In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, host Melissa Batt challenges overwhelmed direct sellers to stop chasing all the shiny things, get laser-focused, and use the December digital detox challenge to experience more time, peace, impact, money, and opportunities.  When the world is telling us we need to be online and show up more consistently, I want to give you permission to take some time away and allow God to show off on your behalf. All of the challenges are based on my own life and the things God used to help me become more intentional. It drew me closer to Him and also helped me get my priorities in alignment. My hope for the monthly challenges is for them to make you more aware of how through anxiety and overwhelm, we can begin living on autopilot and in survival mode.  My mission is to guide and lead you with the challenge but it is mostly what you make of it.  You get to choose if you want to do a digital detox for one day, a week, or all month. Personally, this time around, I'm going to spend weekends doing more intentional things with my family and less time on my phone. And, I am going to put my phone up at night instead of falling asleep scrolling. I may even get in another game of Monopoly with the kids! {IYKYK}   Books mentioned and recommended on the podcast:  The 40-Day Social Media Fast by Wendy Speake    Want to work with me in January? I'd love to help you! Please email me at realtalktribe@mail.com and we can set up a call.    Let's connect: https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com

What does an anonymous million-dollar donation and your relationship with Jesus have in common? EVERYTHING. Join me, Melissa Batt, as I share a powerful message that is guaranteed to offer you hope and give you a little extra pep in your steps. Often times I find walking out my life in faith to be a bit of a roller coaster.  But, regardless, it all has a purpose and God will use it.  In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, you will be able to: Understand the power of faith and obedience in your faith journey so you can have a more intimate relationship with God. Learn what steps to take if you feel clueless about what God's calling is for your life Encouraged to trust in God's perfect timing and experience the peace that comes from surrendering control. Recognize that God's asks may be the answered prayer for others   Sometimes God puts something on our heart that seems impossible, but with God, all things are possible. - Melissa Batt  Trusting in God's timing is crucial for us as we attempt to walk in full obedience to God.  His asks may not always make sense to us because we don't see the full picture. Do it anyway.  The resources mentioned in this episode are: Start a conversation inside of the Real Talk Tribe community.  If you're looking for a place to connect with like-minded women and discuss topics related to conflict resolution, boundaries, and communication, I invite you to participate. It's designed to be a space for women to connect and support one another. If you're feeling stuck or overwhelmed in your life, consider working with a life coach. I specialize in helping women navigate conflicts, create boundaries, improve communication, and more. If you're interested in exploring this option, reach out to me for more information. A huge shout-out to Cleveland Worship Center in Cleveland, Georgia. They've done an incredible job of making my dad feel seen, valued, and known. If you're in the area and looking for a good church, I recommend this one! You can listen to the powerful message from Pastor Mark I refer to during this episode. HERE.  ((I skipped past announcements and worship, and went straight to the message bc of time.) If you don't have Facebook, send me an email and I will try to get you a copy of the message in a different form.   Book a free consultation and let's chat:
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From someone who actually understands how hard the bad anxiety days can be This episode is about anxiety. Lots and lots of anxiety talk. As a Christian Life Coach who works with quite a few women who navigate mental health issues like depression and anxiety, I often open up about my own personal struggles. I read a journal entry live and go behind the scenes letting listeners in on what a REALLY hard day looks like for someone like me who struggles with Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I also talk a lot about the craziness and panic I feel related to the overwhelm I experience driving in unfamiliar areas. It's a bit irrational. But, that's the thing, anxiety often seems irrational to others. And, at the same time, the person who is struggling with the thoughts feels completely paralyzed and overwhelmed.  This episode is for anyone who is or knows someone experiencing anxiety or is curious about learning more about anxiety.  