The Big Leap

Gay Hendricks & Mike Koenigs

The Big Leap is about two main things; one, Your Upper Limits. How much we can accomplish or achieve? How much love and abundance we can receive? And two, Discovering Your Zone of Genius. The difference between stagnation and success lies in the decisions you make in the moments that matter. This podcast is about those turning points -- the single decisions in life and business that change everything because the difference between stagnation and success lies in the decisions you make in the moments that matter. Gay and Mike will talk about business, relationships, limiting beliefs, and creating freedom and from time to time, you’ll also meet some of their favorite thinkers, thought leaders and celebrities and hear about their Big Leaps. read less

Big Leaps of Big Money: The Mindset of Wealth
Sep 12 2023
Big Leaps of Big Money: The Mindset of Wealth
Mike has a juicy new episode today that you're going to love.Gay and Mike have an honest conversation about the biggest money mistakes they've made over their careers, and some of their biggest wins and lessons learned.Mike confesses some horrendous investments he has made early in his career that lost half his investment and Gay shares how a stupid fear and mistake cost him $10 million (yep, you read that right) in potential gains on an early Tesla investment.They also share what they'd do differently if they had to start over today. Here are a few key points:Invest in YOUR genius first - the ROI will be huge.Surround yourself with superstar mentors and coaches (Mike still invests ~$250K a year in his own coaching!)Create "unfair advantage" through your network and personal brandPlay the long game - have patience and disciplineThey get super honest about family money dynamics, like trying to "coach" their own kids. Let's just say hiring and firing your own offspring is...complicated!Whether you're new to investing or an old pro, Mike thinks you'll find this episode motivating, insightful and entertaining. Have a listen and let's hear your key takeaways!Key Takeaways(03:37) Gay’s first Big Leap into investing(06:23) The three traditional ways to invest(16:31) Jackie Kennedy and a colossaly dumb stock market mistake(21:59) Never outsource your money movement(27:00) How to invest in your own genius(45:01) What does it take to get to a wealth mentality?Additional ResourcesGet my new book Punch The Elephant Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
Ai for Coaches: How to Automate Your Coaching Business in Minutes
Aug 23 2023
Ai for Coaches: How to Automate Your Coaching Business in Minutes
If you want to take your coaching business to the next level (without being replaced by Ai), you need to listen to this week's Big Leap podcast.Gay and Mike covered some mind-blowing strategies on how to leverage Ai as a coach to be more efficient, effective and EXPAND your capabilities (not reduce them).This was one of Mike's favorite episodes because it was totally improvised and unscripted. Just he and Gay riffing on how to practically apply Ai as a coach TODAY.They built prompts in real-time, created content together, designed original artwork and even wrote client emails!You'll get a ton of value from hearing Gay learn new AI tricks—and how you can put these tools to work immediately in your own business.Gay also shares his personal insights on:Why most coaches fail within 5 years (and how to avoid it)The key skill 90% don't learn until their 50's (that makes the difference between average and world-class coaching)Boundary myths most practitioners believe (and the surprising truth)And much more!The key to Ai is understanding how to prompt it. Mike shared his exact prompts, formulas and favorite tools with Gay so you can swipe what works!Want to know the craziest part? This technology is available to anyone right now for FREE or dirt cheap.If you want to learn directly from one of the legends in coaching and personal development - AND - get priceless tips on integrating Ai into your daily work, growing your biz faster and impacting more people… don’t miss this episode!Key Takeaways(02:39) How to be a better, more effective coach and expand your capabilities using Ai(06:40) The most essential thing coaches need to know and do in order to thrive in their personal and professional life(10:39) Continuous learning and emotional intelligence are two of the most important things to consider(15:59) Writing an outbound email using Ai(23:58) How to create an image using Mid Journey(38:36) How to write a book in a dayAdditional ResourcesDownload Mike's free Ai Superpower Accelerator Toolkit here: Ai Superpower Accelerator Directory by Mike Koenigs The writing tool we used: https://claude.ai/ The image we created together: https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1007004968148025484/1130646893240786984/mikekoenigs_a_professional_female_business_coach_sitting_alongs_2ee3cafc-3410-43e3-aceb-f759ff83e80c.png Click here for the prompt that created all of this.
