Creative Entrepreneurs Unblocked, Healing Artist & Trauma-Informed Coaching

Aubrey Bahr | Trauma-Informed Coach & Photographer

Calling all Growth Mindset Creatives! Are you struggling with fatigue and a lack of creative inspiration in your professional or personal life? These emotions often lead many individuals to contemplate giving up and feeling creative blocks. The demands of work and the overwhelming nature of daily life drive us to seek solutions to break free from the same old routine. Unfortunately, the resources available often provide only temporary relief, failing to address the root causes. However, you won’t encounter such superficial fixes here. Through this podcast, I will give you with the tools to overcome these limiting beliefs that keep you from success in a competitive and sometimes oversaturated market. My mission is clear: to guide you in navigating the challenges of being a business owner while addressing past traumas and negative beliefs. By doing so, we can achieve holistic healing and live purposefully with a growth mindset. I’m Aubrey, an intuitive Coach and healer with 16 years of experience. Alongside my 9 years of running a successful photography business, my expertise as a Reiki Master and Subconscious Release Technique Practitioner has provided profound insights into the workings of the mind. My personal journey has taught me invaluable lessons, empowering me to transcend life’s obstacles and manifest the life I truly deserve. Join us in the Deep Healing for the Creative Soul course and access the support you need to overcome imposter syndrome, creative blocks, and burnout. Our program focuses on three key areas: 1)Developing Your Intuition 2)Releasing Subconscious Programs (or negative thought patterns) 3)Implementing Long-Term Healing Strategies Don’t let exhaustion and self-doubt hinder your artistic expression. Rekindle your passion for creativity and embark on a journey of deep healing. Visit www.aubreybahr.com for more information or contact Aubrey@abstoryteller.com to get started. read less
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The secret to Manifestation: Using the feel good emotions and the bad ones (151)
2d ago
The secret to Manifestation: Using the feel good emotions and the bad ones (151)
I currently have 9 spots available for my self-paced group program Deep Healing for the Creative Soul. This was previously $2,222 and now you can snag a spot for $888. Don't miss out on this opportunity to heal quickly and efficiently. No more pushing through life feeling unmotivated and uninspired. Break through the chains that keep you tied down.  Hello, my friends. I am so excited to get to talk to you today. I didn't think I was going to get an episode in because we have guests at our house and I really have trouble balancing work and family duties when I'm around people that I haven't got to see very often. And I know some of you can relate with that, but we just came back from the zoo and I have a minute and I'm feeling super inspired to share something with you guys. I have been, for some reason, really listening in on manifestation lately. I've been tuning into it. I've been deciphering what feels correct to me and what feels incorrect. And I just wanted to share my overall experiences with you guys. I just going to say flat out, I do not consider myself an expert in this at all. However, I can clearly look through at times in my life where I have been able to manifest things into in my world, whether intentionally or unintentionally, and what I see actually happens. So I know it's possible. And I know there's a lot of mumbo jumbo out there will say a lot of little whispers and static in the airways about this topic. So hey, why not? Let's talk about it. But first, let's go ahead and roll those credits because I have so much to go over with you guys. All right, here we go. Hey, friend, welcome to deep healing for creative entrepreneurs. My name is Aubrey Barr, and I am a subconscious release technique practitioner and photography business owner. I know you are sick of ending your day feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, and you are seeking a solution to help you feel creatively inspired and actively engaged in your business as well as professionalism. In this podcast, we are going to dig into any limiting beliefs or subconscious programs that are keeping you in a space filled with anxiety and stress. This work is not a temporary solution for your life. No, this is a complete transformation. So grab your coffee or tea and let's start you on the road to healing. And let me just say, you can do this. you are worth it, and you are meant to thrive in life and business. So let's dig in. So something that comes up a lot with people who talk about manifesting and people who try to do manifesting, whether you're a student or someone who feels like you're a coach, wherever you're at, there's this idea that the way that you feel is the way that things will be. And I believe it was Neville Goddard who said, assume the feeling of your wish fulfilled and observe the route that your attention follows. Okay. So a lot of people hear this and they think that they are supposed to feel into what that manifestation is like. So they're going to feel what it feels like to have this million dollar home or to have that partner that's just like the best thing that ever happened to you. And I do think there's truth to that, right? There's truth to feeling that deep inside. I talk about it all the time. When I feel into my gratitudes, when I allow myself to move to that higher vibration, I change my day. I absolutely stop maybe a bad day in its tracks and rearrange things and feel into that. I feel first and then the gratitude comes, right? Right. But what gets misconstrued a lot, I think, is that people think that when you are manifesting something and you are feeling into something, then you cannot waver from that feeling. So if I am manifesting this dream spouse, he's just like this incredible person. I know what I want to feel like around him. And I allow that to be my thing. And then you go on a date and you meet someone who you think is going to be the right guy. And it's just like, no, this is not happening whatsoever. And you actually leave feeling crappy. happy, right? You leave feeling unfulfilled and feeling really hopeless about, you know, your future with somebody. That moment, okay, is not going to break you. It's not going to be the end all of your manifestation journey. And I think people get so stuck in feeling like it has to feel good all the time. They have to always hold on to that feeling that they miss out on learning the opportunities. They miss out on learning like this experience has taught me what I do not want. And not only has it done that, but it's pushed me now in such a way that I am so motivated to go the other direction that I cannot even waver from that path now, right? So using your emotions for fuel towards this manifestation is always going to be better. It's always going to allow you to get closer. Does that make sense? I can't tell you how many times I have felt like, okay, I need to make this amount of money and I'm going to manifest it into my life. And I have all these offerings, which you guys know I do. And I do so many things. So I can manifest it through photography. I can manifest it through even doing my work, my subconscious work, but also massage work, right? I can, there's just ways for me to get it. Let's say that. And so I set that intention. I put it out there. I imagine what it's like. I feel into that. And then I have a bad day. And this day sucks so bad that it's hard for me to even feel gratitude. This happens to me too. I am human just like you are. But when those times happen and it's hard for me to lean into that, I tell you what, sometimes that is my biggest day. I end up booking two clients. I end up getting a photography contract that's $3,000, right? Those things happen on those off days too. And I'm sure if you take a minute and think back through your life at times when things you wanted to happen, and maybe you were feeling super pushed about it, and you were feeling just kind of down about it, those moments were not in vain. They were not perfect. They were not the perfect day on the most wonderful thing you were doing, and just like your emotions were so amazing, right? Sometimes it's those moments when we're not having the greatest day. What we need to understand is that when we set life in motion, and when we allow ourselves to imagine something better for ourselves. We are imagining in a different realm. We're not imagining in the 3D, right? Because if we were doing that, then we would have to play out exactly how each of those things were coming to us. We'd have to say, okay, when I go to the coffee shop at 8 a.m., that is where I will meet Mr. Right. He's going to be standing right there. He's going to actually even pay for my order. He's going to do all these things, right? That's ridiculous. And that puts puts limitations on us. So when we imagine things and we manifest things or we think we're manifesting things in the 3D, that is actually limiting ourselves. And so I've done this a million times too, where I will say, okay, well, I'm going to sell this course. It's going to be incredible. I really feel inclined to sell it. It's going to do so amazing. I'm going to bring in this amount of money, yada, yada. And then what happens is I bring in that amount of money, but it was in a completely different way. So I knew I was doing something right. I knew I was on the right path, but yet it wasn't playing out the way I thought it would. What I want you to understand, okay, is that it is not only okay to not feel great about something 100% of the time, but it also is completely normal and it's not bad. No emotions that you feel are bad. Emotions are neutral, okay? Okay, it's the experience that you put on that emotion that allows it to be a good or bad thing. There's no escaping emotion, unless you're a psychopath. That's a podcast