Devotional Anarchy with Isha Vela

Isha Vela

Welcome to Devotional Anarchy, a podcast for healers, bridge builders, and visionary leaders integrating intimacy wounds for personal sovereignty and (r)evolutionary culture creation through conscious, connected interrelating. Season 3 of the podcast focuses on intimacy, attachment, sexuality, polyamory, self-expression, and other relational themes from a pleasure-centered, somatic energetic, and activist lens. My intention is for the conversations and tools shared in this podcast to light a fire under your magical ass and support you on your kinky human journey to fully owning your erotic life force. read less

2.22 | Surviving the Long Winter of Coaching with Leah Ardent
Dec 6 2022
2.22 | Surviving the Long Winter of Coaching with Leah Ardent
I'm ending the season with a bang, a truly special treat by interviewing one of my favorite people in the coaching industry, my former coach and esteemed colleague Leah Ardent.   Leah (she/they) is a messaging strategist and the founder of the Shamelessly Successful Actualization Agency. Her passion is providing high provision creative vision and somatic support for ambitious coaches, consultants, and creators.    In this episode we talk about past and future coaching trends, investment trauma, how privilege impacts sales, money energetics, and what it really takes to survive as an entrepreneur in the coaching industry.   Get a peek at Leah and Mariah's latest offering, Content Creatrix: https://www.actualization.agency/content-creatrix   Follow Leah on IG: https://www.instagram.com/shamelessly_successful/   Join Leah and Mariah's Facebook group, Richcraft: The Art of Abundance https://www.facebook.com/groups/ritualwealth/   Check out LEGACY, my 9 month 1:1 container for witchy healer and mystic coaches wanting to build a bespoke business that supports their brain, body, and bank account, discounted through 2022: https://www.ishavela.com/legacy   Join my brand new Facebook community where I go live each week with human-centered biz coaching: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bodybasedbiz/   Book a free, 30 minute curiosity call: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela
2.21 | Leading With Your Messy Humanity with Lisa Kuzman
Nov 23 2022
2.21 | Leading With Your Messy Humanity with Lisa Kuzman
I invited Lisa Kuzman, leadership expert and trauma educator, to the podcast to talk about being okay with not being okay based on an epic Facebook post she wrote several weeks ago where she talked about how terrorized many leaders were of sharing our struggles, especially when we're holding space for other people in theirs.   Lisa Kuzman is the host of the New Wave Leadership podcast, founder of READY - a trauma sensitive certification program, and business coach to entrepreneurs with a complex history of trauma.    In this episode we get into paving the path to New Wave Leadership by leading with our messy humanity without anything needing to be fixed or changed.   We got super fucking honest about what happens when our traumas get reactivated, mental health issues resurface, and ego deaths force you to reorient to the world in a new way.   Follow Lisa on social media and to her website: https://www.lisakuzman.com/ IG @coachkuz   https://www.facebook.com/coachkuz    Listen to the New Wave Leadership Podcast:  https://www.lisakuzman.com/podcast-archive/category/Season+8   Get a peek at her latest offerings: Linktree - https://linktr.ee/coachkuz    Check out LEGACY, my 9 month 1:1 container for witchy healer and mystic coaches wanting to build a bespoke business that supports their brain, body, and bank account: https://www.ishavela.com/legacy   Join my brand new Facebook community where I go live each week with bespoke, body-based biz coaching: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bodybasedbiz/   Book a free, 30 minute curiosity call: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela
2.20 | Unshaming + Untaming Your Shadow
Nov 8 2022
2.20 | Unshaming + Untaming Your Shadow
If you feel like you've been getting bitch-slapped by the Universe this year... If you feel like there's an area in your life where NOTHING seems to be working, regardless of intent and effort... If you feel like 2022 has awakened old traumas you thought you'd worked through or that you're spiraling into others you didn't know existed... You're in a massive Shadow portal designed to burn down all false illusions to reveal your true capacity and grounded, sovereign agency. Coming up for air from my own Shadow portal during Scorpio eclipse season, I thought I'd drop a special episode on unshaming and untaming your Shadow as part of your authentic expression in your online visibility and relationships. In the episode I address: 1. What the Shadow (or Unconscious) is; 2. What's inside the Shadow; 3. How it's formed (using a intimacy/attachment lens); 4. How it relates to sexuality, pleasure, and authentic expression; 5. Why movement is important to unveiling deeper aspects of Shadow; and  6. How to work through it using 4 basic principles.  Get MAGNETIC AF in your expression in love and business. Join my brand new Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bodybasedbiz/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela   Explore LEGACY, my 9 month 1:1 container for sovereign business leadership:  https://www.ishavela.com/legacy   Podcast edited and produced by ALMND.
