Dating Intelligence the Podcast

Christopher Louis/ Jamie Villamor

How are you consistently the best you while dating or in a relationship? We discuss all kinds of crazy scenarios, and more. From the creator of the highly acclaimed Dating Intelligence blog, finally comes Dating Intelligence- the Podcast. Tennis pro Christopher Louis and his cohost, international model, Jamie Villamor, help give relationship advice on dating to marriage, and everything in between. Join the fun as they bring in guests to discuss any and all topics dealing with issues we encounter in our dating and relationship lives. Nothing is off limits. read less
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Episodes

I'm In Love With An Adult Star! feat. Richelle Ryan
Oct 3 2023
I'm In Love With An Adult Star! feat. Richelle Ryan
In this eye-opening episode, Christopher delves into the fascinating world of the porn industry, a billion-dollar business that has long been shrouded in taboo. Whether you're a fan or a curious observer, join us as we sit down with the industry icon, Richelle Ryan, who shares her remarkable journey in an industry notorious for its swift rise and fall. Richelle, one of the industry's biggest names, provides an insider's perspective on how the porn industry became a global phenomenon, especially during the early 2000s when it infiltrated mainstream media. With her extensive experience and expertise, Richelle sheds light on the industry's stylized evolution and how it catapulted many stars to fame. Christopher and his cohost take a deep dive into Richelle's career, unraveling the secrets behind her success, and exploring the challenges faced by performers in an industry known for its intensity. As they navigate this candid conversation, listeners gain valuable insights into the inner workings of an often misunderstood profession. Buckle up and get ready to explore the real story behind the glitz and glam of the porn industry. Join us as we peel back the layers and discover the resilience, determination, and business acumen that drive individuals like Richelle Ryan to thrive in this billion-dollar world. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode that challenges perceptions and offers a unique perspective on an industry that has shaped the modern entertainment landscape.
11 Dating Rules You Should Try To Follow! feat. Shantal Monique & Lynnie Marie
Aug 29 2023
11 Dating Rules You Should Try To Follow! feat. Shantal Monique & Lynnie Marie
Welcome to a captivating episode of "Navigating Love," where Jamie takes the lead alongside her dynamic cohost Harmony Shay. In this special edition, Christopher is out, but Jamie and Harmony have a fantastic lineup of guests, including Shantal Monique and Lynnie Marie from the popular podcast "Coffee and Cleavage." Tune in as these four vibrant personalities dive deep into the world of modern dating, sharing laughter, insights, and personal experiences that make this episode an absolute delight. Jamie and Harmony's chemistry is infectious as they explore the often unpredictable landscape of dating with wit, candor, and a touch of irreverence. From awkward first encounters to memorable romantic gestures, our hosts and guests reflect on their own dating journeys, providing relatable anecdotes that will have you nodding in agreement and laughing out loud. Drawing from their diverse backgrounds, the group unpacks the top 11 dating rules that can help you navigate the twists and turns of the dating sphere with grace and authenticity. Shantal Monique and Lynnie Marie bring a fresh perspective to the conversation, drawing from their own podcast's experience of discussing life's real moments. Their genuine insights and unfiltered stories create an engaging dialogue that touches on everything from setting boundaries to embracing vulnerability. Whether you're a seasoned dater looking for a chuckle or someone new to the dating scene seeking sage advice, this episode offers a rich blend of entertainment and wisdom. Discover how to make your dating experiences more enjoyable and meaningful, all while being reminded that love and connection are best pursued with a healthy dose of humor and a willingness to learn. So, join Jamie, Harmony, Shantal Monique, and Lynnie Marie as they share laughs, lessons, and a few secrets from the trenches of modern dating. Get ready for an episode filled with camaraderie, candid discussions, and the reminder that sometimes the best way to navigate love is by embracing the journey – rules, laughter, and all.
It Takes Two To Tango! feat. RickiLynne
Aug 8 2023
It Takes Two To Tango! feat. RickiLynne
In this episode, we explore the intricacies of establishing a balanced and healthy relationship between men and women. Our special guest, Ricki Lynne, the visionary behind Warrior Women's International, joins Christopher and Jamie to shed light on the merits of cultivating a relationship free from dominance. Throughout the conversation, we delve into the common dynamics where men tend to exert control, while women seek safety and assertiveness in their partnerships, and vice versa. The key to making any relationship thrive lies in the foundations of honesty, trust, respect, and open communication between partners. It's a shared effort that calls for compromise and dedication from both individuals involved. We break down the importance of creating an environment where power is not imbalanced. Mutual respect fosters an atmosphere where partners feel secure in expressing their independence and making decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation. Decision-making becomes a joint venture, strengthening the bond between couples. Join us as we navigate the complexities of modern relationships and learn valuable insights from Ricki Lynne's wealth of experience. Discover how embracing cooperation and understanding can lead to the kind of connection that stands the test of time. Whether you're in a relationship or seeking one, this episode offers indispensable guidance on finding the equilibrium for a truly fulfilling partnership.
Blinded By Love! feat. Kawa Mawlayee
Jul 25 2023
Blinded By Love! feat. Kawa Mawlayee