episode on its own, right? But there's no escaping that. Whatever you have going on in your life is for your benefit to help you move towards something else. I know that's a hard pill to swallow sometimes. So let's take that example around finding that spouse, finding that significant other, right? and putting a limit on it. When we say it out loud, it sounds ridiculous. But when we use our experiences that we've had in life that maybe were crappy experiences, things that we do not wish on our daughters, we do not wish on our friends, we don't wish on our enemies. We want people to find what they're looking for in life. If you take that experience and you label it, then you're constantly allowing yourself to stay in that 3D where you are controlling everything. Instead, Let's release the need to label something. Let's allow ourselves to manifest something good into our lives without having the limitations. Right? Let's lead with our emotion, whether that's good or bad, whether that feels comfortable or uncomfortable. Okay? So when Neville Goddard said, assume the feeling of your wish fulfilled and observe that route that your attention follows. He did not mean that you always have to stay in that vibration. What he meant was assume you're going to get there. In other words, when you put time and energy and effort into something that you really want and you say flat out, this is what I desire. This is what I know I deserve. I don't know how I'm going to get there. That's the part right there. I do not know how I'm going to get there, but I'm going to provide that there's paths in certain directions. I'm going to be open to opportunities that come my way that would push me in a different direction, right? So assuming the emotion is then trusting, isn't it? It's more about trusting that whatever it is you have asked for is already coming to you and you detach that emotion from it. You are no longer restricting yourself. Everything that has a negative emotion attached to it and it feels like I need that and and you put that word out there, need, and I know you know what I'm talking about. Like I need $10,000. Like I need it yesterday. I have to pay my mortgage. I have to do this, whatever. When you add that extra need to it, what you're actually doing, restricting that from coming your way. You're putting up a boundary and you don't even know it. So here's the coin I want you to take with you. Next time you're having a bad day, why don't you feel into those emotions? Say, you know what? I'm having a bad day because this actually just sucks, right? Like this just doesn't feel good. I'm sad. I feel grief. I feel guilt. I'm having a bad day and that's okay. But don't assume that nothing good is going to happen to you now. Don't revert back to that part of you that feels hopeless, right? That part of you is a child. I want you to understand that. That is the child in all of us. I've met plenty of adults who still have that child in them that has not let go of that death grip, okay? You don't want to be that person. You want to have enough emotional intelligence to understand that you are going to have bad days. You're going to feel like crap sometimes some days are going to suck like it's just it's gonna suck you guys i know this you know this but understanding that you will come out the other side not giving up hope in everything that you are and everything that you've worked for that is where the magic stands and i believe in my opinion that's how we still manifest through all of this that's how people can still manifest fest and have bad days and have good days and, you know, feel like, oh my gosh, it's almost here one day and the next day, like I'm a, I'm an utter failure. So please keep that in your mind. Keep that in your heart. Understand that you're a human and allow yourself to roll with it. Allow whatever opportunities to come your way. Come with openness. Like, I don't know how this is going to work, but here's this opportunity. It's not what I thought it was going to be, but I feel good about it. And I'm going to let that happen to me. I'm going to see what happens here. So I hope that's helpful to you guys. I don't know why that was on my mind, but it is something that I've dealt with in the the past and I thought it might be a really good conversation for us to have. I want to tell you guys I am so celebrating right now because this podcast finally got to 10,000 downloads. That was a huge goal of mine since I started. There was just something about that 10,000 downloads that I was yearning for and I might have, honestly, just between you and I, I might have held on to that too much and even restricted it myself for a while. But we all have to learn from something, thing, right? Here I am. I'm still going strong. I had got my 10,000 downloads. I see so much more in the future of this podcast, in the future of me with my business. And I am so sorry if you can hear kids yelling in the background. They're having the time of their lives, these cousins. So I apologize, but I did want to record today. I did want to share my message with you guys. And I also wanted to take the opportunity to tell you I had a really important epiphany about the work that I do. And I decided that I wanted to open up my course, Deep Healing for the Creative Soul, for more souls. And I want to make this accessible to people. I am seeing a lot of businesses go down. I'm seeing a lot of artists and creatives just feeling hopeless. And I'm. I happen to know that there's a lot of hope out there, that there's a lot of growth and we do not need to live in scarcity, but I want to spread that message to you. And I want to reach as many people as I possibly can. And so I decided to reshape the way I do this program. I am no longer offering private sessions with that program. I used to offer four private sessions plus weekly group calls. And I'm taking that back a notch in order to provide this beautiful masterpiece that I worked so hard on and came through intuition and divine guidance to so many people. I want to offer it to you. And I want it to be at a price point that you can reasonably say you can invest in yourself. Now, we all know that you are worth every penny of it. when it was $2,222, you are worth it. The work is worth it. This is life-changing. It's not just something I talk about. It's something my clients live. It's something that changes lives like that. But instead of that price point, I decided to keep it to 16 weeks of pure magic self-paced work bi-weekly group sessions. So what does that mean? That means every first and third Wednesday. We will be meeting as a group. One of the monthly meetings is going to be in the middle of the day, Eastern Time, and one is going to be in the evening, Easter Time. So we're going to try to accommodate people from all over. I know this podcast is a global podcast, and I want to be able to offer that to you guys. Because I have the opportunity to change what is offered in the program, it takes the weight off of me to have such a high price point, and I'm able to bring it down to $8.88. Okay, so if this sounds like something that you want in on, I am only offering 10 spots at this rate. We are going to try it out, consider it a beta. This is the same price as my original beta program, by the way, that sold out. So I am offering 10 spots only. I sent out an email this morning and I already filled one of the spots. So I've got nine spots left. It's an incredible deal. Please know there are still payments that you can do. You can do a monthly payment, but it does come out to be $9.99. If you do the full payment, it's $8.88. You guys, this is insane. This is my way to get back to all of you that I know are in that space of just struggling, not feeling like you can manifest things, not feeling like you can fully embody everything that's coming to you. And I want to change that with you. I want you to look back and say, you know what? That was the best program I ever took. That was the best time I had with Aubrey. Because I'll tell you something, none of my clients are upset when they finish sessions with me, when they do this course with me. Nobody's ever upset about it. Like everybody knows they need it. It's taking that leap, believing in yourself, knowing you're worth it, knowing that now is the time that you're worth it. That's when the magic happens. So I can't promise that I will keep this course at this rate, but right now it feels so good to offer it to you guys. In a different package like this. So follow the link below in the show notes, check it out, see if it fits. Let me know if you have any questions whatsoever. I'm always happy to answer them. And I am just so excited to see who comes in here with me. And I'm going to be honest, I am manifesting 10 of the most amazing people out there. I am manifesting you into this program. Graham. So wherever you are, whoever you are, I am just so excited to get to share this energy with you, to get to help you to heal. Finally, we're going to save you a ton of time, money, energy that you're needing for therapy through this course. I can promise you that. I hear it from every single one of my clients. All right, guys, I hope you have a beautiful week. I have a special message coming later on this week. It is my birthday, and that is going to be so amazing. I absolutely am so ready to celebrate. So I hope you guys have fun. We'll talk to you soon. I hope this podcast spoke to you in some way. If it did, please go ahead and leave me a review view and subscribe so that I know you're enjoying what you hear. And further, if you know somebody else who owns their own creative business and struggles with anything that we spoke about, please pass this on because it is my hope that we will be able to build a community of like-minded individuals who love on each other and appreciate the many facets that make our creative business so unique. And lastly, check out the show notes to find my free Facebook community and other useful links to work with me. All right, friend. See you soon. Music.
