PODCAST

Bodaciously HER

Tee Oluyole Shana Holmes Kim Burton

Bodaciously HER is a community where we provide a safe space for modern women to address and demystify social and religious constructs, discover God's truth and thrive no matter what season they find themselves in. From dating to marriage to divorce to sex, nothing is off limits! We are committed to providing PRACTICAL answers to your questions. Follow along as @hisessencespeaks @shanathe1st @revmskim bring you along their bodacious journey.
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Introducing: Bodaciously HER podcast
Introducing: Bodaciously HER podcast
Jul 20 2021
13 mins
Divorce: Grieving and Growing
Divorce: Grieving and Growing
WARNING:  This episode may be triggering emotionally. This content does not  take into account your specific situation or needs. If you or someone is in need of assistance please call 1-800-799-4889 or go to suicidepreventionlifeline.org.In this vulnerable episode, Shana and Tee share the story of their  divorce for the first time. The loss involved in a divorce is as painful as a death. In many ways it  is the death of a relationship you loved and the life you created with this person. Shana and TEE share the stages of grief and how they felt  and handled each stage. They discussed their lessons learned and how they have grown from this experience. They also remind us that the divorce journey is different for everyone, and  its not what happens to us in life that matters, but how we choose to handle what happens to us that is important.Follow us on social mediaHttps://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee@hisessencespeaksKim@revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
1w ago
1 hr 8 mins
For Better or Worse
For Better or Worse
The ladies reflect on what is "better" or 'worse' for them before marriage and after . What happens when the rose-colored glasses are removed? The ladies reflect on the qualities in their partner they admired and the ones they should have been more conscious of. Shana and Tee discover a superpower they have in common after they experienced betrayal. This thought-provoking episode is great for you wherever you are in your marital journey (engaged, married, separated or divorced)Follow us on social mediahttps://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee@hisessencespeaksKim@revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
May 11 2022
1 hr 4 mins
Do you still serve your man a plate?
Do you still serve your man a plate?
The ladies give a new meaning to servitude and what it means to cater to your man. Each lady shares their perspective and experience on servitude. Does our society expect servitude to be reciprocal or  is it one-sided in romantic relationships?Follow us on social media:https://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim@ revmskimShana@shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Apr 27 2022
36 mins
Put Some Respect on My Name
Put Some Respect on My Name
In this episode, the ladies discuss respect in a relationship-How to foster it and demonstrate it.Join the bodaciously HER communityHttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-communityFollow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanthe1st
Apr 13 2022
50 mins
Complement Me vs Complete Me
Complement Me vs Complete Me
In this episode, the ladies unpack the differences between the terms complement and complete in relationships. The ladies share the keys to building a satisfying and lasting relationships Join the bodaciously HER communityHttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-communityFollow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanthe1st
Mar 30 2022
32 mins
What About Your Friends?
What About Your Friends?
In this episode, the ladies talk through the subject of friendships and the role that they play in relationships. The three of them take a deep look at their friendships and unpack the triumphs and challenges of friendships.The hosts will discuss the following:·        The different types of friendship- from Fairweather to Instagram friend to BestieThe role friendships play in their lives, present day.·        Setting up healthy boundaries.·         What makes a true friendship?·       ·        And so much moreFollow us on social media:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Mar 16 2022
44 mins
Keys to Conflict Resolution
Keys to Conflict Resolution
Conflict is an inevitable part of every relationship. Therefore it's imperative that one finds a resolution in order to have healthy and long-lasting relationships. Sit back and listen as the ladies explore emotional intelligence in relationships and whether it's better to be Right, Righteous, and or RespectfulJoin the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Mar 2 2022
36 mins
Lets Talk About Sex- (Part 2)
Lets Talk About Sex- (Part 2)
In this episode, the ladies invite Michele Silva -Pure Romance Director and sexual health professional to help educate the Bodacious family about sex & intimacy. The ladies do not hold back anything on this episode. They discuss sex communication, arousal, masturbation, the 12 orgasms, virginity, and tips to having a happier sex life. We are here to answer your questions- no questions left behind, keep it real, and educate along the way! Excited for you to join us! We strive to help relationships prosper and have safe, and healthy intimacy!Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Feb 16 2022
