Keeping It Young

Dave Young, Bethlie Young

A weekly podcast hosted by Dave and Bethlie Young who have spoken to thousands of people across America and around the world. Their heart is to encourage, direct, and strengthen your marriage, family, and ministry life. You will find humor, helpful teaching, and great encouragement. Join them each week as together they share Biblical and practical insights. read less
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Life and Family Lessons In Proverbs | Immorality cont...Prov 7
Mar 11 2024
Life and Family Lessons In Proverbs | Immorality cont...Prov 7
Proverbs 7:6-27 Solomon Gives An Illustration A young man lacking wisdom He is a young man - Bewafre of Youthful Lusts Youthful Lusts Will Rob Us of God’s BestDamage our thinking and point us in a wrong directionBuild a weak foundation for our future Flee Youthful Lusts Fight and fortify purity He was void of understanding Not taughtNot principledNot prepared for what was about to happen to him He had bad company Among the simple - among the youthsJesus who was meeting with the older and wiser He had nothing to do Laziness and idleness are always an opportunity for failureSodom - abundance of idleness He was out in the night when he should have been resting from a days work He chose the way to her house Choices matter A  married lady who is wicked - she is the leader Her dress - She is dressed inappropriately verse 10 Dress does matterOur bodies belong to God and to our spouseKeep your clothes full and flowing Illustration of an advertisement for “stretchy pants/yoga pants”.The commercial said “comfortable” but showed “sexy’ and “sensual”One can dress unwisely and not be aware of it; God’s Word calls us to be aware of it and dress wisely . . . Her deportment - She is loud verse 11 Peter said a Godly lady has a “meek” and “quiet” spiritShe is flirty, but not with her husband verse 13 Her place - She refuses to embrace her role and responsiblity vs 11-12 She is not being a “keeper at home” while her husband is away Her lies She professed to be religious about itShe called it love - it was not; it was lustShe considered it Her promises - She promises something she can’t give verse 14, 18 A glimpse of the results of adultery He goes to the slaughter It kills innocenceIt kills virginityIt kills virtue and characterIt kills what might have been beautiful had he waitedIt kills relationships What will her husband do when he finds outWhat will his future wife do when she finds out He is never the same This is not to say you can’t repent and do rightIt is to say you can’t commit adultery without it damaging you in deadly and devastating ways
Re-thinking Christian Weddings | Part 4
Dec 18 2023
Re-thinking Christian Weddings | Part 4
In this episode, Dave and Bethlie delve into a topic that's essential yet often overlooked in Christian weddings: the balance between the secular and the sacred. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize various facets of Christian weddings that they believe require a deeper reflection. They encourage you to consider the implications of elements such as alcohol, dancing, music, pranks, and the importance of modesty in the context of sacred Christian ceremonies. ol]:!pt-0 [&>ol]:!pb-0 [&>ul]:!pt-0 [&>ul]:!pb-0">They challenge the norm of including alcohol in wedding receptions, citing specific warnings in the Bible about its use and the potential pitfalls it can present.ol]:!pt-0 [&>ol]:!pb-0 [&>ul]:!pt-0 [&>ul]:!pb-0">The topic of dancing at weddings was discussed, with a reminder that dances are typically considered intimate and sensual in nature, even if they are not intended to be so.ol]:!pt-0 [&>ol]:!pb-0 [&>ul]:!pt-0 [&>ul]:!pb-0">They also encourage a careful selection of music with an emphasis on avoiding songs that could potentially cheapen the ceremony's sacredness.ol]:!pt-0 [&>ol]:!pb-0 [&>ul]:!pt-0 [&>ul]:!pb-0">They suggest avoiding pranks that could shift the focus from the holy nature of the ceremony to silliness and self-attention.ol]:!pt-0 [&>ol]:!pb-0 [&>ul]:!pt-0 [&>ul]:!pb-0">Lastly, the importance of modesty in selecting the bride's dress was underscored. A wedding is a significant platform for expressing our Christian values, and an opportunity to set a firm foundation for the marriage to come. As you listen to this episode, we challenge you to rethink the elements of your Christian wedding. We remind you that it's a sacred event and should be a reflection of your faith and commitment to biblical principles. Remember, your decisions shape not just a single day, but a lifetime commitment under God's grace. #ChristianWeddings, #RethinkWeddings, #SacredCeremony, #DavidYoung, #ChristianValues, #BibleTeachings Thank you to our sponsor My Pillow.  Start your Christmas shopping now with PROMO CODE: YOUNG for up to 60% off!
Re-thinking Christian Weddings | Part 3
Dec 11 2023
Re-thinking Christian Weddings | Part 3
In their ongoing series, Dave and Bethlie explore the idea of a Christian wedding not just as a ceremony, but a sacred covenant. They discuss various aspects, starting from engagement to the wedding itself, and the importance of involving family and the church community in this journey. They also delve into the importance of recognizing marriage as a covenant, not simply a fairy-tale event. The focus in this episode is primarily on planning wisely. It's important to remember that a wedding is a combination of multiple elements. It starts with the best Christian premarital counseling possible, followed by thorough discussions about every aspect of your marriage in advance. They also advise you to set a budget for the wedding and stick to it. This may be challenging, but it's crucial to avoid falling into the trap of a consumerist culture that encourages overspending for a single event. Focusing on the covenant rather than the presentation is another key point we stress on. Traditionally, weddings are seen as grand affairs, often influenced by the media and culture. However, in a Christian wedding, it's the covenant that should be front and center. This doesn't mean that your wedding can't be beautiful. It can be stunningly beautiful even with simplicity, and most importantly, it's the covenant that you are making with each other before God and your witnesses that makes it truly meaningful. Planning wisely also includes thinking about the honeymoon as not just a vacation, but as the beginning of a covenant relationship. Dave and Bethlie suggest to choose a place that allows for relaxation, getting to know each other, and focusing on each other without distraction. Thank you again for joining us today. We hope you find these discussions helpful and inspiring as you rethink the idea of a Christian wedding. Stay tuned for our next episode where we will continue to explore this topic and focus on making Christian weddings distinctly sacred. #KeepingItYoungPodcast, #ChristianWeddings, #MarriageCovenant, #WeddingPlanning, #ChristianLife, #PremaritalCounseling, #Podcast, #Faith, #Family, #Ministry, #ChristianPerspective, #WeddingBudget, #ChristianMarriage   Thank you to our sponsor My Pillow.  Start your Christmas shopping now with PROMO CODE: YOUNG for up to 60% off!