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"I want you woven into a tapestry of love, in touch with everything there is to know of God. Then you will have minds confident and at rest, focused on Christ, God's great mystery." Colossians 2:2 Woven in Truth Podcast is an outpouring of our heart as women to connect the way God desires- to Him first and foremost, but also to one another. This is a platform in which we will hear from different women at different life stages teaching what God has put on their hearts to encourage, inspire, and empower our listeners with God's truth. Please join us as we learn, laugh, and grow together. read less
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She's Not Your Enemy
Nov 20 2023
She's Not Your Enemy
What is God's vision for our relationships with other women in our lives? Jenn stops by to address the lies of inadequacy and scarcity that we can so easily believe in our interpersonal connections. Listen for some perspective on how our postures can shift from comparison and competition to solidarity and life-giving support in our communities. About the SpeakerJenn Schultz is the author of She's Not Your Enemy, and she typically writes about messy faith, shaking off insecurity, and pursuing God’s purpose confidently. Her mission is to empower women to ditch shame and striving by finding identity in God and freedom in abundant grace. She is a wife and mom who reads too many books at once, drinks decaf coffee, and speaks in scriptures and movie quotes. Find her @jennschultzauthor on social media and at jennschultzauthor.com.Episode Notes1 Peter 5:8  “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” It’s so easy for us to make other women the enemy.Unhealthy comparison isn’t even the root of the issue in this spiritual battle … it’s an identity issue.“Our view of God- who he is and who says WE are- makes all the difference in how we interact with those around us.” "Lie of Inadequacy"“Rejection is a pain you can actually feel in your body because social pain and physical pain activate the brain in the same places…”Q: How can we nurture more empathy and compassion that we may have labeled as such especially if they have inflicted wounds?  “Embrace the ongoing process”Romans 5:3-5 TPT “Even in times of trouble we have a joyful confidence, knowing that our pressures  will develop in us patient endurance. 4And patient endurance will refine our character, and proven character leads us back to hope. 5And this hope is not a disappointing fantasy,  because we can now experience the endless love of God cascading into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who lives in us!”Follow Jenn!Instagram Jenn's WebsitePurchase Book Here! Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
"Love in Action" - Lessons from Romans
Aug 9 2023
"Love in Action" - Lessons from Romans
In this episode, Mallory digs into Romans 12:9-13 to unpack the perspective-shifting treasures the passage holds. How do we live and love like Jesus in the middle of a broken world? “Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.” (C.S Lewis)Romans 12:9-13Persistent theme: “The need for a humble and peaceable attitude toward others, whether fellow Christians or non-Christians."Verse 9 “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.”The original Greek  means “not playing a part” Love is not simply a matter of emotion, but instead a matter of the will. “Whatever attracts the mind from God, whatever draws the affections away from Christ, is an enemy to the soul” (Ellen White) “We must not only do that which is good, but we must cleave to it. It denotes a deliberate choice of, a sincere affection for, and a constant perseverance in, that which is good.” (Henry Commentary) In this chapter, Paul is focusing on our responsibility as christians to “live a life of love in the midst of a fallen world.” (Moo pg. 84) I can’t be FAITHFUL and CYNICAL at the same time. Verse 10-  Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.Honor means A high internal attitude of respect, courtesy, or esteem for.How often do we willingly yield to our brothers and sisters as a way of showing honor to them? Our honor of others cannot be conditional or based on reciprocity."We have to remember that the only person qualified to throw a stone- didn’t."We often judge others by their impact but judge ourselves by our intentions. Verse 11- “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.”Zeal: “a burning desire to please God, to do His will, and to advance His glory in the world in every possible way” (Erik Raymond) “Do not slack in your faithfulness and hard work…”- It’s good to consider, have I been slacking in my faithfulness? Verse 12- “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.”We rejoice in HOPE - not in circumstances or outcomes.Patient: “denotes not a passive putting up with things, but an active, steadfast endurance.” (Morris) “Some virtues are seen only in affliction.” (Webster) Suffering is inevitable, Joy & hope amidst suffering is not.God cares for us holistically. “We can continue to spend all of our energy fighting the waves or we can choose to adjust our sails.” Its a posture of patience amid trials.  CS Lewis quote- “We ought to give thanks for all fortune; if it is good, because it is good, if bad- because it works in us patience, humility and the contempt of this world and the hope of our eternal country.”Verse 13- Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.Mother Theresa quote - “God gives us things to share, He doesn’t give us things to hold.”“consume less, share better.”Great tragedy of aloneness in our societyThere is an immense need for the Spirit’s intervention if we are to live Christian lives…  F. S. Fitzgerald — 'I hope you live a life you're proud of. And if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Seen & Heard
Mar 28 2023
Seen & Heard
