Lawfully Ever After

Send us a textIn this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce. From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages. They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divorce trends, why emotions often cloud legal decisions, and how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and respect. Whether you're seeking advice on co-parenting, understanding your partner’s perspective, or how to keep your identity while parenting, this episode offers relatable stories, legal insights, and timeless wisdom.Listen in for heartfelt discussions, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way!

Send us a textIn this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.Listeners will learn about the often-misunderstood steps of custody litigation, including conciliations, pre-trial conferences, and evidentiary hearings. Julie explains the importance of due process, how judges approach their rulings, and why representing yourself without legal assistance can lead to costly mistakes.Whether you’re navigating your own custody situation or simply curious about how the family court system works, this episode offers valuable insights into the legal process, the costs (both financial and emotional), and the importance of thoughtful decision-making before heading to court.Plus, Julie and Emily reflect on the human side of the law, emphasizing the importance of having a passionate, prepared advocate by your side.

Send us a textIn this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires. Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children. We discuss the importance of letting go of past grievances, reframing issues constructively, and how the right approach can not only save time and money but also promote healthier co-parenting relationships. Whether you're navigating a custody case or just interested in family law, this episode offers valuable insights on how to avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on what truly matters—the well-being of the children involved.

Send us a textIn this episode, we tackle the often tricky subject of holidays post-divorce, with practical advice just in time for the holiday season. From Halloween to Christmas, Julie Potts discusses the challenges of sharing holidays, the common mistakes people make, and why it's crucial to keep the focus on the kids. With personal anecdotes and experienced insights, this episode offers tips on creating new traditions, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and managing custody schedules during the holidays. Whether it's finding a balance for Thanksgiving or letting go of Halloween disputes, this episode will help you navigate the holiday season stress-free.

Send us a textEver wondered what it's like to have a consult with Julie? Chances are, you'd hear at least one or two of her most frequently used "Julie-isms". For example, you may already be familiar with "Get a job!", but I bet you haven't heard:"Litigation is a last resort, not a first response.""If they're trying to get you upset, then walk away.""You picked them"...and many more!In this episode, Julie provides insights into the complexities of family law, and offers practical advice for those going through similar experiences. From discussing the philosophy of litigation as a last resort to addressing common misconceptions about custody and support, Julie's candid conversations and 'Julie-isms' will be sure to enlighten. Whether you're in the midst of a legal battle or just curious about the world of family law, this podcast promises to be both informative and engaging. Tune in for real talk, real advice, and a few laughs along the way.Find Julie on social media:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esqE-mail us at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com with your questions and comments and what you'd like to learn about in the world of family law!

Send us a textIn this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.We cover a lot in this episode, including:(00:37) Can a co-parent violate custody orders if they have mental health concerns and are worried about the safety of their children?(06:41) What should you do if the other parent appears to be under the influence at a custody exchange?(10:14) How do the results of mental health evaluations factor into custody?(15:41) Is it possible to have to pay child support for a child who is not biologically yours if you were never married and you break up?(20:34) Do I have to file for child support even if I don't want it? How does it work if I change my mind later?(24:00) If my co-parent has a new significant other and my kids are spending more time with this step-parent or girl/boyfriend rather than their biological parent during their custody time, how does that work in terms of custody? Can the step-parent take over parental duties in place of the biological parent? Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Send us a textIn this episode, @LawyerJulie from TikTok talks about the importance of getting a job to avoid the very common problem of financial abuse in a marriage. Should you get a job if it reduces your spousal support/alimony? How do you afford a divorce if you don't have your own bank account? Julie answers these questions and more.

Send us a textEmily listened to the Britney Spears audiobook and couldn't wait to get Julie's take on her divorce and custody issues!In this episode we discuss:Generational trauma and the importance of breaking the cycleIf you file for divorce first do you have to pay your ex's legal fees?The importance of a solid foundationShould she have lost custody when she was 5150d?Navigating custody cases after one parent has a severe mental breakdown and has to go to inpatient therapy and/or rehab. Did KFed have an ulterior motive for sharing the negative videos of Britney parenting?Most of us aren't in tabloids, but what about personal details being posted on social media...how does that affect custody?Disclaimer: we are not Britney Spears experts or therapists, but our opinions are the same regardless of the details.Be sure to follow @LawyerJulie on TikTok and send her an e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com if you have a topic you'd like us to discuss!

Send us a textThis short episode covers a few random topics:Are the courts reasonable?When is it considered perjury?What's the weirdest "asset" Julie saw clients fighting over?Can you go to pet custody court?Follow Julie on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you'd like answered on the podcast, e-mail her lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Send us a textToday @LawyerJulie talks about something she sees all the time...parents recording their kids to get video "proof" of their kids not wanting to go to the other parent's house, or the kids complaining about the other parent in general. Is this a good idea? Can this video be used in court? What do the judges think? What if it's your spouse or ex-spouse you are recording, is that helpful to your case?

Send us a textJulie Potts Esq (aka @LawyerJulie on TikTok) talks about a very common situation in divorce/custody issues: parties not reporting an increase in income to the other side. Julie discusses some options you have to get to the truth if you suspect your ex has gotten a promotion or is working under the table, and also explains how earning potential is calculated in Pennsylvania, and when you just might have no choice but to "get a job" even if you haven't worked while in your marriage.

Send us a textIn this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.We cover a lot in this episode, including:Do parents have to give permission to their co-parent to take their kids far away on vacation?Can a judge force a child to see a parent they don't know?Is it a good idea to give up custody to avoid conflict stemming from parental alienation?Is it worth going to court to get 50/50 custody when you are asked to settle on just a little less than 50%?Relocation - can you buy a house an hour away and force your coparent to drive your kids to you?Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Send us a textOne of Julie's biggest pet peeves is when one parent talks poorly about the other parent directly to, or in front of, their child.  She covers alienation, triangulation, and some true story scenarios where the kids were deeply affected by being put in the middle.  This episode has examples, practical tips, and what you might hear in court if you try to influence your child's loyalty to one parent over the other.

Send us a textIn this episode, Julie talks about why you should NOT feel uncomfortable or embarrassed sharing details about infidelity with your attorney, and how the Pennsylvania court views this situation in relation to your divorce, division of assets, alimony, and custody. She also covers what exactly is covered by attorney-client privilege in family law, and is there ever a time you should withhold information from your attorney? Want to learn more from Julie? Check her out on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you want to be answered, you can e-mail the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Send us a textOne of @LawyerJulie's most controversial TikToks is titled "It's the kid's time, not yours!" and the comment section proved that this is a very controversial topic when co-parenting. In this episode, Julie shares some common scenarios she sees daily in regards to kid's activities and shared custody, discusses how the court typically handles these situations, and how they factor into child support payments.

Send us a textIs it weird to think about asking for a divorce if you aren't even married yet? In this episode, Family Law Attorney Julie Potts discusses how some of the more common relationship red flags can manifest during a divorce, and what you can do to avoid getting yourself into this emotionally exhausting situation in the first place.

Send us a textJulie Potts, Esq, the host of Lawfully Ever After and @LawyerJulie on TikTok, gives an overview of her legal background as well as insight into her personal motivation for becoming a family law attorney and why she wants to reach more people via a podcast platform.