#DefineYourself Podcast

#DefineYourself

The #DefineYourself Podcast empowers YOU in the disabled community to overcome YOUR COALS: challenges, obstacles, adversities, limitations and setbacks while equipping and empowering YOU to achieve YOUR GOALS for success in YOUR professional, academic and personal lives read less
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Overcoming childhood sexual abuse with Anthea McCarten
Apr 19 2022
Overcoming childhood sexual abuse with Anthea McCarten
Anthea McCarten shares her story about being sexually abused by a family member from the age of seven until she was twelve years old.McCarten shares her experiences being sexually abused for five years, how it ended and how she broke her silence and told others about what had happened to her.McCarten shares how she felt as she prepared to tell her parents, their reactions, and how she felt after breaking the news to mom and dad.McCarten reckons the reaction her abuser had when he was confronted by her family and how she felt after the secret had been shared within her family.McCarten talks about how this experience affected her teenage years, including dating, and her life afterwards – including depression, lack of self-worth and feeling that she was ugly and no man would want her, and a suicide attempt.You can purchase Anthea McCarten’s book, Shhh…How Childhood Sexual Abusive Almost Stole My Sanity and How I Overcame The Past from Amazon by going to https://www.amazon.com/Shh-Childhood-Sexual-Almost-Overcame-ebook/dp/B09SV659CJ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2X3JT7S5NR3R6&keywords=Anthea+McCarten&qid=1650289899&sprefix=anthea+mccarten%2Caps%2C112&sr=8-1  You can connect with Anthea McCarten on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/anthea-mccarten-017659111/, on Instagram at either https://www.instagram.com/restore_the_gears/ or at https://www.instagram.com/redheadbikerchick/ and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/publicspeakerandauthorJoin the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
Overcoming Bipolar, Coming Out and Finding Love With Brad Shreve
Apr 12 2022
Overcoming Bipolar, Coming Out and Finding Love With Brad Shreve
If you looked at Brad Shreve when he was an executive at a major hotel chain with an office with a nice window and a secretary, many would think he was the living definition of success.Importantly images can be deceiving.  Brad was miserable and he was not sure why.  Although had had recently came out at the time, Brad did not know he had bipolar II and did not know it.In Brad’s own words, “I did some crazy stuff”.  He made some choices including partying with subordinates and often late to work.  He was on the verge of losing his job when he decided to quit with no idea what he was going to do.Brad marriage to his wife ended.   He moved from Northern California to Southern California, and he started to fully explore and embrace his sexual orientation. Brad got into a dangerous relationship with a man who was both emotionally and physically abusiveBrad shares on this episode of the podcast his story of accepting who he is sexually, and his battles with alcohol and cocaine and how he battled his mental health problems from his bipolar disorder, both before it was diagnosed and after.Brad has been clean and sober since 2003.  He is one half of a happy marriage with his husband.  Brad is the author of Mitchell Riley’s mysteries series and the host of the podcast, Queer Writer of Crime.You can purchase Brad’s book, A Body in the Bathhouse, from Amazon by going to https://www.amazon.com/Body-Bathhouse-Mitch-OReilly-Mystery/dp/B08PP9ZJ6X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=330YB3KMANHZ4&keywords=brad+shreve&qid=1647618730&sprefix=brad+shreve%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-1 and A Body on the Hill from Amazon by going to https://www.amazon.com/Body-Hill-Mitch-OReilly-Mystery/dp/B09314JKZP/ref=sr_1_2?crid=330YB3KMANHZ4&keywords=brad+shreve&qid=1647618777&sprefix=brad+shreve%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-2You can connect with Brad by vesting https://bradshreve.com/ or https://www.queerwritersofcrime.com/·        Trevor Project - https://www.thetrevorproject.org/  866-488-7386  Text: 678678Join the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
The One-Handed Sewing Man Qaysean Williams
Mar 29 2022
The One-Handed Sewing Man Qaysean Williams
Having been injured at birth and developing Erbs Palsy Qaysean Williams left arm has limitations including his left hand is useless.His injury has prevented him from playing in sports growing up, riding roll coasters without looks from those who operate the rides, and to this day he still struggles tying his own shoes.Qaysean’s injury may have caused him some self-esteem issues and feelings of worthlessness.  His injury lead to him being called named and picked on by his peers in school.  He internalized the pain he was feeling from the cruel words of his classmates.He knew the words of his classmates were damaging him so he decided to do something about it.He decided to give himself some self-talk and tell himself that he should love the arm.He started to create fashion to “cover up” his arm and distract everyone form his physical disability.  His work made him feel good about himself and it was the beginning of his fashion career.because Qaysean decided to change his mind set to “I believe I can do anything I put my mind to.” he decided to strengthen his weak arm.    Although he was reluctant at first, Qaysean started to work out in a gym to strengthen is left arm.Today Qaysean sees his disability as his super ability.  He first saw it as his super ability when he created garments that others found amazing he could create such an amazing product in spite of his disability.Although he does get some push back from customers who do not believe he can create a full garment with just one hand, he keeps working to inspire others both in the disabled community and beyond to find their own super abilities.You can connect with Qaysean by http://www.HausOfManikin.com and search for manikinTV on YouTubeJoin the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
Homeless Teen To Achieving the Entrepreneur Dream, with Natasha Miller
Mar 22 2022
Homeless Teen To Achieving the Entrepreneur Dream, with Natasha Miller