What do you do when you feel like nobody REALLY sees you? In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Konzen returns to the podcast to discuss the impact of truly believing that God is attentive to us as individuals. Jen shares a bajillion beautiful scriptures and unpacks the POWERFUL spiritual, emotional and physical implications of living “seen & heard” in our walks with God as followers of Jesus. Woven in Truth proudly promotes the Beloved & Dignified Conference happening ONLINE May 5-6, 2023.Conference Blurb: “Women Helping Women Heal”Many of our lives have been touched by suffering not of our own choosing. Biblically, hell (sheol in the Hebrew) can be used to designate the lowest valley, the place “under the mountains” where hope seems hidden from view (see Job 24:8). These kind of situations stir longing for the next life. In the pain, moving beyond survival is difficult and finding a safe circle that understands isn’t always easy. No matter what has happened (or may happen ahead), we are beloved and dignified daughters of God. Join us as we sit with the pain, affirm how low these valleys can be, and explore where to find God in our lowest times.YOU are invited! Register today if this resonates with you- it is exclusively online and classes will not be recorded. Should be an amazing experience!About this Episode's Guest:Dr. Konzen is the director for the Center for Sexuality in San Diego, CA. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a certified sex therapist, and a certified chemical dependency counselor. She is also a two-time nationally award-winning researcher, an international speaker, and an adjunct professor.  Dr. Konzen is the author of The Art of Intimate Marriage, Redeemed Sexuality and The Ransomed Journey: Couples Recovery from Addiction.Episode Notes:“You are the God who sees me.."- Genesis 16:13Q: What makes you feel seen & heard?He Sees Ps 139:2Deut 32:10-11Ps 34 Ps 32:8Ps 121:5Psalm 31:7Psalm 31:21Gen 28:15He sees our joys & victoriesJohn 16:22Romans 12:15Ps 149:4Zeph 3:17 Psalm 116:1Psalm 55:17Click here to see Jen's scripture resource“I AM WITH YOU…” Exercise Practicing the PresencePs 27:8Num 6:25Ps 17:15Psalm 16:9-11Psalm 31:20Jeremiah 6:16Jesus’s Words to Women“This woman will be remembered”“Daughter”“She has chosen what is better”“She has given everything”“Mary!” “Jennifer!”“She has loved much”“Leave her alone”“Your faith is great”“Go in peace”“I don’t condemn you”Resource Recommendations:Centering Prayer AppThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry (Comer)Journey of the Soul (IPI, Sumerlin)Meditations (Virginia Lefler)Invitation to Solitude and Silence (Barton) Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Painfully Faithful: Clinging to God through Suffering
Oct 17 2022
Painfully Faithful: Clinging to God through Suffering
In this compelling episode, Maria McHargue joins us to talk about what it means for her to be faithful as a Christian who manages chronic pain. Suffering can feel unbearable at times, but God invites us to rely on Him and His love- even when nothing makes sense. Maria encourages us to anchor ourselves in Scripture as we claim God as our Rock, Refuge, and Rest amid life’s painful struggles. Wherever you are, you are not alone. About the Speaker:Maria is originally from New Jersey and has been a disciple for over 20 years. She has a Masters in Social Work as well as her clinical license and worked as a foster care social worker for several years before going into the full-time ministry. Maria and her husband Cash have been married for over 13 years and have two kids- Isabella who is 12 and Hunter who is 10. She has served in ministry for the last 15 years in Baltimore Maryland, Madrid Spain, and Boston where she currently serves as a Women’s Ministry Leader in the South Coastal Region. Her life took a radical turn while living in Spain when she was diagnosed with a spinal tumor that left her unable to walk and in tremendous pain. After a quick flight home and two surgeries later she was partially paralyzed and her journey to relearn to walk began. She still deals with chronic pain and fatigue but she is passionate about women’s ministry and inspiring others to persevere through life’s trials. Maria is grateful for opportunities to share her story and help women grow in their trust in God. Episode Notes:Psalm 94:18-19- When I said, “My foot is slipping!” Your unfailing love, O Eternal One, held me up. When anxiety overtakes me and worries are many, Your comfort lightens my soul.Tim Keller: “Suffering is unbearable if you aren’t certain that God is for you and with you.”Psalm 62:1-8 God as our Rock, Refuge & RestMuscle Memorythe Bible is my spiritual muscle memoryTurn to the Psalms in dark and lonely placesLike David, our hope can be found in God’s faithfulness.“Anchor Scriptures” help you not drift “Ever present hope” Help us be still and grounded in God. He is in control. Lam 3:21Psalm 46:1Reliance on God when nothing makes senseHebrews 5: 7-9Where do you turn when you want to give up? When you’re feeling hopeless and helpless? When life doesn’t make senseLook to Jesus and His example; fix your eyes on Him so you can endure. Hebrews 12:1-3Jesus’ example gave me and continues to give me hopePerservance, endurance is hard: It is inspiring to hear stories of how people overcame and endured difficulties- but it is not easy being the one going to through itThere are many tearsIt is lonelyExhaustingSadIsaiah 26:3-4Eyes on God for spiritual restHelps to remind me of gratitudeWhat God has brought me throughLooking to God and not the problemGratitude listsPsalm 18:1-2- “I love you, LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.”“God didn’t bring us this far to fail."Anchor scriptures; Looking to God as my Refuge, my Rock and my RestBe gracious with yourself, God is gracious with you. Pain & Joy can coexist - God is with you in & through the pain.Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Entangled Relationships: Implementing Biblical Boundaries
Oct 2 2022
Entangled Relationships: Implementing Biblical Boundaries
In this episode, Silvia Mendez joins us to unpack the concept of boundaries through a biblical lens. Relationships are such a gift, but they can be sticky blessings to manage when they become entangled. Silvia shares phenomenal insight and many passages to help us identify unhealthy patterns and untrue narratives and encourages us to let God renew our minds for His glory and our ultimate good. About the Speaker:Silvia Mendez has been a grateful disciple for 33 years. She is the proud mother of two amazing adult children: Luis Jr. & Jennay. Silvia was happily married for 28 years to an incredible man of faith, Luis, who has now gone on to be with the Lord.  