The power of working with the subconscious mind, Curb instant gratification in business (150)
1w ago
The power of working with the subconscious mind, Curb instant gratification in business (150)
Hello, my friends. Join us for the next round of Deep Healing for the Creative Soul, use code "presale" for 40% off I hope you are all well and this finds you just happy about life. But if by chance it doesn't, we might be going over something today that's actually going to shift your mindset and shift the way you think about your business and about your personal life. I want to talk to you guys today about instant gratification. And I know everybody already knows what I'm talking about when I say those two words. It is absolutely in our face and in every way in society, everybody wants that instant gratification. They want that Amazon package delivered in two hours, right? Not two days. They want those likes on their post and that viral TikTok or whatever it is you put out in the world. Hey friend, welcome to Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs. My name is Aubrey Barr and I am a subconscious release technique practitioner and photography business owner. I know you are sick of ending your day feeling overwhelmed and exhausted and you are seeking a solution to help you feel creatively inspired and actively engaged in your business as well as personal life. In this podcast, we are going to dig into any limiting beliefs or subconscious programs that are keeping you in a space filled with anxiety and stress. This work is not a temporary solution for your life. No, this is a complete transformation. So grab your coffee or tea and let's start you on the road to healing. And let me just say, you can do this. You are worth it and you are meant to thrive in life and business. So let's. Some of you listening today to this episode are wanting to start a business and don't know where to begin. Kudos for you for looking at the mindset behind it because wow, a lot of us didn't realize there was so much to the subconscious when you're starting your own business. For the rest of you who already have a business but are looking at scaling or even shifting into a different realm. Maybe it's mentoring that you've been wanting to do or shifting complete genres, right? Whatever you're doing right now where you know you're kind of stuck at one point and you want to grow past that, that is why you're listening today. I'm going to be straight up honest with you guys, okay? I have paid a lot of money to get coaches on the business side of things that will help me form my business, market my business, put out content for my business. And I'm going to tell you right now, the best coaches and the best programs for me all had a strategy forward approach with a tiny bit of mindset work in the back. Let me explain this to you a little bit, okay? Strategy forward, what I mean by that is that, hey, this is how you start a business. This is how you maintain a business. This is how you talk about it and you share it with people. And these are the points you want to make. And this is how you want to come up with your ideal client and speak to that person. There's all this strategy behind it how many times you should post you know what kinds of questions you want to ask your audience how you want to engage with them all of these are so beneficial and I'm not overlooking them or downgrading them but I promise you your strategy is not as important as your mindset. And part of the reason why this is so essential is that instant gratification. It's that need to see that what we're doing is working. And the critical thing about this is that what you're doing is not going to work if your mindset is still keeping you in that lower vibration, in that lower world, that one where you don't believe you can scale, where you don't really think you are worth people's time, where you don't really think that you can charge that much and still have clients, right? There's a whole mindset behind that. that people who make a lot of money are the ones who have no issue making claims about their work. They do not tittle-tattle, tittle-tattle, I don't know if that's a word. They don't go back and forth in their heads about, should I do this? Should I do that? No, they do it. They go for it. And whoever wants to meet them on their level will buy with them. They will be in their world. They will choose to work with them. Okay. When you are stuck in this place, and I know it's subconscious, so some of you may not even recognize it. Okay. So just allow yourself to think, is this me? You're stuck in a place where you know you need to raise your prices, but you don't want to do it. You've been fighting with it because you honestly believe that those people that have already purchased with you will never come back to you. Okay. OK, and even though the logic is not sound there, OK, because we all know that we're all paying extra for things, we are dealing with inflation right in our face where it's super obvious. In the past, it's been slow and kind of like, oh, that feels like it's a little bit more now. Right now, it's in our face. There's no way to avoid the fact that we are paying more for things we used to pay less for. OK, so when you think about that, why why would we not expect that from those people in our lives that we do work with? I personally do not expect my hairdresser to charge me the same thing as she did 10 years ago. Like that would be crazy, right? But yeah, we put that burden on ourselves and we're doing it from a subconscious level. We are comfortable making $500 for this family session. That feels good to us and it feels sellable. We're not comfortable with asking for $750 for the same thing. Right? We actually have an income line, a salary cap in our subconscious that's saying, no, we can't go above that. And that's what a lot of you are dealing with. But yet you're seeking other strategy, right? You're looking for new ways to market and that's fine. I'm not saying you shouldn't at all. What I am saying is we're getting, putting too much focus on the the strategy and not enough on the mindset. I mentioned my coaches earlier. Every coach that I had that I have a high amount of respect for, and I absolutely love that I spent money on their program, every single one of those know without a shadow of doubt that mindset work is super super powerful. And it is often what people need to break through their current income levels or their current growth strategy. Because maybe you're growing so that you put less time into your work, but you're still making the same amount, right? It's not always about that money coming in, right? Either way, it's scaling. So those people absolutely know that. And actually, Actually, one of my coaches sent out an email about me two days ago. I was completely shocked to read it. She was talking about scaling your business to 10K months. And she is a very, very good coach. I know that sounds like a... Total selling point now because we hear it so often, oh, you want to make 10K in one month, right? And it's definitely out there. I'll give you that. But this coach in particular is crazy good at what she does. And she is very much worth the investment. But she sent out an email about that. And she talked about how people are always wanting that instant gratification. They are wanting that opportunity to put in, even just purchase a course, and then think that the next Oh, bam, 10K, I made it, right? And it sounds so dumb when we just say it, but it is subconsciously what we're expecting. We're upset because it didn't work in the first month, right? We don't think that we have to put that much time into it because we're learning it. That's what we're here for. We think it's supposed to be fast. But nonetheless, I wanted to read a little bit about what she wrote because I think it's the best advice and it just 100% goes along with my way way of thinking about how I work on the subconscious mind. So I wanted to share some with you guys. Okay. It says, how long does it take to make 10K a month? This is the most common question I get asked. And the answer is always, it depends. It depends on what your childhood looked like. It depends on your ability to handle pressure. It depends on how long you take to make decisions. Because your childhood, your traumas, and your conditioning affect how you show up for your life and your business. And how you show up defines the results you'll get. This is 100% true. This is what I have seen over and over again. This is where people miss the mark. People will spend days, hours, months working on strategy, and they still won't be able to to succeed because their mindset is not accepting of their new goal and their new growth, okay? The main motto, you can achieve anything you want, you just have to work harder. And if you haven't reached your goal, then it's because you haven't worked hard enough. You guys hear me talk about this all the time. It's that hard work mentality. It's a generational trauma. And it's absolutely the reason why a lot of you can't make passive income and you can't make sales quickly, okay? Totally, you guys, listen, this is totally, totally, I made up a word for this. It is totally fixable. Like a hundred percent, you can get past