Balancing Acts: Ways to Still thriving in your career while caring for aging parents.It is possible to do without driving yourself to the edge!In this empowering episode of Eldercare Success, we delve into the deeply personal and challenging journey of balancing a fulfilling career, or business, with the demands of caring for aging parents. Many of us face the tough choice between professional aspirations and family obligations, a choice that can leave you feeling torn and overwhelmed. This episode is Nancy May, your host, shares a few ways to navigate this turbulent time with grace, resilience, and practical wisdom.Remember, you can do this, and we're here to help. Join us next week for more insights and support on Eldercare Success. Stay well, and keep moving forward — both in your career and in caregiving.🎁 Quick Takeaway: Please know you're not alone in this journey. With the right strategies, open communication, some basic planning, and a bit of self-compassion, it's possible to thrive in your career while ensuring your aging parents receive the love and care they deserve. You can do this. If you need help or support, please reach out to me directly through a voice message on EldercareSuccess.Live. There's a tab on the right side of the screen where you can choose to send Nancy a voice message. 🔑 Resources: ✨ Key Highlights:Understanding the Challenge: We open up about the emotional and financial burdens that caregiving can impose on individuals, as shared through heart-wrenching personal anecdotes from our listeners.Navigating Company Policies: Insights into how to communicate with employers and leverage FMLA benefits while minimizing career disruption.Practical Strategies: From open communication with family and employers to legal and financial planning, we share actionable tips to manage dual roles effectively.Technology as a Caregiver: Explore how innovations like medical alert systems and remote monitoring can ease the caregiving burden.The Pillar of Self-Care: To many caregivers end up with with life-threatening health issues resulting from the stress of careing for a parent and keeping their own life and career in balance. Finding even a 5 minutes to yourself can help.Empowerment through Organization: Staying organized is crucial, both in caregiving tasks and in maintaining career progression.🔑 Eldercare Success Episode Links & Resources:Recommended Fall Detection tools: Fall Call, Emergency Door Open Locks. In-home Video Cameras: Wayze,

Words as BridgesIn this episode of Eldercare Success," host Nancy May talks with sits Dallin Candland, in a conversation that veers into the less explored corridors of caregiving, and the healing power of poetry. Dallin shares his personal journey through hardship and how he turned to poetry as a means to understand and express his emotions, providing solace not just for himself but for others grappling with their own challenges. This episode shines a light on the unique perspective of the next generation of caregivers, the universality of the expected, and the unexpected, and the power of words that can help even a stranger. Key Takeaways:The Healing Power of Words: Dallin discusses how poetry has become a tool to navigate personal, financial, and spiritual issues, offering a fresh approach to healing Art and Creativity as Therapy: In this episode, you'll learn how to tap into and address your emotions and bring a sense of power and honesty to some of your most intimate life, and care experiencesThe Importance of Patience and Presence: This conversation highlights the significance of being patient and present in the face of caregiving challenges, emphasizing how to find strength in acknowledging and appreciating the moment.Lessons from Nancy and Dallin:How to Open New Pathways for HealingIdeas to Help YOu Acknowledge and Appreciate the PresentUnderstanding the Transformative Power of PainConnections Across Generations Through CareThe Importance in Expressing and Sharing ExperiencesEldercare Success Episode Links & Resources:Dallin Candland's book: God is Trying to Talk to MeDallin's website, writings and more!Podcast: Eldercare Success (please share with those you care about)Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeEldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show. Guest: Dallin Candland is an author and poet who uses his words and voice to help friends, family, and strangers he sees who might be suffering in silence. His book