For three years Silvia has been adjusting to life as a widow, but she continues to work and serve as a women’s ministry leader. Silvia loves learning new things every day and is deeply grateful to have the Lord walking beside her on this new chapter of her life. Episode Notes:Galatians 6:2-5: Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.Concepts and Material Inspired from: Spiritual Discovery by Jim & Virginia Lefler Distinguishing between loads and burdens in interpersonal relationships. Entangled Relationship: One or both parties have unhealthy patterns that lead to some type of disfunction or strife. Codependency defined in this lesson from Galatians 6: Carrying someone’s load or giving someone else your load to carry. Burden is anything that makes a weight too heavy to carry on your own: physically, mentally or spiritually.Examples of Burdens we strive to help one another with:Need for guidance or encouragement Need for food or clothing (James 2:15-16) Loss of loved one (James 1:27) Sickness, Disease, trauma or other life crisis (Romans 12:10)Load comes from the Greek word for portion, used to describe a soldier’s pack. Examples of Loads that we all are meant to carry ourselves: Working to provide for your necessities (plan, budget)Fulfilling responsibilities at work & at home (Col 3:23-24)Being accountable for your choices and decisions and owning the consequences. (Proverbs 19:3) Being responsible for your own emotions- including your own happiness. Being responsible for our sin and personal walks with God Satan plants lies and narratives that will tempt us to overstep healthy boundaries. Most of these are rooted in either:EntitlementFearShame Cool translation of James 1:27- “One of the purest and most undefiled demonstrations of the gospel is to move towards hard places and broken people, not away from them”What are the lies that I’ve bought into that God wants me to be free from?What is God’s truth? What does HE say about me? Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Embodied Christianity: Pain, Pleasure & The Pursuit of God
Sep 4 2022
Embodied Christianity: Pain, Pleasure & The Pursuit of God
In this episode, Lauren Peterson joins us to unpack the historically ambiguous concept of living life in physical bodies as Christian women. There’s a distinct duality that many of us face: in religious circles we may have learned to view life in a body as something to be tamed or ignored. Then we have the opposite messaging of our secular culture which can place an inordinate degree of value and pressure on all that is physical. Lauren invites us to identify and separate unhealthy ideologies from God’s divine intention for us to exist as fully-integrated human beings.  About the SpeakerLauren is a therapist with Strength & Serenity Counseling LLC. She received her undergraduate degree in Psychology from Drury University and her MSW from Loyola University Chicago. She currently resides in the Quad Cities where she and her husband Craig have been married for 10 years and have 3 wonderful children: Eliana, Cael and Enya. Episode Notes:Goal: To normalize the questions and frustrations many Christian women experience about their bodies and encourage gentle curiosity. Matthew Anderson in Earthen Vessels, “more often than not, we don’t know which lies and bad arguments we have formed our lives around. After all, the ideas that are deepest in us are almost never learned in books, but are forged and engrained through the habitual patterns of life that make up our embodied existence”“May we be women who filter these messages through the Word of God so our deepest ideas about our precious bodies are not built by habit or unwittingly adopted patterns but by the Holy Spirit himself.”The “problem” of the body. We tend to:Ignore itDemonize itFeel overwhelmed/confused by itInternalize the world’s misuse and objectification of it.Medicalize the body“Dualisms that are embedded in our religious traditions have created a false separation between the spiritual realm and the material world, leaving us an “ambiguous legacy” regarding the body…” Ruth Haley Barton. Consequences of separating from the body:Cannot experience joy and positive emotion to their fullest extent.Disconnection can open the door to sin. When we are disconnected from our bodies, we are unaware of the good but also deeply unaware of our deep seeded anger, fear, etc. Satan uses this as fuel.The Solution: Recognize the body as essential to the human spiritual experience and as GOOD in its original form.Learn to parse out what is original from what is broken.Learn to differentiate biblically between body and “flesh”/“sarx”: ‘Romans 8:5.Be a student of the Word when it comes to Scriptures on the body.1 Corinthians 6:19-20Paul’s writings are built on the Old Testament foundation of a perfectly created body, knitted together in our mother’s wombs. Integrate the body as a part of the WHOLE and bring praise and gratitude to the areas of the body the world ignoresIncorporate the physical spiritual disciplines- sabbath, silence and solitude, slow movement-taste, touch,etcIn Hopeful Summary- the scriptures on resurrectional embodiment teach us that the body is originally good, built for pleasure, and will be perfectly good again.We can be a part of a culture shift that challenges both the cultural objectification but also the religious silencing of the body. Resources:Real Sex by Lauren WinnerUnwanted by Jay StringerRedeemed Sexuality and Art of Intimate Marriage by JSupport the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Lessons from the Garden
Jul 13 2022
Lessons from the Garden
Dawn Russell joins us for a refreshing conversation about her journey of cultivating a massive garden and the transformative conversations she's had with God Himself in the process. There's so much divinity found in the literal and metaphorical dirt of our world. Take some time to listen and consider what beauty, healing or redemption is God sowing in your soul? About the Speaker:Dawn Russell is a woman navigating through marriage, motherhood and friendships with the help of Jesus, a faith community and coffee. Her and her husband, Greg, are parents to two young boys and work as ministry leaders in Los Angeles. Dawn has been a Christian for 16 years and is passionate about helping others live fulfilling lives in Christ by discovering their own unique gifts and talents.  Episode Notes:Romans 12:20- “For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.”-“Before I even knew who God was, He revealed himself through nature…”Matthew 13:36-43-“God, where are you when it hurts?”-How do we handle the good and the bad coinciding in this life?“God created us as humans to transform pain into beauty…”God is the master gardener- He knows exactly what He is doing. And if he says things might be unsightly Gardening- Participating in God’s nature. There’s beauty found in process. There’s so much life that’s waiting to be activated! To connect more with Dawn check out her blog! Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