The Love Thief with Arielle Ford
Aug 4 2023
The Love Thief with Arielle Ford
Gay and Mike just finished an incredible podcast with their dear friend, Arielle Ford, about her debut novel “The Love Thief” and they can’t wait for you to hear it!Arielle is one of the world's leading experts on love, relationships and the greatest manifester Mike has ever known. She's written numerous bestselling non-fiction books like “The Soulmate Secret” and “Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate,” but this is her first foray into fiction - and what an adventure it's been!In this episode, Arielle takes Gay and Mike behind the scenes of how this book came to be.It all started with a crazy idea from her husband, Brian, involving aliens and operatic singing! But soon, the characters began “talking” to Arielle, almost driving her crazy. She found herself acting insecure for the first time in her career, constantly seeking reassurance from friends about her writing.Eventually, Arielle surrendered to the muse and let this wild story download through her. The result is a juicy tale of love, betrayal, spiritual awakening, and sweet revenge. Part Eat, Pray, Love, and part Dirty John, Arielle calls it "a romantic, spiritual thriller with a surprise happy ending."Mike won't give away all the details, but let's just say one of the characters was inspired by HIM! (It won’t be hard to figure it out.)Mike and Gay were fascinated and inspired to hear about Arielle's creative process. Even though writing this novel was torture at times, she learned a ton about herself along the way.And you have to hear her vision for the audiobook (something she hopes to turn into a Grammy-winning production). Just like her manifesting powers, Arielle's imagination knows no bounds!Whether you're an aspiring writer, novel lover, spiritual seeker, or just a fan of Arielle's work, Mike highly recommends giving this interview a listen. Arielle's joy is contagious. He knows you'll be inspired.Key Takeaways(04:09) Arielle never wanted to write a novel and how it came about(09:31) The moment Arielle thought she was schizophrenia because characters started “talking” to her(13:19) The process of writing the book(23:09) Her dream for the audio book and winning a Grammy!(34:46) The spiritual practice of channeling characters and storytelling(45:05) Who is the perfect buyer of this book?Additional ResourcesGet Arielle’s New Book, “The Love Thief” and your bonus content here: http://www.thelovethief.com Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
Change Your Life with Ai + ChatGPT
Jul 26 2023
Change Your Life with Ai + ChatGPT
Mike is really excited about this podcast episode today.Why? Because he and Gay are diving DEEP into a subject that he's been living, breathing, obsessing over, and teaching for months now. Can you guess what it is?That’s right… they're talking about Ai and ChatGPT.Gay and Mike go down the Ai rabbit hole, exploring the potential of this rapidly-evolving technology, particularly for coaches, healers, and writers. How can Ai make our lives easier, better, and more enriched? They'll unravel this mystery.In the last few months, Mike has spoken about and taught Generative Ai for Executives to thought leaders like Tony Robbins, Peter Diamandis, and Dave Asprey and their thousands of patrons. Mike has even traveled to Spain to speak to a billionaire about integrating Ai into his 60 different companies.Needless to say, Mike has been DEEPLY immersed in this transformative technology, and he has some really cool insights to share with you!Mike has always been a problem-solver, a translator of the complex, and that's what he's bringing to the table today. He promises to break everything down so it’s super simple to understand AND implement.They'll discuss how Ai can act as your 'perfect first draft' partner, helping you think more clearly, ask better questions, and become a more empathic listener. It can revolutionize your speed of learning, doing, and achieving.It all starts with learning how to think in Ai so you can tell Chat GPT exactly what you want. Imagine communicating with a three-year-old who knows almost everything but remembers almost nothing.It’ll push you to face your limitations until you realize the only thing limiting you is your imagination. And once you get the hang of it, you'll see why Mike says you can practically bend time and access just about any wisdom and knowledge.This is more than just a conversation about Ai, though. It's a conversation about our future, our potential, and how we can evolve to keep pace with our creations. Get ready for an engaging, enlightening, and thought-provoking journey into the world of Ai.It's worth every minute, and as always, Mike can't wait to hear what you think! The future is here, and it's incredibly exciting!Key Takeaways(04:17) Learn how to THINK in Ai (imagine a 3-year-old that knows almost everything but remembers almost nothing)(14:07) How to consume 20 - 30 minutes of content in under an hour(17:45) How to get to a new place in creativity with Ai(24:28) How a coach or advisor can prosper by using Ai(29:52) How to write a script in the voice of Steve Jobs(37:07) We’re just months away from the first high-quality, completely Ai-generated moviesAdditional ResourcesDownload Mike's free Ai Superpower Accelerator Toolkit here: Ai Superpower Accelerator Directory by Mike Koenigs Get Mike's new book, Punch The Elephant - https://sales.mikekoenigs.com/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! - http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
