Feb 14 2022
Chris Michael Harris: Entrepreneurship Reality
Today's guest had a massive success with his very first business. But opportunity can come at a cost. Listen as he shares with you the awesome journey of entrepreneurship with a realistic view of what to expect with rapid growth. Please welcome Chris Michael Harris. 02.03.54 How Startup U Podcast Started06.45.35 Entrepreneurial Journey19.31.68 About the Learning Curve32.35.59 Website's Name33.10.78 A Favor: The Two Things You Must Do Contact Info: Today's guest had a massive success with his very first business, but opportunity can come at a cost. Listen, as he shares with you, the awesome journey of entrepreneurship with a realistic view of what to expect with rapid growth, please welcome Chris Michael Harris, you are ready to grow your business, and I love helping entrepreneurs find success. So let's do this. I'm Damon Burton, Forbes contributor, author of the search engine optimization book, outrank and president of SEO National. I've been featured on Forbes, entrepreneur and hundreds of websites and podcasts for helping big businesses grow bigger and make more money by showing up higher on search engines, including shark tank, featured businesses, NBA teams, and Inc 5,000 companies. I'm bringing my successful network to you email@example.com. Whether success to you means financial freedom, freedom of time or freedom of the soul. We're in this together. Welcome to the learning from others podcast. Ready to show up higher on search engines for words that you can monetize, but without paying for ads, download your free copy of my SEO book outrank. If you visit www.freeseobook.com today. Chris, Michael Harris, welcome learning from others. Good to meet you. Hey man. Great to meet you. Hey, so before we hit record, he said, uh, you know, you recognized a couple other people we've chatted with and, uh, I think that's kind of something interesting that you find when you kind of dive into the podcast world, regardless of which side of the mic you're on. I think it's called that you can run into. there's so much opportunity and there's so many people out there, but you kind of realize it's, uh, it's its own little world too. Yeah. Especially when you like really niche down to entrepreneurship, you see a lot of the same names and faces kind of popping up. It's interesting. Cause like we have our own little world, but yet we have the people that kind of continue to pop up in that world. So yeah, it was interesting to see a lot of the folks in there that I write. Yeah, I appreciate you jumping on. So, you know, the drill two questions, question number one is who are you and why are we listening to today? All right, well, I am the founder of StartUpU, you and the host of StartUpU podcast started UTV, uh, and that all kind of came to be because I had early success with my first venture when my, uh, my brother and I decided to launch a little side hustle. And that evolved into a multi-million dollar company within the next 36 months. By the time I was in my mid twenties and realized throughout that process, wow. They didn't teach me like how to do this. And despite the fact that I was at a very notable school university of Georgia go dogs by the way, national champions and right now, um, yeah, I just feel like there was so little application, both in life and formal education, not to disparage those, but that actually applied to running a business, especially when it was growing as quickly as we can. From year one to year two 48,000 to $500,000. I mean, it's ramping growth, right? Not no funding whatsoever. And so I kind of had this vision of what I would do after that, that business. And it really revolved around education. It really evolved around, I can't build every single business, but I can help people and indirectly create a lot of businesses. Uh, and so that's what we've kind of started to work on with startup you, and as we continue to serve people in the online space, both in all animals. Uh, that's the, there's a big vision as far as what we can accomplish doing that. Well, I want to dig into that entrepreneurial journey. Uh, but not until I ask you a question number two, which is why do you suck at dude? I suck so bad at feeling like I don't have to insert myself into bloody everything. Uh, I, I I'm just so some of us are just so type a, we just can't freaking take a chill pill. And sometimes I get myself in trouble and get a little distracted, uh, probably is the best way to say it by just literally feeling like I have to like, not just do something, but like I joke with a buddy of mine this morning literally is why it's so relevant. I'm like, I feel like I have to assemble the damn Avengers with everything, with everything I'm doing in my life. Like, I can't let anybody take the lead. Like I have to be, you know, the driving force of it and it drives me nuts. So I'm really bad about that. So it's in business. Business and business, personal family, everybody's health around me. I mean, it's just like, don't take me to the grocery