We meet Dee, who describes herself as 90% gay but is married to a man. She explains how she was sure she was gay when growing up, but had fantasies about men. That developed as she explored the kink world. Her interactions involved being the Domme to female partners and a sub to males. Then she met the man who would become her husband. This conversation also takes in fake Doms, consensual non-consent, fetish clubs and threesomes.

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