Surviving a Life-Changing Injury: Gay’s Big Adventure
Jul 7 2023
Surviving a Life-Changing Injury: Gay’s Big Adventure
Mike has an extraordinary episode for you today, one that is a soul-touching testament to resilience, recovery, and the human spirit.Gay shares a remarkable and deeply personal account of his recent adventure – a harrowing, yet enlightening experience following a serious accident.This episode isn't just about a physical healing journey; it's a spiritual odyssey filled with profound insights that arose from an unexpected ordeal. Those who struggle with imprints that command and control our lives, sometimes without us being aware of their presence, can relate to Gay's story.Gay talks about an unfortunate accident that had him immobilized for weeks, forcing him to pause and look within. In these solitary moments, he uncovered deep-seated imprints from his early life. This episode is an exploration of how a painful physical experience can bring to light life-altering realizations about self-worth, existence, and mortality.Gay’s candid narrative is nothing short of a modern-day hero's journey, a testament of grace and growth in the face of adversity.Get ready for a roller coaster of emotions and a treasure trove of wisdom. You'll learn how even the most challenging situations can help us grow and heal in ways we never thought possible.No matter what stage of life you're in, this episode will resonate deeply and offer a fresh perspective on dealing with personal adversities and unconscious mental imprints.Gay's story will inspire, motivate, and change the way you perceive life's unexpected turns.Key Takeaways(02:27) The worst pain Gay ever felt in his entire life(10:08) Early primal things arising from the past(17:59) Passing out multiple times in PT(28:44) How the accident affected Gay’s feeling about mortality(36:06) The birth of a new bookAdditional ResourcesGet Mike's new book Punch The Elephant - https://sales.mikekoenigs.com/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! - http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership with Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer
Jun 24 2023
15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership with Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer
Are you ready to redefine your business realm and discover what happens when you let go of drama?This week, Mike and Gay are stepping into the genius zones of Diana Chapman and Jim Dethmer, two extraordinary leaders doing groundbreaking work in the business world.They'll delve into the art of "Ineffective Training," a profound exercise designed to crack open your consciousness, and the enlightening distinction between "Stories and Facts."They'll also unmask the roles of the "Victim, Villain, and Hero" in our daily narratives and discuss the 'Big Three Payoffs' of saying NO to drama. It's a revelation you don't want to miss!Additionally, they'll explore the vast ocean of "Word of Mouth" marketing, unveiling the messages that resonate best and making some pretty large splashes along the way. Be prepared for some massive Aha moments.This episode is a veritable buffet of wisdom, so grab your notepads, jot down these gems, and gear up for some instant transformation. Whether it’s in your business or personal life, this episode is designed to impact, inspire and help you step into your zone of genius. Happy listening!Key Takeaways(05:10) Meet Diana and Jim and how they created The Conscious Leadership Group(11:24) How the book “15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership” came about(14:40) How to create a functional COO(22:14) What it’s like working with Diana and Jim(25:14) The concept of the “drama triangle”(30:57) The power of authenticity and sharing your truthAdditional ResourcesLearn how to work with Jim and Diana at Conscious Leadership Group Get Jim + Diana’s Book, The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
SNL Comedian Kevin Nealon’s Big Leap from Stage to Canvas
May 23 2023
SNL Comedian Kevin Nealon’s Big Leap from Stage to Canvas