store. I'll tell you everything you want to know about human health and wellness and optimization and what you should eat. Shouldn't eat. And it's like, bro, some people just trying to eat and enjoy their food. They don't want you analyze their label for them. And that's what I do. I'm I am a food Nazi for sure. Did you realize this? Was it? When did you become aware of this problem? My whole life. So, so you've known about it. There wasn't like a tipping point where you're like, oh, damn, I need that. I think, I think there's a more recent revelation in terms of how problematic it was. Like. Like a more of a, this is actually a detriment it's not serving you kind of thing. Right. And I think also there was a lot of underlying frustrations that have been there for a long time, but not necessarily cognizant to me to address it as a real problem that it is right. It's kinda looked at it as like me being the overachiever and everything that I do. And I kind of like staked my claim on that. Like, yeah. But then as you get older and wiser, and I think entrepreneurship really does that to you, you kind of realized that you need to pick and choose your spots a little bit more strategically and the best that's what they do, right? The best of the best. That's what they do. And so I'm, I'm I always tell us, I have acquired a lot of knowledge now. I'm like, let's acquire some wisdom. Let's get that. Like John C. Maxwell wisdom going on, like that's my that's kind of the season of life that I'm in. Yeah. Let's I mean, I think this is where it's digging into a little bit more, um, you're right. Like you learn, uh, you learn a lot, but then you also learn that not everybody cares and the part that's, the part that's frustrating for me is, um, is when people ask, you know, when, when they go, Chris, I know you've accomplished a lot of things. How did you do it? Or Chris? I know you've been through this, you know, gave me some pointers and then. You feel compelled to help them because when you find success, if you want to bring other stuff with you, but the part for me that's frustrating is when you're in that scenario, when somebody asks for it and then they don't take action on it drives me insane. Yep. Totally agree. All right. So let's talk about the first venture. Um, w what did you say? The figures where you do. Yeah. So we went from launch from college department to we at one point to within 36 months, no funding. It was a, it was a residential moving service for college students during the transitional summer months and evolved into doing furniture installation for college apartments. So we kind of did a, we were kind of on both sides. We had a commercial on a residential division. And how long ago did this? Let's see, that was, I finished. So 11 was when it was a side hustle. 12 was full time. 13 was half mil, 14 was 1.2. So it was a good, yeah. Okay. Has that jaded you having success the first round of you run into, you know, cause I think that's where we're going to want to talk about next is like the entrepreneurial journey and um, I'm not, I'm not a big fan of saying that. So entrepreneurial success was locked, right? Because I think the majority of people work really hard at it, but having such a great success, um, round number one, you know, did you walk into venture number 2, 3, 4, or whatever point, and then look back and go, this one wasn't as successful or as quickly successful. So what's different this time question. Um, so it was definitely a fail forward situation. Let me be crystal clear about that because I think a lot of people here. Revenue numbers. And they immediately think like, oh man, like he's just a hot shot. Maverick business owner, entrepreneur, like just with kit. And it's like, no, no, no. I got my ass kicked. I did, um, I got, I just, I accelerated the process and we were very blessed to be in the right place. Right time. But don't dismiss. We worked very hard to achieve what we did, right. There was just a, but to dismiss how hard I suffered, how much and how hard I struggled and suffered throughout that process, uh, there was a starvation period, but then there was like a keeping up with growth struggle. And I was in really bad shape for a long time. Like my 2014 brutal. I spent 95% of my time managing cashflow because now we're working with big companies that installation work. I told you about those manufacturers that were giving us those. They're passing their, their revenue lag on to us, right? Like their cashflow management was we had to deal with because we're the last link in the chain, there was the actual manufacturer of the product. And there was the furniture supplier who we worked with. And then there was us and all of them were trying to manage their cashflow. Well guess why? At one point I was at $443,000 in 2014, when I made one, two. It's kind of hard to make payroll when you don't have, when you're not that liquid at that point when you're still so young and the banks at that point, I think they've gone a little bit better now. They won't give