You can also expect to:  Gain insight into what life looks like for someone struggling with anxietyUnderstanding signs and symptoms of anxietyExploring triggers and things that can make us more anxiousLearn coping mechanisms & life hacks to help navigate anxiety and depression more easilyListen to real talk about what it's like when you can't get out of your bed because life seems too hard.Be reminded that dealing with anxiety as a Christian doesn't always mean lack of faith   In 2018 and early 2019, I was in a major funk and pit of depression. It was then that I made a decision to intentionally choose to do hard things. I flipped the script on my anxiety and when it is possible, I consider it a challenge and call it 'adventure'. (Please note that while it works for me, it isn't a guarantee and definitely depends on other factors as well.) Why choose adventure? Choosing adventure is willingly giving up control and learning you will be okay. It gives God an opportunity to show off and for you to grow more reliant upon him. It's my anxiety life hack and it truly helps me be less anxious. It will serve you well AND help you grow your faith. Adventure requires faith. Faith produces more faith and helps us learn to be more reliant on God versus relying solely on ourselves. Are you in survival mode or feel like you are existing and taking up space? It doesn't have to be that way, friend. I am passionate about helping women move forward and live life with passion and purpose. I've been there and lived the life, and now my mission is to give hope and practical tips to help you thrive with peace.   Book a free consultation and let's chat:
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Encouragement for Single Moms and Women Everywhere: Ashley Haley's Story of Hope In a world full of hardships and challenges, one single parent's journey took an unexpected twist. You will love hearing this conversation between Ashley Haley & me on the podcast, Priorities on Purpose. Brace yourself for a tale of resilience, hope, and the power of an anonymous note and a $100 bill that sparked a profound transformation in her life. Tune in to discover the incredible power of faith and how our stories can be used for greater purposes. My special guest is Ashley Haley Ashley Haley is a remarkable woman who has overcome numerous obstacles in her life. As a single mom, she faced challenges that tested her strength and resilience. However, through her unwavering faith in God and determination, Ashley rose above her circumstances and found purpose in it all. With a background in nursing and a passion for helping others, she has made a difference in the lives of many through her work. Ashley's journey also led her to the world of direct sales, where she discovered the power of entrepreneurship and the ability to create positive change. Her experiences and insights make her a valuable guest on Priorities on Purpose, as she shares how God can use our stories. There is joy on the other side of the hardships. We grow through it and persevere. We wouldn't be who we are today without them. I wouldn't change a thing. -Ashley Haley I was speechless. It meant that someone saw me & I mattered to somebody. Because at the time, I didn't feel like I mattered to anyone. I was just trying to keep my head above water, pay the bills, and take care of my son.-Ashley Haley In this episode, we dive into: The world of direct selling & the mistakes we have made. Overcoming life obstacles when things go sideways; divorce, bankruptcy, government housing, single mom life Feeling unworthy & helping others feel seen, valued, and loved because of it Breast Implant Illness and the power of listening to your body Being obedient and trusting God to boldly share our stories     Take Action: Consider the impact of feeling worthy (or unworthy) and how it can affect your life and decisions. Reflect on the obstacles you have overcome and how they have shaped you. Learn about breast implant illness and its potential effects. Pray for ways to positively impact others by giving back and help others Read James Ch 1 vs 2-3 and think of a time your faith was tested and produced perseverance.   Connect with special guest, Ashley: AshleyEhaley31@gmail.com Shop monogrammed gifts/Thirty-One Gifts: giftswithashley.com Shop clean beauty products/Beauty Society: Beautysociety.com/Ashley  Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat: 
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Prepare for Battle: Conquer Resistance and Find Your Purpose Have you been going through the motions on autopilot, doing the same thing every day? Do you feel like there has to be more to life than the life you are living? Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, discontentment, or just feel completely 'blah' sometimes? Today on the podcast, we are talking about the three words I have been talking about since 2020. If you need a pep talk, this episode is for you and is sure to light a fire under your butt! Circle the wagon. It's a word God gave me and it is beneficial to all of us. You cannot hear this message enough, it is so important. It's a talk about preparing. There are things you can do today, starting right now. And honestly, through this journey, for myself, there's always more work to do because we're never going to arrive, right? At least, not on this side of heaven. Spiritual warfare is real. I don't talk about this to scare you. It's to prepare you. The attacks are going to come, but they don't have to hit as hard as they will if