that. It's not going to hold you back as long as you know what to do about it. But she went on to say, It wasn't until I understood how to manage my capacity, work through a lot of my childhood trauma and workaholism, and investing heavily into becoming aware and healing those wounds that I was able to scale to 100K months. And just a side note, I personally know that she makes well over 100K in a month at this point. But she goes on to say, your business success will not just depend on the strategies you you know, but also on your early childhood and generational experiences that have shaped your whole life. I know many of you struggle to show up and let yourself be seen. You struggle with imposter syndrome or not feeling good enough. That's why I wanted to introduce you to my VIP client, Aubrey Barr. Now, I was absolutely flabbergasted at reading this email because Because she's absolutely talking about the mindset work that I love and talk about all the time. And she 100% agrees with me. Someone who's making way more, let's just say it, than I am, okay? Way more. But she understands the value of the subconscious work that I do. And I am honored that she understands that and that she shares that with her world because because she has a lot of reach out there. So that definitely made me happy. But let's be honest, if I didn't go out every day and share this passion and this knowledge with people, and be able to help them move past their limiting beliefs, and guess what? I show up, even though it doesn't always feel like I'm getting that instant gratification. I'm not always getting top downloads on my podcast or, you know, a crap ton of people on my YouTube videos, which are few and far between. Like not everything I do is going viral and getting all that traction that feels beautiful and accepting and amazing, right? But guess what? I'm still out there. I'm still doing my thing because I believe in what I do. And I have a why underneath here that says, you know what? You need to help other people to understand. What is actually holding them back, and then show them the blueprint. Show them the way in which they're going to be able to move past these issues. Because no matter what business you have now, it will not succeed if it keeps coming across these negative thought patterns. Eventually, you will give in. Most people are not strong enough to keep fighting and fighting day in and day out without getting that mindset shift and mindset support. This is the ultimate goal of subconscious release technique and being able to heal from the inside out. So wherever you're at, I invite you to join us for Deep Healing for the Creative Soul. I am starting a new group here in three weeks. And if you guys sign up today, I am giving you 40% off, which is crazy, crazy good. OK, you can do payments. And honestly, I'm not trying to get you in there. If you can't afford it, then you should absolutely not do it. However, for those of you who are sick of being on that hamster wheel, you're sick of turning and getting the same results. I want you in my world. I want to provide a space for you to be more than you can imagine in every phase of life. That is my goal. That is my passion. That is why I'm here. And that is who I am at the core level. So my friend, please join us in this next round and be ready. Okay. Just be ready for good things to happen to you because that's exactly what we're going to do. We're going to release any of the bad programming that's telling you those things will not happen for you. That's telling you to give up. That's telling you it's too hard and making you live in scarcity. That is the opposite of where you want to be on this path. You guys have so much potential. You can grow to so much more than where you're at right now. And I want to be on that journey with you. I absolutely do. Check out the show notes all the info will be there i can't wait to see you guys and i can't wait for this next group of amazing confident creative entrepreneurs that are shifting their minds to allow for ultimate growth all right guys have a beautiful day we'll talk soon. I hope this podcast spoke to you in some way if it did please go ahead and leave me a review and subscribe so that I know you're enjoying what you hear. And further, if you know somebody else who owns their own creative business and struggles with anything that we spoke about, please pass this on because it is my hope that we will be able to build a community of like-minded individuals who love on each other and appreciate the many facets that make our creative business so unique. And lastly, check out the show notes to find my free Facebook community and other useful links to work with me. All right, friend, see you soon.
Embracing self-reflection: Turning trials into triumphs with a growth mindset (147)
May 28 2024
Embracing self-reflection: Turning trials into triumphs with a growth mindset (147)
Check out my current programs here I hope everyone had a fabulous Memorial Day to my Americans. We got an extra day off, which was nice, but I'm still recording this before we head to the Memorial Day tribute, which my mother-in-law is going to be speaking at. So it's going to be amazing. I wanted to take a minute and come on here and talk to you guys about self-reflection when it comes to trials and traumas and things that come up in your life that you have to deal with. So let's go ahead and get started.  Hey friend, welcome to Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs. My name is Aubrey Bahr and I am a subconscious release technique practitioner and photography business owner. I know you are sick of ending your day feeling overwhelmed and exhausted and you are seeking a solution to help you feel creatively inspired and actively engaged in your business as well as personal life. In this podcast, we are going to dig into any limiting beliefs or subconscious programs that are keeping you in a space filled with anxiety and stress. This work is not a temporary solution for your life. No, this is a complete transformation. So grab your coffee or tea and let's start you on the road to healing. And let me just say, you can do this, you are worth it, and you are meant to thrive in life and business. So let's dig in. Music. I know this doesn't come as a surprise, but every single person out there in the world and those that are listening to this will go through ups and downs in life, right? We all have situations come up where it tests us, where it really makes us dig deep. And, you know, I mean, we've all survived so far, right? If you're listening to this, but sometimes these can be very big and sometimes they can be somewhat small. So regardless of where these issues come up and when, the mindset that follows them is a huge indication of where you are at on your healing journey and being able to assess these things for your benefit. So a lot of us will come across a situation that makes us feel completely defeated and sometimes this sneaks up on you and sometimes it's been building for a while right sometimes we're not really surprised that something's came up what you need to do is next time you are in a situation where this definitely feels like a trial where you could say okay this has shifted my day my week this has changed the way i feel about something i want you you to sit with it for a minute instead of brushing it away and kind of excusing it, right? As another issue, we all have crap days, right? Crap hits the fan. Try not to cuss here. But instead of just overpowering that and getting into the right mindset. Let's sit with it for a minute. Let's think about it for a second, because when you get the opportunity to self-reflect in those moments, it adds to your emotional intelligence. It adds to your ability to overcome the problem. What we don't wanna do is just stuff it away. We don't wanna ignore it and save it for next week or five years from now, right? And sometimes it's necessary to process things at our availability when we can. I did an episode. Let me check. Episode 132 is two tips to help you keep it together temporarily so that you can master that emotional intelligence. So if you're in a situation where you absolutely have to show up doing whatever you're doing, but something goes wrong, right? There are ways to sidestep that temporarily that are healthy ways that will allow you to get back into the energy of things and save it for later with a promise of being able to process that at a different time. So check that out if you need help with that. But basically, when we default to, this is horrible, this is the worst thing that could happen to me, all these things come up, right? We are absolutely sometimes overreacting. And that comes very easily to those of us who have not processed or healed past traumas, that we are stuck in this nervous system. Dysregulation, that's when it'll come up the most. So it'll be like, why are we freaking out over something that maybe it's going to matter tomorrow, but maybe in a month, it's not going to matter. Maybe in a month, we're going to have a better outlook, or we're going to see that there's other opportunities in this. And honestly, sometimes we need a friend, we need a partner, her. We need someone else in our lives that are going to say, okay, Aubrey, I