you a line of credit or even a credit card until you're, well-established in the world until you're a big boy and you've shown that you can manage things, but it's kinda like when you, when you first start driving a car, they don't trust you. Insurance companies don't trust you yet until you've got a proven track record. It's no different than that. Even if you show rampant. And I've got some pretty funny stories around that with the banks and stuff like that. But I really sabotage my personal credit to get that business off the ground. So like getting even a credit card, two, three years later, even though I had the proven revenues, my, my personal credit hadn't recovered. And so it was a really tough kind of situation to kind of get out of that or whatever. But, so I want to make sure that's known because I think a lot of people hear these stories and people don't, people don't tell you what it took to do that they just tell you the sunny day scenario in revenue is only one part of the growth equation. So make sure people know. Um, not you, I'm not, I'm not getting the instruction by the way. I'm just saying people listening, please. Sorry. I'm not like I was I apologize. Um, but what I realized thereafter, there are a couple of things. One don't take growth for granted. It's it's it lightening sometimes as cotton a bottle. However, the way that you maximize the probability to catch lightning in a bottle, there is a formulaic process you go through, not again. But there is a more formulaic process that you go through. Um, I think a lot of people lean into their business venture with a gut, feel about what they're doing. Maybe it's a cute and clever idea that they have, but they don't really analyze the market. They don't analyze the, the, the need in the market. Who's underserved. And, and so what I've done is try to take a more scientific approach. I call it the science of. Um, and I already bought the URL to write the book by the way. So I was thinking about doing that. I already beat you to the punch, uh, but I, but I really have kind of tried to craft the science of startups, taking all the intangibles or as many as we possibly can. Right. The failure rate in entrepreneurship is so high. I was just reading a statistic. They showed that 70% of businesses that are started will not be around in day. And I would presume that that number is actually quite higher because there's a lot of businesses that start, they never actually register as a business. And so they're just kind of, there's no statistic around that per se. Um, but anyways, if we can somehow kind of massage a little bit further to increase the likelihood of success in relation to what it is right now, that's kind of what my goal has been and learning through. Having other ventures that I thought were just like amazing ideas. Like I was involved with the neuro marketing company. Uh, we were actually using four different layers of biometric tools to actually sense a person's response to a marketing stimuli. So not that sounded like really complicated. It's really not basically we're, we're analyzing, we're analyzing brainwaves, we're analyzing what's called galvanic skin response. So we can, we can sense like how you're actually responding to something with the intensity that you're responding to it. So we were testing this on McDonald's with their, where their kiosks. Yeah, it's all in person, right? So you have somebody go in and have all these gadgets attached to them. And what it's doing is we have, we can measure how much they, well, first, if they like something or if they did it, or if they were confused. So if they went, try to order off a kiosk, McDonald's was concerned. People are not gonna to use this because it's going to be complicated, confusing versus ordering from an actual person when you go into a McDonald's. Right. So this would effectively allow you to come in order. They could cut down on that expense and like, they would just run more autonomously. The store would, right. I was like, this is a home run is a slam. Completely flopped on his face. And there was a large clever flopped on his face. Um, and there was a reason for that because we didn't analyze the market. We didn't analyze that first. We ran into this cute idea. We didn't know. I was like, is this something people actually really want that's better than the current solution that's out there. And the answer was no. And so we got nowhere with it, even though I thought it was like, this is a billion dollar idea. Oh my God. I'm so excited about it. Got it. So the, the research FOC or the kiosk as a whole flop, the kiosk is still a thing that's happening, which is actually kinda interesting, kind of a gross anecdote here, but they were testing it in Europe and they found that like every single one of them had fecal matter on it, which is disgusting. It's okay. So this is funny conversation because. I agree with kiosk that they're going to continue to proceed. But even me, I would consider myself a relatively smart person. And especially where I