Mad.In.Love

Marriage Recovery Center

Join best-selling author and relationship expert Dr. David Hawkins as he unveils the truth about the complicated and challenging aspects of love and war in relationships. He addresses issues that so many couples are struggling with but are not able to get effective help for, things like narcissism, emotional, spiritual and financial abuse, secondary abuse and the church, trauma, sex addiction, divorce, separation and more. Tune in now to gain insight and practical advice on how to bring health and healing to your relationship. read less
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Episodes

Defend Young Minds
Mar 5 2024
Defend Young Minds
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins invites Kristen Jenson, the founder of Defend Young Minds and the acclaimed author behind a movement to protect children in the digital age. Kristen's commitment to safeguarding young minds from the dangers of internet pornography is both inspiring and essential in today's tech-savvy world.Kristen opens up about the compelling reasons that drove her to address such a challenging topic through her literature, aimed at empowering children with knowledge and resilience. She underscores the importance of parents initiating conversations about internet safety early on, providing practical advice on how to approach this delicate subject without inciting unnecessary curiosity.As digital devices become increasingly ubiquitous in children's lives, Kristen emphasizes the critical role of filters and vigilance in preventing exposure to harmful content. She also confronts the stark reality of pornography addiction among youths, drawing parallels to chemical dependencies and highlighting the broader spectrum of negative impacts, from psychological harm to the potential for increased aggression.Delving deeper, Kristen explores the disturbing connections between pornography and grave issues like child sexual abuse and trafficking, offering insights into the dark underbelly of easily accessible online content. For parents facing the aftermath of exposure, she advises on constructive steps to mitigate the damage and fortify their children's mental and emotional defenses.Kristen introduces the Brain Defense: Digital Safety curriculum, a comprehensive educational toolkit designed to arm children with the skills to navigate the online world safely. Beyond her books and curriculum, Kristen reveals additional resources available on DefendYoungMinds.com, aimed at supporting parents and educators in their quest to create a safer digital environment for children.This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone invested in the well-being of the next generation, offering valuable strategies, resources, and hope in the face of daunting digital challenges.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
I Used To Be
Feb 20 2024
I Used To Be
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, we are honored to host Chuck and Ashley Elliott, a couple whose life work has touched many hearts through their engaging content and impactful collaborations with platforms like YouVersion and RightNow Media. As a pastor and a licensed counselor, respectively, their journey is one of faith, resilience, and profound insights into relational success and navigating grief.Today, Chuck and Ashley open up about the inspiration behind their poignant book, 'I Used to Be___,' sharing personal stories of vulnerability, including their own experience with miscarriage, and the challenging path towards healing and trust in God amidst profound loss. They delve into the complexities of grief, addressing the deceptive nature of grief-induced lies, and offering solace through the power of God's Word.The discussion explores the concept of 'switch theory' as a tool for managing grief, alongside practical advice for those struggling to find their way after a loss. Ashley provides professional guidance on supporting grieving loved ones, while Chuck shares pastoral wisdom on moving forward with faith.Further, the Elliotts discuss the importance of vulnerability in healing, the impact of grief on intimate relationships, and the necessity of developing new skills to navigate loss. They emphasize the often-overlooked lasting effects of grief and provide listeners with strategies to recognize and address these impacts.If you're seeking a path through grief or looking to support someone in their journey, this episode offers invaluable insights and encouragement. Chuck and Ashley's final words of encouragement and information on how to connect with them and access their book promise to leave listeners with hope and practical steps for moving forward.Join us on Mad.In.Love for an episode that promises not just to inform but to transform your approach to grief and healing.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
Unlocking Confidence and Charisma in Dating with Kimmy Seltzer
Jan 30 2024
Unlocking Confidence and Charisma in Dating with Kimmy Seltzer
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins, we're thrilled to introduce Kimmy Seltzer, a renowned Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. Kimmy's groundbreaking "confidence makeover" process has revolutionized the way individuals approach dating and relationships, helping countless people around the globe find true love and connection.Join us as Kimmy delves into her unique methodology, sharing the development of "The Charisma Quotient" and offering actionable tips to enhance self-confidence and allure in dating and beyond. She explores the profound impact of personal style and wardrobe on one's self-image and appeal, shedding light on the pivotal role of body language and first impressions in social interactions.Throughout the episode, Kimmy recounts her extensive experience as a speaker, dating coach, and matchmaker, highlighting key factors that forge lasting and meaningful bonds. She reflects on her journey to becoming a recognized authority in her field, from captivating appearances in media and publications to her engaging podcast, "The Charisma Quotient."Drawing from her involvement in dating shows and radio segments, Kimmy reveals how these platforms have enriched her work and connection with her audience. In closing, she offers invaluable advice for those aspiring to invigorate their dating life and forge enduring relationships, along with recommended resources and strategies.Don't miss this insightful episode, where Kimmy Seltzer shares her expertise on building confidence, navigating the dating world, and creating authentic connections.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