How Tragedy Strikes: The Heartbreaking Truth About Medical Decisions in EldercareIn this episode of Eldercare Sccess, Host, Nancy May bravely shares her family's harrowing experience with the eldercare system, a cautionary tale that will leave you questioning everything you thought you knew about protecting your loved ones.With raw honesty and gut-wrenching detail, Nancy exposes the devastating consequences of unchecked medical decisions made without her family's knowledge or consent. Her tragedy unfolds like a nightmare, revealing the harsh reality of a system that can fail even the most vigilant caregivers.But this isn't just a story of loss and heartbreak. It's a rallying cry for all of us entrusted with the care of aging parents or relatives. Nancy's powerful narrative serves as a wake-up call, reminding us of the critical need for unwavering advocacy and vigilance in every healthcare decision.Brace yourself as this is a rollercoaster that even brought Nancy to tears as she recorded this episode. It's her family's true story and her continued relentless pursuit of truth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complex world of eldercare, a sobering reminder that the stakes have never been higher.Key Points:Understand the hidden dangers of medical decisions, you might not know about: Learn about outcomes that can occur when doctors make unilateral decisions about an elderly patient's care without adequate family involvement.Know when to push back on medical decisions: Discover the importance of advocating for your loved ones, questioning healthcare professionals, and ensuring all decisions align with your parent, or loved one's wishes.Challenges of navigating Grief and Guilt: Understand how to cope with the complex emotions of grief and guilt following the loss of a loved one due to questionable medical advice.Eldercare Success Episode Links & Resources:Podcast: Eldercare Success (please share with those you care about)Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeEldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show. Host: Nancy A. May has gone from the Boardroom to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business owners, corporate employees, and leaders with more strength and confidence in doing well and doing good. Nancy is the five-star author of How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  and an award-winning expert in managing the complexities of caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to

Oh no, Mom's fallen and I can't get to her! Now what? In the latest episode of the Eldercare Success podcast, Nancy May dives into the issues that every caregiver worries about - their parent's falling and getting seriously hurt. Her conversation with Dr. Shea Gregg, a trauma surgeon, and the innovative mind behind FallCall will give you key information on trauma, falls, and a new way to help prevent and get help. Dr. Gregg's dual expertise as a medical professional and caregiver brings a unique perspective to the challenges facing the elderly and those caring for them. This episode delves into Dr. Gregg's journey as a caregiver for his aging parents, his professional insights into trauma and its effects, and the groundbreaking work his company, FallCall, is doing in fall detection and prevention technology.This episode should make your life as a caregiver easier, even if you're supporting your parents from 1200 miles away, or around the block. Key Learning Points:Understanding What Trauma is and Its Implications: learn about the nuances of traumaThe Fear of Falling: how fear can impede physical recovery and the importance of addressing both physical and emotional healingInnovations in Elderly Care Fall Detection and Prevention: How Dr. Gregg has leveraged technology in the research and development of FallCallPreventive Measures and Future Directions: insights into future developments, including predictive analytics to prevent falls by monitoring heart rates, irregular heartbeats, and other indicators What You Can do Now, to Help Your Parents, and Yourself. Tools that enable first responders to get to your parent, in the event of a fall, even if their front door is locked, or they're in the grocery store parking lot.This episode is a must-listen for anyone caring for an aging parent or interested in the intersection of technology and elderly care. It not will give you valuable insights into the challenges and solutions related to eldercare but also offers hope and practical tools for improving the quality of life for our aging loved ones, and you, as a caregiver.Eldercare Success Episode Links & Resources:FallCall - fall detection and prevention technology Kwikset Locks - enables fast entry into a home when you can't be there to help. Kwik-Unlock video FallCall on YouTubeArticle about Dr. Shea Gregg's work Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeEldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show....

NEVER hire only one home-care Aide: and why!In this episode of the Eldercare Success podcast, Nancy May tackles the key issues when you’re considering hiring an aide for aging parents. This includes whether to hire one or several aides and if it’s a good idea to have a full-time aide living in your parent’s home so you have greater peace of mind – or will you? There are a lot of unintentional mistakes family caregivers can make that can have disastrous results for you, your family, your parents, and even the aide(s) you hire.  This episode provides direct-to-the-point advice on how to navigate this tough challenge.  You’ll learn to make more informed and compassionate decisions for your loved ones and those you hire to care for your parents.This episode of Eldercare Success is a must-listen for anyone looking for clear, actionable guidance about key considerations when thinking about, and planning to hire one or more homecare aids for an elderly parent.  How many home care aides is enoughWhy you should never have just one aide Risks of moving a home care aide in with your parentsThings to consider for your aides as well as your parents.Eldercare Success Episode Links & Resources: Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeEldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show. Host: Nancy A. May has gone from the Boardroom to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business owners, corporate employees, and leaders with more strength and confidence in doing well and doing good. Nancy is the five-star author of How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  and an award-winning expert in managing the complexities of caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.#howdoIfineacaregiver #elderly #caregiver #getpaidtocareforelderlyparents #longdistancecaregiver #homecare #homehealthaide #carefacilities #backgroundcheckDisclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2024 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a...