go through the methodical internal dialogue where I'm like, oh, what's the marketing scenario behind them using kiosks. And you know, what do the AB tests and things like that. And I still run into. User experience issues with those. And so it's interesting to see that such a, you know, cause I knew that, uh, somebody did some research and some process went behind it, but it's amazing something so simplistic in nature, which is just take your order. Um, yeah, no. So decide now, but you know, this whole comment is definitely not to go down. Discussion of COVID, but what's interesting is with all these plexiglass things and all that everywhere, that's the first thing that I think of is now it just as this wall that captures everything and it just sits there. Everything's now touch and do it yourself and walls. And I just, every time I see it, I just think of how much stuff is just there. It's great. Um, all right. Um, I want to talk about, go back to credit. So you talked about, um, you know, growth and managing payroll and things like that. And liquidity did you have to, because I think a lot of entrepreneurs don't realize how, just like you said, everybody looks at the sunny, the sunny side of growth and they don't realize the pain and managing cashflow. And then specifically you mentioned in credit. You can grow too fast to where it shoots you in the foot. And then I'm curious if you had it, you had briefly commented in passing on personal credit. So did you have to personally guarantee a lot of the credit lines to support the business? Well, so that, that's what I'm, that's what I could not get even get approved for because I, so I went to bank of America when I was starting this business. And we had like, uh, you know, we had done it as a summer kind of side gig in college and had proven think we made like $12,000 and, you know, whatever, like it was north of 10 grand, right. So we'd already proven we can make money. So I go to bank of America where I banked and the, the regional vice president of small business division at bank of America was like, Hey, Nobody's given out credit cards or loans to small businesses to startups, there's just not. So go use your, your personal credit. And then when you're making some money, then come back and talk to us. So that's what I did. So I put all this stuff on credit cards. Growth took longer than I expected, which I know that sounds really counterintuitive. Cause they just say we grew so fast, but there was a period where like growth this when people realize growth requires. Like just because you say you made $500,000 in revenue doesn't mean you took $500,000 home. I think some people have that. So bastardized this such a distorted view, it's like Elon Musk is worth blah, blah, blah. It's like Elon Musk company is valued at that, but he's not personally walking around with that kind of liquidity, nor is Jeff Bezos. Right? Like, so there's a huge distortion between business revenue, generation, the amount of capital that that's required to continue growing that firm because every step, especially when you're growing. Now you're having to acquire all of the things quickly to facilitate and keep up with that growth. Meaning you're bringing on things you're not taking affordable steps necessarily. So you have to keep up with this massive rampant growth revenue wise. Your profitability is going to suffer because of it more than likely because you're not going to be efficient because you don't have the resources you need yet. Plus now you're bringing in resources like expanding your insurance. Well, guess what? I'm in the involuntary insurance market at that point. Cause I'm a brand new company. My rate for insurance just work comp alone was 33. Meaning every single a hundred dollars I spent in payroll, I'm spending $33 on top of that in work comp, I paid, I paid bloody Liberty mutual way more money than I ever paid myself in that business way more money. So people don't know those things, they don't analyze it, which is why we have such a vanity metric around revenue. And by the time I got to the point where I wanted that credit card, a low margin business, they see that despite the rev. Now I assaulted my personal credit to try to get that business off the ground. And you know, it, even, it took six, eight months to really get good traction, six, eight months of not paying your credit cards, maxed out, hurts your credit pretty bad. And that's exactly what happened so that there was a blemish and it was like, well, yeah, you got the revenues, man, but there's still not a lot to show that you're gonna be able to pay us back because you're not even paying, even pay yourself at this point. So, you know, we really have to Daymond John Thomas when he came on into my show and he said, take affordable steps. And I, that had never resonated with me when he said that I was like, that's what I didn't do. That's what I did not do that. I wish that I had done, there were many times throughout his journey. Um, him specifically in many others that they actually