How have your personal experiences with loss shaped your approach to living?In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with her friend Corbin. Corbin shares her story: the emotional weight of losing a spouse, the intricate process of grieving, and the journey of rediscovering herself. Yancy also speaks to her mom to learn more about her unique perspective on death, the loss of her late husband, and her thoughts on her own mortality. This episode dives deep into the personal experiences and emotions tied to loss, aiming to offer insight and perhaps a sense of solidarity to those facing their own encounters with grief.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:[NYT Article] What to Say (and What Not to Say) to Someone Who’s Grievinghttps://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html [Harvard Article] Ways to support someone who is grievinghttps://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/ways-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving[Healthline - Not mentioned] Stages of griefhttps://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#length-of-each-stageConfidential & Anonymous Phone Lines have personally helped me navigate grief as someone who experienced it and for supporting others.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Super (s)exciting news... The podcast is back!It feels so good to get back into it! Today's episode is a check-in to fill you in on what happened behind the scenes, what is in the works for the podcast, and more.🍉🇵🇸 Yancy discusses what is happening in Gaza by breaking down key points about her field - sexuality. CEASE FIRE NOW!Sources mentionedMama Doctor Jones Youtube Video [3m30-3m53]:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxxn0SdbVWk WHO Report Cited:https://www.who.int/news/item/03-11-2023-women-and-newborns-bearing-the-brunt-of-the-conflict-in-gaza-un-agencies-warn Queering The Map:https://www.queeringthemap.com/Sound credit:Dreamland by Øneheart. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question!Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @sexedfilesTikTok: @sexedfilesFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:Sex check-list by Scarleteenhttps://bit.ly/44qkWWgMattxiv’s Instagram Post: “There’s no such thing as an LGBTQ child” https://bit.ly/411GLIV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What are your thoughts on intimacy and friendships? On this episode, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @naikachampaigneSolo Album "Painted Imageries": https://linktr.ee/NaikaChampaigneFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingArticle mentioned: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

That Sexciting is a year old! Dive with Yancy into the top moments of 2022.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow Liv’s author journey!Instagram: @oliviapreyaauthorhttps://bit.ly/cuspofdarkness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guestInstagram: @iromealotPodcast: @cthpodcastwww.shadysideup.comBook MentionedGame of Desire by Shan Boodyhttps://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Yancy sits down with her partner to discuss what feminine and masculine energy are for them. They explore how they view their partnership, why Yancy views herself as more masculine and how they grew in love.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SHAME! It all affects us in unique ways in our sexuality. Navigating and unlearning these beliefs is a journey. This week, Eleanor Gershman, social work and sexual health scholar, shares her knowledge of purity culture. Yancy is joined by Kaci Mial to discuss what sexual shame is, how it is experienced and how one can start the healing journey.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @sexcoachkaciWebsite: www.sexcoachkaci.com.comInformation mentioned:Sex Positive FamiliesInstagram: @sexpositive_familiesWebsite: www.sexpositivefamilies.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In our society, navigating sexuality can be one tricky experience… Exploring how sexual shame may have been internalized is one step towards shedding shame and approaching YOUR ideal sexuality.This week, Yancy models how to explore your internalized sexual shame through 5 questions. Grab your pen and paper, reflect and connect the dots looking backwards.This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coGoFundMe: GoFundMeSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you recall a moment or experience that led to your understanding of patriarchy?This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem. Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coGoFundMe: thatsexciting.co/gofundmeSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guests Miss MeInstagram: @miss_me_artInstagram backup: @missmeart2 Twitter: @TheArtfulVandalwww.miss-me-art.com/shopAndrea CookInstagram: @intimagetherapieFacebook: @INTIMAGEtherapieClinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Jimanekia EbornWebsite: www.traumaqueen.love Instagram: @jimanekiaTwitter: @jimanekia Ressources mentioned: The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kainshorturl.at/qrUX2What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perryshorturl.at/kmPX8 The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.shorturl.at/dNRS3TRE stretching exercices:Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTubeTRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTubeTRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Miss me yet? Yancy gives a little update on the... GoFundMe! But, don't worry. We're coming back next week with our regular long format/check-in program.GoFundMe: To this date, the podcast is funded, curated, produced, edited and marketed by your truly, one-woman-band Yancy. It goes without saying that podcast production is expensive, especially for a solopreneur... Help the project and our mission to create more discussions and content around intimacy, relationships, and sexuality.The podcast is raising fundshttps://gofund.me/a762f582Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.co Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yancy’s popping in for a check in episode and letting you know what she’s been up to for the last month. We’ll pick up the long-format episodes later this year.Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingThings mentioned:Listening line in Quebechttps://www.211qc.ca/en/psychosocial-support/helplines-talklines List of emotionshttps://www.courts.ca.gov/partners/documents/2011SRL3gNVC.pdf The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ckhttps://www.amazon.ca/dp/0062641549/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_4VXM33RP60ZBM9778DYR Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The podcast is starting the summer break sooner than announced. Stay tuned and follow us on Instagram to know when we’ll be coming back.Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Email: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingMusic Credit Used With PermissionOnly 1 from Mel PacificoProduced by Caulder Nash Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Yancy sits down with Sara Hini, a Queer Algerian-Amazigh Photographer. They discuss Sara’s journey as a photographer, what is intimacy and have a raw conversation about fears and love. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @sara_hiniPatreon: www.patreon.com/sarahiniMentions:The Four Horsemenhttps://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/Esther Perelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P964sIANSWI&t=3s Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you know what Ethically produced porn is? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with adult performer Mickey Mod. They explore the question of what is ethically produced pornography, the history of porn, and the impact of porn on Mickey’s intimacy.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancy.cheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @themickeymodTwitter: @themickeymodOnlyFans: @themickeymodSource mentioned: Your Guide To Ethical Porn: What Makes It Different & Where To Find Ithttps://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn **Correction: Cinematographic images date from the late 1800s. Not early 1900s :-)! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When was the last time you reflected on your sexual desires? Specifically, about the different pathways to sexual arousal? This week, Yancy passes the mic to Maya Glenn for a check-in episode. Maya invites you to ponder on what makes you feel turned on and to do so in an explorative and mind-expanding way.This episode does not substitute seeking mental health services. If you need support, we encourage you to reach out to a professional or a recognized community group in your area.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @intimacywithmayaTwitter: @mayac_glenn Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What did your caregivers tell you about sex? Did you ever have a sex talk at home?This week, Yancy and Preach talk about the Sex talk he had at home, his relationship with his sibling and how the sex talk goes down in his men group. Yancy was also joined by her cousin Mike Martial that shared his sex talk growing up, the one he had with his son and pornography.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Instagram: @kingpreachthepettyYouTube: @abaandpreachPodcast: @abavspreach & @lesfallopes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What relationship structure do you adhere to? Monogamy? Open relationships? Polyamory? This week Yancy is joined by Carole to discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy. They explore what is Carole’s ideal relationship structure, how jealousy plays out and the importance of taking ownership of one’s emotions and healing.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest CaroleInstagram: @blackartbymeBooks mentioned:The Ethical Sluthttps://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamyhttps://www.amazon.ca/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987 Ethical Non-Monogamous structures definitions.  https://shrimpteeth.com/structures Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is flirting selfish? This week, Yancy is joined with Jared Brady for an explicit discussion on flirting. Tune in to this raw and honest conversation on what is Jared’s definition of flirting, our flirting types as well as relationship styles and how to keep the spark alive in a marriage.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Jared!Instagram: @enjoyjaredbradyEnjoy The Podcast on YouTubewww.youtube.com/c/Enjoy248 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.