I will look at the movie The Book Club with a stellar cast: Diane Keaton, Jane Fonda, Candice Bergen, Mary Steenbergen and discuss why the film falls short. The impact of the book : 50 Shades of grey by E. L. James I will talk about real love experiences, those that deependue to adversity and the tools needed. Sex matters. So does Love and spirit and the tools needed to overcome and grow from difficult events, such as affairs, illness, loss of job, loss of a child, other attractions, etc. Why these events can destroy or help deeper bonding. Tools that are needed to grow.