"Do Not Fear"
Apr 8 2022
"Do Not Fear"
In this episode, Jodi Hayward shares some insights on the fear phenomenon and God's invitation to lean on him in uncertainty.  Fear is a normal expression of our humanity, but it can become a thief if left untethered- robbing us of the ability to enjoy life and identify the beauty in it. But Jodi reminds us of God's heart to secure ours- “He will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trusts in you.” (Isaiah 26:3)About the Speaker: Jodi Hayward is an Educational Consultant in Kansas City, Missouri. She has been married to her husband Mark for 35 years and loves being a mother to her adult children: Nate and his wife Kendall, Mallory and her husband Jeremy, and Ariana. She is a grandmother to Ellie Jo, a 4 year-old, who keeps her laughing. Jodi loves God, His Kingdom, and finding sunshine- literally and metaphorically. Episode Notes:Lament: a passionate expression of grief & sorrow.Lam. 3: 55-58Fear:Unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat!A feeling of anxiety concerning the outcome of something or the safety and well-being of someone. “Fear robs me of the ability to enjoy life and see the beauty of it.” Fear as a verb: avoid or put off doing something because you are afraid!  What helps you to overcome your fears and trust God?Isaiah 26:3 1.     “God will keep in perfect peace”    Perfect: absolute, complete   Peace:  Free from disturbance, a mental calm, and serenity.2.     “Him whose mind is steadfast”Steadfast: resolutely firm, determined & unwavering 3.     “Because he trusts in you!”Is. 26:4 “Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord is the rock eternal!”Trust: Firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something. Heb. 12:1 "Let us throw off everything that hinders & the sin that so easily entangles, and run with perseverance the race marked out for us."Q: What hinders you from being steadfast, determined & unwavering?Social media, feelings, emotions, or others opinionsOne of the things that can hinder me is my phone: all of its dings, pings and the call to worship it. Is it my golden calf? What takes up your time & energy or distracts you? What are you really devoted too? God’s Word is the key!Rom. 10:17 Faith comes from hearing the message & the message is heard through the Word of Christ. John 8:31-32 If, you hold to the teaching then you are really my disciples then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free…free from fear!Holding to God’s Word in a time of information overload.James 1: 19-21:b Anger is a secondary emotion often driven by fear!·      Fear drives me to be quick to speak & slow to listenLam 3:22-24Lam. 3: 55-58- “You came near when I called you, and you said, ‘Do not fear’…you took up my case; you redeemed my life!”Questions:What helps you to overcome your fears? How can you cultivate that area in your life?What is something that may be hindering you in your walk with God? Causing you to have more fear than faith!What is a gem from God’s Word that can help you to grow? Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Reactivity vs. Grounding
Mar 18 2022
Reactivity vs. Grounding
Dr. Jennifer Konzen joins us in this fascinating episode as we explore the sacred space between life's stimuli and our reactions. Jennifer teaches us how to honor our initial feelings and thoughts while ultimately responding based on our values and who we want to be before God. About the Speaker: Dr. Konzen is the director for the Center for Sexuality in San Diego, CA. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, a certified sex therapist, and a certified chemical dependency counselor. She is also a two-time nationally award-winning researcher, an international speaker, and an adjunct professor in San Diego at Bethel Seminary and Alliant International University, and online at Rocky Mountain School of Ministry and Theology.  Dr. Konzen is the author of The Art of Intimate Marriage and Redeemed Sexuality and the newly released The Ransomed Journey: Couples Recovery from Addiction. Jennifer lives with her family in beautiful San Diego, California where she has been involved with shepherding and leading in the married and youth and family ministries.Episode Notes:“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom” - Viktor Frankl"People want to be able to genuinely express what they think or feel from a place that does not feel out of control."Scriptures: 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 NIV - When we have distressed emotions we can remember that we have a compassionate God. Isaiah 63:9- "In all their distress, he too was distressed" - God sits beside us in our distress, He doesn't wag His finger in our distress. 2 Corinthians 10:5- "Take every thought captive"- this scripture is used out of context very often; this isn't about your emotions and thoughts. We can respond based on our values instead of our initial, emotional reactionsStewarding the Sacred Space: Before we can respond based on our values, we have to soothe psychologically if we are highly triggered. Adrenaline floods the body when we are activated in .05 seconds; it takes about 20 minutes for adrenaline to calm back down.Let the feelings talk:God is kind enough to give us the space to sit with our emotions and let them talk for a minute before we try to either squash them or give them full vent. Give yourself time to honor your feelings and reactions but ultimately responding to life's stimuli based on your values and who you want to be."I can feel myself getting reactive to this, I want to be able to share this with you in the best way possible- can I come back and try again later?"Blame Game: Isaiah 58:9-10: “do away...with the pointing finger..."Ephesians 4:15 - Speak the truth in love.Psalm 16:8Jen's Recommended Resources:Book: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality  Book: The Ruthless Elimination of HurryACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Resources – Hayes, HarrisRuss Harris Videos on YouTubePodcast: theartofintimatemarriage.comRetreats: Alaska RetreatsSabbath RestSupport the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
IMAGE: Embracing the Jesus Narrative of Freedom
Mar 5 2022
IMAGE: Embracing the Jesus Narrative of Freedom