think you're taking this too seriously, right? So self-reflection does win, but sometimes we need a little help kind of getting us there. And that's okay too. What I really want to focus on today is the difference between seeing things that happen in your life as happening to you and seeing things in your life is happening for you. And there is a massive difference in mindset between these two. Now, I have lived most of my life on the first one where everything that was happening to me, right? And it didn't mean I was super negative. I wasn't. I've always been very optimistic in things. But at the same time, I definitely felt that victimhood, like, why is this happening to me this way? You know, how can I stop these things from happening to me? I have a lot of past traumas between just dealing with some really horrible things, right? And so I always felt like those were happening to me. Like, do I have something on my head that's like, hey, I'm going to be a victim. And energetically, I think that I might have. I really do. Now that I have that beautiful thing, hindsight, right? At almost 41 years old, finally acquired that hindsight mentality. But when you look at things differently, when you say, okay, this is really crappy. I'm going to let it settle. I'm going to feel all the feelings. I'm going to journal about it. I'm at a rest. Whatever it is you need to do. Maybe you're going to go run a marathon. Get your head in the right space again, but allow yourself to process everything that you feel around the situation. When you come back to it, that's when you want to look at it and say, okay, how is this better for me? You know, and this is definitely a cliche, but we've all heard that saying where it's like one door closes, another one opens, right? And that is not a bad way to look at things, right? Man, some of the biggest trials I've experienced in my life Life shook me up so bad and yet stuck me on a completely different pathway, one that I'm not sure I would have gone on willingly. Things are hard, right? It's hard to change things in life. It's hard to transform. It's hard to shift your business. It's hard to start a new relationship. But yet sometimes during these biggest trials, that is exactly what we get to do. We get to choose something that in the end is probably better for us, but we couldn't even see it before. If you guys follow me, let me know, tell me, because I know that this is speaking to you. What really needs to happen is we have to learn to shift that on our own. We have to learn to see opportunities. As fast as we could process something, we need to be able to see the opportunities in it. But that doesn't disregard sitting in the pain or the sadness. It just means we're quicker to accept that maybe this is putting us on a different path. And that could be for your benefit. In fact, I'd go as far as to say that most of the things that I've had to deal with on a. So if you get a minute today, I would love for you to write down some of the bigger things you've been through and how that worked out better for you, right? We need to start retraining our mind around those positive experiences that we have after the fact. For example, a really bad breakup often opens your heart up to a different person, maybe someone totally different, But also that opportunity of meeting them, right? Being at the right place at the right time. I love stories like that. In fact, my own story with my husband, how we met was very similar to that where I was completely, utterly like just ripped apart in my previous marriage. And I went back up to Alaska. And within two months, my sister was like, Hey, you need to talk to this guy. Remember he was at the wedding. He was my brother-in-law's best friend. He's a nice guy. You guys should talk. He's not dating anyone, blah, blah, blah. I'm like, okay. So I did. I started this long distance relationship with some guy that I was in a wedding with, never talked to, never said one word to. In fact, in the pictures at the rehearsal dinner, we're looking the other direction. I don't even know if we had eye contact. Okay. And yet four years later, we're talking over the phone like every day and he lived 4,000 miles away. It felt very safe to my nervous system to allow myself to open up to someone who lived so far away. I didn't have to go see him every day. I didn't have to feel like claustrophobic, which I was dealing with a lot, very much a lot. And within a few months, I mean, he proposed to me the week in my divorce finally went through. So I went from being. Completely broken, okay, in September 2004 to being married and completely in love in October 2005. And I'm not saying that was the end of my journey, but I am saying that being able to look at my situation and see the opportunities that came my way, for one, I was able to recognize qualities in this man that I hadn't seen, I didn't know was possible, right? Because my entire experience before that moment with men helped me. I pretty much gave me a crash course in what I didn't want. Being able to recognize signs of abuse, being able to recognize that not all people are good, right? These were lessons that I learned very fast. I had to learn that. And then I had to be put in a situation where I chose my life over any of my belongings. That's a story in itself, but it just goes to show you that sometimes these bigger things happen to us and we just think it's the most horrible thing, and yet it opens a different door for us. When you can get to a place where you're open to these opportunities because of the experience, that's where you start to see all these positive things happen for you. And who's to say that even in the midst of scarcity and lack there's more out there that's a mindset shift that takes a lot of us a long time and i see it played out in our businesses too where we feel like well we're not getting booked but all these people are and there's something wrong with us and we kind of default to i'll never get another booking and then what plays out that exact thing right put yourself in a situation where you can say okay this was not a great month but I'm open to the opportunity for more that's what you want to tell yourself and you want to tell yourself confidently and actually we're going to go ahead and do an affirmation and maybe we'll do some tapping so just go ahead and tap on your collarbone and then you can repeat after me I am so happy and so thankful. I am open to receiving more than I can imagine in all areas of my life. All right, my friends, I hope you enjoyed that. I want to say that all of the work I do, everything that involves my coaching, everything you'll find on my website, courses.aubreybarr.com, all of that has a basis in self-confidence and self-love. It's through this kind of work that we truly start to shape. Our minds towards a growth mindset instead of lack. I don't know if you guys have noticed, but there is a whole lot of noise out there lately. A lot of people talking about their business shutting down, about having to quit on something, about inflation, all of the things, right? All of these things, while has some truth, right? There's some bearing of truth in them. it leads people to be discouraged it leads people to feel scarcity and to feel lack and when we are living a life in lack and scarcity that is when the biggest problems come up because now we allow more into our lives we shut off our ability to see opportunity we shut off our ability to shift our business towards growth because all we see is the negativity so i want to send a little message to you out there and ask you to really tune into where you're spending your time. What websites, what group communities, YouTube channels, whatever they may be, are they lifting you up or are they repeating the scarcity and the lack and the lies? That is going to be a huge shift for you. And I just want to let you guys know that when you spend days in that world, and even Even if it's a friendship or partnership, just know that you are taking all of that in and claiming it for yourself. So start today by claiming something different. Make conscious decisions that put you in a space of growth and opportunity. And if you need help shifting a certain category, whether it be money stuff, dealing with inflation, or even dealing with your body, with health things you have going on, check out the website website, courses.aubreybar.com, and you will find several different programs that I have to help you shift out of that mindset and into something better, into that basis of self-love and appreciation. All right, guys, have a beautiful day. I will talk to you soon. I hope this podcast spoke to you in some way. If it did, please go ahead and leave me a review you and subscribe so that I know you're enjoying what you hear. And further, if you know somebody else who owns their own creative business and struggles with anything that we spoke about, please pass this on because it is my hope that we will be able to build a community of like-minded individuals who love on each other and appreciate the many facets that make our creative business so unique. And lastly, check out the show notes to find my free Facebook community and other useful links to work with me. All right, friend. See you soon.