There's an incredibly special treat for you in today’s episode…The hilariously charming Kevin Nealon! You've laughed at his comedy for years, and now you're about to fall in love with his art. You’re going to love this one!Mike and Gay dove deep into the evolution of an artist - exploring how Kevin constantly reinvents himself, from his comedic roots to his newly discovered artistic prowess.The episode covers a ton, but keep your ears sharp for Kevin's 'Big Leap' stories. The leaps he made in his comedy career and the creative leaps into the world of art will give you a profound insight into his evolution as an artist and a human being.And wait ‘till you hear the tale of how he met his wife. It’s laugh-out-loud funny!If you're an artist, a comedian, or just a human being trying to evolve, Kevin's words will strike a chord with you. His experiences remind us that evolution isn't just natural; it's necessary - especially in the areas we love the most.Get ready for an exciting ride with Kevin Nealon. You’re not going to want to miss this one!Key Takeaways(03:05) Kevin’s first Big Leap(06:47) The evolution from the grind to ultimate freedom(11:03) Kevin’s book, “I Exaggerate: My Brushes With Fame.”(15:01) Kevin’s process for creating a caricature(22:54) What Kevin finds funny these daysAdditional ResourcesGet a copy of Kevin’s BOOK on Amazon Check out Kevin’s WEBSITE Kevin’s Instagram accounts:@kevinnealon@kevinnealonartwork@sukiyeagley Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
How to Tap Into Your Infinite Creativity + Intuition
Apr 21 2023
How to Tap Into Your Infinite Creativity + Intuition
If you're looking for a dose of wonder and inspiration, you're in the right place.In today’s episode, Gay and Mike are diving deep into the art of staying open and how wondering can lead to infinite creativity.Gay shares the details about how he stays open and keeps that space of pure consciousness alive and working for him at ALL times. They'll also share their own personal stories, including a hilarious tale of Gay's experience in the Zen monastery of an LA traffic jam, and a connection he made with Ram Dass himself.But what really stood out to Mike was Gay's discussion of the “third way of manifestation” where we tap into a space of pure openness without any content. A deliciously limitless space where intuition and creativity flow freely, and the universe has no choice but to reveal itself to us in all its glory.So if you're ready to tap into your infinite creative muse and experience the wonders of the universe, tune in to their latest episode of The Big Leap.And who knows, you might even discover some new ways to beat LA traffic or find the key to connecting with extraterrestrial beings!Stay open, friends.Key Takeaways(03:03) Kafka said what?? (A surprising quote)(06:39) The Zen Monastery of an LA traffic jam(08:40) Mike’s personal form of meditation + the art of being open(11:48) A party a James Cameron’s house(27:09) Openness is like a relationship with a MuseAdditional ResourcesGet a copy of Mike's NEW BOOK, Referral Party HERE! Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
Reinvent Yourself or Rust Out: Break the Monotony and Reignite Your Passion
Apr 6 2023
Reinvent Yourself or Rust Out: Break the Monotony and Reignite Your Passion
Today, Mike and Gay are talking about a term that Gay invented to describe the slow leeching of joy from an activity or from life. 😳It’s called “Rusting Out.”We all know what burnout is, but Rusting Out is a different beast entirely. It happens when you resist the call of your genius and go through the same motions day after day after day.That sounds like a slow, painful death to Mike.Gay shares some real-life stories about how rust out affects even the biggest artists who struggle to get on stage and sing the same song for 30, 40, or even 50 years. Can you imagine doing the same thing day in and day out for that long?But don't worry, this episode isn't just about the doom and gloom of rusting out. Mike and Gay also tell you how to avoid it and keep reinventing yourself.They'll share their best tips for breaking out of your routine and doing something new every day, even if it's as simple as brushing your teeth with your non-dominant hand or taking a new route to work.So don't rust out, friends! Listen to this week’s episode and start busting out of your comfort zone. You never know where it might take you.Key Takeaways(02:04) What IS Rusting Out?(05:18) The biggest soul killer(09:44) The same damned thing over and over again(22:14) How Bonnie Raitt and Tony Bennett reinvent themselves(24:34) What is the brain looking for?Additional ResourcesGet a copy of Mike's NEW BOOK, Referral Party HERE! Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
Surfing The Leading Edge
Mar 24 2023
Surfing The Leading Edge
