Confident Sober Women

Shelby

My name is Shelby John and July 1, 2002 was the first day of my second life! And I haven’t found it necessary to take a drink or a drug since! My sobriety has given me the freedom to dedicate my life to helping others as a clinical social worker specializing in trauma. In this podcast you will hear real life talk about building confidence and transforming your life beyond recovery! read less

Being Thirsty For Positivity In Socializing and Sugar w/Chelsea Turano
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Being Thirsty For Positivity In Socializing and Sugar w/Chelsea Turano
Chelsea was “thirsty” for all knowledge regarding getting well. She shared about her personal relationships and the challenges she had with the most intimate ones after she got sober.We also talked about sugar and our obsession with it as an indicator of becoming an addict later because of the similar qualities it has to alcohol. Chelsea shared how giving up sugar for her was harder than alcohol.We discussed the workarounds we can use for our favorite places like Starbucks or Chick-Fil-A to help maintain our health. Chelsea also shares her experience with socializing in sobriety and the challenges and boundaries she has created for herself.She has a podcast called So Fired, IG @sofiredpod Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Blood Sugar Acts Similar to Alcohol w/Sr. Brooke Scheller [Part 2]
Sep 19 2023
Blood Sugar Acts Similar to Alcohol w/Sr. Brooke Scheller [Part 2]
Brooke and I continue our conversation from last week today. We talked about the highs and lows with blood sugar and how that makes us not feel good or causes fatigue as well as depression and anxiety. Breaking the cycle needs to be our priority. We want the part of us that has the value of health and vitality to be in charge.We have more willpower when our blood sugar is in control.  Brooke talks about the use of protein and meal timing to help combat us getting into this situation. As well as preparation is key to combatting these times. This conversation is power-packed with content for healing the gut, inflammation, autoimmune diseases and cravings. Creating balance in the bacteria in the gut helps manage all of this. You can connect with Dr. Brooke Scheller on her website, www.brookescheller.com and on Instagram @drbrookescheller.Be sure to pre-order her book, How To Eat To Change How You Drink. Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
She Focused On The "One Thing" Of Stopping Drinking [Part 1] w/Dr. Brooke Scheller
Sep 12 2023
She Focused On The "One Thing" Of Stopping Drinking [Part 1] w/Dr. Brooke Scheller
Dr. Brooke Scheller was a heavy drinker for years as she earned a master's degree and a doctorate in the wellness field. She loves to use her functional medicine training to help people solve the “mysteries” of what’s wrong with them. Because of her background in health and wellness, Brooke knew she was living a double life, yet she couldn’t stop.She helps her client focus on “the one thing” of stopping drinking in order to change everything. She shares how just doing this one thing made such a big difference for her and of course for so many others. We talk about creating sustainable success in health by taking baby steps consistently every day to create huge change. We end of this first episode by discussing learning how to manage your blood sugar when it comes to changing your diet when you are alcohol-free. You are less likely to grab a drink when your blood sugar is balanced. We will pick up right there next week.Be sure to listen to the next part as this conversation is packed with so much goodness when it comes to our health. You can grab her book How To Eat To Change How You Drink on her website. Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
The Cycle Of Negative Thinking Destroys Your Sobriety
Sep 5 2023
The Cycle Of Negative Thinking Destroys Your Sobriety
Sobriety is ONLY the beginning. We do so much work to become alcohol free which is a miracle, but the emotional sobriety comes later.After I got sober in 2002 it became apparent that the biggest challenge I faced in those first few years was my negative thinking patterns. I was stuck in a cycle that had me continuously beating myself up every day. I was sober and of course, I felt a lot better and my life was getting better, because that’s what happens when you stop using substances. But the thought patterns had to be challenged.In this episode I share with you just how I did that and the 5 ways I use to show other women how to do the same.  I also mention the 5-day negative thinking challenge that is in the Guides section of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group. You can access it for free if you are a group member. Go ahead and join now! If you haven’t read my memoir, Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety you can hear more about my story of living well beyond recovery and the ways I show others to do the same. Check it out here. Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Humans Are Pack Animals With Sophisticated Brains w/Beth Anstandig