2.19 | The 5 Pillars of Body Based Business
Oct 25 2022
2.19 | The 5 Pillars of Body Based Business
So many business coaches talk about the front end business strategies, but what about the back end humxning strategies?   In this episode I outline the fundamental BTS requirements of building a sustainable business (without burnout) in integrity with your humanity: ✨ honoring your healing process ✨ respecting internal cycles of rest, play, creation ✨ expressing the full spectrum of your personality (and shadowy authenticity) with congruency (truthful, transparent and vulnerable).   The 5 pillars of Body Based Business support you in:   Building and scaling a business in harmonic congruence with your values and nervous system;Enjoying deeper levels of intimacy and connection in every single relationship you engage (including marketing and sales);Living from sufficiency and receiving more (money, pleasure, love, joy, collabs);Responding to activations with heart integrity, congruence and self-ownership;Holding the uncertainty of life, love, and business with compassion and courage;Expressing your radical humxn truth with as few fucks as possible.   1. MINDSET Prioritize embodied experience and sensation over mental "figuring out."Curate thoughts and nurture those in alignment with your mission and values.Audacious self belief, period. 2. EMOTIONAL FLUENCY Attune to the needs of your emotional body and its unique energy signature.Become a ninja at tracking intimacy fears and nervous system activations with responsive listening."Domme" your emotions by giving them radical permission to be felt, to flow, and to be released. 3. IDENTITY  Unveil your archetypal intimate superpowers via Shadow alchemy.Become resolved with your ancestral and cultural lineages.Dismantle embodied systems of disempowerment. 4. BOUNDARIES Be a reliable and consistent steward of your energy.Meet your body's emotional, physical, and spiritual needs without fawning or apology.Build self-trust in your system. 5. PLEASURE  Create safety by soothing yourself through fear activations and courageous expansion.Experience a deeper sensual and intuitive self-connection, appreciating the beauty and magic in the "mundane."Embody abundant models of being (If you listen to DA for the intimacy healing, you'll want to listen to this episode too because it's ultimately about the 5 pillars that build nervous system flexibility.) Join my brand new Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bodybasedbiz/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela   Explore LEGACY, my 9 month 1:1 container for sovereign business leadership:  https://www.ishavela.com/legacy   Podcast edited and produced by ALMND.
2.15 | Creating Biz Systems that Support Your Humxn with Pamela Barba
Aug 27 2022
2.15 | Creating Biz Systems that Support Your Humxn with Pamela Barba
I brought Pamela Barba (soulful brand and biz strategist/Human Design consultant) on the podcast for a critical conversation about how trauma shows up in your "showing up," with a specific focus on: 🔥 Communicating with transparency and truth in your sales and marketing process; 🔥 Dispelling harmful lies about "feminine-led business" and instead harmonizing structure and flow in your biz systems as an individualized and needs-based process; 🔥 Intimate business as requiring self trust in order to be both boundaried AND relational; 🔥 The tricks our brain plays on us when we have to do uncomfortable things in our business; 🔥 The role of Human Design in your online expression and business building process; 🔥 The power-under position many spiritual folks and activists have learned to take that gets in the way of communicating their value clearly.  You're going to want to listen until the end, where Pame and I both share what specific skills we bring to the HARMONIZE container! Learn more about HARMONIZE: Mind-Body-Soul Biz Incubator http://harmonizeyourbiz.co Follow Pamela on Instagram or to her website: https://www.instagram.com/mspamelabarba http://www.mspamelabarba.com   Access LEGACY: Somatic Biz Mentoring for Healers, Mystics + Creative Leaders https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela   Podcast edited and produced by ALMND.