would take a quick pause. Yeah. But he closed down FUBU like three or four times. And because it just like it. Wasn't the race season, or need to go back to the drawing board or like you go, you know, make money elsewhere doing this, doing that. Now here's the deal. Don't get it twisted. I'm not telling you be a habitual professional learner. I'm not telling you up. Shut down. I need to go read a book up, shut down. You need to go take this course, listen to this podcast. That's not what I'm telling you. What I'm telling you is this though, you have to understand the law and respect the learning curve because it is a massive. And so if you've got to slow down and make sure that you've got good footing underneath you, or you've got to make sure that you've got good side hustles in place for, for a period of time, that you can always fall back on if you need to, or if you need to keep that job and do this business on the side, there's a period. You can do that and you need to be full-time in the business. But I would focus on this and somebody told me this and it changed my life forever. Revenue is about vanity profitability is about sanity. I would rather see somebody make a hundred grand and be extremely profitable than fly out of the gates and make a hundred, make half a million dollars. Like we. And have Lola low margins and very little to show for it. That's what I would rather see, like selling his name of the game. I'm not, I don't don't it don't get to, don't get it twisted. That's important, but make sure you're doing it in a healthy way that you can actually be. For a long period of time and it's not going to drive you insane and cause serious health complications like it did for me, like my health spiral, because I just, it was nonstop 20 hours a day, just stress, stress, stress, stress, stress. Um, and, and you have to respect at 25, 26 years old, which I was, I didn't know what I was doing. I'm learning all stuff on the. So you can only drink through a firehouse so much before stuff starts to break. And you're just like, man, I can't like this is it's too much. It's just too much. Yeah. I think, um, there's a couple of things that I want to touch on that. I agree with the, you know, the internet and social media as a whole, we all know it has its advantages and disadvantages. Um, and I think entrepreneurs should. Share their wins, but I think that they also don't properly expose their audience, their losses too. And so it just becomes as big highlight reel and. Um, what I'm referring to is you talking about, you know, the vanity metrics of revenue because they can, there's people out there left and right. That I know are out there bragging, you know, I did seven figures. I did whatever figures. Right. You know, they may have met, they may have grossed a million dollars. But they also spent $999,999 in ads to make that $1 in profit. So, um, and, and the other thing is about the learning curve and this is something I've been super passionate about. And, um, so I I've, I've had the same business for 15 years and I've intentionally. Not pushed myself aggressively and the way I kind kinda compare it is I I've dated the S the phase is right. And if I was to generalize what those phases were, it was like, okay, the first year, it was just cool to be. Self-employed like, who doesn't want to just set their own hours and work when they want, or work early work late, whatever. So I enjoyed that part of it. I dated that moment in time and took away what I liked. And didn't like, Business relationship. And then, then you move to the next phase. And for me, that was okay. Let's bring on some more team and start, um, delegating some of those responsibilities and do it so I can focus on the parts that I like. And then I grow to, you know, two to four people do that for a year or two. And then, then it's like, okay, now I understand how to manage people. Now I understand how to balance cashflow for payroll. Now I understand the personal side of business where. I have to take care of those guys, but those guys have to take care of their family too. And so you'll learn those more intimate things. And then after that, it's like, okay, let's grow. And then you go, you go from five people that 20, and that's a big difference actually going from five to 10 is a big difference than 10 to 20 is different than, than above 30 is that's a train wreck. And so then you have to go, okay, how do I manage this many people? And then you finally date all those phases and go, okay, nothing scary anymore. So now let's shoot for the moon. And like you said, you can do that. Slow and steady, but sanely. And I think that so many people just are like, let's go from zero to a hundred now. Yep. No, I, I think that's the perfect way to approach it. And something you said that I want to highlight is embracing that, dating that season, which I like you call it dating. Um, but, but embracing that season and learning what you need to learn for that. And I think that's a beautiful way to approach it. Um, and in some cases in