you don't get your stuff together. We must get ready. My mission is to help you live the life you were created for and to do it well, we must be prepared. If not, our lives will be full of distractions that derail us from the work God wants us to do. In this episode, we talk about: The importance of preparing for resistance and learning how to build resilience in the face of challenges to stay ahead of the curve and confidently navigate any obstacles that come your way. Overcoming shame and forgiving ourselves or others to be free Strengthening your marriage, family, health, and finances Eliminating noise & finding time to focus on main priorities as a mom, business owner, etc Embracing the journey of life and remembering that it's okay to lead/follow at different times. Focus on knowing where you want to go and taking intentional steps to get there. Pursuing peace and what that looks like as a Christian Circle the wagon. It's time to get your crap together. If you don't, who will?!!! Nobody. It is your responsibility. -Melissa Batt Proactive Strategies for Success You have the ability to forecast potential challenges and develop strategies to alleviate them. Effective planning in key areas such as finances, career, and relationships safeguards our well-being and limits distractions. The resources mentioned in this episode are: Get the 12 weeks to success workshop worksheets AND a guide to help you navigate your life with purpose and help you circle the wagon. https://www.melissabatt.com/becoming-intentional Take action: Check out Ephesians Chapter 2, verses 14-21 in your Bible to read about finding peace and living with God. Consider joining a community or finding accountability partners who can support you and provide encouragement when things get tough. Take time to evaluate your priorities and make sure you're aligning your actions with what truly matters to you. Take action to pursue peace in your life. This may involve spending more time with God, creating better boundaries, or practicing self-care.     Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat: 
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Inside Look: Acknowledging the elephants around Pastor Steven Furtick of Elevation Church & sharing my thoughts on my in-person visit.  Have you ever wondered what it's like to step into the grandeur of Steven Furtick's Elevation Church? The anticipation builds as you approach the sprawling campus, only to find yourself in the overflow section. But here's the twist - what starts as a disappointment soon transforms into a heartfelt connection you never saw coming. The warmth and love exuded by the volunteers go beyond your expectations, making you feel truly seen and valued. Stay tuned to hear how this unexpected twist unfolds and tips that will be helpful if you decide to visit Steven Furtick's Ballantyne campus in North Carolina. Oh, and lots of bonus tips on what you can bring back to your local church. In this episode, we will discuss: My thoughts on visiting Elevation Church led by Pastor Steven Furtick. My tips for attending the Ballantyne campus of Elevation Church in Charlotte, North Carolina The power of being seen inside the church and impact of being cared for Acknowledge the culture of empathy and prayer upheld by the volunteers at Elevation Church Tips to take back to your local church and implement for volunteers and visitors   He is serving God and doing the work God has called him to do. Just like everyone else, he's human. That's why we need to read our own Bible instead of settling with listening to someone else read theirs. - Melissa Batt Discern the significance of accepting individuals where they are in their faith journey. Elevation Church believes in serving both those who need spiritual milk and those who yearn for deeper spiritual instruction. Furtick and his church symbolize an accepting house of worship that caters to the diverse needs of its attendees, ultimately fostering love and embracing all.  Are you planning to attend live and want quick tips before you visit? Plan ahead and arrive at the church early to avoid traffic and secure your seat in the main sanctuary. We were staying in a hotel 15 minutes away; an hour was not enough time to get through traffic and get parked. The further off campus you park, the less traffic you will endure. Visit the Elevation Church website to learn more about their campuses and upcoming events. Also, take advantage of the passionate volunteers who are there to assist you. Send Melissa a DM to let her know if you listen to the Priorities on Purpose podcast and to connect with her. Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in your life. Book a consult and let's chat: 