In this episode, we are joined by the insightful and candid Kawa Mawlayee, who shares his recent journey of love and self-discovery. Join hosts Christopher and Jamie as they sit down with Kawa, who bravely opens up about his struggles to navigate a relationship that seemed destined for success. In this emotionally charged conversation, Kawa unveils the challenges he faced when his partner failed to reciprocate the effort he invested in the relationship. Love can often be a blinding force, leading us to pour our hearts and souls into making a connection work, even when the other person appears unresponsive or unwilling to communicate. In "Blinded By Love," we explore the reasons behind our persistent efforts to salvage relationships, even in the face of apparent imbalance. Through Kawa's poignant story, we discover the toll that unrequited efforts can take on one's emotional well-being and how this can lead to a profound search for understanding and personal growth. In this candid conversation, we delve into the complexities of relationships, examining the importance of communication, empathy, and shared problem-solving. Our guest, Kawa Mawlayee, helps shed light on the value of recognizing when it's time to step back and reassess the dynamics of a relationship. So, join us in this compelling episode as we explore the intricacies of love, effort, and self-discovery. Whether you've experienced similar challenges in your own relationships or are curious about the human experience of navigating love's twists and turns, this episode is sure to captivate your heart and mind. Tune in for an honest and raw conversation that will leave you reflecting on the power of love and the importance of finding balance in every relationship.
Life's No Fairytale! feat. Tawny
Jul 18 2023
Life's No Fairytale! feat. Tawny
In this episode, hosts Christopher and Jamie dive deep into the realities of life, acknowledging that it's not always a fairytale. Life presents us with various challenges, both physical and emotional, that we must confront and overcome in our daily lives. Joining them is Disney princess, Tawny, who brings a unique perspective to the discussion. This guest, who has experienced the enchanting world of princesses firsthand, sheds light on the power of self-expression through dressing up and embracing one's true self. Together, they explore the significance of authenticity and self-acceptance, even in the face of life's inevitable trials. Throughout the episode, Christopher, Jamie, and their guest engage in heartfelt conversations, sharing personal anecdotes and insights. They emphasize the importance of staying true to oneself and finding joy in life's offerings, despite its lack of fairytale perfection. They discuss the value of resilience and determination, highlighting how these qualities can empower individuals to navigate life's ups and downs with grace and strength. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys and find solace in the knowledge that life's imperfections are what make it beautiful. The episode concludes with an uplifting message, reminding everyone that while life may not always resemble a fairytale, they have the power to create their own unique and fulfilling story. Tune in to this thought-provoking and inspiring episode of "Life's No Fairytale" to discover how embracing reality and being true to oneself can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Unraveling the Red Pill Myth! feat. Jamie Lynn
Jun 27 2023
Unraveling the Red Pill Myth! feat. Jamie Lynn
In this eye-opening episode, join hosts Christopher and Jamie as they engage in a thought-provoking conversation with esteemed therapist Jamie Lynn, aimed at debunking the widely discussed Red Pill theory. Together, they shed light on the harmful effects this ideology has on women and society as a whole. The Red Pill theory has evolved into a set of beliefs that perpetuates toxic masculinity and fosters a damaging worldview. Throughout the podcast, Jamie Lynn brings her expertise as a therapist to the table, unraveling the underlying misconceptions and highlighting the negative consequences that stem from embracing the Red Pill ideology. With compassion and insight, they explore the various tenets of the Red Pill theory and dissect its impact on relationships, gender dynamics, and personal growth. They challenge the notion that men should strive for dominance and control, while women should conform to traditional roles and expectations. Drawing upon real-life examples and psychological research, this episode serves as a powerful counterargument to the Red Pill philosophy. Together, the hosts and Jamie Lynn dismantle the myth of inherent gender superiority and emphasize the importance of fostering healthy, equal partnerships built on mutual respect, communication, and shared decision-making. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the insidious ways in which the Red Pill theory influences society, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes and undermining women's rights and autonomy. The podcast aims to empower women by exposing the fallacies of this ideology and encouraging individuals to critically examine and challenge prevailing societal norms. Tune in as Christopher, Jamie, and Jamie Lynn dismantle the Red Pill theory, shatter its harmful narratives, and offer a fresh perspective that promotes equality, compassion, and the flourishing of both women and men in today's ever-evolving world. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to question and reshape their beliefs for the betterment of society.
"Archer Dating App Celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride Month" feat. Michael Kay
Jun 13 2023
"Archer Dating App Celebrates LGBTQ+ Pride Month" feat. Michael Kay
Welcome to the Pride Month special of our podcast! Join us as we dive into the exciting world of LGBTQ+ dating with a groundbreaking new app. In this exclusive episode, our host Christopher sits down with Michael Kay, the Director of Brand Marketing and Communications, who shares the inside scoop on the highly anticipated launch of OK Cupid's latest venture: Archer. Archer is not your typical dating app; it's a "social first" experience specifically designed for gay, bisexual, and queer men. Michael, an influential figure in the LGBTQ+ community, discusses the inspiration behind Archer and how it aims to revolutionize the way people connect and build meaningful relationships. But this conversation goes beyond just the app. Michael opens up about his personal journey as a gay man, sharing his experiences, challenges, and triumphs along the way. As someone who now represents two of Match Group's biggest dating apps, he offers unique insights into the evolving landscape of online dating and the importance of LGBTQ+ inclusivity. Join us as we celebrate Pride Month and delve into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ dating, exploring the stories and experiences that shape our community. This one-on-one interview promises to be an enlightening and inspiring conversation that you won't want to miss. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the app that's set to make waves in the LGBTQ+ dating scene and to hear from an influential voice championing love, acceptance, and connection for all.