that business in particular, we have one, two, I had to take a step back to do things that I should have been dating, as you would say. And the previous season that I had just skipped over. Right. Because you just try and keep up with, you're trying to keep up with sales. You can sell yourself to death. So I think the general thing, and I don't want to do, I don't want to discourage people. Like, obviously people are like, well, what about this other birds? And those guys that like, they were billionaire by 30 units, but I'm not, I'm not dismissing you from growth. There's a way to do it. Right. And there's a way to do it wrong. And it doesn't mean that you can't expedite the dating process. If you want to like consume everything you need for that. In a more rapid succession or more efficiently rather, there's probably a better way to say it. I think that's possible. But the thing that you can just here's okay. Let me give you the contrary. My viewpoint was this. If I make a million dollars, I can afford everything that I need to like, just kill it. Right? Like, so it was kind of like a, not skipped a step mentality, but like money will be the. And money does not money. Didn't give me knowledge money. Didn't give me no how money didn't give me systems and processes that could scale organically money. Didn't give me think there's so many things that money didn't give me that I needed to have as an entrepreneur, to be the best entrepreneur that I could be. Right. And so, so I think I love what you're saying and how long you decide to stay in that dating phase at each one of those seasons is totally up to you, but respect that they're there. So I totally agree with that. Yeah. You couldn't pay me enough money to be in mark Zuckerberg's position. I would not, but he's got going on. Sure. A billion dollars sounds amazing, but don't want it. Oh, they've got to, to a degree. If we're being honest, where they're at now with their crazy rise, they're kind of in emergency fix PR mode. Now, like the fact that Facebook is having to literally change their name to Metta after being what they've been, where at one point they had half of the population of the world on their planet. I think it's safe to say that's a dying platform. Now, fortunately for them they've acquired Instagram and WhatsApp and you know, basically their acquisition by, they can just buy where anything is social media they want to, but they're hedging, basically everything on metaverse they really are. Uh, and it should be very indicative of what's going on behind the scenes that they're like. We're going to have Facebook as a two dimensional thing that we keep while we all also launched Metta. The fact that they're kind of merging and Facebook will be no more and its current iteration. At some point I don't expect to happen overnight. That's very indicative. It's very indicative of where they're at and it's possible that they miss some things along that growth. For sure. Yeah. There's a lot more and you, and I don't know what those things are, but there's a lot more going on than just a, a PR position named James, for sure. Represent, um, you know, one of the things I wanna go back to the image was something about, um, the, the lifespan of a business and how many survived pests a certain amount of time. Um, I can't remember the existed, the, the exact statistics, but. Um, a really interesting slide that Tony Robins gave at funnel hacking live last year. And it was something like one I'm going to be off a little bit, but it was along the lines of less than 1% of businesses last 10 years. And so he went through this thing and it was like, all right, raise your hand. If you've been in business over a year and then stay or stand up, you know, and then stay standing if you've been two years, five years, 10 years. And it was just massive, 50% cuts. That's never, ever timeframe change. But what was interesting is then you layer that with another statistic, which was something like. The less than 1% of businesses ever make $1 million now, 1 million a year, 1 million ever, ever humidity compounding. Yeah. And so you, you take the combination of most business owners, five, 10 years, and most businesses don't even ever make a cumulative million dollars. And you're like, you're like 1% of 1%. And so back to you saying the unicorns of mark Zuckerberg and Elon Musk and things like that. Go kill it. Go be an entrepreneurial success, but have realistic expectations. Right? What you're walking into. You're basically, you're basically saying like, Hey mark Zuckerberg went, won the lottery. I can go in the lottery too. Um, in all of those situations, I'm not disparaging or taking anything away. Cause they're in a position they're in for a reason specifically somebody's Ilan. I mean, I have so much respect for that guy. It's unbelievable. Uh, but to think that that every, anybody that's just going to happen, there's so many things that have to go, right. And there's so much, um, There's so much that that requires you look at a guy like jobs. I think