Aug 29 2023
Humans Are Pack Animals With Sophisticated Brains w/Beth Anstandig
Beth Anstandig was a sensitive kid. She realized young that the world had a lot of chaos that she did not understand so she gravitated toward her animals.  They were so different than the humans. We tell stories about how the loneliness of the human experience can feel socially immature, especially for moms. Beth talks about the self-care that is necessary to meet our needs. We first have to recognize what those needs are, and then share those with the people closest to us. This is a direct contrast to the animal world because they are giving their young feedback about how to behave including learning to listen to other people's needs. We overuse the term self-care so often in our society but what we are really talking about are needs. We are no different than pack animals we just think we are and our sophisticated brains allow us to talk ourselves out of our own needs We are not supporting parents the way we should in our society.  We talked about making the choice to take jobs far away from family and community to raise their kids.We can convince ourselves that we don’t have a choice but we do.  Creating a community of support with people who can meet my needs is self-care.   “What are the resources I need to be a mammal in balance."You can reach Beth on her website https://www.thecircleupexperience.com/Check out her amazing book https://www.thecircleupexperience.com/thehumanherdbook/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
The Crisis Of Home Safety Impacts All Of Us w/Sabrina Osso
Aug 22 2023
The Crisis Of Home Safety Impacts All Of Us w/Sabrina Osso
Osso Safe was born out of pain. They want to turn pain into power. She believes safety is a critical component of living well. And if you are a survivor your one job is to not repeat it. Your home is like an umbrella. If the home is not safe then you are dealing with things like trafficking, sexual abuse, school bullying, public violence, and addiction. Like Sabrina says, we go towards what we are used to even if it's bad. Osso safe is changing systems, and saving lives. They are working with the real estate industry where safety becomes a required standard of residence. They are also working to create a space where children have a say in where they live. Impacting the world of addiction by making the home safe.www.ossosafe.comSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Stop Teen Addiction Before It Starts w/Gayani DeSilva
Aug 8 2023
Stop Teen Addiction Before It Starts w/Gayani DeSilva
Gayani is a psychiatrist who specializes in educating parents and teens about addiction specifically about prevention and the author of A Psychiatrist Guide: Stop Teen Addiction Before It Starts.Gayani has had many clients die from addiction, and she recognized the difficulty it takes to get into recovery and the support that is necessary. In doing her research she noticed there was a lot of content about how to treat addiction but felt there was nothing regarding preventing addiction.We talk about the power of EMDR therapy and trauma work which is critical for healing the brain and reducing the desire for people to use substances to escape life. Substances actually stop the development of the brain. Things like marijuana use will stop the brain development and you don’t catch up. You can't get that back. Gayani is a huge promoter of learning how to deal with things like anxiety without the use of highly addictive substances. It is such a big risk. Help them learn to delay their gratification, to self-soothe when they can’t/don’t get what they want, to manage their uncomfortable feelings. They don’t have to satisfy those feelings right away, they can live with it, sit with it, distract themselves etc. They do change and the feelings will go away. www.Drgayani.comSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Shattered To The Core: When Sobriety Is The Solution w/Valerie J Walsh
Aug 1 2023
Shattered To The Core: When Sobriety Is The Solution w/Valerie J Walsh
Valier J Walsh is the author of Shattered to the Core, a memoir.  Valerie shares how through a tremendous amount of adversity she was searching for a solution. She tried it all and what she realized was what she needed to reach for was sobriety. Valerie wasn’t an athlete as a young person but now has a health and fitness career. She discovered the beauty around her when she started running and it stuck. She also needed an outlet and physical activity became her thing. We talked about our journeys into the fitness world and its correlation to recovery. Valerie wants movement to be accessible to all people and refers to it as functional training. I love that language. We break down the barriers of our negative thinking patterns and how that helps to make actual sustainable change. Valerie shares that her general philosophy on nutrition is talking yourself through it. Similar to when we were getting sober, thinking it all the way through. So practical.You can find Valerie on her website www.valerijwalsh.com, Facebook group Core Method or on Instagram @valeriejwalsh.Mentioned in the episode:Martin Rooney creator of Training for WarriorsSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Relax on Impact: A small whisper became the loudest w/Jill Haire-Constantini