Patty Mata joins us for a chain-breaker of a conversation based on IMAGE; our perceptions of self. So often we can find ourselves frazzled by the pressure to shape ourselves- spiritually, but also in our physical bodies. At the core of our being, we are pursuing wholeness, and we won’t ever find that in a culturally contingent ideal. Psalm 23:3 says, “He makes me whole again, steering me off worn, hard paths to roads where truth and righteousness echo His name.” The Scriptures invite us to a healthier narrative based on trust, submission & even delight in being formed, and loved, by God himself. About the Speaker: Patty Mata currently serves as a campus pastor in MD and is a soon to be church planter in the DC area. Canadian born and a Social Worker by trade, Patty has a passion for serving her community and helping people find freedom in Christ. She also loves her dog and husband, believes coach potato-ing is a lifestyle and has the tendency of laughing at her own jokes. Episode Notes:Who am I reflecting? And why? The truth is that image does matter and isn’t just superficial… it matters to us because it matters to God. But there’s healthy and unhealthy directions this can go. The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used Against Women by Naomi WolfWhat matters most to God is that we reflect HIS image.. not the carbon copies that our culture has to offer. Image- your perception of self based on larger context of influence.Q: What is God’s heart around image?“So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them…  God saw all that he had made, and it was very good…” Genesis 1:27, 31We HAVE been created in HIS image, and He already deemed us as GOOD- before any shaping by our own efforts. God as architect of the temple: 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, he asks, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”Am I submitting to God as the architect of ME? In my body and as a person? Or am I trying to take the reins as the architect versus temple maintenance? Isaiah 64:8- The voice— Still, Eternal One, You are our Father. We are just clay, and You are the potter. We are the product of Your creative action, shaped and formed into something of worth.”2 Corinthians 4:4- “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God”Comparisons and cultural beauty narratives can actually create barriers to unity.Building habits based on freedom versus based on fear.1 Corinthians 13:4-7…”Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.These characteristics of love - is this how we love our own bodies? Am I patient with my body? Am I kind to it? etc….Connect more with Patty: Jesus Ate TooSupport the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
The Sweet Embrace of Sisterhood
Feb 13 2022
The Sweet Embrace of Sisterhood
In this episode, Jewel Burton joins the podcast to discuss the sweetness of  friendships and the beautiful truth that God wires us for meaningful community. Sisterhood is such a gift, and at the end of the day, we need each other. What growth and abundance may await if you open yourself up to new, or renewed, friendships? About the Speaker: Jewel Burton is passionate about God and His word, but also the beauty that God gives us in relationships with other women. She has the privilege to serve as Women’s Ministry Leader, alongside her husband, in the Turning Point Church. She is not only a follower of Jesus but a mother, sister and friend.  Episode Notes:Main Passage: Ruth 1:1-22 1. We NEED each other V.16-18Hebrews 10:24- And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds,Relationships with other women upgrade us… they have the potential to "upgrade" us rather than diminish one or the other.We really are better.. Friendships can help us on our journeys of spiritual formation— if we let them! “People who think they’ve arrived never stop to ask for directions” (John Mark Comer) Article Reference: It’s Science: Having Sisters Helps You Become A Better Person2. Our differences connect us 1 Corinthians 12:12-27 (One body, many parts) “Iron will never sharpen iron in an echo chamber”@aussiedave People who look, act, and think like you won’t always help you become the best version of yourself.3.  Allow God to surprise youIsaiah 55:8-9 (ESV)“Once in a Lifetime” moments, experiences and relationships 1 Samuel 3:11(ESV)Question to consider: How have you been giving the different & unique women you are surrounded by chance?Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
The Relevance & Accessibility of the Scriptures
Feb 2 2022
The Relevance & Accessibility of the Scriptures
In our content flooded culture, do you ever experience the spiritual tug of war between clarity and confusion? Maryann Rose joins the podcast to remind us of the accessible truth of the Scriptures and their ability to help us reclaim confident ground. God's word is filled with insights that will equip us for each season as we move through ambiguity and into refinement. About the Speaker:Maryann Rose has a Master's Degree in French Literature from Arizona State University and has been an educator and a writer for thirty years. She and her husband Keith have two married children, and they are grandparents to three adorable grandchildren. An avid traveler, reader and yoga enthusiast, Maryann loves discovery and adventure. She and Keith make their home in San Diego, California. Episode Notes“The Bible was true in it’s inception, and is true today”In a content-filled culture, we have a lot of opportunity to collect ideas. 1. The Bible is the authority: 2 Tim 3:16-17Useful- this ancient book is useful!Bible equips us, guides us. In every season and in each aspiration to His glory. “We all have tons of content from which to choose these days and I’m encouraged by so much of what I read and the ‘influencers’ of the world, but the Bible still needs to be my main source for wisdom- and I can come to insight and conclusions on my own.”2. The Bible is (and should be) at the center of regular Christian fellowship. It is meant to be taught day-to-day by average disciples of Jesus, irrespective of title, education or standing. 1 Peter 2:9Christianity isn’t a “Sunday” thing, it’s a daily lifestyle that should permeate every corner of our lives. “The essential thing ‘in heaven and earth’ is that there should be a long obedience in the same direction…something which has made life worth living.” -NietzcheVerbiage that Maryann unpacks: Refinement//Evolution; Refinement & Clarity//Nuance Nicodemus reference- John 3; When people bring Jesus nuance, he gives them clarity. 3. The Word of God is relevant for a lifetimeManaging expectations for “quiet times”— Consistent > IdealEphesians 4:17-20It’s so much more than just being “good”, it is about living a life that isn’t futile. Futility def: pointlessness or uselessness.Beware: Futility found in the influx of content available to us. Hosea 10:12What if I proceeded in faith? Being sure of what I hope for and certain of what I do not see? We can take the time to vet and evaluate our resources; hold them up to the Scriptures- to not just absorb someone else's insight, but gain our own. Philippians 4:8-9 to carry with you as you go into whatever comes next for you today- “Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.”Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Building Meaningful Community