Your shoulder pain is a sign of deeper trauma. (146)
May 24 2024
Your shoulder pain is a sign of deeper trauma. (146)
Hey friends, Aubrey here! Snag my 7 minute private podcast to get rid of emotional blocks in your shoulders and upper back here. Are you dealing with chronic upper back pain? You might be surprised to learn that this discomfort could be tied to unresolved emotional trauma. In today's episode, we explore the connection between emotional weight and physical pain, particularly in the shoulders and upper back. Welcome to "Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs." I'm Aubrey Bahr, a subconscious release technique practitioner and photography business owner. If you're tired of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, this podcast is your path to creative inspiration and active engagement in both your business and personal life. We’ll uncover limiting beliefs and subconscious programs causing anxiety and stress, guiding you toward a complete transformation. Today's discussion dives deep into how emotional burdens manifest as physical pain in the upper back and shoulders. I share insights into common emotional triggers like self-trust issues, feelings of being unloved, and abandonment. Plus, I offer a free seven-minute emotional release recording to help you alleviate this pain and strengthen the affected areas. Join us for this eye-opening episode and start your journey towards emotional and physical healing. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with fellow creative entrepreneurs. Check out the show notes for more resources and links to our free Facebook community. Let's build a supportive network and thrive together!
How to break through self-criticism today (145)
May 21 2024
How to break through self-criticism today (145)
Grab my self-paced course "The Ultimate Love Your Body Course" use code oneday   Breaking Self-Criticism: Subconscious Blocks And Deep Healing Strategies Welcome to an episode of "Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs", hosted by Aubrey Bahr, a subconscious release technique practitioner and photography business owner. In today's episode, Aubrey dives deep into understanding the undercurrents of self-criticism and why it is so intrinsic to our nature. We explore the origins of these habitual patterns by looking at toddlers' responses to frustration and distress. Think back to when you saw a toddler throwing a tantrum or hurting themselves out of frustration. As we grow up, these patterns of self-belittlement, self-discipline, and guilt evolve into subtler forms of negative self-talk and behavior. Aubrey emphasizes that just as it's our responsibility to guide and nurture young children, we should provide ourselves with the same care and understanding. Drawing upon her expertise in working with the subconscious mind, Aubrey discusses how deeply entrenched these self-critical notions can be, and how they often mask themselves as 'realities' fed by our psyche. Despite the negativity that rests within us, we need to continuously compliment these aspects with positive affirmations and compelling beliefs. Further, she shares four useful strategies for planting seeds of empowerment and self-love, which include spiritual engagement, physical activities, gaining knowledge, and a time for self-reflection. These activities aim at progressively shifting your thought process and inner dialogue, thus making changes at a deeper level. Aubrey also introduces her self-led course, 'The Ultimate Love Your Body Course.' The program aims to help individuals erase negative stories about their physical appearance and sensations, encouraging a healthier mental and physical outlook. Tune in to today's powerful episode to kickstart your journey toward deep healing!
Unraveling the impact of generational trauma (144)
May 17 2024
Unraveling the impact of generational trauma (144)
In this episode, your host, Aubrey Bahr, a Subconscious Release Technique practitioner and Photography business owner, delves into the much neglected topic of generational trauma, providing valuable insights on how our family beliefs and narratives are passed down to influence our lives. Aubrey begins by encouraging you to reflect on patterns, stories and beliefs embedded in your family which may be subconsciously influencing your identity. Narrating her own experience with her Grandpa, she additionally inspires to strive beyond the limiting beliefs presented by our family narrative. (Check out that episode here) Through the episode, she explores the origins of generational trauma, ranging from major historic family events to seemingly trivial limitations ingrained into the family thread. Aubrey also draws parallels from popular cultural references to help you visualize generational trauma and its effects on daily life. She emphasizes the need to leverage subconscious release techniques, noting it as a powerful tool that helps not only identify, but release these embedded narratives - for ourselves, our ancestors and most importantly, our children. She inspires listeners to embark on a journey of self-reflection and healing, helping erase these limiting beliefs to cultivate a healthier and more empowering sense of self. This episode of "Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs" is a must-listen for those who seek transformation in their lives and businesses by freeing themselves from the chains of generational trauma. Tune in and empower yourself to lead a more fulfilling, stress-free life.   Join the mailing list to stay up to date with the podcast, programs and retreats
How finding your purpose can shift your business success (142)
May 10 2024
How finding your purpose can shift your business success (142)
Are you going through something difficult and need help processing it all. Check out my private sessions, use code "May" and grab one before they run out! Ever feel like you're losing track of your vision as a business owner? In this episode, listen as your host, Aubrey, known for her subconscious release technique work talks about how to rediscover your purpose and realize the value you put out to the world. She shares her experience helping her client through a challenging time and the profound impact it had on her client's life two years later, reminding us how significant our impact can be. She also discusses her struggles with sharing success stories that aren't hers to tell. With her story, Aubrey hopes to inspire other business owners to focus on their purpose and recognize the positive changes they have made in people's lives. Aubrey also encourages you to engage in self-reflection and list out their victories, no matter how small they may seem. If there are no immediate wins, she suggests examining where the blockages might lie and proposes that an emotional disconnect could be the culprit. To her, even past wins are worth counting as these are a reminder of what you've been able to accomplish so far. Don’t miss this inspiring episode and get a renewed sense of purpose in your entrepreneurial journey. Rediscover your 'why', give yourself some credit, and realize that your impact is far more profound than you might think! If you're interested in delving deeper and would like to avail of private sessions, check out the link in the show notes. As Aubrey believes, healing isn't a temporary solution - it's a complete transformation.
