Leaving a relationship is a difficult decision and one that often arises in September. When the children are back at school and you have some space.    The thoughts don't necessarily become things but engaging with your feelings helps you process them.   My Amazon Best Selling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves The Ultimate GuideTo Getting Divorce-Ready contains a whole section on how to make the right decision for you.   You can get your copy here: https://amzn.to/47DUQAR (Audible) https://amzn.to/3KOYVbM (Amazon paperback 3rd edition) https://amzn.to/44iiJLi (Amazon Kindle 3rd edition)   Next week the Book Club From Overwhelm and Doubt to Confidence and Clarity starts and over 10 weeks we'll be exploring How To Be a Lady Who Leaves and starting your journey to getting divorce-ready. You can find out more about that here: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/book-club/   If you'd like to book a no-obligation free consultation with me to find out more about how divorce coaching can help you, you can book here: https://bookinwithemma.as.me/consultation

When you’re in a high conflict relationship I share in this episode, the challenges you’ll face (you already know these by the way) and how it’s more important than ever to act like a CEO. We’ll consider how your high conflict spouse will repeatedly try to take control of the divorce process and you. How to recognise his behaviour patterns and why it’s important to share these with your divorce support team. Why it’s so important to stay grounded and enforce your own boundaries. How to distance yourself from his narrative. Sign up to 3 Day Challenge taking place this week on 'How to Divorce Like a CEO' from 12th to 14th September 8pm UK time each day. If you sign up now you will receive access to all replays: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/how-to-divorce-like-a-ceo-challenge/ Sign up to Masterclass on 20th September 8pm UK on How to Divorce Like a CEO - Into The Boardroom:  https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/how-to-divorce-like-a-ceo-masterclass/ About Emma: Emma Heptonstall – The Divorce Alchemist is the author of ‘How to be a Lady Who Leaves The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready‘. A recovering lawyer and family mediator Emma is a divorce coach for ladies who want to make smart emotional and financial decisions on divorce. Emma has featured in the national and international media, and works with ladies around the world supporting them with their decision to divorce and throughout the process. Emma’s Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDivorceAlchemist Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcealchemy/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmaheptonstall/ Website: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/

In this episode I’ll be sharing with you why it’s so important to divorce like a CEO! Yes, you really should divorce like a CEO whether or not you run your own business, work in the C-Suite of an organisation, you’re a stay-at-home-mum or anything in between. It’s all about vision, responsibility and strategy. Have a listen. Sign up to 3 Day Challenge on 'How to Divorce Like a CEO' from 12th to 14th September 8pm UK time each day: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/how-to-divorce-like-a-ceo-challenge/ Sign up to Masterclass on 20th September 8pm UK on How to Divorce Like a CEO - Into The Boardroom:  https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/how-to-divorce-like-a-ceo-masterclass/ About Emma: Emma Heptonstall – The Divorce Alchemist is the author of ‘How to be a Lady Who Leaves The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready‘. A recovering lawyer and family mediator Emma is a divorce coach for ladies who want to make smart emotional and financial decisions on divorce. Emma has featured in the national and international media, and works with ladies around the world supporting them with their decision to divorce and throughout the process. Emma’s Links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDivorceAlchemist Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcealchemy/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emmaheptonstall/ Website: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/

Divorcing in a group. Is that even a thing? That's the question that I asked myself back in June of 2018. I wondered whether it was possible to bring a group of women together, to get divorced together at the same time. Listen in to find out how more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode I share the details of my divorce coaching in a day solution. Now a full day of divorce coaching might sound pretty full on. In my experience it's not for everyone! So in this episode I share who it’s for, and who it’s not for.  Find out more here: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/11-coaching/ To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode, we're going to talk about how you can work with me one-to-one. I know that one-to-one work with a divorce coach can feel overwhelming at first, so I offer everybody an initial 30 minute consultation. It's just as important that you get to know me as it is that I get to know you. Find out more here: https://www.emmaheptonstall.com/divorce-coaching/11-coaching/ To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/ Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode I share why you should work with a divorce coach. I explain: Who I amWhat I doHow I can help you To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode I share how you can support your children through the stress of a high conflict divorce.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

Preparing for financial remedy is always a source of stress. It doesn't matter whether you've got lots of assets or hardly any. It's always a source of stress. In this episode, we're going to look at how you can prepare for financial remedy in a high conflict divorce. To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

Not all divorces are high conflict because money is limited. Often there's an abundance of money. Ultimately, you shouldn't be struggling financially, but if you are in a high conflict situation, your access to financial resources may well be being controlled. In this episode I share details of how you can handle the stress of finances in a high conflict divorce.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

When you’ve lived in a high conflict situation you probably recognise that just before something major happens a story begins to emerge. When you’re in a high conflict situation you can never rest on your laurels. There are many women in The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, who are dealing with high conflict situations, and dealing with narratives that their soon to be ex husband has put forward. If you’d like to join visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode we look at how you can take care of yourself emotionally whilst dealing with the stress of high conflict divorce that's played out through your social media. There are many positive aspects of social media. I've built a whole community of women through the Absolute Academy and Ladies Who Leave by using it. So I'm not going to sit here and say that social media is bad. It has many forces for good. When you're going through a traumatic divorce, however, social media can be a nightmare. And in fact, dealing with somebody online in any shape or form can be challenging. If you're going through separation or divorce protecting yourself emotionally is critical. To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

It's quite probable that one of the biggest stresses of your high conflict divorce is just the realisation that your divorce will be high conflict. Now, some of you listening to this episode will be quite curious about this, because if you're not experiencing high conflict, you may be thinking that it's obvious. Here's the thing in many situations, high conflict is not obvious. It's incredibly covert. You could be listening to these podcast episodes and not realize that you're in a high conflict situation yourself. If you are in a high conflict divorce listen in and I’ll help you deal with the stress of it.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

Seeking the help and advice of experts is not failing. It can be one of the most smart and cost-effective things that you can do for yourself. In this episode I share how utilising financial experts can reduce your divorce stress. You can reduce your financial stress by getting the help of experts.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

Is your financial worthiness causing you stress? Whatever stage of the divorce journey you're currently at, listen in and I’ll help you take a step back and look at your financial worthiness.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

Do you want some certainty and direction during your divorce? If so, you need to create a financial business plan for your family. In this episode I share how having a family business plan will help you.  To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

In this episode we'll look at what you can and cannot do when you're worrying about whether or not your partner will disclose all the details of your finances and what to do if you think that money is being hidden. To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

I often talk to my clients about knowing your numbers. If you'd followed me for a while, you'll know that I always say never negotiate until you know your numbers. Financial knowledge is power during divorce.  The sooner you become more knowledgeable about your situation and in particular, the numbers, the less stressed you'll be. To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

If money is your biggest divorce stress, then listen in to this episode where I share the practical steps you can take to reduce your financial stress. To learn more about The Absolute Academy, my private online community for ladies who want to get in control of their divorce, visit http://bit.ly/aadivorce My Amazon #1 bestselling book How To Be a Lady Who Leaves: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Divorce Ready is out now in paperback and Kindle version. You can buy it on Amazon or directly from me here: http://howtobealadywholeaves.co.uk/  Social Media:Emma Heptonstall @divorcealchemy Content Disclaimer: The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article, video or audio are not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article, video or audio. Emma Heptonstall disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article, video or audio. Disclaimer: Some of these links are for products and services offered by the podcast creator.

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