Aug 14 2021
Building Meaningful Community
Maggie Butterfield joins the podcast to discuss community and shares some refreshing perspectives on embracing social circles in new and different ways. There’s so much richness to be found in life as we take small steps to establish connections and build friendships without agenda. We can give the Spirit room to move as we build bridges to share the gospel and learn a lot from others as we love people deeply without contingencies. About the SpeakerMaggie Butterfield leads the Springfield, MO Church of Christ alongside her husband, Arlee. They are raising their 3 daughters, Madelynne (13), Maylee (10), and Abigail (5) to be countercultural ladies! She has a heart for the small church and loves building community where she is planted. Maggie loves all things foodie and health and wellness and is currently studying the brain and trauma. She can also be found running a podcast with her gal pals called The Artichoke Heart. You can find them on facebook, Instagram or Spotify. She would love to have you join her online community!Episodes NotesMaggie’s definition of Community: A group that comes together over a common interest, passion, or a sharing of space with others. We are designed and built for community. Doing life with others matters- to our lives on Earth, but ultimately before God and His plans & purposes. Isaiah 43:18-19- “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”Small steps to establish connections and friendships are so important- this doesn’t just help us socially but spiritually as well. We can share the gospel and also learn a lot from others. Connecting agenda-free with people who have different belief systems makes us well rounded and able to build bridges with others. Community is about loving people deeply, not having an agenda or timeline. Barriers to building new or meaningful community: Focusing on the differences instead of the commonalities.Having an agenda or forcing a narrative.Assuming that you will be the influencer of the groupOur own fears or assumptions.Holding on to ideas that we have picked up over the years.Shutting down when people don’t think or communicate exactly like you. “You miss out when you let the barriers get in the way of the richness of what could be and how God wants to work.”We can seek to love people well in our communities, not just “convert” them.Build community in a spot where God already has you- instead of adding something else, just be more intentional where you already are…The Artichoke Heart- community that reaches families, builds bridges etc. “Be the community that you want to have” Give yourself permission to not have all the answers. Romans 12:1-2 living sacrifice reference- changing our posture in the communities we are already in. “Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” Howard Thurman Check out The Artichoke Heart community! Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Active Listening
Jul 31 2021
Active Listening
Lauren Malcolm joins the podcast to unpack Active Listening and the power and potential of this spiritual skill. Lauren helps us consider ways we can approach & respond to others that leads to unity, mutual understanding and ultimately individual and collective growth. As followers of Jesus, we are learners, & most learning is contingent upon listening. There is so much opportunity to glorify God & advance His purposes through building a community of active listeners amidst a culture of contempt. God is equipping us to take his Kingdom to deeper places by banding together and hearing each other out. About the SpeakerLauren Malcolm lives in State College, PA with her handsome husband Jamison, three wonderful children (Rory, Luke and Jordan), and mini golden doodle Miley. Born in the Midwest and raised in CA with a brief interlude in Jersusalem, Israel, Lauren has grown up in diverse environments and attended The University of Georgia for college where she studied Latin American and Caribbean Studies. Later she attended the University of Pennsylvania where she got her Masters in Social Work. She currently leads the Nittany Church alongside her husband. She loves talking and connecting with people and has had to learn to be a better listener. Active Listening implies engagement, reflection, and asking clarifying questions. You aren’t just listening to get someone off your back or to get to your point, but you are listening with the intent of making them feel heard and learning alongside them.1 Kings 10:1-5Example of Solomon and Queen of ShebaTake aways:Come with questions:She recognized an opportunity to learn!She came with the intent to learn.Learners' spirits- We need to be eager to ask questions and seek understanding.Be honest with what’s inside:We need to bring our full selves to what we do and not be afraid to share honestly where we are stuck and struggling.Accept the test:Solomon was not reactive!We accept the test by putting on humility...he didn’t get threatened by her questions or react defensively- the true test was her trust in God.Invest:Trust has to be built first. Manage expectations. "When I take the time to draw out someone’s heart rather than defending myself, I am able to learn and own my part and they are able to learn and take responsibility for their part."Are we going to miss the opportunity to grow in the character of Christ and in relationships that build up the Kingdom JUST because of the way the information is presented? Practically how can we engage in active listening:Be attentive - Mindful of body language, eye contact, distractions, etc. Ask Open-Ended Questions “How did what I say land on you?”Ask Probing Questions - Dig to get to the heart of what they’re trying to communicate. Request Clarification “I’m a little confused by this piece, can you help me understand?:Paraphrase “So this is what I hear you saying….”Be attuned to and reflect feelings “I imagine that you felt _____, is that what you felt?”Summarize “Here’s what I’m taking away from this conversation… is there anything else?” God is equipping us to take his Kingdom to deeper places by banding together and hearing each other out. We have so much to be learned from each other and the future of the church depends upon it. So let us become active listeners who truly seek after wSupport the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Waiting WITH God