39 mins
Let's Talk About Sex (Part 1)
Let's Talk About Sex (Part 1)
In this episode, the ladies invite Michele Silva -Pure Romance Director and sexual health professional to help educate the Bodacious family about sex & intimacy. The ladies do not hold back anything on this episode. They discuss sex communication, arousal, masturbation, the 12 orgasms, virginity and tips to having a happier sex life. We are here to answer your questions- no questions left behind, keep it real, and educate along the way! Excited for you to join us! We strive to help relationships prosper and have safe, and healthy intimacy!Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Feb 2 2022
37 mins
Purpose and friendship
Purpose and friendship
In this episode the ladies explore “purpose partner” and discuss creating a space in your marriage for stirring up purpose. The ladies share the importance of fulfilling  Gods purpose on earth and how one can make an impact on earth by yourself and or with a partner.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Dec 15 2021
42 mins
what I wish I knew before having a sex
what I wish I knew before having a sex
On this vulnerable episode, the ladies share their thoughts on sex, where their narrative around sex was formed. They share everything from soul ties, to sexpectations. The ladies also discuss  the purity culture and how abstaining from sex before marriage doesn't guarantee a happily ever after.Join the bodaciously HER communityHttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-communityFollow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com@bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanthe1st
Dec 1 2021
38 mins
Radical Honesty in Relationships
Radical Honesty in Relationships
Honesty is vital to the health of any relationship-marital and otherwise. Yet most people aren't willing to be honest in their relationships. The ladies share their thoughts on honesty- the intimacy, the vulnerability , and the consequences of honesty.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Nov 17 2021
44 mins
Finding my Tribe
Finding my Tribe
If you want to go fast go alone. If you want to go far go together. The ladies discuss the importance of having a community of women that you can be authentic, vulnerable and grow alongside. In a world where women are taught to tear down and compete with one another, we share how one can change the narrative.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Nov 3 2021
57 mins
Help I don't like my kids
Help I don't like my kids
Confessions of a mom. The ladies share some of the challenges they've experienced as parents and provide some tips on how to navigate through those challenging times and seasons. From generational differences, to  teaching them how to treat their significant other,  to just simply wanting to be appreciated, the ladies unpack it all.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Oct 20 2021
50 mins
Monogamy or Nah
Monogamy or Nah
Hall Pass, sister wives and polygamy are on the agenda for this week's episode. Join us as we unpack the downward trajectory  of traditional  marriage and the new normal - infidelity, open marriages and divorces.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Oct 6 2021
44 mins
Rock with Me
Rock with Me
In this episode, the ladies define and assess the  "Rock With Me" stage of a relationship -where there is mutual respect and trust for one another, and healthy communication.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Sep 22 2021
53 mins
Lean With Me
Lean With Me
In this episode @hisessencespeaks @ shanathe1st and @revmskim  discuss how a guy needs to show up correctly in order to date a bodacious woman. We discuss how important it is for us as women to clearly communicate our expectations and non-negotiables while dating in order to live our best lives! We want to hear from the Bodaciously HER community, so press PLAY and join the discussion. DM us and let us know some of your tips and non-negotiables in dating.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Sep 8 2021
28 mins
Daughter of the Most High dealing with the most least
Daughter of the Most High dealing with the most least
in this episode, @hisessencespeaks, @revmskim, and @shanathe1st unpack how we as daughters of God tolerate and often settle for less than what God has for us in relationships. The ladies unpack why we tolerate some toxic behaviors and how to move forward.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Aug 25 2021
30 mins
Effectively Co-Parenting
Effectively Co-Parenting
In this vulnerable episode, @hisessencespeaks and the father of her children- George Oluyole share their co-parenting journey,  including challenges, pivoting, tips, healing after a divorce, and how to exercise patience and grace with one another while prioritizing the emotional stability of the children.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Aug 11 2021
47 mins
Introducing: Bodaciously HER podcast
Introducing: Bodaciously HER podcast
This episode @hisessencespeaks @shanathe1st and @revmskim introduce themselves to the listeners, define Bodacious, share their stories  and inform the listeners what they can expect from the podcast.Join the Bodaciously HER Communityhttps://bodaciouslyher.com/join-the-community/Follow us:https://bodaciouslyher.com @bodaciouslyherTee @hisessencespeaksKim @revmskimShana @shanathe1stVocals by @Monee21
Jul 20 2021
13 mins