Merritt Onsa's journey to motherhood was unconventional. After bouts of infertility, she and her husband decided to pursue embryo adoption. Like many mothers who have been through infertility, she entered this part of her life with expectations and hopes of how motherhood would look. Of course, it hasn't quite gone that way. Like all women, and especially moms, she has learned that she needs to work on finding her true identity as well as identify her idols in motherhood. God has been so gracious in that and reminded her that she doesn't have to measure her motherhood by anyone else's. God has His own plan for hers and yours.