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Unmasking Our Emotions In this episode, we talk about: Exploring the profound impact of embracing God's renewal in your life. Understanding the importance of fostering a healthy soul for overall well-being. Discovering the strength found in genuine emotional honesty Recognizing the value of consistent introspection and reflection Embracing the revolutionary change faith and a relationship with Jesus can bring to our lives. Faith doesn't mean we limit our emotions to only good emotions. Negative emotions does not mean self-pity, and positive emotions does not mean strong faith. - Dr. Alicia Britt Chole author of The Night is Normal   Fostering a Healthy Soul Cultivating a healthy soul goes beyond mere physical wellness; it also involves spiritual well-being. Consistent self-evaluation helps in identifying the cultural influences that might be undermining the health of our souls. It is crucial to prioritize personal well-being, regular self-checks, and authentic personal development, which ultimately leads to spiritual growth. Resources mentioned in this episode are: Check out Lisa Whittle's book Jesus Over Everything - This book has had a significant impact on my life and I highly recommend it. You can find it at all major book retailers such as Amazon.   Take action: Journaling to God - If you struggle with processing your thoughts and emotions, I encourage you to start journaling to God. It can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and connecting with Him on a deeper level. Find a journal or notebook that you resonate with, and start writing out your prayers, thoughts, and struggles. Read and reflect on Isaiah 43 - Write down any insights or reflections that come to mind. Practice emotional honesty - Be honest with yourself and acknowledge where you really are. Avoiding only delays progress.   Whether you are looking for a life coach or a business coach, make no mistake, my mission is to help you gain more peace and thrive in life. Book a consult and let's chat: 
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Genetic Testing is changing the game and can change your life if you are struggling with depression, anxiety, or other mental illnesses. If you're feeling trapped in a cycle of trial and error with mental health medications, trying medication after medication without finding the relief you desperately need, then you are not alone! It can be incredibly disheartening to put your hope and trust in a medication, only to experience frustrating side effects or little improvement in your symptoms. Despite your best efforts, you may be left feeling discouraged and hopeless, wondering if there is a better way to manage your mental health. But fear not, because genetic testing in mental health medication management offers a breakthrough solution that can finally provide the personalized approach you've been searching for. My special guest on this episode is my sister, Kristina Hall Kristina has struggled with depression and anxiety for over 22 years and assumed that her life would never get better. She felt like she had tried all the meds out there including Zoloft, Paxil, Celexa, Welbutrin, Prozac, and all the other SSRIs. However, after a suggestion from her therapist, she chose to have genetic testing done. Through this she realized she was on the wrong medication and her body didn't metabolize those meds well. This key unlocked the door to personalized medication that works with her specific genetic makeup. If you or someone you know has struggled with their mental health, get ready to take notes. This episode will give you hope and be a starting point for you to discuss with your doctor.  Laziness is a symptom of a bigger problem, and a lot of the time it is a mental health issue. - Melissa Batt In this episode, you will learn how genetic testing paves the way for customized and effective mental health medication strategies with less trial and error. Through a simple and non-invasive cheek swab, you can learn how your genetic makeup determines how your body breaks down the chemicals in the medications. We also talk about the stigma on those who struggle with depression, anxiety, bipolar and other mental health struggles and share resources you may find helpful if you are struggling or supporting someone who is struggling. Transformative role of genetic testing Genetic testing provides an invaluable tool in determining tailored treatment approaches for mental health issues. It aids in identifying the medications that a person can efficiently metabolize based on their genetic makeup. This can lead to effective mental health treatments, maximize the benefits of medications, and potentially reduce adverse drug reactions. The resources mentioned in this episode are: GENESIGHT® (linked here) is the specific testing Kristina had done. It seems to focus more on mental health medications that are commonly prescribed to treat depression, anxiety, ADHD, and other psychiatric conditions. PGx (linked here) is the test that Melissa had done mentioned at the beginning of the show. This test also gives you information related to dozens of other areas not related to psychological issues such as opioid withdrawal, pain management, overactive bladder, sleep disorders, gastrointestinal, diabetes, dementia, Alzheimer's, multiple sclerosis, anesthesia, antifungals, HIV, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, atrial fibrillation, NSAIDS, Vertigo disorder, seizure disorders, COPD and gynecology. It also gives you specific details related to the MTHFR variant. If you are local to Corbin, Kentucky. Melissa loves Mary Rollins at Heartstrings Mental Health, PLLC in London. You can find out more about this office here.  To find more support for yourself or loved ones, look for your local NAMI office here. https://www.nami.org And, remember whether it is for suicide prevention or just to talk with someone who will listen, you can always dial 988 and get connected with someone 24/7.   Disclaimer: Melissa Batt is a Christian life & business coach. She is not a physician. She only speaks of her experiences. Her opinions are her opinions alone and should not be taken as medical advice. Please reach out to your doctor for guidance and next steps. Never stop taking a medication without being under the supervision of your healthcare provider.    Whether it is you struggling or a loved one, you do not have to go through this alone. Book a consult and let's chat: 