Restoring Hope with Dr. Robert Burbee
Jan 16 2024
Restoring Hope with Dr. Robert Burbee
In this episode, we were honored to have Dr. Bob Burbee, a seasoned licensed psychologist with over 37 years of experience. Specializing in working with individuals, couples, families, and groups, Dr. Burbee brings a wealth of knowledge and insight into the dynamics of relationships.As a key therapist at the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute (FMI), he leads both Group and Private Marriage Intensives, in addition to training other therapists in Focus Marital Therapy. His involvement in Intensive programs dates back to 2000, making him a pioneer in this area. Dr. Burbee has also been an educator, teaching both undergraduate and graduate courses in psychology.Marriage and family issues are Dr. Burbee’s forte, and he frequently shares his expertise through seminars, retreats, and workshops. Alongside his professional endeavors, he and his wife, Mary Jo, are deeply invested in their church's children and family ministries, and they also facilitate adult education sessions. They are proud parents of four grown children and currently reside in Springfield, Missouri.Join us in this enlightening episode as Dr. Burbee shares his invaluable perspectives on marriage, family, and the power of intensive therapy.https://hoperestored.focusonthefamily.com/Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
Adult Children Who Break Your Heart
Jan 2 2024
Adult Children Who Break Your Heart
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center, we welcome back Dr. David Clarke, a Christian psychologist with over 35 years of experience. Dr. Clarke joins us to discuss his latest book, 'Adult Children Who Break Your Heart,' a follow-up to his renowned work, 'Enough is Enough!'Throughout the episode, Dr. Clarke delves into the intricate dynamics of dealing with adult prodigals. He begins by defining what constitutes a prodigal in today's context and explores the reasons behind the increasing number of adult prodigals. Addressing the challenges faced by many parents, Dr. Clarke offers insights into overcoming guilt and managing relationships with unsupportive spouses in the face of familial strife.Dr. Clarke introduces 'Strategic Truth Statements,' a tool for parents to navigate the emotional and psychological challenges they face. The episode rounds off with an overview of the 10 specific prodigal scenarios covered in his book, providing listeners with practical guidance and hope for reconciliation and healing.For anyone grappling with the pain and complexity of strained relationships with adult children, this episode offers a blend of empathy, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
Spiritual Bypassing
Dec 19 2023
Spiritual Bypassing
Join us in Episode 9 of 'Mad.In.Love' with your host Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center and Emotional Abuse Institute. In this episode, we welcome Sharmen Kimbrough, one of our distinguished clinicians, as we delve into the intricate and often misunderstood concept of 'Spiritual Bypassing.'Sharmen brings her expertise and enthusiasm to the table, unpacking what spiritual bypassing truly means. Through a series of examples and anecdotal stories, we explore how this phenomenon can unintentionally hinder the counseling process and obstruct therapeutic change.The discussion also navigates the differences between spiritual bypassing and spiritual abuse, providing clarity on these closely related yet distinct concepts. Additionally, Sharmen shares valuable tools and strategies for effectively confronting and dealing with spiritual bypassing.This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the subtle complexities of spirituality within the therapeutic context. Tune in for an insightful journey into the realm of spiritual health and emotional well-being.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
Narcissism and Sex Addiction
Nov 7 2023
Narcissism and Sex Addiction
Welcome to the Mad.In.Love podcast! For those who are new, I’d like to quickly introduce myself. I’m Dr. David Hawkins, I'm the Clinical Director of The Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples overcome emotional abuse to engage in healthy relationships. Over the years as a therapist, I’ve worked with a lot of couples who struggle with emotional intimacy and sex addiction. My field happens to specialize in clients with narcissistic traits and I’m finding that a vast percentage of those clients tend to struggle with sex addiction. I want to spend some time today discussing this idea of Narcissism and Sex Addiction, so I’ve invited a special guest to help navigate this conversation.  Today we are joined by Dr. Greg Miller from the Faithful and True counseling center that specializes in the treatment of sexual addiction! He is the director of the Men’s Journey Workshops and is the host of the Faithful and True Podcast. Welcome Dr. Greg Miller! Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email info@marriagerecoverycenter.com ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***