Jul 17 2021
Waiting WITH God
In this episode, our TREASURE of a friend, Leigh Kinnard, joins the podcast to share her insights on "waiting" in life. Instead of reluctantly hoping for God to fix things as we would like for Him to, how can we learn how to go through these times of waiting WITH Him? Rather than existing consumed by outcomes or results we are invited to live presently, intentionally entwined with God,  for every step of the nuanced  journey of life this side of eternity. About the Speaker: Leigh Kinnard has been a disciple of Jesus for 38 years. She and her husband , Stevemoved from the south to be a part of the New York City church of Christ a fewmonths after it began in 1983. They have lived for months at a time in Africa andIsrael working with the churches in those countries and currently are a part of theHudson Valley Region of the NYC church. Steve and Leigh recently celebrated their40th wedding anniversary. They have 2 adult children and two grandsons. Episode Notes:Waiting is a necessary part of our lives. HOW we wait is a decision.What are you waiting for right now?How are you handling your “wait?” What do you struggle with as you wait?Instead of waiting for God to fix things as we would like for Him to, He wants us to learn how to go through these times with Him, trusting the outcome to Him.It is so easy to focus on the end result instead of the journey. Two truths - God is always movingTrust His timingWho will I be as I wait?How does God define waiting? (Most verses will be from the Passion Translation)Psalm 27:13,14Psalm 25:3-5Qavah – Hebrew word-means to “tie together by twisting, entwine, or wrap tightly”Picture a rope twisted tightly together, entwined-strong – all strands connected. When one strand disconnects, the rope gets frayed, unraveled – eventually affects the whole rope....How do we wait this way with God?Psalm 131HUMILITY-decide to be a true learner-What does God want me to learn in this process of waiting?We GET to learn.What helps me:Ongoing list of scriptures on God is always moving/working – so many in OTIn NT – Jesus carries this on and shows us how John 5:17Pray through the scriptures Psalms 130:5,6Gets his emotions out, connects to God, reminds himself of the truthRev 8:3-4 – Prayers keep workingPut Jesus in the roomInstead of trying to “fix it” fix my eyes on JesusMatthew 11:28-30 exp v 29 – “Bend your neck” decide to focus on being connected to Jesus-trusting Him to do the hard part. Trust Gods timingJohn 11:4 – Its about God getting the glory, people seeing Jesus, in God's time – not me getting what I want when I want it. He is always listening.Micah 7:7,8How I wait affects others – Strive to be who God wants us to be as we are waiting – entwining our hearts with Gods heart-hold on tight and refuse to let go.Isaiah 40:28-31Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Sabbath // A Spirit at Rest
Jul 3 2021
Sabbath // A Spirit at Rest
Elaina Rosenquist joins the podcast to share her refreshing journey of embracing rest and the life-giving and biblical invitation to Sabbath. Through Shabbat, we are called out of the crushing pressure of striving and into a liberating exodus from tension. How can we cultivate rest, worship, and delight in our lives in this hectic side of eternity? About the SpeakerElaina Rosenquist leads the Pittsburgh Church of Christ with her husband, James. They have two children Jack (5) and Anna (2) and a fish named Happy. Elaina loves exploring her beautiful city, drinking tea, doing yoga and working as a nurse which she gets to do twice a month at a hospital. She has an Instagram account where she posts some spiritual thoughts and lessons she is learning @plantedby_thewater. Follow her for more content! Episode NotesA Check-In question to ask yourselves: What does my body need and what would be helpful to make the rest of the day go well?Psalm 73:26Psalm 46:10 NASB- “Stop striving and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted on the earth.”Rest in a biblical sense, requires surrender and humility. Matt 11:27-29 Jesus invites us to restMatthew 14:15-16 humility of Jesus When we are tired how often do we honor that request from our body to give it what it needs? "Remember everything you are doing, and then be gentle with yourself."John 5:19-20My working definition of sabbath: time frame where we delight in God, creation, in Gods work and the work we have doneit is a time frame where we do not workit’s not a date but an atmosphereit’s an “exodus from tension”it’s a gift from God to mankindit is refreshmenta time of resta time of celebrationit’s having that living water John 4sabbath means I have enough and I am enoughit’s a command from God in the Old Testament, it was practiced by Jesus (differently than how the religious teachers of the day practiced it)practiced by Jesus followers even after his death (the women waited till after sabbath over to tend to Jesus dead body)sabbath is wisdomit’s not just a day off but a day of resting in and celebrating God.*which ones resonate with you- what would YOU add to this working definition? “Sabbath is more than just a day, its a way of being in the world. It’s a spirit of restfulness that comes from abiding, from living in the Father’s loving presence all week long.” Sabbath boundaries- might be different for people. Practicals - Prepping- "What can I do today that will make tomorrow more restful?"Pick a day or time period ahead of timeWrite down  boundaries“For many of us the great danger is not that we will renounce our faith, it is that we will become so distracted and rushed and preoccupied that we will settle for a mediocre version of it. We will just skim our lives instead of actually living them.” Ortberg Resources for sabbath and rest:John Mark Comer books- “Ruthless Elimination of Hurry” and “Garden City”Peter Scazzero “Emotionally Healthy Leadership”Abraham Joshua Heschel “The sabbath”(Not spiriSupport the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