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Finding Freedom in Vulnerability: Acknowledging Secrets for a Fulfilled Life with Melissa Batt Does this sound familiar? You've been told to bury your shame and keep your secrets locked away, believing that it's the only way to survive. But deep down, the pain still lingers, and you long for healing and freedom. The truth is, hiding behind a facade only intensifies the torment, leaving you feeling isolated and trapped. It's time to break free from the ineffective action of silence and confront your shame and secrets head-on. Only then can you find the healing, freedom, and purpose in life that you truly deserve. The weight of carrying a secret, no matter how big, is holding us back. We cannot be free until we surrender the shame that we have been carrying. - Melissa Batt In this episode, you will be challenged to: Be intentional with your thoughts & acknowledge your past Overcome shame by acknowledging secrets that lead to feeling ashamed Trust in God to help you through the fear and anxiety as you think about the 'what ifs' Empower yourself by coming to terms with personal shame and secrets. Have compassion for yourself and give yourself grace The critical role of a mentor/coach in walking this out Having a dependable support system is important. Most also find having someone outside of family and friends to partner with crucial. I personally coach several women who are navigating similar situations. I provide support through accountability, talking things out, encouragement, and prayer. I remain neutral, provide valuable feedback, and am willing to say the things most families would not be willing to do and do so with love. Reach out today if you would like to talk. Take action: Reflect on your own secrets and shame: Take time to reflect on any secrets or shame you may be carrying and consider opening up to someone you trust. Whether it's a friend, family member, or therapist, sharing your burdens can help you find healing and freedom.   Book a consult & let's chat: 
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If you're feeling trapped in a cycle of despair and hopelessness, constantly searching for a way out but finding none, then you are not alone! Perhaps you've tried everything to change your circumstances, seeking solace in distractions or numbing the pain with unhealthy habits, only to find temporary relief that quickly fades away. Instead of finding hope, you may be spiraling deeper into the darkness, wondering if there will ever be a way to climb out of the valley you're in. But take heart, for there is a glimmer of light even in the darkest of valleys, and together we can discover the path to resilience and renewed hope. I know you loved last week's Rise 22 clips so I'm gonna give you a little bit more of that and then, of course, let me know if you want to hear more. Also, do you think we should host another one? Next year in 2024, we already have a live event planned and I know it will be amazing! It's called the breakthrough event. You can go to my website and get on the waitlist now for it because tickets will be going on sale soon. I'm so excited for you to hear from these women who have such powerful testimonies and really just share what was on their hearts and served the women who were inside the Real Talk Tribe community. In this episode, we will: Discuss mental health issues and loss of our identity Learn to celebrate and harness your unique qualities and passions for personal growth. Explore the wisdom in trusting God's plan during challenging times. Gain insights into navigating valleys of life and finding hope in the most challenging seasons through scripture Realize the impact and significance of reaching out for help and support when needed. Whatever I needed was so readily available to me. It literally just counted on me reaching out. All it takes is a garment moment where you say, 'Jesus, here I am, I'm reaching out to you and I'm asking that you will heal me,' because he will. - Abbigail Fox  The way God made me was no mistake. And the way God made you is no mistake. - Rebecca Shepherd Cain Trusting God's Plan in Challenging Times Trust can be a powerful assurance when life gets tough. Faith in God's plan offers comfort and resilience as we do our best to navigate it. This key value highlights the sense of security that comes from surrendering control and trusting God's design, showing that even in periods of struggle, we are never alone. Book a consult to learn more and let's chat: 