How Humor and Snark Can Save You as a Caregiver. Seriously!Welcome to Doing It Best with Elder Care Success, where we uncover how to be a more effective and resilient caregiver. In this episode, your host, Nancy May talks with with Kathryn Lang, a caregiver who found strength in learning how to use humor in tough times. you'll learn how laughter - even on the darkest days - can be used as a vital tool in your caregiving journey, even amidst personal and natural challenges. The two share the wisdom of finding joy, staying flexible, and being present while caring for others. Tune in to learn about the impact of humor in overcoming difficulties with a smile. This episode is guaranteed to make you laugh, smile, and even find a new way to discover more meaning and purpose in your caregiving journey Episode links:Kathryn Lang: The Face of Encouragement when the sun is struggling to shine.Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeAsk Nancy a Question: Eldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show. Timeline Summary:[00:0] - Introduction and the role of humor in caregiving.[02:31] - Laughter as a catalyst for hope.[04:17] - The concept of focused flexibility.[07:23] - The significance of being present in healthcare settings for loved ones.[14:52] - Setting boundaries, guilt, and emotional resilience in caregiving.[21:18] - The therapeutic value of sharing caregiving stories and feeling connected.[29:16] - Embracing the uniqueness of mourning and personal healing processes.[43:30] - Unexpected lessons learned through caregiving.#ElderCareSuccess #Caregiving #LaughterHeals #SnarkyRainbows #ElderCarePodcast #HopeAndHealing #CaregiverSupport #Resilience #FamilyCaregivingGuest: Kathryn Lang is an author, speaker, caregiver, and encourager focused on uplifting and engaging through humor and hope. She aims to simplify life's complexities, encouraging individual uniqueness and purpose with a back-to-basics approach. Kathryn's vision involves cheering, entertaining, and engaging, especially within the faith community. She's known as a "Hopesmith," offering personalized coaching and workshops to help others discover their unique potential and live their best lives, all underpinned by a commitment to faith, courage, and the pursuit of simplicityHost: Nancy A. May has gone from the Boardroom to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business...

Do you ever feel overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed in yourcaregiving role? You're not alone. As a caregiver myself, I've faced those panic moments too. Caring for an aging parent or frail spouse can put us on an emotional rollercoaster, even if we're strong!In this week’s episode of Eldercare Success, I get real about caregiver stress and anxiety. I'll share some practical and easy-to-use tools, that I even use to cope when things feel like they're getting out of my control or ability to cope. These simple techniques can help you tap into your inner strength and find some calm when you need it most.I'll also discuss when it makes sense to seek professional help, and times when an hour with a therapist only adds more stress. This is for all of us trying to balance caregiving with everything else on our plates.You don't have to struggle through this time alone and without support. I can’t wait for you to join me, Nancy May in this next episode of Eldercare Success.Eldercare Success Episode Links & Resources:A Sound Bath for Anxiety and StressMurry Zelkovitch's Brain Wave Tools: Neural Agility Tool, RevitaMind Tool Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, and AfterEldercare Success on YouTubeEldercare Success, link to ask Nancy a question: There's a small blue tab on the right side of the page that says "Send a Voice Mail Message to Nancy." Click on that and follow the directions on the pop-up. Then send me your comments and questions so that I can answer them on the show. Host: Nancy A. May, Eldercare Success, and Five-Star Author, How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies: Step-by-Step Before, During, After. Nancy has gone from a career working with some of the most recognized corporate CEOs and boardroom directors to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business owners, corporate employees, and leaders on how to do so with confidence. She saved her parents from financial abuse and ruin and recouped over $260k/year while identifying poor-quality care and being able to extend their lives together by over 10 years. Nancy is also an award-winning expert in managing the complexities of caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. You can get a Free File-of-Life at www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.

