Humans beings have a need to control others. Yet because we are complex we also have a need for autonomy. This contradiction can obviously play a negative role in relationship dynamics.

During conflict we have a tendency to not allow the other person to have their say. There can be many reasons why we choose not to listen to their side of the story but ultimately controlling the conversation controls the other person taking away their autonomy and is every bit a power grab.

When we put God first, others second, and ourselves third we should strive for an equal distrubtion of power and respect the thoughts and feelings of others by listening to what they have to say.

Because everyone has the right to be heard.