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Join me as I share powerful testimonies of individuals who have found hope in the midst of difficult circumstances. In this episode of Priorities on Purpose with Melissa Batt, you will hear three stories from three different women who spoke at our Rise 22 event.  Topics discussed:  Unexpected pregnancy Church rejection Loss of a loved one  Marital struggles  Feeling empty inside Getting out of our own way     Quotes: No matter how bad your life is, no matter how bad your struggle is, no matter how hard things are, you can live a life of grace. -Tabatha Lloyd (connect here) Sometimes God takes our gifts away temporarily to remind us that they are for Him, not for our own glory. Be still and know that He is with you. - Lindsey Hale (connect here) He needed to make sure that I moved my marriage out of first place and moved Him back into first place. Since that time, my relationship with Jesus has continued to grow. - Tori Shirah (connect here)   Tips to get through: Consider finding a supportive community where you can connect with others who are experiencing similar struggles and find hope and encouragement. Take time to be still and silent, allowing God to speak to you in the midst of your storms. Journaling can be a powerful tool for reflection and connecting with God on a deeper level. Attend a Bible study or seek out resources that can help strengthen your relationship with God and gain a better perspective on your circumstances.   
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Real talk for those struggling with anxiety, ADHD, hormones and/or depression If you are like me, you live most days feeling some form of exhaustion with major brain fog just trying to get through the day. You do the minimum necessary. And, it isn't because you don't want to do more but because it's all you can manage in one day. Then, one day, out of nowhere, you get a spark of energy, start feeling creative, and are actually thinking clearly. You feel on top of the world on those days. Do you ever have those 'once in a blue moon' days where you actually have the energy and brain capacity to actually get things done? I call those my superwoman days! Seriously, I feel like I could conquer the world!  Today, we are going to be talking about this phenomenon I call the 'Superwoman Cycle'. If we aren't careful, this will set us up for failure.  It's in this cycle we often overdo and over-commit leading us to feel like we have failed ourselves and everyone else around us. We let people down and then we feel bad about it and then we're exhausted because we tried to do all the things and it's a cycle repeating over and over and over. It often looks like inconsistency, flying by the seat of your pants, and  In this episode, we will be talking about ways to break the cycle and why it is crucial for you to live an intentional life with sustainability. We will also discuss how this cycle relates to having a scarcity mindset and what to do to turn things around. Also mentioned is a Fruit of the Spirit audit. This can be helpful as you become more aware of the struggle and choose to move forward developing more self-control and discipline.    
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I'm acknowledging all the elephants and sharing some of my own personal experiences about feeling as if attending church was pointless. I know it sounds harsh, but it appeared that most church attendees were going through the motions. I wanted no part of it until my friend convinced me to try one more time. Because of Natasha, I gave attending a local church one more chance and I'm grateful for her push. 

Watching online, settling for a podcast with your favorite preacher's messages... (Still love a good Steven Furtick message!) God wants more for you and that is what this podcast is all about! In this episode, you will be challenged to: •Acknowledge personal fears, rejections, and past hurts that could have you self-protecting and avoiding
 •Recognize your need for local believers to pray and connect with
 •Stop living offended and instead use it as an opportunity for intentional conversations
 •Recognize when avoidance of what is uncomfortable gets in your way of spiritual growth
 •Trust in God's guidance and provision, remembering my favorite bible verse; Matthew 6:8: Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.
 •Be courageous and take steps to go back to church, even if it's terrifying.
 •Reflect on any past church hurt, remembering that people hurt you, not God and that it's important not to put the church on a pedestal. The church is full of broken people who are in need of a Savior and help.
 •Research churches in your area, considering factors such as location, denomination, and community involvement, and pick three to try out.
 •Attend a church service or if you are really uncomfortable, start with a smaller step like a Trunk or Treat or special service churches offer throughout the year, keeping an open mind and heart.
 •Get involved in a church community by joining a small group, or ministry, or volunteering in an outreach program.