Natasha Miller, the author of Relentless: Homeless Teen To Achieving the Entrepreneur Dream, her journey from a youth shelter to the Inc. 5000 has faced much diversity in her life starting at the age of sixteen when she was abandoned Christmas night. Miller has also gone through giving birth to a stillborn child and nearly dying during that experience.Despite all the adversity Natasha has experienced, she has developed strategies to beam more independence and confident, that have helped her to become more independent and confident,Natasha shares her journey from the days of being in a teen homeless shelter and called preppie by the other ttesn to how she is now owning and running ao Inc. 5000 company in the bay area.Natasha shares how she battled through the rout times, what helped her and how she never gave up on her dream to make something of herself.Today Natasha is building a profitable Inc. 5000 companyYou can purchase Natasha’s book, Relentless: Homeless Teen To Achieving the Entrepreneur Dream, from Amazon by going clicking her or going to https://www.amazon.com/Relentless-Homeless-Achieving-Entrepreneur-Dream-ebook/dp/B09R45YD63/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36Y7OOTMVQ3Z9&keywords=natasha+miller&qid=1647455098&s=books&sprefix=natasha+miller%2Cstripbooks%2C115&sr=1-1 LYou can connect with Natasha by officialnatashamiller.comJoin the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
Rare Disease Advocate Deborah Vick
Mar 15 2022
Rare Disease Advocate Deborah Vick
Deborah is a very strong woman.  She battles multiple rare dieses including Mysthenia Gravis, Auto-immune Disease, Ehlers Danlos, CRPS and Chronic Pain.  Deborah not only battles rare diseases, she is also a strong advocate in the rate disease community with grace and humor.Deborah’s has always had a passion for politics, including an ambition to hold a very prestigious office.  Although her challenges has forced her to pivot from a political career, her political aspirations and training serves her well in the role of advocate for the rare disease community.Deborah shares her story of how she went from an able body person to a person with a duality in hear early teenage years.Devroah share some of the challenges she has faced from her rare diseases and how she has worked to overcome them – including self-confidence issues.Deborah shares her vision and the mission for her non-profit, Vicktorious, who it is designed to benefit and how it can benefit everyone in the disability community.Deborah shares some of her experiences she has had from battling all of here rate diseases and how she speaks out and advocates for the rights of disabled persons who have rare diseases.Deborah shares how she uses her voice, and experiments with adaptive software and equipment, to both share her message and empower rothers in the disable community, on multiple social media platforms including TikTok, clubhouse, and others.You can connect with Deborah Vick on most social media platforms as crafts on wheels or forward moving on twitte or via her non-profit, Vicktorious at Vicktoorious.comJoin the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
Overcoming Fibromyalgia to writing coach with Synova Cantrell
Mar 8 2022
Overcoming Fibromyalgia to writing coach with Synova Cantrell
Synova Cantrell has faced many challenges in her life: fibromyalgia, a spinal cord injury that occurred in high school and a broken tailbone, but she has never allowed any of those struggles limit her.Synova was told by her doctors she would be in a wheelchair by the age of forty and at first she was devastated by the diagnosis that cause her to go into depression, then she became determined to prove the doctors wrong.Synova does not see her diagnoses as disabilities, she sees them as super powers.Synova shares her tactics to prevent any labels or individuals define who she is because she wants to define herself by writing crime stories, helping solve cold cases and now helping writers to succeed in their writing careers as a writing coach.Synova has an interesting way of dealing with her diagnosis of fibromyalgia, she does not consider it her “it” or diagnosis and by doing so, her thinking helps her succeed in life despite her fibromyalgia.Synova shares how and why she got into writing and how her writing career was launched through a connection she had at her father’s church.Synova shares how working from home is a perfect fit for her with her challenges including fibromyalgia.Cantrell shares how and why she has pivoted from crime writing to coaching and motivation writers   She also shares how her ADHD is an obstacles for her to do  mundane household chores and the trick she has developed to do those chores despite her ADHD finding them boring.During the interview Synova and Chris get a little of topic and dismiss some of the great works of comedian and actor, Steve Marti, and how Martin’s work has impacted their lives.You can connect with Synova Cantrell by searching for Synova ink on most social media platforms and on patreon.Join the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show
Faith Jones secrets to thriving after being raised in a cult
Feb 1 2022
Faith Jones secrets to thriving after being raised in a cult
Faith Jones was born into a religious origination, originally called the Children of God then the family that was founded in the 1960’a by her grandfather as a fundamental Christian organization as one of the founding groups of the Jesus people movement that came out of the hippie movement.Faith spent her childhood living in the community facing many challenges including isolation and only a grade school education.  She also witnessed and experienced both psychological, religious, and physical manipulation and abuse including sexual abuse by adults, extreme corporal punishment, and forced separation of children from their parents.Faith left the community as a young adult as she yearned to learn more and find a path in life that would lead to a career.  She left with nothing because everything belonged to the community.Armed with the knowledge she had a personal relationship with God, and He will get her through the tough times, Faith used grit and determination to work her way into Georgetown UniversityFaith shares what she has learned from her experiences of building a successful life as a lawyer and a business owner after growing up on a cult and how we can use her lessons to build success in our lives.You can purchase Faith’s memoir, Sex Cult Nun, from Amazon by clicking here You can view Faith’s TedX talk “I own me”, at by clicking hereYou can connect with Faith by visiting https://www.sexcultnun.com/ and https://faithjones.com/Join the conversation with your fellow #DefineYourselfers in the #DefineYourself Community on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/dfyscommunitySupport the show