When Coaching Goes Wrong

The Contact Coach

In the When Coaching Goes Wrong podcast, I am joined by coaches from all sports ranging from current professionals to the grassroots level. All these coaches share something in common- they have experienced failure. This ranges from not managing individuals within a group correctly, applying the wrong type of training methods to the detriment of results, having a winning-at-all-costs mentality, or the many other unpredictable factors that are present in a dynamic and ever-changing coaching environment.


The guests show vulnerability, and self-awareness when sharing how they came through these struggles and importantly lessons they learned. These lessons can be used to normalize failure as part of the coaching journey, illuminate any blind spots coaches might have, and overall provide hints, tips, and ideas on how coaches can reflect on their current coaching practices to ensure they are creating an excellent sporting environment for their athletes.



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Episodes

It Was Tunnel Vision Towards Rugby Championships | Rama Chand
Feb 20 2024
It Was Tunnel Vision Towards Rugby Championships | Rama Chand
Ever wondered how a nation forges its way from the ranks of tier-two rugby to the pinnacle of tier-one? That's exactly what we're unpacking with Rama Chand, the Georgian Rugby Union's Director of Rugby Development. Through an enlightening dialogue, we reflect on his international journey and dissect the strategic endeavors propelling Georgian rugby forward. Rama Chand sheds light on the pivotal role played by the Black Lion franchise team in cultivating local talent and the broader implications of bolstering a strong rugby ecosystem through dedicated coach and referee development.Straddling the line between player and coach is no simple task—it's an art form that demands finesse, and it's a narrative I'm intimately familiar with. As we wade into the complexities of dual roles, I peel back the layers of the emotional labyrinth that player-coaches navigate. Sharing personal experiences and the wisdom gathered as a coach educator, the conversation offers up strategies that player-coaches can adopt to thrive—not just survive—within their teams. This episode is a treasure trove for those seeking to understand the emotional intelligence required to lead and play simultaneously.Finally, we broaden our lens to the overarching themes of coaching and team management across the sports spectrum. My personal coaching philosophy has evolved over the years and, in this episode, I lay bare the lessons learned about adaptability and redefining success. We chat about the unique challenges of foreign coaches assimilating into Georgian culture and how embracing local customs can deepen both personal growth and coaching prowess. Whether you're an aspiring coach or a seasoned professional, this episode is a map guiding you through the terrain of professional development, mentorship, and the relentless pursuit of coaching excellence.
We Were Not Aligned In Our Rugby Coaching | Richie Williams
Feb 13 2024
We Were Not Aligned In Our Rugby Coaching | Richie Williams
In this episode, I am joined by Richie Williams, Director of Rugby at Cambridge Rugby Club in England. Richie has coached across Europe and shares great wisdom from the lessons that he has learned. As we unpack the complexities of leading a club like Cambridge Rugby, Richie imparts the lessons carved from both sweet victories and the sting of defeat. He shares a refreshing perspective on collaboration and communication, and how these pillars of teamwork are instrumental in navigating the delicate balance between asserting authority and encouraging player-driven initiatives. It's a behind-the-scenes look at the transformation of coaching methods and the evolution of player engagement, where the trust in one's coaching process becomes as crucial as the game plan itself.To cap off, Richie and I dissect the essence of resilience in the face of adversity and the significance of maintaining authenticity through the highs and lows. We explore how emotional investment and a focus on effort over outcome can galvanize a team, and the collective exhilaration when that effort challenges full-time professionals. Richie's insights are a testament to the powerful bond forged through shared experiences and the broader impacts of coaching that ripple well beyond the rugby field. Join us for this compelling episode that promises a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone passionate about sports, leadership, or the pursuit of excellence.
A Regret Was Not Selecting Her For The Rugby Olympics | Chris Brown
Feb 6 2024
A Regret Was Not Selecting Her For The Rugby Olympics | Chris Brown
Discover the transformative journey of Chris Brown, a coach whose expertise has spanned continents. In a revealing look behind the scenes, Chris recounts his path from a strength and conditioning coach to taking the helm of the USA Women's Sevens team. His stories are a trove of lessons on leadership and wisdom gleaned from international locker rooms. Whether you're a sports enthusiast or simply fascinated by the art of coaching, Chris's experiences are bound to enlighten and entertain.What does it take to manage a team through the rollercoaster of elite competition? Chris lays bare the intricacies of handling conflict, delicate team dynamics, and the courage it takes to face tough conversations. He shares personal anecdotes of when things didn't go as planned and the resilience required to bounce back stronger. The episode is an honest exploration of the emotional landscape of Olympic team selections, the critical nature of staff alignment, and the importance of trust—insights that resonate far beyond the rugby pitch.For anyone striving to master their own coaching techniques or leadership style, this episode is a playbook of high-performance wisdom. Chris gives us a peek into the meticulous planning of training regimens, the thoughtful integration of fresh talent, and the significance of building relationships that thrive under pressure. The discussion also celebrates the power of mentorship, continuous learning, and the humility that comes with seeking help. Join us for an engaging session that serves as a masterclass in navigating the ever-evolving path of leadership and personal growth.