Jul 18 2023
Relax on Impact: A small whisper became the loudest w/Jill Haire-Constantini
Jill Haire-Constantini and I are both therapists and entrepreneurs.  We sit down for an intimate look at her terribly unhealthy relationships for years. She got sober, went back to school, and got her divorce and her bachelor’s degree on the same day.Jill had a defining moment while in the midst of a car accident when she heard a voice “Relax on Impact” which later became the title of her book. Sobriety afforded Jill the opportunity to not only reclaim her life but become an author, therapist, and coach.Jill shares the connection she made between her growing-up years and her pattern of unhealthy relationships. She found herself and her other half through extensive trauma therapy and building emotional sobriety.Her entrepreneurial spirit has allowed her to help so many others with her program, to heal their past and build healthy relationships. We shared the process of writing our books and our passion for bringing hope and relatability to as many women as possible.Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Emotional Freedom Technique: Taking Control of Your Anxiety w/Dr. Katie Nall
Jul 11 2023
Emotional Freedom Technique: Taking Control of Your Anxiety w/Dr. Katie Nall
Dr. Katie Nall is a mathematician who went in search of helping her students with their math anxiety (which of course translates into all anxiety).She came across the brilliant work of Nick Ornter who created Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) or tapping.And has been helping so many people calm their nervous systems and bodies of the anxiety the literally disables them.How empowering it is to know there are things you can literally do yourself to calm your mind and body and begin the healing process.Oh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Surrendering to Serenity: A Journey of Recovery, Faith, and Letting Go with Lisa Boucher
Jun 27 2023
Surrendering to Serenity: A Journey of Recovery, Faith, and Letting Go with Lisa Boucher
In today's episode, I am thrilled to have the remarkable Lisa Boucher as my guest. Lisa is not only an author, but also a trained polo horse handler, former bartender, and a registered nurse. After transforming her own life, Lisa got sober at the age of 33, and her incredible story has touched the lives of many. Her book, Raising The Bottom: Making Mindful Choices in a Drinking Culture, received accolades including being a finalist in the International Book Awards in health, addiction, and recovery, and winning the USA Best Book Award in women's health in 2017.Highlights:Overcoming Challenges in the Medical CommunityHealing from TraumaEmbracing Faith and TrustThe Common Denominator of StruggleEmpowering Insights for Sleepful NightsLinks:https://lisaboucherauthor.com/https://www.instagram.com/lboucherauthor/https://www.facebook.com/RaisingtheBottom/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Finding Calm in Every Sip: Talia Bennick's Journey to Crafting Alcohol-Free Bliss
Jun 20 2023
Finding Calm in Every Sip: Talia Bennick's Journey to Crafting Alcohol-Free Bliss
In this episode, I sit down with Talia Bennick, the extraordinary entrepreneur behind Crisp & Crude Company. Talia's unique story takes a refreshing twist as she shares her journey of creating an alcohol-free beverage that promotes relaxation and calm. Although her motivation stemmed from personal struggles, Talia's determination led her to build an enticing range of flavors infused with mood-lifting botanical extracts. As an advocate for the alcohol-free movement, Talia also delves into her experience as a non-drinker, offering valuable insights into managing social anxiety and gracefully handling questions about her choice.Highlights:Unveiling the Crisp and Crude Company: Crafting Alcohol-Free BlissEmpowering Choices: Navigating Social Anxiety and OverwhelmThe Evolution of the Alcohol-Free MovementBehind the Scenes: From Idea to CreationLinks:https://crispandcrude.com/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Healing from Within: Embracing Holistic Wellness with Mayara Souza
Jun 13 2023
Healing from Within: Embracing Holistic Wellness with Mayara Souza
In today's episode, I am thrilled to introduce my guest, Mayara Souza, a certified sound therapist and holistic wellness practitioner. Mayara's unique approach empowers individuals to achieve deep relaxation, overcome emotional blocks, and unleash their body's innate healing capabilities. Get ready to be captivated by her fascinating journey, as she shares her insights on bridging cultural gaps, the transformative power of plant medicine, and the importance of letting go of victimhood mentality.Highlights:Unleashing the Power of Sound TherapyCultural Perspectives on WellnessEmbracing Plant Medicine for SobrietyUnlocking the Body's Innate Healing PotentialShedding the Victimhood MentalityLinks:https://mayara-souza.com/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