2.13 | Body-Aligned Mindset in Love + Biz Leadership
Jul 28 2022
2.13 | Body-Aligned Mindset in Love + Biz Leadership
Bodywork and mindset are often spoken of separately, which perpetuates dualism, or the artificial mind-body separation promoted by that little bitch Descartes ("I think, therefore, I am"). I was guilty of this too: there was a time when I thought all beliefs existed in the body and that if I did enough somatic work, I would be free of some of the basic harmful thought patterns that had been with me for most of my life. Beliefs are neither a top down or bottom up thing. They are bidirectional and relational! And what I eventually uncovered was that when brain and body come into alignment, you are in your true power. In this episode I clear up some misconceptions about mindset and the harmful, gaslighty ways it's sometimes used in the coaching industry. I also want to offer you some body-aligned mindset shifts that allow your body to be the healing machine it's designed to be! For example: Using your mind to track what's happening in your nervous system Attuning to and trusting your emotional experiences Welcoming sensation (changing the narrative and habit of numbing) Permission to move your body in ways that are considered irregular or "strange" Register for Back Yourself: Showing Up for Your Juicy Offer with Mind, Body + Soul https://www.eventbrite.com/e/377933708897 Learn more about HARMONIZE: Mind-Body-Soul Biz Incubator http://harmonizeyourbiz.com Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples desiring revolutionary intimacy.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Somatic Biz Mentoring for Healers, Mystics + Creative Leaders https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela   Podcast edited and produced by ALMND.
2.12 | Creating Shame-Free Spaces with Dr. Lee Cordell
Jul 13 2022
2.12 | Creating Shame-Free Spaces with Dr. Lee Cordell
There's a feeling that you don't want to feel and that you go to great lengths to avoid.   Getting close to it can cause anxiety and even panic attacks.    We learn it in our homes through the norms passed down through our ancestry.    We learn it in our communities and through the collective consciousness of how to be and how not to be.    It shows up in how we relate to aspects of ourselves, how we treat our partners, how we parent, how we share our gifts, and even how we engage in political discourse.   It's shame.   Though not inherently harmful, shame is most often used as a means to control expression and specific behaviors.   It can keep us silent about things that matter, squandering our delicious gifts instead of sharing them with the world. In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Lee Cordell, a pleasure-focused, trauma-informed coach and mentor for those looking to take back command over their brain, bodies, and bank accounts. She is the founder of the Institute of Trauma and Psychological Safety and uses her 13 years of clinical experience to help entrepreneurs develop shame-free inner spaces so that they can create healthier personal and professional relationships. She goes into personal details about how shame shows up in  BusinessSexualityParentingRace/ethnicityPolitics and describes her process for creating embodied safety and trust. Follow Dr. Lee on her website or Instagram: https://www.leeccordell.com https://www.instagram.com/leeccordell   Join Dr. Lee's Facebook group:  Becoming Trauma Informed: Creating Safe(r), Shame-Free Spaces   Register for Hold Yourself Whole: Constructing a Humxn + Honest AF Biz Intro Post https://www.eventbrite.com/e/377880028337   Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples desiring revolutionary intimacy.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Somatic Biz Mentoring for Healers, Mystics + Creative Leaders https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic membership collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isha_vela   Podcast edited and produced by ALMND.
