Truly Unruly with Marcus & Jessica Trufant

Marcus Trufant

Marcus Trufant, a former NFL star, and his wife Jessica Trufant present an unfiltered, funny, and thoughtful take on marriage, parenting, and relationships. With a solid 16+ years of marriage, the young parents of 5 kids deliver a fresh perspective on the challenges, pitfalls, and joys of marriage and parenthood. Through love and laughter, this husband and wife duo share hilarious and entertaining stories while giving the best advice to married couples, newlyweds, new parents, new moms, girl dads, busy moms, working parents, and everyone in between.

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Building Stronger Relationships: Tips from Relationship Boosters Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James

Building Stronger Relationships: Tips from Relationship Boosters Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James

On this episode the Trufants are joined by special guests Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James from Relationship Boosters. These licensed therapists help individuals and couples improve communication, intimacy, and connection to boost their sex life. With 18 years of experience, they have successfully guided thousands to healthier relationships by breaking toxic communication patterns and implementing strategies for a better quality of life.For more information on Dr. Carol Ann and Dr. Kia visit their website here.Follow them on IG @relationship_boosters

Episodes

Building Stronger Relationships: Tips from Relationship Boosters Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James

Building Stronger Relationships: Tips from Relationship Boosters Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James

On this episode the Trufants are joined by special guests Dr. Carol Ann Trotman and Dr. Kia James from Relationship Boosters. These licensed therapists help individuals and couples improve communication, intimacy, and connection to boost their sex life. With 18 years of experience, they have successfully guided thousands to healthier relationships by breaking toxic communication patterns and implementing strategies for a better quality of life.For more information on Dr. Carol Ann and Dr. Kia visit their website here.Follow them on IG @relationship_boosters

Cheating on Vacation: Are girls and guys trips ok?

Cheating on Vacation: Are girls and guys trips ok?

On this episode of Truly Unruly, Marcus and Jessica discuss an email from a woman concerned about her boyfriend traveling on vacation to the city where his ex lives. She noticed a few red flags lately and wants to know if she’s overthinking.

Meeting Her Family: A White Man's Journey to the Cookout

Meeting Her Family: A White Man's Journey to the Cookout

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss a listener email from a white guy dating a black woman who is nervous about meeting her family for the first time. He’s afraid her family may not accept their relationship. Marcus and Jessica offer tips on how to prepare for the big introduction.Follow @trulyunruly_podcast on IG & TikTok

When Your Mind Wanders: Staying Present During Sex

When Your Mind Wanders: Staying Present During Sex

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into an email from a listener struggling with distractions during intimacy with his wife. Despite a healthy sex life, he finds himself mentally drifting off during intimate moments, causing concern for both himself and his wife.

He Broke Off Our Engagement and Won’t Tell Me Why

He Broke Off Our Engagement and Won’t Tell Me Why

In this episode, a listener opens up about a rough start to her year after her ex-fiancé of five years called off their wedding and left her for someone she claims is “younger and prettier.” Marcus and Jessica then dive into self-worth and starting over after heartbreak.

Why is having certain interests considered acting "white"?

Why is having certain interests considered acting "white"?

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the reasons why some black individuals may not pursue certain interests or activities that are perceived as traditionally "white." They explore the idea of certain hobbies associated with specific racial groups and how societal perceptions can impact a person's choices.

Who Should Pay for Childcare When Dating a Single Parent?

Who Should Pay for Childcare When Dating a Single Parent?

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the question that has been circulating online: Should a man who is dating a single mother be responsible for paying for childcare when going out with her? Follow on IG and TikTok @trulyunruly_podcast

Preferences or Prejudice? Unpacking Racial Choices in Romance

Preferences or Prejudice? Unpacking Racial Choices in Romance

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica discuss the topic of black men with money dating outside of their race. They share an Instagram clip from a podcast that sparked the conversation and discuss potential reasons behind this, including geographical factors and social circles.