The Power of Habits and Mindset in Sobriety with Karolina Rzadkowolska
Jun 6 2023
The Power of Habits and Mindset in Sobriety with Karolina Rzadkowolska
Today I have a very special guest, Karolina Rzadkowolska, a certified alcohol-free life coach and bestselling author of the book Euphoric: Ditch Alcohol and Gain A Happier, More Confident You. Karolina's expertise lies in transformation-based coaching, positive psychology, and she is a Senior Certified This Naked Mind Coach. Get ready for an enlightening conversation about habits and mindset, and how they shape our journey toward emotional sobriety.Highlights:Understanding the difference: Habits and MindsetReaching your upper limitImpacting habits for lasting changeGiving yourself permissionLinks:https://euphoricaf.com/https://www.euphoricbook.com/https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1685976802&sr=8-1Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Nurturing the Self: Regulating Healing, Reparenting, and Identity Work with GiGi Langer
May 30 2023
Nurturing the Self: Regulating Healing, Reparenting, and Identity Work with GiGi Langer
In today's episode, I have the incredible GiGi Langer joining us. GiGi is not only a presenter and retreat leader but also the author of the award-winning book, "50 Ways to Worry Less Now: Reject Negative Thinking to Find Peace, Clarity, and Connection." In this enlightening episode, GiGi shares her wisdom on regulating healing and inviting a higher power into your journey of recovery. Highlights:Regulating your healing and inviting a higher powerConquering negative thoughts in recoveryBreaking free from limiting beliefsThe power of self-soothingStruggles with character defectsRe-parenting yourselfLinks:https://www.amazon.com/Ways-Worry-Less-Now-Connection/dp/0999122002/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1685421299&sr=8-1https://gigilanger.com/https://www.instagram.com/gigilangerworrylessnow/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Embracing Sobriety and Empowering Mental Health with Nisha Lehmann
May 23 2023
Embracing Sobriety and Empowering Mental Health with Nisha Lehmann
In this episode, we dive deep into the inspiring journey of Nisha Lehmann, a mobile developer by day and a dedicated advocate for better mental health by night. Nisha shares her personal experiences with substance use, the challenges she faced, and how she emerged as a powerful force in the sober, curious movement. Join us as we explore the transformative power of sobriety, the importance of open conversations, and the innovative app she's developing to create a safe space for those struggling with mental health and addiction.Highlights:Discover how Nisha's personal experiences led her to the sober curious movement.Understand the significance of recognizing the impact of substances on our identity.Explore the unique features and benefits of Confident Conversations.Understand how the app addresses the diverse needs of various communities.Delve into the importance of building a supportive online community for mental health and addiction recovery.Learn about Nisha's strategies for staying sober and true to oneself.Explore the ways in which alcohol can mask our true identities and hinder personal growth.Understand the dark thoughts that can accompany addiction and the path towards healing.Examine the societal stigma surrounding mental health and substance use.Learn about Nisha's advocacy work and her efforts to empower others through open conversations.Discuss the importance of creating a safe and inclusive space for diverse communities, including sexual assault victims and gamers.Links:Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/nisha-leh...Website:   www.confidconvos.comTwitter / Pinterest / Instagram:  @confidconvosSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
The Power of Personal Responsibility and Overcoming Attachment Styles: A Conversation with Jessica Jeboult
May 16 2023
The Power of Personal Responsibility and Overcoming Attachment Styles: A Conversation with Jessica Jeboult
In today's episode, I have a very special guest, Jessica Jeboult. Jessica is a writer, podcast host, and founder of A Sober Girls Guide, an incredible platform that has helped countless women in their journey towards sobriety and self-discovery.In this thought-provoking discussion, we'll be diving deep into the very core of personal growth.Highlights:Accountability: The first step towards change is accepting responsibility for our actions, both good and bad. Jessica shares her insights on the importance of accountability in personal development and how it can lead to better decisions and a happier life.Personal Responsibility: Recognizing that our choices have consequences and embracing the power of personal responsibility can open the door to a life of greater fulfillment. Attachment Styles: Our attachment styles play a significant role in our relationships, influencing how we connect and interact with others. The Humbling Moment of Realization: It's not easy to admit that we've been making choices that aren't working for us. We'll talk about the courage it takes to recognize when we're the ones causing our pain and the importance of being honest with ourselves.Choosing Something Different: We explore how choosing differently can be a powerful act of self-love. It's about admitting to ourselves when we're not content, coming to terms with past decisions that may not have served us, and having the courage to make new choices that align with our true selves. Links:A Sober Girls GuideA Sober Girls Guide PodcastInstagramVibe GummiesSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Embracing Oneness & Transforming Negativity: A Candid Conversation with Harriet Harrer
