We all have a conditioned mind set heavily influenced by our environment starting from our inner utero experiences until this present day. Oppressive and traumatizing environmental experiences typically result in a mindset of victimhood; guilt; feelings of not being enough; insecurity; shame; unloved; fear; codependency and addiction behaviors etc. This mindset fights for your attention 24 hours a day resulting in personal painful life experiences, emotions, and outcomes. We identify as the mindset, we think it's us, remember it's only a mindset. Society for the most part agrees with this mind set. This mindset, almost entirely, goes against what truth reveals to those who value and practice stillness of the mind.