2.11 Dismantling Embodied Whyte Supremacy Culture
Jun 29 2022
2.11 Dismantling Embodied Whyte Supremacy Culture
Do you prioritize thoughts and ideas over sensing and feeling?  Do you delay putting yourself or your creative work out there because you're obsessing over the details? Do you engage in sex without love? Much of what you experience as personal can actually be traced back to the collective trauma of whyte supremacy. Riffing off of Jones and Okun's (2001) article on white supremacy culture and adding to it my own anecdotal experiences as a mixed race, trauma-informed somatic practitioner and psychologist who grew up within a colonial context, I offer my insights on the embodiment of whyte culture and antidotes to releasing your attachment to it. In this episode, I tackle how urgency, relationship with discomfort, perfectionism, function over feeling, all or nothing thinking, and fear of conflict show up in your everyday life. Perhaps most importantly, though, I address the separation of head and body (Descartes' mind-body dualism) as well as the heart-pelvic split (collective religious trauma) that can be healed by walking the path of the sacred whore. Link to the article referenced in the episode: https://www.thc.texas.gov/public/upload/preserve/museums/files/White_Supremacy_Culture.pdf Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples committed to their inner work.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Trauma-Responsive Somatic Mentoring for Healers, Mystics + Creative Leaders https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic membership collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.10 Leading with Integrity in Love, Kink, and Biz with Fauna Gold and Kari Lu Cowell
Jun 14 2022
2.10 Leading with Integrity in Love, Kink, and Biz with Fauna Gold and Kari Lu Cowell
How do you relate to power in your relationships and within yourself? This podcast episode is a potent one, sparked from an unpleasant experience I had with a leader in the polyam community who clearly did not walk his talk of intimacy, attunement, and repair.  After posting about this experience on Facebook, I got a flood of notes from people who'd had similar experiences. Fauna and Kari were two coaching colleagues who felt equally passionate about embodying leadership in love and business from a place of integrity and radical self-ownership, so we decided to have this conversation in public. Fauna is a certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach, Orgasmic Arc™ Coach-in-training, Accelerated Evolution Guide, and Functional Herbalist. They are the founder of the Astro-Herbal apothecary ROSE & EROS: Earth Medicines for Ecstatic Vitality.  They support visionaries and surthrivers of all genders and sexual orientations to overflow their authentic pleasure cup, heal emotional blockages that prevent them from living their fullest lives, and come home to who they really are as their most vast self.  Kari works as The Anti-Soulmate Love Coach, helping liberate people from harmful romantic conditioning and insecure relational patterns so that they can create relationships rooted in safety, sovereignty, and vulnerability. They specialize in relationships outside of the cishet monogamous norm (i.e.: polyamory, kink/BDSM, queer, people who want to step off the relationship escalator, etc). As you might imagine, this queer and healing-centered conversation gets kinky pretty quickly, and we also address: what power and leadership means from an uncolonizing, healing, and embodied lens; how internalized systems of oppression play out energetically in our relationships; and  how radical self-ownership and relinquishing egoic power can move us toward a more humanized and energetic model of leadership. Give it a listen and let me know what shifts for you! Take a peek at Fauna Gold's offerings and follow them on IG: https://www.linktree.com/faunamagick https://www.instagram.com/faunamagick Check out Kari Lu Cowell's offerings and follow them on IG: https://linktr.ee/antisoulmatelove https://www.instagram.com/karilucoaching Sign up for my FREE event on June 14th, The Polyam Primer: 4 Areas to Assess Before Leaping Into Loving More Than One https://revolutionaryrompereglas.activehosted.com/f/90 Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples committed to their inner work.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Trauma-Responsive Somatic Mentoring for Healers, Mystics + Creatives https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity     See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic membership collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.9 Cultivating Safety + Trust Within Your Own Body
May 30 2022
2.9 Cultivating Safety + Trust Within Your Own Body
