This episode celebrates my mother’s open mindless towards friends with different beliefs and her unwavering commitment to her family in spite of the challenging work environment and hardships.

The journey of my immigrant mother in Canada was filled with challenges, yet she kept her struggles to herself. However, she confided in a few close friends about her lung cancer diagnosis, emphasizing the importance of not burdening others. To protect my grandmother's fragile heart, we decided to conceal the truth about her passing. Unlike my mother, I tend to share my problems openly, but she cautioned me against oversharing, reminding me that not everyone wants to hear everything. Despite her seriousness, she was also a fun-loving person who enjoyed Chinese cuisine, jokes, and horror movies. Our shared compassion for animals and the less fortunate reflected our best qualities. She was fiercely independent and protective, especially when it came to my transgender identity, ensuring I felt loved and accepted. Her unwavering support sustained me during my struggles with depression and gender identity. Although her relationship with my father was unhappy, the connection between us brought solace to her. As I transitioned into adulthood, I took on more responsibilities, including driving, which my mother had always handled. In her last year, she shared her wisdom and driving experiences, guiding me with her critiques and ensuring my safety on the road.

In the second episode of my memoir, I delete into the journey of identity, as my family's life takes a transformative turn in the wake of the Tiananmen Square massacre. With my mother's unwavering determination, we embark on a quest for a brighter future in Canada. I recount the sacrifices made, the challenges faced, and the deep bond forged with her mother. As I navigate a new culture, I reflected on the fusion of Chinese traditions and Canadian experiences. Join me as I explore the complexities of identity, and the enduring love of my mother.

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A heartfelt memoir, the profound impact of the author’s belated mom, and the art of cooking that played a significant role in their relationship. It highlights the themes of love, resilience, and the journey to share the important moments they had with their mother, even after her unexpected battle with lung cancer.