Inside the ER in a crisis with an emergency department doctorthis is a must-listen episode of Eldercare Success, as Nancy May sits down with Dr. Brittany Lamb, an experienced emergency room doctor with a special interest in elderly patients and dementia care. Join us as we demystify the often-intimidating world of emergency medical care, offering invaluable insights for families of all ages.Why Listen to every word?You'll learn about the essential steps to take during an emergency, understand when to call 911 and learn how to navigate the hectic environment of the ER. This episode gives you tons of insider advice that could save a life, whether you're caring for aging parents or even if you have young children.Special Offer:As a bonus, listeners will get access to the Eldercare Success "File of Life," ensuring that crucial medical information is readily available in emergencies. Key Episode Points:When to Call 911 or just call for support: Learn to identify true medical emergencies.Emergency Room Realities: Insights into the triage process and what to expect upon arrival.Navigating ER with Elderly Patients: Tips for managing visits with elderly relatives, including those with dementia.How to Better Advocate for Your Loved Ones: How to ensure your family member gets the attention they need.What Happens if You're Miles Away and Can't Get to Your Parent's Side in the ER: what doctors can and can't do to help you in a situation like this.How Doctors Can Sometimes Help You Understand What's Next: Preparing for discussions and preferences.This is an episode that every family needs to hear. Whether you're facing the challenges of aging parent care or simply want to be prepared for any medical emergency, this conversation. This episode will help prepare you for what's next and to have better peace of mind when an emergency happens. And, yes, it will!Episode links:Dr. Brittany Lamb, Emergency Room DoctorBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After - an essential for anyone caring for an aging or frail loved one.Ask a Question on Eldercare Success: Click the tab on the right side of the page to record and send your questions.FREE, File of Life Guest: Dr. Brittany Lamb is an Emergency Room Physician with a special interest in helping dementia family caregivers achieve peace of mind in their decisions. She has worked as an ER physician for nearly a decade and has seen elderly patients go through additional stress when they and their families are unprepared for a crisis. In addition, she is CEO of Brittany Lamb MD and is a practicing physician with the Commonwealth Emergency Physicians PC in Virginia. Host: Nancy A. May has gone from the Boardroom to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business owners, corporate employees, and leaders with more strength and confidence in doing well and doing good. Nancy is the five-star author of

Caregiver 911: Three top ways to help you avoid ER nightmaresEmergencies are every caregiver's worst nightmare, but being prepared can make a world of difference. In this episode of Eldercare Success, host Nancy May gives you the top three things to do when the unthinkable happens, and you need to call 911 for elderly loved ones.From getting them to the hospital faster, especially in rural areas, to ensuring doctors have the critical information they need for life-saving care, Nancy shares invaluable tips that could make all the difference. But the surprises don't stop there! If your loved one resides in a care facility, brace yourself for an eye-opening truth about what transpires when they're rushed to the hospital during a crisis – despite the hefty fees you're paying for their care.Don't be unprepared when a crisis strikes. You can help those you love with less stress and strain on yourself too. Tune in this Winter Short Episode of Eldercare Success for invaluable guidance about how to navigate emergencies as a caregiver with greater knowledge and confidence.Episode Links:File of Life (free)Book: How to Survive 911 Medical EmergenciesEldercare Success YouTubeSubscribe to Eldercare Success: Ask questions by clicking on the tab on the right side of the page. You can send Nancy a message or ask a question to be answered on the air. Host: Nancy A. May, Eldercare Success, and Five-Star Author, How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies: Step-by-Step Before, During, After. Nancy has gone from a career working with some of the most recognized corporate CEOs and boardroom directors to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate business owners, corporate employees, and leaders on how to do so with confidence. She saved her parents from financial abuse and ruin and recouped over $260k/year while identifying poor-quality care. Nancy is also an award-winning expert in managing the complexities of caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. You can get a Free File-of-Life at www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2024 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a trademark of CareManity, LLC.#emergencycare #eldercare #caregiverhelp #familycare #familybusiness...