How good does it feel in your body to be in the presence of someone you feel absolutely safe with? You can let go of vigilance. You feel yourself settle into a relaxed, receptive state. You can soften and open yourself to be seen, felt, and heard. Perhaps there is space to deepen a sexual connection as well. From a coaching or mentorship perspective, what motivates you to get into somebody's container and lay your money down for their program?  It's trust, isn't it?  Trust they can guide you through the process you need help with and that you can surrender control to their guidance. And if you are an entrepreneur, what facilitates your authentic online visibility? Your honest AF marketing and content creation? It's feeling safe to be seen, to express yourself. It's feeling trust that your voice or services or message is needed/wanted in the world. It's trusting in your method, the way you get people from point A to point B.  In this episode of the Devotional Anarchy podcast, I define the components of safety and trust, along with:   how safety and trust (or lack thereof) plays out in your relationships and your business; how lack of safety shows up in our internal experiences and what to do about them; and the 5 ways you can cultivate safety and trust in your own body and energy system. Sign up for my FREE event on June 14th, The Polyam Primer: 4 Foundational Questions to Explore Before Opening Your Relationship https://revolutionaryrompereglas.activehosted.com/f/90 Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples committed to their inner work.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Trauma-Responsive Somatic Mentoring for Healers, Leaders, and Entrepreneurs https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic membership collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.8 Emotional Sovereignty Through Fluency + Fluidity
May 15 2022
2.8 Emotional Sovereignty Through Fluency + Fluidity
The ability to be aware of your emotional landscape and navigate your way through emotional debris is one of the most important aspects of your  Ability to connect vulnerably and intimately with your partners; Integrity and accountability as a leader in your professional relationships; Capacity to showing up for the messy humxn behind your business. Because you lead with your body and because we are all energetic beings affected by one another, having a regulated nervous system regulates those around you. Like most people of my generation especially, I didn't grow up in an environment where it was safe for me to express my feelings. I was a highly sensitive person with nowhere to put my big inner experiences. I experience what most big feelers do, which is have their feelings made wrong or gaslit. So I did what most people do, I put them away. I buried them and numbed them. Along with that came addictions, depression, anxiety, and chronic illness. It wasn't until I got to my somatic training that I began to unwind stuck emotions and ancestral trauma from my system, which led to a: more subtle awareness of emotions, energy, and intuition; deeper self-connection and self trust; calmer, more responsive nervous system. Emotional awareness allowed me to insert that critical pause, that space between that allows you to name what's arising before it takes over and gets waaaay messy. In this special eclipse episode embedded inside retrograde season, I offer The cultural and body-based reasons why emotions get stuck in your body and how it affects your functioning; How restriction of emotional range is linked to shame and overwhelm; Mindset shifts for unapologetic emotional expression, permission giving, and unconditional approval; Somatic tools for emotional trauma release.   Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for individuals and couples committed to their inner work.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Access LEGACY: Trauma-Responsive Somatic Mentoring for Healers, Leaders, and Entrepreneurs https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity     See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic membership collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.7 Accessing Your Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila
Apr 30 2022
2.7 Accessing Your Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila
There's no sex like slow sex!  In this episode of the Devotional Anarchy podcast Darshana Avila of Erotic Wholeness shares the skills that are required to create space for a deeply satisfying and connected sexual connection.  Known for her appearance in Netflix's Sex, Love and Goop, Darshana is an internationally recognized speaker coach and facilitator who supports women and couples and exploring and reshaping their relationships to intimacy sex and eroticism. Darshana created the map of erotic wholeness as a path to personal liberation in service to collective sexual liberation. Her unique style of somatic sex and intimacy coaching weave together a trauma-informed, nature-based, justice-oriented approach inviting more presence, pleasure and passion into the lives and relationships of the people that she guides. In this episode we dive into the importance of slowing down in order to be present with all that is and connection to needs, desires, and boundaries as providing a basis of safety from which to explore freely. One of the juiciest parts of this episode is when we get into the intersection of sex, somatics, and social justice! Access Touch Yourself: An Inspiration Guide to Mindful Masturbation Meditation for free on Darshana's website:  https://www.darshanaavila.com   Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eroticwholeness/   Access DEVOTION: Somatic intimacy alchemy for queer and kinky individuals and couples committed to their inner work.  https://ishavela.com/devotion/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity     See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
Changing the Culture of Business Through Intimacy with Brigette Iarusso-Soto
Apr 15 2022
Changing the Culture of Business Through Intimacy with Brigette Iarusso-Soto