God-Centered Parenting
Jun 20 2021
God-Centered Parenting
Pam & Kim Bowers join us on the podcast to affirm a lot of the wonderful things you are already doing as parents & caregivers, but also provide some insights on anchoring our perspective of what it means to parent our children in the Lord. Developing faith is not mutually exclusive from a child’s development; don't miss this dream-team's inspiring perspective rooted in proactivity & intentionality for facilitating faith in our children. About the SpeakersPam- Hailing from simple Henderson, Nevada, Pam Bowers has been a Christian for over 30 years. Her walk with God began in the early ‘80s when she was met while playing professional golf. God knew exactly what she needed when in 1990, she met and married her faith-filled husband, Dale. Together, they have served in God’s kingdom in many different capacities, from small-group leaders to Elder/Elder’s Wife. They have two incredible friends in their adult children—both of whom are pursuing doctoral-level graduate studies. Professionally, God has blessed Pam abundantly, as she is a Top 50 Master Kids Golf Instructor and co-instructor at the Bowers Golf Academy. Recently, God has brought to fruition a long burning dream for Pam and her daughter, Kim, to publish a series of children’s books, which teach social-emotional development anchored in God’s word. Through the many twists and turns in life, God has been the Ultimate Friend and anchor for Pam—she cannot wait to see what adventure lies around the next bend.Kim- Kim Bowers is a 25-year-old coffee-drinking, fun-loving daughter of God. She has been a Christian for almost 10 years. In those 10 years, God has taken her from a high school student in Nevada to a Psychology PhD student in Colorado. Sometime in between, Kim earned her MEd in Elementary Education and taught first grade. God has also used her in a variety of ways to serve his kingdom: from small-group leader to young professionals ministry co-leader. Most recently, God has taken her talents and experience down a new route. Alongside her incredible mother, Kim has co-authored children’s books aimed to help children learn the necessary skills to regulate their emotions—while also equipping parents with the skills to facilitate their child’s social-emotional learning. With all that lies ahead, Kim is looking forward to the many adventures God has in store for her.Episode Notes:We’re very deliberate in helping our children meet their developmental milestones, but how deliberate do we need to be to ensure our kid’s are hitting their spiritual milestones? Developing faith is not mutually exclusive from a Child’s development. Three different lenses of parenting-  parent-centered, child-centered, God-centeredDefinition of God-centered parenting: custodial posture- place of humility, being accountable before God for the molding of a life. What does God-centered Parenting look like? ProactivityPartly windows due development Zones of Parenting HandoutIntentionality Relationship over RulesA word of encouragement One day at a time Do your best and God will do the rest - go off of the strength that you have The books are now available for order through their website: www.smoothsailingbooks.com. You can also purchase them online through Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!
Watering Well: Embracing Process
Jun 5 2021
Watering Well: Embracing Process
In this refreshing episode, Jenn Schultz joins the podcast to discuss waiting & watering. Although seasons of planting and harvesting can be exciting, so much of life is just about showing up in the in-betweens. "It’s time to get excited about this stage, to appreciate the process God has us in, and to put on lenses of faith to see the transformation that is happening within us as we water.” Don't underestimate God's hand in seasons of watering, there's miracles in the mundane! About the Speaker: Jenn is a recovering perfectionist and a writer at Whatyoumakeitblog.com, encouraging women to live loved and wholehearted, right where you are. She’s a wife and mom living in the Pacific Northwest, and you can usually find her with a cup of decaf coffee and a good book.Episode Notes: Appreciate the Process; Miracles are happening in the watering. There’s something growing, even if you can’t see it. Why? Because God is behind the growing.It’s time to get excited about this stage, to appreciate the process God has us in, and to put on lenses of faith to see the transformation that is happening within us as we water.The Bible talks so much about water!Baptism - Romans 6:3-4 - we were baptized into Jesus’s death and raised with him!Streams in the desert - Isaiah 35:3-7 - God comes to save us and water comes and refreshes a land that was once parched and dry and hopeless - MoanaThe Word rains on the earth - Isaiah 55:10-11 - the Word always achieve God’s purposeLiving water - John 4:13-14 - you never thirst with it - it becomes a spring welling up to eternal lifeQuiet waters - Psalm 23:2-3 - he restores my soulParting of the Red Sea - Exodus 14:29-31Jesus walks on water - Matthew 14:25-27Jesus calms the waves - Mark 4:39-41Jesus turns water into wine - John 2:7-10THERE IS TRANSFORMATION IN WATER.Don’t disparage the time of watering! It is a valuable time. It’s important to remember: All the miracles that happen are God’s…BUT -  we participate in the transformation and the miracles. How? By showing up. The Bible tells us of both one-time and ongoing sanctification.God has made us holy, AND we are still being made perfect. (Hebrews 10:14) God has forgiven us from our sins AND he continues to refine us. We train; God transforms.4 ways to water wellPosture What stands out to God? Humility - David - “a man after God’s own heart” - Psalm 18:27-32Faith - the bleeding woman - Mark 5:25-34Eagerness - Bereans - Acts 17:11Practice How do we train spiritually? Keeping in step with the Spirit - growing in fruits and setting aside acts of the flesh - Galatians 5:19-25Participate in the divine nature and keep growing - 2 Peter 1:3-9Offer yourself as a living sacrifice and renew your mind - Romans 12:1-2Patience2 Peter 3:8-9Philippians 1:6Romans 8:28Progresshow are you keeping track of your goals and wins, even in the mundane? journaling, planners, prayer journal, etcJeremiah 17:7-8Follow Jenn on Instagram or check out her blog!Support the showThank you so much for supporting the show. Check out our website or follow us Instagram!