The Controversial Parenting Style: Forcing Kids vs. Giving Them a Voice

The Controversial Parenting Style: Forcing Kids vs. Giving Them a Voice

Marcus and Jessica discuss a viral video about a dad's parenting style in this episode. The dad believes in forcing his child to do things he doesn't want to do in order to develop discipline and healthy habits. Marcus and Jessica share their thoughts on this approach and delve into their own experiences with being forced to do things as children.

Love and Logic: Navigating Male Emotions in Relationships

Love and Logic: Navigating Male Emotions in Relationships

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica dive into the topic of emotions, specifically focusing on male emotions. They explore why women want to see some level of emotion from men, even if it may not be as intense as their own.

Jellyfish Attacks, and Relationship Bombshells

Jellyfish Attacks, and Relationship Bombshells

Marcus and Jessica share their holiday vacation experience, including family bonding and an unexpected encounter with jellyfish in Jamaica. A friend reaches out to Kel for advice with a shocking story that sounds straight out of a drama film.

My Boyfriend of 24 Years Wants To End Our Domestic Partnership

My Boyfriend of 24 Years Wants To End Our Domestic Partnership

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant address a listener's email about her boyfriend ending their 24-year relationship. The listener suspects that her boyfriend is going through a midlife crisis. They discuss the impact on their children, ages 8 to 20, and the financial implications of selling their recently built house.

Navigating Finances in Relationships with FinaciALLI Focused Founder Alli Williams

Navigating Finances in Relationships with FinaciALLI Focused Founder Alli Williams

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica are joined by special guest Alli Williams, founder and CEO of FinanciALLI Focus. They discuss relationships and money, particularly during the holiday when people spend a lot. Allie, who has helped many individuals with their finances, shares insights on creating a flexible financial plan and feeling confident in managing money.Follow Alli Williams @financiallifocused

Don't Yuck My Yum: Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis on Relationships and Sexuality

Don't Yuck My Yum: Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis on Relationships and Sexuality

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica welcome Sex Therapist Nikquan Lewis. She is the founder of Intimate Connections in Katy, Texas. Nikquan is a licensed marriage and family therapist, licensed professional counselor, and relationship and sex therapist. They dive into questions about relationships, marriage, and the importance of intimacy in maintaining a strong connection. Listen now for a candid conversation about love, relationships, and everything in between.Check out Nikquan’s transformational products so you can do the work at home; go to:https://intimateconnectionspllc.com/

Dealing with Kids' with Constant Demands

Dealing with Kids' with Constant Demands

Marcus and Jessica tackle a listener's question about how to handle kids who are always asking for things, even after being told no. They share their own experience with their children's constant asking and suggest giving the kids tasks or chores to do in order to teach them the value of earning what they want. They also hilariously admit that they often feel overwhelmed and "walked on" by their own children.

The Viral List of First Date No-Gos

The Viral List of First Date No-Gos

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica Trufant discuss a viral list of places where women refuse to go on a first date. They question the pressure on men to take women to expensive places and argue that it's unnecessary and unfair.

Together for 10 Years But He Won’t Marry Her

Together for 10 Years But He Won’t Marry Her

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica get an email from a woman who is pregnant and feeling unworthy of marriage because her partner of 10 years has not proposed to her. They discuss the possible reasons behind her man's hesitation, including any traumas he may have experienced in the past.

How to Recognize if You're an Eggshell Parent

How to Recognize if You're an Eggshell Parent

In this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss "eggshell parenting" and share their thoughts on what it means to be one. They question the validity of a trending TikTok term and argue that parenting is hard for everyone.

The Fear of Raising Entitled Kids

The Fear of Raising Entitled Kids

In this episode, @marcus_trufant and @jessica_trufant discuss a listener's concern about her children growing up privileged and potentially becoming ungrateful. They emphasize the importance of communication, sharing stories of hardship, and teaching gratitude to help children understand and appreciate their privileged upbringing.

Dealing with Overprotective Dads

Dealing with Overprotective Dads

In this episode, Marcus and Jessica receive an email from a listener seeking advice regarding her 16-year-old daughter's relationship with her boyfriend and the father's overprotective and aggressive behavior. While the father may be trying to protect his daughter, his actions are damaging their relationship.