 •Reflect on any past experiences of rejection or abandonment and how they may be influencing your feelings about attending church
 •Remember that God is calling you back to the church not only for your own growth but also to be a part of a community of believers and serve others.
 Re: Recognizing Triggers
Triggers are specific cues or situations that cause an emotional reaction or flashback from past traumas or hurt. Becoming aware of one's triggers allows for better management of emotions and reactions to challenging experiences. Identifying these triggers and working through them ensures past emotional baggage does not hinder your growth. In this podcast, Melissa Batt discusses the concept of triggers and their potential impact on rejoining a church community. She confesses that previous experiences of rejection may lead to negative emotional responses when contemplating attending a new congregation. Melissa suggests working through these emotional triggers, analyzing the root causes, and seeking support as needed to overcome them. Doing so will enhance the individual's ability to develop a healthy church experience free from the influence of past emotional scars. God is calling you to get involved. Delayed obedience is disobedience. Not only do you need the church, but the church also needs you. - Melissa Batt   Reminder: The next Breakthrough Challenge is open now.  Want to start serving in a specific ministry? Find a church to call home? Spend more time in God's word and actually understand what you are reading? Build a Nonprofit? Whether you have business, faith, or life goals, it can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, networking to get outside of your circle, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through this process over the last year and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I'm confident I can help you, too! 
 
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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, I am talking to those who are ready to monetize their God-given gifts and passion to help others. Some of you were born to coach and are finally understanding you can make money doing it. Spoiler alert: You are already coaching. You just may not be getting paid for it YET.  In this episode, I'll be sharing a few things I wish I would have known when I was getting started. Knowing this now can help you save time, money, and your sanity.    Top Takeaways:    Show up in person and online as your best self. Always be willing to leave your comfort zone.   Become clear and consistent in communicating your message online and in person.    Magnify your energy online for better audience engagement and deeper connections getting viewers to stop their scroll and pay attention.   Find your loyal lifers & connect with them regularly even if they aren't yet paying you.   Focus on value-driven connections and coaching without allowing your lack of clients to distract and/or derail you. Don't expect someone to hire you a week after you start serving consistently. Feeling entitled won't get you anywhere.   Don't fall for all the gimmicks. Shortcuts will not give you sustainability.    Improve your social media captions to make them more engaging and informative, encouraging users to pay attention to your content and stop scrolling.   Be intentional in your actions, recognizing that if you want people to pay you for your services, you must provide value and build trust. Give 10x the value of what you want people to pay you.    Be patient with yourself and your business growth, understanding success takes time and dedication. Commit to the process.   Consider seeking feedback and guidance from a mentor or coach to help you improve and grow your business. (I'd love to work with you!)   Remember your journey is unique, and comparing your progress to others can be unproductive and discouraging. Focus on your growth and success.     Are you ready to make progress toward those God-sized dreams? Want to start a podcast? Build a nonprofit? Maybe you have been wanting to launch your own coaching business to help those who are going through similar things you have gone through. Your goals can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, building your audience, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 4 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I've helped them and can confidently say I can help you, too! Sign up now and let's get started!   Find out more about the challenge:   https://www.melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching   Let's connect:   https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com

One of the things most churches don't do well is facilitate conversations around hard and sensitive topics. Why is the word sex taboo in most churches?  Today we are going there! Join me for a real talk conversation about porn, bitterness, lack of intimacy, and most importantly HOPE.  My friend, prayer partner, and previous coaching client, Natasha Pharis joins me to talk about the lessons she learned when she found out her husband was struggling with an addiction to pornography. 

 God taught Natasha a ton in this season and she is sharing it all with us on this episode.    Natasha Pharis is an author and speaker who has experienced God's transformative power in her own marriage. She has learned to trust in Him through difficult times and has used her story to help other women in their relationships.   You can find her journal book here: Hey Honey! Conversations with God to a Better Marriage by Natasha Pharis   Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.  