My biggest secret to build confidence and live authentically (140)
May 3 2024
My biggest secret to build confidence and live authentically (140)
Snag one of the last spots for "We are Magnetic Women" Membership here. Welcome to a powerful discussion on the untapped power — confidence, with your host, Aubrey. In todays episode, we dive into the concept of building your self-confidence, the real obstacle to your growth and success. Nobody but YOU hold the power to calibrate your self-esteem; it is exclusively yours to grow or yours to surpress. Confidence is largely overlooked in personal development and holds so much power. As Aubrey bravely shares her journey of finding her confidence as a photographer, mindset coach, and intuitive worker, she shines a light on the secret to becoming a person who commands attention in a room without uttering a word — authenticity. We explore an interesting study finding that authenticity has a higher vibration than love. This episode invites a thoughtful reflection on how your understanding of your purpose contributes towards enhancing authenticity and boosting confidence. The episode is packed with valuable perspectives, sharing insightful observations, and heartening advice for those who question their worth and abilities on their journey. We discuss the importance of standing tall and the capability within to overcome all obstacles, dare to dream, and act incisively. Fighting imposter syndrome and tuning into your intuition will bring crucial for your growth. Understanding the power of resilience, the determination to get up every time you stumble, lays the solid foundation for a confident, successful mindset. You will also learn about the profound impact of gratitude on your confidence and energy levels. Embodying gratitude can significantly change your vibrational energy and contribute to personal growth, ultimately steering you towards your authentic self. All you need is a moment each day to immerse yourself in the feelings of gratitude and I'll walk you through how to do just that.  This enlightening episode is guaranteed to inspire and uplift those in need of a confidence boost and might be your kick-start towards becoming the best version of yourself. Be prepared to unleash your powerful, authentic self with newfound confidence and resilience. Join us and be a part of our community of like-minded individuals thriving in our unique creative businesses. See you soon! Check out my free meditation to help you feel more worthy and confident.
Three tools to help shift a dysregulated nervous system (139)
Apr 29 2024
Three tools to help shift a dysregulated nervous system (139)
Hey friend, There are a couple spots left in We Are Magnetic Women where you can join us in monthly nervous system resets as well as life-changing programs and group Subconscious Release Technique Session. Check it out here.  I had a client this morning who needed help with her nervous system regulation. Maybe you don't know what this is, allow me to explain it to you. In this episode, we will connect the dots between your triggers and reactions to the outside world and what's really going on in the inside. We will dive into three simple and easy things you can do right now to help you feel more grounded and shift your perspective towards hope and out of anxiety.    Debunk the limitations brought about by the term "dysregulated nervous system" and learn how to identify such scenarios in your daily life. Allow yourself to be open to what your own nervous system is telling you. Understanding its role under various life situations, from minor triggers to extreme cases like a car accident can help you finally start transformation from extremely stressed to calm and collected.  Embrace my top three favorite ways for home-based nervous system regulation, including singing, laughter, and EFT Tapping. Discover how easy day-to-day activities like laughter and singing can act as a potent tool to shake up your nervous system, releasing pent-up tension and anxiety. This eye-opening episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to add some disruptive yet refreshing transformations in their life by fostering healthier nervous system responses. Prepare to metamorphose your life and business because you are precious, and you are born to thrive. In this intriguing journey, also learn about tapping, common issues encountered like feeling trapped, the art of meditation, its similarities to prayer, and how understanding and addressing these undercurrents are pivotal in taking control over anxiety, facilitating better nervous system regulation. This in-depth episode will leave you feeling more grounded, more in sync with yourself, and will quite possibly shift your perspective in life-affirming directions.
Live coaching call- Feeling stuck & not connecting with clients (138)
Apr 27 2024
Live coaching call- Feeling stuck & not connecting with clients (138)
Join us in We are Magnetic Women Membership to get access to coaching like this and additional self-paced courses.  In this episode, join the powerful conversation with Aubrey Bahr, a remarkable subconscious release technique practitioner, and Jessie, a courageous emotion code practitioner. Together, they navigate through the highs and lows of being an entrepreneurial healer. They explore the tenets of coaching interdependence, the value of diverse viewpoints, and delving beyond our innate limiting beliefs and fears that often lead to a stressful entrepreneurial journey. Get ready to traverse Jessie's story, dealing with self-doubt, stagnation, and the feeling of being ensnared in her profession and motherhood. Throughout this  conversation, they give insights into achieving balance, evaluating self-worth discerningly, enhancing communication, embracing evolving self-changes, and squaring off fears. All towards building a fulfilling life on both personal and professional fronts. As we proceed, we explore how transforming beliefs can stir feelings of instability but also pave the way for growth and new opportunities. You will uncover how emotions are inextricably linked with our entrepreneurial endeavors, making this episode a treasure trove filled with wisdom about personal development, self-consciousness, and business. Our conversation moves towards undertaking the challenging task of letting go of deeply entrenched subconscious programs and fears. By incorporating guided muscle testing and releasing procedures, you will learn to exhale negativity and inhale positivity, thereby promoting deeper introspection. We learn to clear heavy emotional weights attached to certain words and expressions, replacing them with trust, gratitude, and love. This ultimately facilitates overall healing and personal growth. Our meeting is an open arena for fearlessly exploring personal struggles and is designed specifically for creative business owners. Don't hesitate to join our community for more sessions, and embark on your healing journey towards a better future. The perks? You'll enjoy premium access to our courses and more. Remember to share your review and spread the word among your entrepreneurial friends. Get the link to our community membership in the show notes. You are just one step away from a transformative journey!
CranioSacral Massage for entrepreneurs, Heal your body series (137)
Apr 23 2024
CranioSacral Massage for entrepreneurs, Heal your body series (137)
Check out Deep Healing for the Creative Soul where Aubrey dives into healing the body, mind and soul for Artists. Join the email list for the latest on the podcast, retreats and classes.  Welcome to a captivating episode that delves into the world of body work, focusing specifically on the lesser-known but vastly beneficial craniosacral massage therapy. We explore its role in enhancing our physical health, and the immense potential it holds in maintaining a more balanced version of ourselves. Our host, Aubrey Bahr, a certified Subconscious Release Technique practitioner, presents strategies for deep healing, particularly tailored for creative entrepreneurs. Shedding light on different types of body work, Aubrey offers a comprehensive analysis of craniosacral therapy. The episode takes you on a journey through the cerebral spinal fluid system, explaining how craniosacral therapy aids in its optimal function. Learn about this non-invasive technique and its effectiveness in treating various ailments, from trauma triggered by acute incidents to chronic adult and infant conditions. We further delve into the fascinating field of holistic therapy, unraveling how craniosacral therapy addresses imbalances and unblocks physical and emotional obstacles. The discussion further expounds on the therapists' ability to detect and deal with barricades in our system, especially in the pelvis and stomach areas. Discover real-life examples of the transformative power of craniosacral therapy through the story of a woman who had a fall and experienced remarkable improvement after just one session. The episode also explores the therapy's potential benefits extend to infants struggling with breastfeeding and pregnant women. This episode is a gem for those seeking ways to better understand their bodies, manage work schedules effectively, and explore therapeutic options like craniosacral therapy. Join us and tap into this wealth of knowledge that could potentially transform your health and well-being. Find a Practitioner close to you here.
