Christmas can be a challenging time for many and in this episode we talk, November, Christmas holidays, anxiety, grief, overwhelm and how to navigate the whole thing.To come and see me in Panto: https://www.ticketsource.co.uk/stratfordplayhouse2/aladdin-a-musical-panto/e-yxayyy To come to RESTIVAL on Sat 18th Novemberber 2023 in London / Essex: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-happy-me-project-wellbeing-london-tickets-627665262697?aff=oddtdtcreatorAs an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Pep talk on being kinder to yourself, building your self esteem and how you can do more of this.From a self development coach, who has a focus on confidence, resilience and finding happiness in a chaotic world.Tickets to RESTIVAL: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-happy-me-projects-restival-london-tickets-627665262697?aff=oddtdtcreatorAs an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

How to be resilient, how to be hardy to life without actually being hardened.Building your confidence to be resilient and walking to the next step.To come hang out at RESTIVAL: `https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-happy-me-projects-restival-london-tickets-627665262697?aff=oddtdtcreatorAs an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

We all like to procrastinate and I may well be the procrastination Queen, but sometimes we need to knuckle down and do the things. This is your cheerleading episode of pep talk that will help you to get stuff done. Pop me in your ear and let me clap as you complete the tasks. Go into your day feeling lighter and with a more positive mindset.Tickets to the Restival can be purchased: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/restival-hosted-by-the-happy-me-project-tickets-500278294847As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

The weekend is 'supposed' to be lovely and it is very much advertised as such, but what if you don't find weekends easy? What if you LOVE Monday's? Let's chat about the stories we tell ourselves and build up our positive mindset.To book tickets to The Restival: www.iamhollymatthews.com/allmystuffAs an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Life is feeling uncertain and you want to feel something solid and supportive.In this episode I will be sharing 5 tips to help you navigate the uncertainty.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

We all want to achieve our goals but are we willing to work for them and can we answer this one question I will talk about in this show?Goal setting, positive mindset and how to live a life you love.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Whether you have hit the ground running this new year or you are just warming up, its all good.In this ep we chat about doing your own thing, finding your own way and staying in your own lane.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Lets chat about Blue Monday and we are not going to be told what to do with our lives.The whole New Year, new me thing is tiresome and although I want you to use this time as a time to start fresh and catapult you to success, let's not set fantasy goals and get high off the idea.We chat goal setting, habits, the new year, positive mindset and a whole lot more.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

'If you're not scared you're not paying attention' is a line from Greys Anatomy that has stuck with me since I heard it. Fear can hold us back from so much and in this episode I give you tools to use and work through it all.I like to keep things actionable and simple when it comes to our happiness and self development but that doesn't mean there isn't action to be taken.Our fears can hold us back from being who we want to be, trying new things, relationships and having the jobs we want.Fear will keep us firmly in our comfort zone and scared to fail for fear of judgment.You deserve to feel happy and be fearless, so listen to this ep and take action.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

That critical inner voice isn't fact, it's just fear and limits, let's chat about it and work through what's happening.In this episode I will share a story about where some of my own inner shame has come from and what I do now to silence that noise.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Our brains are wonderfully clever (yours especially!) but sometimes they can really work against us. In this episode I share what your brain is doing that might be making life harder and keeping you stuck in a cycle of negativity.Learn how to support yourself through difficult times and remind yourself that you are allowed to feel happy, you have permission to live a life that feels great and you don't have to stay where you are.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Do you find yourself saying sorry constantly? Apologising for your very existence and then apologising for saying sorry too much? In this episode we dive into the topic of how to stop saying sorry and what to say instead.When we apologise constantly it is a habit and often because we are also struggling with our confidence and self esteem, this episode is here to support your journey away from empty sorry's and towards feeling strong enough to only apology when you have actually done something wrong.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Time is a manmade construct and yet we constantly compare ourselves and the timeline we are on to other people (and then shame ourselves for being behind everyone else). In this episode we throw away the clock and remind ourselves that your life is happening now and your get to decide the order in which things go.We also discuss comparison of your life to other peoples and help you to feel happy about where you are.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Hustle culture is leading to burnout, stress and anxiety and in this episode we give ourselves permission to pause and rest.Since the birth of the internet we have found ourselves spinning plates more than ever before. We are expected to be thriving at work, running a side hustle business, spending every waking moment at the gym, be great parents and look amazing whilst doing it.How about we slow down to speed up.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Being an adult human is messy, awkward, challenging and often embarrassing. in this episode we own the chaos and remind ourselves that we are all the same.I share ways to navigate feeling awkward and build your confidence and self esteem.This was based on a session I did within The Happy Me Project membership in which we discussed social anxiety and came up with ways to feel comfortable in conversations, making eye contact and dealing with conflict.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

It's time to learn how to celebrate what's great about you.I know it may be seen as egotistical to talk about how great you are but if all we hear is that inner critic we will find ourselves stuck scared to do all the things we really want to.In this episode we talk about clapping for ourselves, celebrating who we are, owning our weirdness and quirks and be our authentic self.Boosting your self esteem and building your confidence is the kindness thing you can do for yourself and will take you closer to the life you want.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Having conversations and social stuff in general can be extremely challenging for many people and in this episode I share how to hold a conversation and navigate the anxiety we feel when doing so.This was also part of a wider conversation around social anxiety in The Happy Me project membership and you can still get hold of that online workshop right now by joining the membership.As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

With the economy, cost of living crisis, petrol and Ukraine and Iran all feeling like fearful and worrying topics right now, let's look at how on earth we can navigate it all and still feel happy.I shall be hosting a business and mindset masterclass with the CEO of Mums In Business international on the 29th November and you are invited to get involved. If you run your own business and want to learn some marketing and business strategy you can implement right now to end your year on a high and learn the mindset tools specific to being a business owner (side hustle or full time), then you'll love this.The Fightback master ClassAs an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.

Try this self love, self esteem boosting guided meditation to help you build your confidence and live a life that feels great.Make sure to never listen whilst driving, operating heavy machinery (or any machinery as it goes!). Essentially, chill out, take this moment to sit, lie down and prioritise you.Maybe you are an old hat at meditation or brand new, either way you will enjoy this guided self love meditation. As an award winning self development coach, hypnotherapist, former TV actress and widowed Mum of Two, Holly Matthews has spent over twenty years studying the mind and finding ways for herself (and then her clients) to feel good more than they don't.Holly has a particular interest in helping people to build their confidence and self esteem, create realistic goals, habits and live as their most authentic self. Having lived with ADHD and huge amounts of grief and anxiety after the death of her husband to brain cancer Holly is not only talking from learned knowledge but lived experience.To join The Happy Me project membership (the no nonsense life coaching membership) CLICK HERETo get your hands on The Amazon Best seller: The Happy Me project - A no nonsense guide to self development CLICK HEREHang out with me on Instagram HERETo learn how to feel more happy and less crappy make sure to subscribe / follow and get involved in The Happy Me Project podcast.