Elder Romance Scammers: Safeguarding Hearts, Wallets, and even Grandchildren!In this eye-opening episode of Eldercare Success, Nancy May delves into the alarming world of elder romance scams, with her guest, James Feldman a fully accredited Professional Relationship Coach and romance scam protection expert.  In our conversation, we dive into this $3.1 billion industry (as reported by the FBI). We explore the heart-wrenching reality of not just how retires lose their life savings, but also how these criminals are scamming and abusing children and adults of all ages.  There are a lot of tips in this episode that you can learn from. Listen to the end for extra details on how James Feldman has worked with the FBI, to put a number of these criminals behind bars.  He'll tell you how you can do the same should you be suspicious that someone is trying to pull a dating scam on your parent too.  Even the Federal Trade Commission (FTC)  is working on this one.  Key topics covered:Understanding Elder Romance Scams: We break down how con artists use dating apps and online platforms to prey on lonely, older individualsHow to Recognize Red Flags: How to ID a scammer's fake profile.Tips on how to report losses: and potentially recover lost funds. Prevention Strategies: for your entire family.Taking Action: Steps to take if you suspect your elderly parent is being catfished. Practical resources:  links that you should know about. This episode of Eldercare Success is a must-listen for caregivers or families concerned about protecting their aging parents from the emotional and financial devastation of romance scams. Sadly, this is a growing issue that impacts all of us. Even for ourselves! Helpful Episode Links:RomanceScamExpert.com Links to resources of James D. Feldman Romance Scam ExpertEldercare Success FB Group (private requests)Book, How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies Eldercare Success Podcast (share with friends and family)NYTimes article Retiree Romance Scams84-Year-Old Woman Loses $98K in Romance ScamElderly Man Loses More Than $2M and His Life SavingsUS Postal...

Ways you can help identify, question, and begin to resolve concerns about a love scam that might be happening to your parent.In this episode of Eldercare Success, your host, Nancy May explores three essential considerations for adult children worried about their aging parents' new love interests, especially in cases where loneliness may make them vulnerable to exploitation. This includes observation tips, and the dynamics of the relationship, the importance of open conversations about the nature of companionship, and recognizing the emotional and financial implications of these connections. Learn how to help your elderly loved ones find genuine companionship without hopefully falling prey to potential opportunists.This is a sneak peek into a more detailed and even scary episode about elder love scams that will air next week. Useful Links:Eldercare Success Podcast Homepage: Share this link with friends, family, and others who are caring for a loved oneBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Host: Nancy May, Author How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  Expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2024 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a trademark of CareManity, LLC.#theartofaskingforhelp, #angermanagement #rageandanger #uncontrolableanger #angryatdoctors #gethelpwithanger #importanceofaskingforhelp, #howtoaskforhelpincaringforagingparents, #eldercare, #caregivers, #stressreduction, #anxietyrelief #sleepimprovement #gammawavestimulation #dementia #alzheime's #alzhemiers #cognitivedecline #cognativeimpairment #wellbeing #familycaregiver #longtermcare #keepingparentshome #careingforparentsathome #adultcaregivers. Elderly Parent Scams, Romance Scams, Protecting Elderly from Scams, Elder Care, Financial Exploitation, Caregiver Relationships, Senior Safety, Elderly Companionship Scams.This podcast uses the following third-party...

In this episode of Eldercare Success, Nancy May deals with the issue of caregiver Fear.Fear is common among all caregivers. It's unavoidable, but not insurmountable. This episode doesn't just acknowledge that fear is part of the caregiver's experience; it focuses on practical strategies to manage and mitigate this fear. Whether it's the anxiety of what the future holds, the stress of current challenges, or the dread of the unknown, we're here to offer you concrete steps to handle these fears effectively.It can be easier than you might think.Episode Highlights:The Fear of What Might Happen for the caregiver and a parentThe Fear of What's Happening Now, in The Moment and how to care for your self at the same timeThe Fear of What's Next and what to do about itEpisode Links:Eldercare Success on YouTubeBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After - an essential for anyone caring for an aging or frail loved one.Ask a Question on Eldercare Success: Click the tab on the right side of the page to record and send your questions.Host: Nancy A. May, went from the Boardroom to the Emergency Room to care for her aging parents and educate others. She is the five-star author of How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  She is an award-winning expert in managing the complexities of caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2024 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a trademark of CareManity, LLC.#Eldercare, #fear, #whattodowhenyou'reafraid, #caregiverfears, #fearofloss, #fearofdeath, #fearofbeinghurt, #emotionalfear, #physicalFear, #fearandanger, #ElderMistreatment, #CareFacilities, #FamilyGuidance, #ElderlyAdvocacy, #Elderlaw, #HealthcareEthics, #NursingHomes, #ElderCareIndustry, #caregivers, #dementia, #alzheimers, #elderabuse, #eldercare #inhomecare #caregiver, #adultchidren, #daughters #daughterhoodThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrpChartable - https://chartable.com/privacy