Are you People Pleasing? A look into how childhood trauma stays with you (136)
Apr 19 2024
Are you People Pleasing? A look into how childhood trauma stays with you (136)
Join us in this program for People Pleasers and finally heal the desire to make every one else happy before yourself.  In this episode, we delve into the common struggles with people-pleasing, particularly the underlying fears stemming from past traumas. I reveal valuable insights brought about by a question from Lisa, a member of my course, who highlighted the connection between people-pleasing and fear responses like abandonment, rejection, and retaliation. Unpacking these issues can offer a clear understanding of how past experiences can trickle into our current behaviors and attitudes. We delve into how these fears can hold us captive, induce anxiety, and manifest as habitual people-pleasing behaviors. I also share my own experiences and how I consciously work towards avoiding burnout by prioritizing self-care. But understanding these problems isn't enough to facilitate growth and transformation. In the course, I reveal how we practically go about resolving these issues and replacing fear with positive self-love, and attitudes that set us up for success in our personal and business lives.So, I invite you to set off on this path of self-discovery and healing - because you are worth it, and you are meant to thrive! Feel free to share this episode with anyone struggling with people-pleasing or fear of abandonment and let's awaken hope together. Don't forget to leave a review, subscribe, and join our creative community. Tune in for a transformative conversation that helps deconstruct the roots of fear and provides practical steps to healing. Join the email list
Three tips to help you choose if you need a Coach or Mentor for your business (135)
Apr 16 2024
Three tips to help you choose if you need a Coach or Mentor for your business (135)
Check out the We Are Magnetic Women Membership here. Welcome to "Deep Healing for Creative Entrepreneurs," a podcast exploring the intersection of mindset and creativity hosted by your guide, Aubrey Bahr. This episode dives into the intricate dynamics of groups and mentorships, providing pertinent insights to aid your future decisions. Aubrey lays bare the undefined influence of personal inner healing on marketing approaches, sharing wisdom from her experiences as a guest expert in elite mastermind groups. She discusses the readiness required to undertake the intensive work of personal healing, in tandem with staying authentic amidst struggles for acceptance. Discover how to approach challenging feedback, as Aubrey shares her strategies for retaining resolve and returning as a guest speaker, even after initial disappointments. The episode revolves around "soul-aligned marketing," offering tips on identifying whether a group, mentorship, or membership resonates with you. Uncover the essence of an open, safe group environment and why its support is crucial. Aubrey puts forward valuable insights on selecting suitable mentors or communities, offers guidance on personal growth, and shares relatable experiences to help steer your decision-making process. Business success often hinges on identifying opportunities aligned with your values and objectives. This episode unpacks the decision-making process involving personal and business growth opportunities, stressing the need to measure your capabilities alongside the actual merits of opportunities before committing. In the context of mentorship programs or membership groups, the role of dedicated investment of time, effort, and finances are discussed. The episode emphasizes the pivotal role of active participation in reaping the comprehensive benefits of any growth opportunity. The episode further examines the contrast between decision making driven by fear versus abundance. It reminds listeners that decisions should be grounded on firm, positive beliefs, avoiding fear-induced choices. Learn how to evaluate potential mentors or memberships, with an emphasis on trusting your intuition and conducting thorough background checks. The show underscores the importance of self-trust in your journey of personal and business growth. In conclusion, the episode suggests that successful decision making for growth opportunities depends on understanding both the opportunity and your place within that opportunity. Remember, your intuition is the perfect compass on this journey.
Are you open for new opportunities or stuck in a routine?  (134)
Apr 12 2024
Are you open for new opportunities or stuck in a routine? (134)
Stay in the know with the podcast and upcoming programs by clicking here In this eye-opening episode, I delve into a topic frequently on my mind: the contrast between feminine and masculine energy. I examine the way we usually navigate our lives and businesses with masculine energy, which might not work for us women long-term. I highlight how our society often pushes women to put others before themselves and how this habit affects our lives and harms our businesses. When we prioritize others, we leave not only ourselves but also opportunities behind. We discuss what happens when we consistently go about our routines, frequenting our favorite spots, and completing our everyday tasks the same way. While routines can offer comfort, they can also limit our exposure to new and exciting opportunities. Sometimes, we need to shake up the norm and put ourselves in unique situations, exercising our flexibility and openness to change. In order to craft healthier and more productive ways of living, it's critical to understand where your energy goes and how you can harness it for the better. This episode provides valuable insight into assessing our lives so that we can begin making small changes that will open up new paths and possibilities. Listen in for a deeper comprehension of how feminine and masculine energy impact our decisions and actions, and learn how you can begin to create room for growth, both personally and professionally. This podcast is intended for anyone looking for a fresh perspective on their life and business. If you're keen on living more authentically, embracing change, challenging societal norms, and opening your life to new opportunities, this episode is a must-listen!
How I shift my perspective to take on back-end business that's not exciting. (133)
Apr 8 2024
How I shift my perspective to take on back-end business that's not exciting. (133)
Get my meditation the Attract Your Ideal Clients here. Snag a copy of Get Rich Lucky Bitch here! by Denise Duffield-Thomas In this episode, our host shares her hilarious and insightful journey through tax season. Balancing her business life amid piles of receipts and dark chocolate espresso beans, she provides an authentic look at the joys and challenges of business ownership. From recounting her 25% business growth last year to reflecting on an unexpected eclipse, she inspires listeners with her unique approach to daily business tasks. She dives into the emotional roller coaster of entrepreneurship, while advocating for a mindset shift around not-so-fun tasks. Relating her personal experiences, she emphasizes the importance of detaching anxiety from routine business chores and embracing them as part of the wonderful flow of abundance. Towards the end, she reminds listeners that spending becomes an act of enriching the community, investing in personal wellbeing and fostering emotional and mental wealth. She prompts listeners to choose optimism even in the face of anxiety and to view each business task as a unique, abundant opportunity. In the conclusion, she extends an invitation to join her ongoing courses and become part of her thriving community of like-minded, creative business owners. Whether you're bracing for tax season or steering through the ups and downs of entrepreneurship, this episode promises to resonate with you.
Two tips to help you keep it together temporarily, Mastering Emotional Intelligence (132)
Apr 2 2024
Two tips to help you keep it together temporarily, Mastering Emotional Intelligence (132)
Join us in We Are Magnetic Women Membership. (use code Selflove) In this captivating episode, join our enthusiastic host as they share engaging personal tales and delve into meaningful topics revolving around emotional release and intelligence. Through their own vibrant spring break family experiences and participating in a significant orchestral choral performance, our host offers insight into the delicate balance of embracing and containing emotions. Learn more about the exciting April focus of the 'We are Magnetic Women' membership program. It is a fantastic resource for those seeking personal growth without a significant commitment. The program will aim to release creative blocks and tackle people-pleasing behavior, all at an impressively affordable price. Follow the host’s vivid account of preparing for their emotionally demanding choir performance with their child, Aspen. Immerse yourself in their story of emotional restraint, relief, and how the power of music led them to an intense process of emotional release. Realize the essential practice of processing emotions, which can often be overlooked, to maintain a balanced, productive and healthy life. Experience a peek into dealing with situations where it’s tough or improper to express emotions freely. Find solace in visual exercises like imagining a balloon, and be prepared to navigate such instances with strength and resilience. These practical strategies can provide the much-needed tools to manage, process and release your own suppressed or ignored feelings. Finally, explore the constructive aspect of crying, often stigmatized, as a healthy form of emotional release. This episode strives to debunk such stereotypes and accentuates the importance of emotional processing for overall well-being and mental health. Get ready to step into a world of enhanced emotional intelligence with this enlightening episode   Join the email list