Do you lead with your wounding or your healing? How do you embrace intimacy in sales (and in every other aspect of your business)? In this deeply informative and insightful interview with Brigette Iarusso-Soto, no BS business coach for leaders who want to earn more and serve more clients without compromising their commitment to equity and inclusion, we dive into changing the culture of business through intimacy. We get into the importance of humxnizing business by sharing our stories, allowing ourselves to be seen, transcending the ways technology can distance us (even as it brings us together), and using consent as a central way of embracing sales to create trust and safety in the process. Brigette also emphasizes a high ticket, high impact sales model, disrupting the idea that service-based businesses have to be low cost to be in integrity. In fact, she argues that making money (and offering no to low cost content in other ways) allows social impact entrepreneurs to use money in revolutionary ways that disrupt toxic capitalism. Access Brigette's FREE 4-module No BS Business Business Course! https://embracechange.us Join Brigette's No BS Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/noBSadvicetogrow Follow Brigette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embracechangeus/   Lead with your intimacy superpowers for maximum collective impact through my 6-month, 1:1 LEGACY mentorship to for social impact entrepreneurs: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.5 The 5 Intimacy Strategies and Superpowers
Apr 1 2022
2.5 The 5 Intimacy Strategies and Superpowers
Are you aware of the patterns and defenses you're bringing into your personal and professional relationships (yes, even with money, God, and sex)? Are you attuned to what strategies you employ to keep yourself safe in relationships but that actually limit intimacy?  Did you know the leadership gifts and superpowers that exist inside your intimacy wounds? In episode 5 of the Devotional Anarchy podcast I offer the 5 relational strategies we use to keep ourselves "safe" in relationships from a nervous system perspective, but that keep us from the fulfillment, sufficiency and abundant connection that's actually available and real.  It's the framework I use to observe myself in my relationship behaviors, and it helps me clean up the energetics in my relationship communication (whether it's in my personal life or my professional life) with integrity and self-ownership because it helps me get to the root of what's getting activated in any interaction. I highlight the leadership gifts and superpowers of each strategy and provide my approach to meeting fear and overwhelm from a trauma-responsive, energy aware, and emotionally attuned approach. Work with me 1:1 through my LEGACY mentorship for spirit-led and social impact entrepreneurs: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.com/legacy/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas
2.4 Uncolonizing Relationships Through Energetic Sovereignty
Mar 18 2022
2.4 Uncolonizing Relationships Through Energetic Sovereignty
Are you in ownership and authorship of your thoughts, emotions, and experiences?   Is your energy fully yours to direct towards your pleasure, play, and passion or do you hold yourself back in self-doubt, criticism, and judgment?   How, when, and with whom do you engage in fear projections when your intimacy wounds get activated?    In this 4th episode of the Devotional Anarchy podcast, I get into uncolonizing relationships, specifically the subtle ways we use power and control in relationship with ourselves and with the people in our lives, and how energetic sovereignty supports liberation and healing in relationships.   Energetic sovereignty means having an unwavering connection to Source within yourself (i.e., understanding your humanity as divine), which includes embracing your Shadow, allowing yourself to experience all of your emotions, honoring the boundaries of your yeses and no's, owning your sexual and creative expression, and moving in alignment with heart integrity. In other words, intimate connection to Self. Energetic sovereignty can support: -Safety within the root of your own energetic/body system so that you don't have to acquire it externally; -Checking for possible hidden agendas -Trust of your own love and wisdom -Responsibility for your activations and the removal of blame and shame -Resourcing from within and advocating for what you need -Emotional fluency and fluidity  -Integrity of heart in relationships I also share 6 pillars of uncolonizing relationships so that you can create more love and freedom from the inside out. Explore my 9-month, intimacy and integrity accelerator, the SOVEREIGN Metabody:  https://ishavela.com/sovereign/   Book a free, 30-minute curiosity call with me: https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/curiosity   Get a taste of the alchemy by booking a 60-minute 1:1 ATTUNE session with me at $222 (discounted $100) through the end of March. https://revolutionaryrompereglas.as.me/attune   Download my free PDF on the 4 Pillars of Open + Intimate Communication Using Body Wisdom from my website: https://ishavela.com/   Explore my 3 and 6-month mentorship packages for 1:1 somatic intimacy alchemy to break through intimacy impasses and deepen the connection in their relationships: https://ishavela.com/devotion/     See what's inside the (R)evolutionary Rompereglas online somatic healing collective! https://community.revolutionaryrompereglas.com   Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revolutionary.rompereglas