even in his book, I think he talked about this. Um, I think there's a lot of things he missed out on in his human experience in pursuit of that thing. Now here's the deal. If that's your conviction, if that's a God-given conviction that you have to do, the thing you're doing, then maybe that's what your purpose was in this world and that you have to pursue that. And that's what. You know, but, but don't, you have to do it for the right reasons. You can't do it because, Hey, I want to be rich, famous and have people talk about me, you know, in GQ magazine. Like that's not, you know, Forbes, that's not, that's not the reason you do it. I feel like the guys that do it, they have a deep conviction, a God-given conviction. And once you find that alignment, then it, things kind of happen organically because you're following something. And I always tell people this, I don't know how entrepreneurs, uh, and this isn't gonna get too preachy here, but I don't know how entrepreneur. Do it without a faith or belief in something bigger than themselves. I just don't, I don't like a purpose of some reason. Other like that vanity BS. It's not going to pick you up. It's not, when you find you're flat on your face and you're going to find your face all the time as an entrepreneur, like way more than you succeed, you're going to fail way more. Um, I don't know what picks you up cause the money right. In my experience, the money is not what picks me up. Money's nice, but it's not, when I'm down the money, I'm not like, oh, but let's, you know, thirsty for that. It will, for a period of time, it will for a period of time. But like over time, that's why some people would just fade it. What they're doing in my opinion is because that's the sole focus. Rich and having all the vanity stuff and stuff like that. But if it's a, if it's a conviction, if it's something that you feel like you were called to do that, you're serving people because you feel like that's the way that you were uniquely designed to serve people, those people being your customers. That's where I see the longterm sustainability. That's when I see people serving and not focused on the numbers because. I will lose the quality of how I'm serving people if I just focused on revenue growth. So they have that very disciplined. That's kind of the north node as I've experienced it. And that's what I've used as my north node. Am I serving to the degree that I can not staying stuck in a mat where that particular season of revenue, but like, how do I make sure that's the core of my equation? And that, that has always been, you know, this is, this is how I keep myself in line where I don't get scattered and lose sight of the sole focus of. Yeah, there's, I'm going to be willing to bet that you agree that you go through an evolutionary process as an entrepreneur where in the beginning. There's a big part of us that are in it for material benefits. You know, especially when we're younger, it's like, I want to conquer the world. I want all the money in the world. Uh, but then you go, but then as you said, you mature and then it, for me, it became, I no longer, I no longer want all the money in the world. I want just as little as, as much as possible to maintain a lifestyle. And then spend more time with my family, with my wife, with my kids. Right. You get those base needs. Yes. You need, you know, you, you want the nice house. You want those things that support general stability. Right. But then you get wiser in, in how you can make a more positive impact on the world far beyond just accumulating financial ends. No, but I think it's good. I'm glad, I'm glad this came up. Cause I think it's actually a good thing. And it's like the, the, the grand scheme of the beauty of. I'm glad that the younger folks, if you're in your twenties and that's what is driving you right now, go pursue it. We're not telling you to act wise for the sake of acting wise, you will learn, right? Just like I'm going to put my wise hat on today. No, no, no. What wisdom is accumulated through experience, go pursue those things. Go get that nice car, go have those nice things and come back and be like, yeah, wasn't really what I thought I was going to be. It didn't feel like I thought it was. 'cause I feel like that's more of like the catalyst of leading to, right. It's always, it's always a hindsight's 2020 thing. Like I can look back and say that now, but when I was in that same season, like you're talking about, it was like, yeah, I'm going to be feature, you know, 30, under 30. And like, I don't talk about it. Like I had all those aspirations and stuff like that, but it led me to having the wisdom that I have now that, that I feel like I'm, I'm a healthier human that can provide bigger contribution to the world because I arrived at that place faster. Would that have happened if I didn't pursue the vanities? Maybe not as fast it's anybody's guess. So I think you just have to embrace the season you're in. If you're like you listen to this and you're in your twenties or something, and you're