Reinventing Yourself at Any AgeLots of people go into midlife without opening up to find out what their real genius is for THIS stage of their life.One of Gay’s mentors said, “Every Breath You Take after 50 is a choice between creativity or stagnation” and that’s what today’s episode is all about.Mike and Gay are talking about Surfing the Leading Edge and why it’s so important when making big leaps in life.They'll tell you about a woman named Christine Marie, who has created a program based on the Big Leap principles and her own research to help women with issues like PMS and endometriosis (something she struggled with herself, but was able to find relief through her program).They'll also get into the challenges that people face as they get older, especially in the entertainment industry, where ageism is a real issue and share stories of actors and actresses who have overcome those challenges and found success later in life.Mike spent a little bit of time talking about a project that's really lit him up recently. He's been co-authoring a book with his 20-year-old son, Zack. They've found a really creative way to collaborate together and Mike says it’s been a lot of fun.This one is a really inspiring episode that Mike thinks you’re going to enjoy. Give it a listen and let him know what you think!Key Takeaways(02:25) Gay’s “Surfing the Leading Edge” Day(11:20) Mike’s Upper Limit Problem(20:49) Looking on the brighter side(29:56) What lights Gay up at 4am in the morning(39:24) Look at what lights YOU upAdditional ResourcesGet a copy of my NEW BOOK, Referral Party HERE! Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
Steven Sashen, The Creator of Xero Shoes
Mar 17 2023
Steven Sashen, The Creator of Xero Shoes
The Evolution of A Renaissance ManWhat do you get when you combine a comedian, a sprinter, a filmmaker, an archer, and an entrepreneur all in one?You get Steven Sashen, and this week, Gay and Mike had the pleasure of picking his brain.One of the things that Mike loves about Steven is that he is a first-principle thinker with a wild background and an absolutely fascinating story.Today they'll delve into Steven's mindset, how he approaches problem-solving, and his guiding principle for making a living and having as much fun as possible.They also talked about some of the Big Leaps he's made in his life, from being a professional stand-up comedian to running a software company to accidentally starting a footwear brand with his wife that has grown to over a million customers worldwide.The thing Mike found most impressive about Steven was his willingness to look at any situation with a clear-eyed perspective and seek the truth. His insights and perspectives are something we can all learn from, and Mike thinks you'll enjoy hearing them.Tune in to The Big Leap Podcast for an insightful and entertaining conversation with Steven Sashen.Key Takeaways(05:08) Steven’s Big Leaps and Backstory(15:27) The inspiration behind Xero Shoes(22:34) It’s really easy to make a million dollars(28:52) The first principles that Steven lives by(35:45) Working as couple has been the best thing Steven has ever doneAdditional ResourcesCheck out Steven’s website: XeroShoes.com Get a copy of Mike's NEW BOOK, Referral Party HERE!
Conscious Resting and Intentional Vacationing
Jan 5 2023
Conscious Resting and Intentional Vacationing
We've just wrapped up a time of year that tends to be super busy and STRESSFUL for a lot of us. You’re probably feeling burnt out and in need of some rest and relaxation, right?Well, you're in luck because in today’s episode, Gay and Mike dive into the Art of Conscious Resting and Intentional Vacationing ...and it's not just about lounging on the beach with a cocktail (although they're all for that, too!)Gay shares his personal experience of discovering the power of deep rest on a trip to Maui, and how it changed the way he approaches vacationing. Mike and Gay also discuss the importance of finding balance and taking the time to recharge.They'll also delve into the concept of moving at the right speed for your essence and how it can improve your relationships and overall well-being. (A concept that has changed the way Mike is having conversations with his wife.)So, put down the to-do list and take a break to listen to this episode. Your mind (and body) will thank you. And you may even learn a thing or two about finding your own perfect way of Conscious Resting.Key Takeaways(02:04) How Gay discovered DEEP REST(15:04) The recipe for Intentional Vacationing(22:46) An intentional trip to Portugal(27:40) Setting expectations with your partner(30:02) The right travel partnersAdditional ResourcesCheck out Gay’s favorite place to stay in Maui, the Fairmont Kea Lani (https://www.fairmont.com/kea-lani-maui/) and Monkey Pod (https://monkeypodkitchen.com/) for the best fries in the world!Get a copy of Mike's NEW, #1 SELLING BOOK, YOUR NEXT ACT! - https://yournextact.mikekoenigs.com/NextActDownload/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! - http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
The Secret to Finding More Time in Your Day
Dec 22 2022
The Secret to Finding More Time in Your Day
