Ex When She Was FA? 39:07 - Has Thais Dated Anyone Who Had a Phantom Ex? 43:37 - Mint Mobile 44:50 - Quince 46:46 - Reddit Question 47:25 - Mike’s Response 50:28 - Being Introduced to Attachment Theory (Mike) 53:25 - Being Introduced to Attachment Theory (Thais) 56:42 - Changing Others Isn’t the Answer 1:00:00 - Find More Mike DiZio Content 1:01:59 - Conclusion  Get Your Question Answered by Thais and Mike: https://www.reddit.com/r/CanThisBeFixed/ Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-08-26-24&el=podcast Go to http://cozyearth.com/thais and use code THAIS for an exclusive 40% discount. Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at mintmobile.com/Thais Go to Quince.com/thais for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive deep into the powerful connection between mind and body, exploring how our mental and emotional well-being is intricately linked to our physical health. Special guest Brian Keane, a nutritionist and personal trainer, shares his personal journey from severe health challenges to holistic healing, emphasizing the importance of nutrition, sleep, and stress management in achieving overall wellness. Discover actionable strategies to improve your diet, regulate your nervous system, and build sustainable lifestyle habits. Whether you're just starting your health journey or looking to refine your approach, this episode provides invaluable insights into how small, mindful changes can lead to lasting transformation. Plus, we tackle the common struggles of emotional eating and offer practical advice on how to develop a healthier relationship with food. Join us for an enlightening conversation that bridges the gap between mental and physical health, and learn how to apply these principles to create a more balanced and fulfilling life. Don't miss out—tune in and start your journey to wellness today! Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 00:59 - Brian Keane’s Background 06:16 - Brian Keane’s Ulcer 10:49 - Getting Started: Sleep 13:07 - Improving Sleep Quality 17:02 - 7-Day Free Trial: All Access Membership Pass 17:53 - One Step at a Time 21:13 - Diet & Nutrition 27:49 - Mint Mobile 29:03 - There Is No One-Size-Fits-All 35:26 - Prevention & Cure Strategies When Falling Off Track 39:06 - Fasting 40:28 - What is Autophagy? 41:51 - Gut Permeability (a.k.a. Leaky Gut) 46:03 - More Brian Keane Content 47:38 - Conclusion  Find Brian Online: Website: https://briankeanefitness.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brian_keane_fitness YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/briankeanefitness TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@briankeanefitness Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/briankeanefitness Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-08-24-24&el=podcast Go to http://cozyearth.com/thais and use code THAIS for an exclusive 40% discount. Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at mintmobile.com/Thais Go to Quince.com/thais for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Thais Gibson Podcast, we delve into the intriguing world of fearful avoidant attachment styles and the complex dynamics that often lead them to choose the wrong partners. Thais Gibson, a leading expert in attachment theory, unpacks the subconscious patterns that drive these choices and explains why those with a fearful avoidant attachment style might find themselves in unstable or chaotic relationships. Thais offers practical strategies for breaking this cycle, focusing on how to retrain your mind and nervous system to create healthier, more fulfilling relationship dynamics. Whether you're navigating the push-pull of wanting love but fearing intimacy, or you're curious about why stable relationships can sometimes feel "boring," this episode provides valuable insights and actionable tools. Listen in to discover how shifting your subconscious comfort zone can help you start choosing partners who truly align with your growth and well-being. If you're ready to transform your relationships and attachment style, this episode is a must-listen. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit from these powerful insights. Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=mp-08-22-24&el=podcast Go to http://cozyearth.com/thais and use code THAIS for an exclusive 40% discount. Cut your wireless bill to 15 bucks a month at mintmobile.com/Thais Let’s connect! https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices