Do you ever have a win and immediately start worrying about what is about to go wrong? Gathoni had introduced the upper limit problem as written in the book The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks. The goal in this book is to accept the possibility of always feeling good and having things go well for you. In this episode we discuss the four hidden barriers to achieving impact and how we have seen them in our lives. Let us know which has been your biggest barrier.Also apologies for the audio, the technical difficulties continue! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

In this week's episode, we talk about our view on money and how our parent's approach to finances affected our outlook. We also take a deep dive into understanding what our relationship with money looks like based on the article below.https://www.wespath.org/health-well-being/health-well-being-resources/financial-well-being/understand-your-relationship-with-moneySupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

How does your education affect your thinking? In this episode we discuss our education history and the importance our parents placed on doing well at school. We also discuss the 70-20-10 rule developed by the Center for Creative Leadership. While the theory is used in organization training development,  we explore how much of our learning can be attributed to experience, exposure and education.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

Have you heard of attachment styles? According to the attachment theory, there are 4 attachment styles which develop early in life and affect your relationships. After our chat in the last two episodes, we decided to take the free quiz and share our results and our thoughts about them in this episode. As always, we encourage you to also do the quiz and learn how it affects your relationship behavior.Attachment Style Quiz https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/Attachment Style Article https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/attachment-theory-and-the-4-attachment-styles#:~:text=The%20four%20attachment%20styles%20are,considered%20types%20of%20insecure%20attachment.You can follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasi// Music by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878B//Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

We’re talking about loin springers! This week, we take a deep dive into our individual relationship history and how we feel about marriage and children. We also had a special guest, Chiku’s husband Christian, join us to share his perspective on our family dynamic and how it has affected their relationship.You can follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasi// Music by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878B//Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

At the end of season one we asked you what you want to hear from us in the upcoming season and relationships was the number one response. In this episode we talk about how our upbringing affects our relationships, both romantically and within friendships.This episode is very vulnerable. We give a trigger warning (very on brand for us) so grab your box of tissues and enjoy the episode!You can follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasi// Music by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878B//Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

Who needs haters when you have aunties? In our first episode of season 2, we start off on a lighter note and talk about some out of pocket things we’ve been told by aunties. We reached out to our followers on Instagram to chime in on their aunty stories. Join us as we discuss some of the unsolicited “umenona” aunty comments!You can follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasi// Music by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878B//Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

As we’ve spoken about our experiences, we’ve been clear about the importance of seeking professional guidance and how therapy has helped each one of us on our personal journey. For the second bonus episode, we brought Faith Gichanga, a counseling therapist to give us her views on some of the topics we tackled. Hear her thoughts on grief, divorce and the church supporting divorcees.Here's where you can find Faith:Facebook https://www.facebook.com/psychologistfaith.ke/Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@psychologistfaith.keInstagram https://www.instagram.com/psychologistfaith.ke/ Article https://www.pd.co.ke/lifestyle/making-religious-institutions-safe-for-the-divorced-140704/You can follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasi// Music by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878B//Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

So we already discussed this in season 1 but let’s bring some research in. In this bonus episode, we explore the effects birth order has on your personality based on the theory of Alfred Adler. Join us as we explore and learn more on the characteristics, strengths and weaknesses of our personalities.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

In the final episode of Season 1 we talk about our faith foundation, our disappointments, disillusionment and what we really believe. Spoiler Alert - It’s Love! We believe in Love!Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

What are some things you should do or avoid if you are navigating parenthood in a difficult season of marriage? In this episode, we share some pointers based on our experience growing up with divorced parents.Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

This week we continue our discussion about our relationships with our parents. We tackle single parenthood and the dynamics of a blended family. This episode may contain emotional triggering content.Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

This week we talk about our relationships with our parents. The episode is broken down into two parts. This week tackles loss, self identity and being an “adult child”. Warning: This episode may contain grief triggers.Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

Have you ever wondered why some apologies mean more than others? This week we did a test to find out our preferred Apology Languages. The test is set out to help people better understand how to heal hurt in relationships. Listen for our results and take the quiz here: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/apology-languageOther Links from the Episode:https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-languageStream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

We took the personality test and figured out why we act the way we do. We get into our strengths, weaknesses and career preferences. Listen to find out the dentist of the family.Links from the episode:Breakdown of Myers Briggs here Take the test here Read the article on Birth OrderStream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

In this episode we discuss our sister relationship through age difference, changes in family dynamics and moving to different countries. Apologies and healing through tears and laughter is where it's at!Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

On this first episode of the podcast, we introduce you to the hosts, explain their family dynamic and give you a glimpse of what to look forward to in the coming season.Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations

Welcome to Okay Kiasi, a weekly podcast aimed at sharing our experiences and perspectives on various topics as siblings from a blended family.Stream Okay Kiasi on whatever platform you listen to your podcasts. Please like, follow and rate us on whatever platform you are listening on.You can also follow us on social media at @okaykiasihttps://linktr.ee/okaykiasiMusic by Adri Ray - Watch Me - https://thmatc.co/?l=C9A2878BSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/okaykiasi/donations