This week, Gay and Mike discuss the T word… TIME.How do you manage your time? How do you define time? How are you saving time?Over the years, Gay and Mike have tried (and failed) many different time management techniques, and have figured out what works for them.  For example, Mike has a hard and fast “No A-Hole’s” policy, and Gay has a “No Bad Energy Rule.”Similarly, they both hate scheduling and planning, and Mike absolutely can’t STAND doing “homework.” They'll reveal ways of getting around that stuff if you’re so inclined.Lastly, they'll give you the tips, tricks, and tools you need to find your perfect time management plan.Believe it or not, Mike ONLY uses the calendar app on his phone. Wouldn’t it be nice to get rid of all the other apps you have to plan and manage your time? Listen to the whole episode to find out how to become your best “you” by managing your time and energy.P.S. This is the perfect holiday episode because they'll tell you how to say NO to negative energy — maybe that odd cousin you have to see at Grandma’s house?Key Takeaways(02:08) What even is time management?(05:00) Mike’s hard and fast rules on managing your time(11:31) Spend 99% of time in your superpower or your genius zone(15:15) Finding your niche and staying there(22:19) Start the new year on a mountain(34:15) Our body is our best indicator(35:50) Only my calendar and me(48:30) Say no with a smile on your faceAdditional ResourcesGet a copy of my NEW, #1 SELLING BOOK, YOUR NEXT ACT! - https://yournextact.mikekoenigs.com/NextActDownload/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience! - http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
Purposeful Productivity with Sophie Chiche
Oct 19 2022
Purposeful Productivity with Sophie Chiche
Time management is OUT, Self-Management is IN!That’s what our guest today teaches. Gay and Mike could not agree more after spending time with her and learning her techniques.Her name is Sophie Chiche and she’s going to teach you how to “Do more of what works and less of what doesn't… and how to know the difference between the two.”In other words… GET MORE DONE IN LESS TIME!From the very practical things you can do in the next 10 seconds to the deeper inner work we all need to tackle.They’ll cover things that you've never thought of before when considering time management and productivity, like the fact that it can be done in a soulful way that honors the essence of who you are as a human being. It’s SO good that we probably shouldn’t really call it “time-management.” You’ll also hear about Sophie's journey as an entrepreneur. From being an overweight French woman who came to the US, completely reinvented herself, found success and made millions. It’s quite a remarkable story and one you’re not going to want to miss.Key Takeaways:(05:42) Sophie’s journey from 350lbs growing up in Paris to a huge entrepreneurial and weight loss success in the US. (09:38) The biggest difference between being an entrepreneur in Paris vs. being an entrepreneur in the US and how she started “Shape House.”(15:29) Productivity is about being present…. NOT multitasking!(21:22) Elon Musk, Charlie Munger and Aristotle all shared this same belief.(26:11) Sophie walks us through a typical client challenge.Additional Resources: Use Discount Code LEAP to get 15% off Sophie’s Course HERE. Learn more about managing time with Sophie by visiting www.QuitManagingTime.com Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
Dr. Sherry Walling’s New Memoir - Touching Two Worlds
Oct 6 2022
Dr. Sherry Walling’s New Memoir - Touching Two Worlds
Grief is something that touches every single person in the world. Unfortunately, no one can avoid it. But how do you cope and rebuild in the aftermath of loss?Today's guest, Dr. Sherry Walling, is going to talk about grief and some surprising ways that you can deal with it. She’s written a very special book called, Touching Two Worlds: A guide for finding hope in the landscape of loss. It touches on things that will have you more emotionally engaged than anything you’ve ever read.It's partially a memoir, written about Dr. Walling’s experience of losing her father to esophageal cancer and her brother to suicide within six months of each other. It’s a big immersion into grief, losing people she loved but at the same time, growing her career and raising her children in the prime of her life. This idea of touching two worlds is about her experience going back and forth between the world of aliveness and the world of grief along with some suggestions for the reader to help them deal with their own personal grief. This was an absolutely fascinating and healing conversation for both Mike and Gay. Key Takeaways:(04:09) Gay talks about the personal grief he’s currently going through. (07:56) Mike tells us about his family and dealing with losing his parents.(11:06) Psychedelics as a tool for grief.(18:23) The body's reaction to grief.(25:58) If we don’t release grief it gets stuck and Circus works.Additional Resources:Order Dr. Sherry’s New Book and find out about her Circus Events. Subscribe to The Big Leap Podcast. Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience!