What happens when you leave your loved one behind in a care facility?In this eye-opening episode of Eldercare Success, Nancy May, alongside eldercare expert Eilon Capsis PhD, unveils the hidden realities of eldercare facilities. Eilon, with his extensive background, brings to light the often-overlooked pitfalls and alarming practices within these facilities. This compelling conversation explores the intricate balance between profit and care, the nuances of elder mistreatment, and the critical aspects families should be aware of. It's an essential listen for anyone considering moving their loved ones into a care facility, or even helping them in a rehab facility. Dr. Capsis also shares information about his children's book which is designed to help them understand a grandparent's dementia challenges. Key Points Include:Revealing insights into the hidden challenges and traps in eldercare facilitiesThe balance between profit motives and quality of careRecognizing and preventing elder mistreatment in care facilitiesEssential considerations for families when choosing eldercare optionsEpisode Links:Book: what I learned about grandma's memory Report #1: National Investment Center Bluebook for Senior Housing and Care.Report #2: Life and Death in Assisted Living ReviewUnderstanding and Preventing Harmful Interactions Between Residents with DementiaChildren's Book: What I've Learned About Grandma's MemoryBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After - an essential for anyone caring for an aging or frail loved one.Ask a Question on Eldercare Success: Click the tab on the right side of the page to record and send your questions.Guest: Eilon Caspi, Ph.D., is a gerontologist and dementia behavior specialist. He currently works as an assistant research professor at the Institute for Collaboration on Health, Intervention, and Policy, University of Connecticut. He serves as a board member of the Long Term Care Community Coalition (NYC). He worked his entire adult life in the aging field, starting as a nurse aide in 1994 in a

Navigating the Storm of Caregiver Anger with Eldercare SuccessIn this emotionally insightful episode of the Eldercare Success Podcast, host Nancy May kicks off the New Year 2024 by addressing, head-on, a critical emotion in the caregiving journey: anger. This episode, part of the Eldercare Success Winter Shorts series, is specially designed to help caregivers manage and understand the complexity of anger, an emotion that can often leave us feeling out of control and overwhelmed, and even more angry than we were at the beginning of our day.This episode dives into:Anger’s Impact on your ability as a caregiverManaging anger with siblings and other family members Healing wounds opened as a result of angerHelping improve relationships with medical professionals makes you angryHow to restore more balance to your words and emotional feelings so you and others can more easily resist getting angry next time around.. Helpful Episode Links:How a Doctor Managed His Anger: Episode with Dr. Mort OrmanEldercare Success Podcast Homepage: Share this link with friends, family, and others who are caring for a loved oneBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Host: Nancy May, Author How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  Expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2022 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a trademark of CareManity, LLC.#theartofaskingforhelp, #angermanagement #rageandanger #uncontrolableanger #angryatdoctors #gethelpwithanger #importanceofaskingforhelp, #howtoaskforhelpincaringforagingparents, #eldercare, #caregivers, #stressreduction, #anxietyrelief...

Sounds That Can Heal: Brainwave Entrainment ToolsIn this episode of Eldercare Success, Nancy May engages in a fascinating discussion with Morry Zelcovitch, a Brainwave Entrainment Engineer, and creator of The Morry Method. Morry has used this innovative tool to help save his own life and help others with less complex issues. Their conversation delves into the potential of brainwave entrainment to alleviate stress, anxiety, and sleep issues for caregivers, offering valuable insights into its practical applications. Researchers are now looking more deeply into how brainwave and gamma wave stimulation may hold promise for those who have early signs of dementia or Alzheimer's, and other potential benefits for cognitive impairment diseases This is an episode that is quite a thought-provoking discussion.Points of discussion include: What is Brainwave Entrainment? How does it work?How has it helped Morry's quality of life?Research on Brainwave entrainment and dementiaHow you can try this yourself:      Neural Agility Lite SampleRevitaMind ToolEpisode LinksMorry ZelcovitchBook: End of Alzheimer's Eldercare Success Podcast Homepage: Share this link with friends, family, and others who are caring for a loved oneBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Guest: Morry Zelcovitch is a brainwave entrainment engineer and the creator of The Morry Method ™. Morry tirelessly produces the most leading-edge recordings that incorporate The Morry Method™ proprietary techniques into his brainwave entrainment tools. His recordings, including Quantum Mind Power and Quantum Confidence, are acclaimed by his legion of listeners. Recently The Morry Method was recognized by the Brazilian government and a Brazilian university when a major exclusive independent study of The Morry Method technology was undertaken. The findings, published in October 2009, underscore the benefits and have resulted in the further recognition of this tool and technology.Host: Nancy May, Author How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  Expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a