May 9 2023
Embracing Oneness & Transforming Negativity: A Candid Conversation with Harriet Harrer
Welcome to another episode of the Confident Sober Women Podcast, where we empower and support women in their journey to a fulfilling, sober life. Today, I'm excited to have Harriet Harrer as my guest. Harriet is a renowned speaker, author, and facilitator who's dedicated to inspiring change and bringing miracles to life. Join us as we dive deep into transforming negative thinking patterns and explore practical tools to help you find balance and inner peace.In this episode, you'll learn:The power of embracing oneness and equality in our experiences, pain, and journey to recovery, and how this vision can foster compassion and encouragement for others.The importance of changing our thinking patterns to live well in life, despite the pain and challenges we face.Why stepping out of our comfort zones is crucial for sober, confident women to become the women of integrity and grace they've always wanted to be.Harriet's personal struggles with negative self-talk and how she learned to eliminate negative thinking patterns through daily practice. The "stop sign technique" and other practical tools for replacing thoughts with positive affirmations in the heat of the moment, fostering a calmer mind and body.Don't miss this heartfelt conversation with Harriet, as we explore how to change your perspective on negativity and provide practical tools to help you live a more joyful, connected life. Tune in, learn, and be inspired to step out of your comfort zone, embrace the oneness of who we are, and transform your thinking patterns for a better life. Links:Mel Robbins JournalOne Thousand Gifts - Ann VoskampMiracles of Recovery - Harriet HuntSupport the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.
Mastering Emotions: Meg Daly on Empathy, Healing, and Personal Power
May 2 2023
Mastering Emotions: Meg Daly on Empathy, Healing, and Personal Power
Today, I am thrilled to have my friend Meg Daly as my guest. Meg is a speaker, podcast host, and the founder of the Live More Drink Less 30 Day Reset. She specializes in helping gray area drinkers and empaths discover ways to find more calm in their every day lives.In this episode, Meg shares her personal journey of learning to face her emotions head-on, rather than running away from them. We explore the common compulsion to escape from heavy feelings and emotions through various coping mechanisms, such as alcohol, food, shopping, and sex. Meg emphasizes the importance of allowing emotions to simply "be" - recognizing them, naming them, and letting them pass through.Highlights:Embracing emotions: Why acknowledging and sitting with our emotions, rather than running away from them, is a key component of healing and personal growth.The power of choice: Recognizing our ability to decide how we want to feel and taking charge of our emotional well-being, even in the most difficult circumstances. Change and mourning: Understanding that change is a natural part of life and allowing ourselves to grieve and process the emotions that come with it. Asking ourselves the right questions: Learning to check in with ourselves and determine what we need in the moment to move forward and create a more fulfilling life. Join me for this deeply insightful and empowering conversation as Meg shares her wisdom on navigating emotions, embracing our personal power, and living a more balanced and fulfilling life. Links:https://megkdaly.com/https://www.facebook.com/groups/2710231689214768https://megkdaly.com/category/podcast/Support the showSupport the showOh, and by the way, if you didn’t know, I have an awesome course called Creating Healthy Boundaries; it's affordable, easy to follow, and will make a big difference in how you feel. Check it out here.If you aren't part of the Confident Sober Women Facebook group, it's a great place to be. There are over a thousand other sober women there building lives they don't want to escape from. Come on over and join us.And if you haven't read my memoir, grab a copy today and maybe a second one for a friend. There is so much hope in recovery, and I shared my story so raw and vulnerably so that others would know they aren't alone and that there is a way to live well, manage relationships, parent your kids, and have a healthy body, all while staying sober. Grab a copy of Recovering in Recovery: The Life-Changing Joy of Sobriety wherever books are sold.