We all know that men and women see sex in relationships differently. However, what about sex within the context of Dominance & submission, or sex within the context of a Female-Led Relationship? What nuances should we be mindful of in kink-friendly spaces? Today, I want to look at sex in an FLR – what it is, why it is, and why we should be paying more attention to it. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Today, we are going to take a look at the world of online dating for kinksters. We will review dating ads posted by Dominant Women who are search of submissive men, as well as those of submissive men who are in search of Dominant Women. Let's see if we can't figure out what people are doing right, as well as what they are doing wrong in this space. Are you curious about the world of kink-friendly online dating? Well, let's talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

When men have come to me over the years with their lives in tatters because they have been out of control, sexually, I ask a simple question: What do you want your legacy to be? Most of the time, those men will have been so consumed with chasing immediate gratification that they will not have even considered the long-term ramifications of their actions. Today, I want to look at the male legacy, within the context of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). So, let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

In Episode 56 of Season 4, I spent some time talking about a post that I stumbled across on Reddit during the live show. In today’s episode I’m coming back with a follow-up episode. The behavior of the individual in question was a bit suspect. So, I looked into him a bit more, and the bottom line is that he is not submissive, in the slightest. He is just horny and messy! Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Are you a woman who is new to the Dominant/submissive or Female-Led Relationship space, and you are trying to figure out how to get started in the lifestyle? If yes, then today’s episode is for you. Even if you are a more experienced woman in the lifestyle, but you are still not seeing the results that you want with your male partner – today’s show will be helpful for you, as well. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Do you want to win the girl’s heart? You want to gain or re-gain her trust? Do you want to compel her to love you for who you really are, and to not use you in the relationship? If you answered “yes” to these questions, then you need to put your wallet away. If you want her to love you and not use you, then I want to help you to lead with your heart. --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

I invite you to take a stroll with me through some social media posts, where I will analyze whether the men posting messages are more invested in building up their relationships with their partners or in achieving their next orgasm. Many times, men will be busy doing the absolute most to convince themselves, and their partners, that they are working hard to please her and to build up their relationship with her. However, what they are really doing is trying to get their dicks off. Let's talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

I asked AI what makes a good male submissive. Now, even before I asked AI that question, I already knew what my answer to the question was, and I already knew the angle that I was going to focus on for today’s show. However, just to be fair, let’s compare both answers and see how it goes. In other words, let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

S04E54: What To Expect When Your Guy Is “Backed Up” Once a woman sees her submissive guy being kind, sweet, sensitive, and attentive she thinks that her work is done. He behaves for a few days, and she starts to take him for granted, and she forgets all about his dick. Reminder – your guy is driven by sexual desire. So, when his plumbing gets backed up, there are certain things that you can expect to see in your relationship. --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Men, stop lying. She is not “just a friend.” Do you know how I know? Men don’t have ugly friends. They have ugly acquaintances. Men will call women that they are attracted to who work with them, are in their communities, at church, and in extended social spaces “friends.” Why? Because they are secretly fantasizing about that woman and looking for an opportunity to f*ck her. Let’s be real, and let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

This is a message for my male listeners. Some of you are struggling as you wait for your female significant other to re-engage with you. Maybe it’s been weeks, months, or even years since you experienced the beauty of open expressions of love from the woman in your life. I want to help you guys to have clearer insight into what may be happening and how you can navigate these challenging waters. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

I recently posted a question to the members in my small Subreddit group: Why do you like it so much when she is in control in the bedroom? One of my members responded with an answer that really stood out to me. His response was so profound that I knew that it needed its own show. Ladies, the man in your life needs to feel loved and wanted. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Today’s episode is inspired by more goodboy content coming in from the AlisaCoaches’ SubReddit group. In this episode of Kink Friendly, we follow the thought process of a man who submits to his wife, but who finds himself mentally, physically, and emotionally drained after a work trip. How does his state of mind during such a time impact his submission? Let’s take a look at the situation, and let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Submissive men are often times referred to as “goodboys.” In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, I want to walk you through the submissive journey of one of my followers. It is good for other men on their journeys to check in with one another and to get a feel for how the submissive transformation can occur for others. If you are a man who wonders "How do other men go from being selfish horn dogs to being loving, kind, respectable, and loved in their own homes?" then this is the show for you! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Too many men are using the act of getting on their knees as a way to “submissive signal.” It could be getting on their knees, it could be acts of services, or it could be gift-giving. Men have convinced themselves that they are serving their female significant others by carrying out superficial acts. However, these are not the types of actions that touch a woman’s heart and soul. Some men are working hard, but not smart. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Navigating the pleasure space with one’s romantic partner is tricky. Men are driven by the desire to experience physical pleasure. Women are driven by a desire to feel good emotionally. Each sex wants their feel-good fix, but men tend to withdraw after they get their fix. Women want to stay connected and keep the good feeling going. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Women are drawn to Female-Led Relationships for a number of reasons. Those reasons will determine the manner in which a woman leads, and will directly impact the overall quality of her relationship. In today’s episode, we will take a close look at women who embrace abusive behavior as a part of their so-called “dominance.” Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

One of my followers submitted a post to our Subreddit on the topic of inconsistent submission, in response to a show that I had done on the subject. In today’s show, I will walk through his post and offer my thoughts on it. Be prepared to take notes, guys. There will be lots of helpful information on true submission for you in this episode. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

In our Reddit group, a male member made some interesting remarks about how he had come to realize that his wife struggled with leadership. As a man who had been raised to take charge and to lead, he found that he was challenged with understanding her insecurities. In today's episode, we will take a look at this man’s journey to understanding the art of Female Dominance, and his role in supporting his wife as she takes the lead. Let's talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

Today, more than ever before, men are expecting, feeling entitled to, and demanding sexual intimacy from woman. No one seems to be teaching men that intimacy with a woman is something that must be earned, and  that, even when earned, it is not necessarily guaranteed. Men have a transactional mindset that comes from indulging in sexual fantasies and engaging with professional sex workers. This must be addressed. Let’s talk about it! --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches