Master Coach Mindset With Rhonda Britten

Rhonda Britten

Master Coach Mindset is a podcast devoted to the “Art of Coaching” giving you the tips, tools and techniques Rhonda Britten, named America’s Favorite Life Coach, has learned over the past two plus decades as a Master Coach, and head of the Life Coach Certification Program, considered the Ivy League of Life Coach Training. She has coached tens of thousands of clients, has been read, heard and watched by millions and now wants to share all she knows with you. Through humor, inspiring stories and practical no-nonsense coaching, she will up-level your skills and expand what’s possible for you as a Coach. read less

S01E02 - Your Definition of Success is Keeping You Stuck Part [2 of 13]
May 21 2018
S01E02 - Your Definition of Success is Keeping You Stuck Part [2 of 13]
So do you ignore time or results? Well, kinda. But not in the way you might think. Many times our clients believe they know the results they want but how often are those results taking them down a path that isn’t theirs? Our job as Coaches is to create a new way to define success for our clients (and ourselves) that go beyond goals or perfect situations but rather we want to create a definition of success that outlasts any relationship, any career, any project. When we do that, we give our clients a more expansive view of what’s possible including the real reason they hire us: To become the people they were born to be. Moments You Don't Want to Miss! 04:55 – How to create a definition of success that grows with you06:01 – Fear isn’t going anywhere so now what?08:01 – I don’t focus on results with my clients, I do this instead11:06 – Do you know the #1 regret people have on their deathbeds?12:11 – Broken Dreams are never lost. Listen to Rhonda’s story about how her dead dream reincarnated into living in another country and changing lives all over the world.21:57 – What does God have to do with your desires?23:31 – Question of the Day: If a potential client comes to you with several goals, where do you start in order to be the most effective coach? *** P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um   #mastercoachmindset #rhondabritten #fearlessliving #lifecoach #FLICoaches ***
S01E05 - No Such Thing as a Mistake [Part 5 of 13]
Jun 11 2018
S01E05 - No Such Thing as a Mistake [Part 5 of 13]
One of my favorite lines in the Master Coach Manifesto is: "A Master Coach coaches beyond right or wrong or bad or good because there is no such thing as a mistake.” Here’s what I know: There’s no benefit to blaming and shaming for mistakes. The same is true for withholding innocence. Seeing your own innocence, and your clients is a cure-all for reframing your past into a new present that you’ll be proud of. And even more important, you will be able to let go of guilt and breath! Moments You Don’t Want to Miss! 4:51  Go beyond the current problem 7:06  This belief limits your capacity to help your clients 7:38  Three things needed for transformation 8:48  Downfall of “I should have known better.” 10:03 Coaching skill of seeing innocence 10:45 More you know, the crueler you can become 11:59 Wrong way to motivate yourself and robot results 13:30 What if you saw your client’s innocence? 14:17 Coaching roleplay: Mistakes 17:40 Ask coaching questions to eliminate guilt, shame, etc. 18:08 Forget 10. Six is fine. 18:20 Where striving for 10 comes from 20:15 Meaning of mistake 20:46 Coaching Tip of the Day: Do you see your own innocence and do you see your client’s? 22:18 Question of the Day: “My client came to me saying that she wants to have a baby with her husband because she’s getting older and believes that kids bring couples joy and therefore, brings them closer together.” 23:35 Clarity comes when any answer to the same question is okay 24:30 “Your yes means nothing if you can’t say no.” *** P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um   #mastercoachmindset #rhondabritten #fearlessliving #lifecoach #FLICoaches ***
S01E06 - The Power of Integrated Feelings [Part 6 of 13]
Jun 18 2018
S01E06 - The Power of Integrated Feelings [Part 6 of 13]
Feelings are so confusing. They pull us one and then the other. And because of that, we stay stuck in indecision. One of the key aspects of taking our power back is knowing how feelings work and how to align our head, heart, body, and soul. When you can do that, clarity ensues bringing with it clarity, focus, motivation, and awe-inspiring wonder. Here’s line six of the Master Coach Manifesto: “A Master Coach honors a client’s feelings, yet listens for alignment, knowing that when the head, heart, body, and soul work together, that determines how free and fearless their client can truly be.” Moments You Don’t Want to Miss! 1:07 Coaching Skills are an Art 4:23 Listen to line 6 of the Master Coach Manifesto 5:27 Alignment means clarity, motivation, momentum. 6:35 Feelings either serve fear or freedom 7:33 An example of how anger is not bad or not good 9:11 How to coach: “I can’t take this one more minute.” 11:25 Victoria wanted to quit her job. I shocked her instead. 12:19 Who’s in charge of your decisions? 13:02 Preparing for the future while taking action now 16:00 Coaching Tip of the Day: Feelings are energy 17:10 Honoring feelings releases shame 17:30 When your head and heart are colliding, you’re in conflict 18:33 You can’t force alignment 20:41 When you’re not taking action, you’re not aligned 21:04 My client won’t do their homework 22:18 Question of the Day: I don't want to make any more changes. I'm good." 22:55 Anchor your clients changes so they can build a new future 23:35 When do you scale back with a client 25:50 Ask questions to double check your client   *** P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um   #mastercoachmindset #rhondabritten #fearlessliving #lifecoach #FLICoaches ***
S01E09 - The Importance of Seeing a Clients Innocence [Part 9 of 13]
Jul 9 2018
S01E09 - The Importance of Seeing a Clients Innocence [Part 9 of 13]
There’s nothing more frustrating to me than hearing a coach talk about their ‘resistant client’ or ‘difficult client.’ There’s no such thing. Here’s the truth: Your client isn’t purposely sabotaging themselves, your client isn't purposely resisting, your client isn't purposely doing anything. They're not purposely wrecking their lives, they're not purposely not trusting themselves, they're not purposely making bad choices. When you know that in your heart and live it in your being, your coaching will change forever. Oh and so will your life. Seeing innocence is THAT important. That’s why today line nine of the Master Coach Manifesto is so critical: "A Master Coach speaks to their client's innocence, creating safety and deep healing, allowing their client to trust themselves again." Highlights you don’t want to miss: 4:44 You are not the solution to your client’s problem 9:37 Roleplay: Your client is not purposely sabotaging themselves, here’s what to say… 10:10 Do not coach to urgency here’s why 10:50 There’s no such thing as wasted time 14:52 You’re client wants you to buy into their view of themselves, do this instead 18:28 Coaching Tip of the Day: “Your ability to live in the unknown equals your ability to be free.” – Rhonda Britten 19:58 “Fear can be a great motivator, but it will never let you be satisfied." – Rhonda Britten 20:16 Question of the Day: "If a client goes off on a rant and starts to get defensive, what do you suggest doing? Acknowledging it, ignoring it? How do I not get in my client's stuff?" *** P.S. Grab your Free Fearbuster Coaching™ Toolkit at http://bit.ly/2kNP1um   #mastercoachmindset #rhondabritten #fearlessliving #lifecoach #FLICoaches ***