The holidays often overwhelm us, caregivers, especially if we are the primary caregiver. As a result, we often forget or forgo our own wants and needs.  In this episode of Eldercare Success, I give you several ways to tap into what YOU want and need -- physically and emotionally. And, no, it is not selfish at all.  In fact, asking for what you want – from your parents, your family, medical, and other professionals, can help you find more strength to continue through the months and years ahead.    It is too easy to fall into the trap of not asking for help or letting others know what you want and need.  First, you will need to stop hiding or falling into the role of a victim. Strong, capable caregivers do not do that!  The tips in this episode can be applied easily.  So, give yourself an extra special gift this holiday season, and into the New Year, by learning how to ask for what you want and need.  It’s easier than you might think. Episode links:Eldercare Success Podcast Homepage: Share this link with friends, family, and others who are caring for a loved oneBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Host: Nancy May, Author How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  Expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for an aging parent or family member, even from over 1200 miles away, or more. For a Free File-of-Life to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success.Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be taken as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek advice from your own personal medical, legal, or financial advisors as each person’s situation is different. (c) Copyright 2022 CareManity, LLC all rights reserved. CareManity is a trademark of CareManity, LLC.#theartofaskingforhelp, #howtoaskforhelpwithoutbeingtakenadvantageof, #importanceofaskingforhelp, #howtoaskforhelpincaringforagingparents, This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrpChartable - https://chartable.com/privacy

This is the 100th Celebration Episode of Doing it Best with Eldercare Success! Caring for an aging parent is not easy: it can take up much time, effort, and even money. But when your job as their caregiver ends, it often stops abruptly.  For many of us, it becomes one of the most difficult transitions we'll go through in our caring journey, especially when we still have questions to ask, and things to learn.This is our 100th Episode of Eldercare Success and I wanted to mark this occasion with something special for you and for me, too.  I wasn’t sure what, so I thought I could get some ideas from my own parents. Unfortunately, they’ve both passed on.But why give up so easily?  So, I found an interesting special guest to help. She’s a spiritual medium who has her Master's in theology, serves as a Hospice chaplain, and is also a Death Doula (I wanted to cover all the bases). I think you might find this episode discussion especially interesting. It’s one in which I share some rather personal things with you, too.Let me know what you think about getting support from those you love who’ve since passed.  Send me a note on the Eldercare Success podcast page (https://EldercareSuccess.Live).  There’s a tab on the right side of the page that will take you to the option to write me a note or send me a personal voice message.  I’m interested in hearing about your experiences and what your thoughts are on this episode (and the 99 others).  Episode links:Anna-Victoria Osbourn on: Facebook, Beyond The Veil Website, TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Eldercare Success Podcast Homepage: Share this link with friends, family, and others who are caring for a loved oneBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Guest: Anna-Victoria Osborne is an intuitive healer with psychic and mediumship abilities. Her practice is a combination of intuitive reading and energetic healing. Anna-Victoria has over 15 years of experience working for Hospice as a Chaplain and Clinical Spiritual Care provider. She has a Master’s Degree in theology and completed her Clinical Pastoral Education (CPE) at Carolinas Medical Center in Charlotte, North Carolina.  Anna-Victoria is also known for her work as an End of Life Doula and has had the privilege of being a companion to over 1,000 Hospice patients through their transition.Host:  Nancy May, Author of