like, I don't care about any of this noise. I don't care about higher powers. I just want to go make money, do, go for it, go for it. Cause you're going to end up here. I promise you and it's going to be, you're going to be better off for it. But, but then they learn. Yeah. I mean, cause we all know these things, but you don't embrace them until you experience it yourself. You know, my wife's nephew I've been mentoring him and he's he's 21 and mentoring him for about two years. And so when he was 19, it was, it was that it was like, Hey, I want to get a new car here. Here's a picture of it. What do you think? And I said, I'm gonna answer it two ways. One is me at your age. Go by. And then the other is me at my age saying that still go buy it, but you're going to quickly learn. It's not what makes you happy? Yeah, he had. Six months before he was like, I hate this car. I hate the gas behind it. I hate the insurance behind it. And what was funny is before he bought it, I said, who are you going to go race? Like, what are you, what are you getting this far? I go, it's not impressed women. You've had your high school sweetheart for years and you guys aren't going anywhere and they're still together. And so he quickly learns, you know, it, it wasn't for him, but. But I'm proud of him for still buying it to learn that it wasn't for him. Exactly. There's an interesting Jim Carrey quote. He said something like, you know, I hope that everybody finds fortunate and fame so they can realize it's not what makes them happy. And I think that says a lot, like we all know that, but there's a big difference between experiencing it and not, um, you know, maybe the last thing we'll talk about here is just a quick comment on there's a great book by Rand Fishkin called lost and founder. I have not, I know who he is though. I need to read that one. Yeah. And so, you know, most, so if you're not familiar with the audience, you're not familiar through Rand Fishkin is he started a company called Moz, had wild success. It was like the, the VC, um, darling baby story got a bunch of funding. Um, and then he talks in this book though about why that whole thing sucks, everything that was in the limelight or behind the scenes that sucked. And it talks about. He went to exit and how to buy an offer, I think was from HubSpot, offered the 28 million for the company. And he S and he held out for 40 and, um, they politely declined, and that was the peak of MAs. And it was just downhill from there. And so he gets, you know, he just, like you say, you paid Liberty mutual way more than you ever took. Um, he was a very public. He sends kind of exited, um, Mazda is that he was, he was the face of Mars for a long time. And so I really thought he was rich and with his funny mustache. Yeah. And so he gets all this publicity and, but in the book, I wish I would have taken that payout. I wish I would've done this. I wish I, would've not taken funding because I'm sorry, friends. I can't, I can barely, you know, I can barely afford my two bedroom studio in Seattle. I don't have money sitting around to lend you. I don't have all these things that everybody thinks I have everybody else made way more money than I did in that company then than myself. And so it's a really transparent book. It's, it's much along the lines of what we've talked about, where it's like, Hey, go do those big things, but understand this is a more accurate perspective of what you're going to go through. Yeah. All right, Chris Michael Harris. Thanks for the therapy session. I'll give you that the last few moments to tell our listeners how they can find out. Yeah. Everyone on social media ad. Hey CMH. Uh, obviously I mentioned StartUp U podcast started VTV so the podcasts have been around longer than YouTube. Uh, but definitely checked out there. We do. I think we have pretty similar audiences in terms of season of business that people are in. Um, so if you're interested in, in those kinds of discussions, very similar platform in a lot of senses. So, uh, that'd be great. heycmh.com. Uh, a lot of awesome free resources there as well. And my last ask of your audience would be this. It takes literally 22 seconds to do this. I promise you 22 seconds, whatever platform you're listening, whatever, wherever you get your podcasts, whatever apps you listen to podcasts on. Make sure you go and do my buddy here. A favor, do two things. I'll tell you why. And subscribe and leave a review. Those are the two most important things you can do to help a podcaster establish more reach because that tells the podcast platforms, wow, this is a show that's worth promoting. This is a show that people should know about. So if those two things it's like leaving a tip for your waiter or your waitress. So please do that for my friend here today to help his show, continue to reach more people and help them through their entrepreneurial journey. I appreciate that Chris Michael Harris, thanks for jumping on learning from others. heycmh.com. 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