The Books That Changed Our Lives - Part Two
Sep 23 2022
The Books That Changed Our Lives - Part Two
“There's nothing better than a remarkable person who writes a remarkable book that can affect you in remarkable ways.”Welcome to Part Two of The Books that Changed our Lives.This time, Mike and Gay are focusing on different types of books than they did in Part One.Some may surprise you, including Shakespeare’s Sonnets, Poetry, and Fiction, that can take you to a completely different world.And as usual, Gay always blows Mike's mind, so he ended up buying a whole bunch of new books before they ended the episode and now Mike has a gigantic reading list to tackle. (They're all linked below.)Key Takeaways(01:28) Let’s talk about fiction! (One of Gay’s favorite genres)(04:07) The Single Book that started Mike’s multi-million dollar career(09:51) The Power of Poetry(11:28) The Wizard Academy Experience(13:56) The thinking of 100 different geniuses shaped humanity(15:04) The Four-Hour Work Week was a Game changerAdditional ResourcesHere are all of the books Mike and Gay talked about on this episode:100 Years of SolitudeWatership DownInfo Marketing10 Poems to Change Your LifeThe Wizard Academy Books:The Wizard of AdsSecret Formulas of the Wizard of AdsMagical Worlds of the Wizard of Ads GeniusThe Four-Hour Work WeekThe Big LeapLove Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It Subscribe to The Big Leap Podcast: https://bigleappodcast.com/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience: http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
The Books That Changed Our Lives - Part One
Sep 1 2022
The Books That Changed Our Lives - Part One
“You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read.” ― Charlie Tremendous JonesAre you a big reader?Is there a book or two that, after reading, completely changed your entire life?That’s what today’s episode is all about. The books that changed Mike and Gay's lives.Gay and Mike are both BIG fans of books (and have written quite a few themselves.)In fact, Gay decided at an early age that he wanted to be a writer. He just knew that there was something extraordinary about putting words down on paper.Growing up, to Mike, books were so magical, and the thought of being able to write a book seemed impossible.Mike can remember the first time he met an author… He literally thought of them as a movie star!When he started to get deep into reading about personal development, he wound up meeting his now wife, Vivian, in Greece. She had written a book, so Mike was SUPER impressed.On that same trip, Mike was introduced to Arielle Ford, Debbie Ford, and a whole group of authors. It felt to Mike like fame oozed off of them.Mike thinks that there's just something really romantic about the notion of being an author that he won’t ignore as they go through their list of authors and talk a little bit about not just the books, but the person behind them.Today they'll tear through seven books each, including a few Mike had never heard of before (that he ended up buying while they were recording!)Let’s dive into The Biggest Books That Shaped Us and Why.Key Takeaways(05:36) Find out what Gay’s #1 book is.(08:39) The book that shaped Mike’s brain at the right time in his life.(11:57) The book that taught Gay a lot about spirituality.(15:06) One of Mike’s “weird” books.(17:36) The book that Gay really likes to recommend to EVERYone.Additional ResourcesSubscribe to The Big Leap Podcast: https://bigleappodcast.com/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience: http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply
Taking Responsibility for Your Own Life
Aug 11 2022
Taking Responsibility for Your Own Life
Today, Gay and Mike are getting really raw and diving into a heavy subject… Taking Responsibility for Your Own Life.They talk about how to get a teenager to take responsibility, and their own personal struggles with family members experiencing Dementia, Alzheimer's and Parkinson's disease.They'll also get into the internal struggles they have when they know they're not taking responsibility, lying to themselves and stuck in their addictive ways.Taking responsibility for your own life is one of the BIGGEST challenges that any human being will ever face. Needless to say, it’s a complicated beast.In the different stages of our lives, taking responsibility often means different things, so we have to deal with it in different ways. For example; how do you go about taking responsibility for the lives of the people you care about when they can’t or won’t?Gay and Mike know it's not a sexy subject, but they want to show you how radically cool it is, once you really understand the dynamics of it.Full disclosure… part of the reason why Mike asked Gay to do this episode is because Mike has a 19-year-old son who’s going through some big challenges right now.He went off to an expensive college that Mike and his wife are paying for. They told him up front what their expectations were. He didn't meet those expectations and now he has to live with the consequences—and he REALLY doesn't like it.Mike would bet his left arm that anyone who’s raised a teenager is shaking their head YES, right now!Mike knows you'll love this episode and he's positive you'll have some comments. It's going to touch home in all kinds of ways.Key TakeawaysMike talks about the struggles of raising a teenager in college (03:41)Mike and Gay discuss the difference between Responsibility and Fault or Burden (12:34)Gay gives us his best advice on negotiating behavioral issues with teenagers (20:28)“The act of taking responsibility for your life lines you up with the creative forces of the universe.” Gay explains (27:48)Gay tells us about the big turning point in his life (30:36)Additional ResourcesSubscribe to The Big Leap Podcast: https://bigleappodcast.com/ Get on the Early Bird List for The Big Leap Experience: http://www.bigleappodcast.com/Apply