In this episode of Eldercare Success, I dive into how to help your parents adjust to change(s) without it becoming a stubborn battle of wills. Most of us know that change is a constant, and quite often necessary part of living.  Yet sometimes we forget this when change becomes dramatic, such as when we see our parents or loved ones become older, trailer, or even infirm.  Sometimes their own fears, especially if unshared, lead to misunderstandings and relationship-breaking points among family members. While your overall goal is to ensure their safety and well-being, helping them adjust can sometimes be frustrating for you and them. So, what do you do when you meet pigheaded resistance to needed change?  Tune in to this next episode.  Hopefully, it will make their lives and yours a bit easier!  Key Points Include:Understanding their resistance, and yoursWays to build better relationshipsAddressing fear and understandingHow to balance your own needsEpisode links::Eldercare Success Homepage: Share this link with your friends and other caregiversBook: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity website (currently under new construction)Host:  Nancy May, Author of How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  is an expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for aging parents, even from over 1200 miles away. For a free, fillable File-of-Life go to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success. She is also the new voice of the Caregiving Network. #howtomanagechange, #fearofchange, #changemanagement, #changes, #homesales, #Alzheimerscaregivers, #stressreductiontechniques, #innovativemeditation, #caregivermentalhealth, #angermanagement, #nontraditionalmeditation, #Alzheimersfamilyimpact, #caregiversupportcommunities, #selfcareforcaregivers, #Alzheimersgenerationaleffects #DIY, #meditation, #howtomakecards, #anger, #stressdreduction, #angrysiblings, #dementianger, #hatred, #meanpeople #anxiety, #frustration #caregivers Disclaimer: The views, perspectives, and opinions expressed in this show are those of the show guests and not directly those of the companies they serve or that of the host or the producer CareManity, LLC. The information discussed should not be considered or used as medical, legal, or financial advice. Please seek the advice of your own medical, legal, or financial...

As Caregivers, we're all under tremendous pressure and sometimes that leads us to say things we regret. S#*-T happens and it can lead to short and long bouts of anger. However, anger doesn’t just happen, it grows from something small, lingers, takes over, and can blow up suddenly. Anger begets more anger.  Sometimes the parents we love and care for get intensely angry at us.  We get angry at them.  Siblings get angry at us, and we back at them.  The list can go on.Caring for an aging parent can take us all over the edge. In this episode, we dive into ways you can manage anger so that it doesn’t take you over, and hurt you, your family, your parents, or your career while caring for an aging loved one.  Episode highlights:What’s psychosomatic medicine and how can it help you?Why most doctors don’t know how to help with your anger issues?Learn how many medical professionals get caught up in anger, and how this can impact you and your parents.How a toy saved one family’s anger      How to recognize when anger is about to get the better part of you.Learn how to diffuse anger and reduce stress more easily.Episode Links:How to Stop Being Angry (book)The Panic Attach Solution (audiobook) Book: How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, AfterFree: File-of-LifeEldercare Success on YouTubeCareManity websiteGuest: Dr. Mort Orman, M.D. is an internal medicine physician with 40 years of success as an anger elimination expert. He is the creator of the “Angry No More” 10-session quick anger mastery program, and he has led more than 100 anger and stress elimination workshops for doctors, nurses, lawyers, business owners, entrepreneurs, other professionals, and even the F.B.I.  He has also been the official sponsor of National Stress Awareness Month in the U.S. every April since 1992Host:  Nancy May, Author of How to Survive 911 Medical Emergencies, Step-by-Step Before, During, After!  is an expert in managing the path of step-by-step caring for aging parents, even from over 1200 miles away. For a free, fillable File-of-Life go to www.howtosurvive911.com. Nancy is also the Co-Founder of CareManity LLC, and the private FaceBook group, Eldercare Success. She is also the new...

This is my Eldercare Success holiday gift to you who have been here with me and others while caring for your mom, dad, spouse, or partner. It's a short episode on how to get better, more restful sleep. As caregivers, we all typically have far too many worries or issues running through our minds about what to do next, or what might happen next to our loved one, and us?! For me, it's even worse in the middle of the night, and those first early hours well before sunrise. However, all of these tips and tools have helped me find some restful peace. I hope one, or all, help you too.Episode links, that I hope help you too:Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia: information from the Mayo ClinicSleep or Workout Headwrap EarbudsSoundbath Example: 3 hours, You can listen as long or as little as you prefer.Mindful and Meditative tips for non-meditatorsHow to block blue light on your cell phone or other devicesBest misting bottles for essential oils (two pack)Best Good Housekeeping Weighted BlanketsOlive Leaf Tea: Check with your MD to make sure this is OK for you