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A few years ago I started working intentionally to live out my dreams. And, today, I'm a successful Christian Life & Business Coach who had already surpassed last year's profits within the first 2 months of this year. In this podcast episode, I am talking about God-sized dreams and how we can move forward when life is crazy chaotic with lots of twists and turns. {No hustling necessary just intentional hard work.🙌}  Want to know how I did it?  Listening to this episode will not only provide you with valuable steps to pursue your God-sized dreams but will also inspire you to take action and rely on God more.   I have always had a burning desire to help women, but until a few years ago, I didn't know I could make money doing it. One day, I asked myself a life-changing question - if I could do anything without worrying about money, what would it be? The answer was crystal clear: coach women all day, every day. That epiphany led me to create a thriving business where I can combine my passion and impact the lives of others AND make money doing so. Looking back, I can see how God has been the driving force behind my achievements, providing me with the gifts and opportunities to live out my purpose. I had to learn to trust in His plan, even when faced with challenges and distractions along the way. From setting boundaries to finding the right support system, the journey has been a test of faith, persistence, and overcoming my fears. Investing in my dream, both financially and emotionally, has also been a crucial part of my success. My path toward coaching women began in 2019, although I had been coaching for years without realizing I could earn a living from it.   Main takeaways from this episode: Keep the long-term vision in front of you and create boundaries to protect it. Be prepared to say no to distractions and opportunities that don't align with your goals. Recognize the journey will not always be easy, but don't give up. Develop a battle plan for overcoming obstacles and staying focused on your goals. Surround yourself with supportive people, including prayer warriors and mentors. Get involved in a local church community to find like-minded individuals and support. Use worship music for encouragement and motivation. Be willing to spend money and understand the value of investing in your goals. Remember that if you aren't willing to invest in your dream, it's unreasonable to expect others to do so.   Want to know more about how to do a life audit? Click here    Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.    Let's connect:   https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com

Unmasking the Pain: Finding Freedom from Childhood Trauma Through Faith Have you heard these myths about facing childhood trauma head on? Myth #1: Time will heal all wounds. Myth #2: Ignoring it will make it go away. Myth #3: You just have to toughen up and move on.   Here's the truth: God wants to set you free from the trauma you have experienced. And, it starts with leaning into hard things and choosing to have the courage to face them. I share more of what God's been doing in my personal life and let you in on how God has shown up & showed out when I made the decision to take obedient action when it would have seemed easier to stay silent. This will give you encouragement, guidance, and hope as you move forward toward saying yes to what God is asking you to do.  In this episode, we will talk about: What it looks like to lean into God and surrender to trust Him in hard things when you don't want to Childhood Trauma including sexual abuse, grooming, and the cycle in families that keeps repeating Speaking up even when you are worried someone can't handle it  Becoming free so we can help others become free Creating space to process, rest, and take care of yourself while in the midst of hard seasons Sometimes it would seem so much easier to do what everyone has always done and just pretend it didn't happen. But I knew that God was calling me to speak up. - Melissa Batt Coaching   Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min Consider booking a coaching session with me to get personalized guidance and support in achieving your goals and living a fulfilled and sustainable life.    Share this podcast episode:  If you know someone who could benefit from this podcast episode, please share the link with them. This is a powerful message that others need to hear & I could use your help to get the word out!   Let's connect:   https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com

Unlock Your True Potential: Aligning Desires and Values for Goal Setting Success Does this sound familiar? You set goals for yourself, but no matter how hard you try, you just can't seem to achieve them. You've been told that the key to success is simply setting goals, but you're feeling the pain of disappointment when those goals remain out of reach. It's time to uncover the missing element that no one told you about: aligning your personal desires and values. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of synchronizing your ambitions with your convictions. Get ready to break free from the cycle of unfulfilled goals and discover the true path to achievement. In this episode, you will be challenged to: Stop flying by the seat of your pants so you can be more intentional Align your personal ambitions and convictions with the goals you set No longer allow other people's expectations to define the goals you set Set goals you actually want to achieve Be courageous and share your dreams with someone you trust for accountability Recognize your excuses so you can flip the script and overcome them If that's not God's plan for you, it's okay if you don't want it. It doesn't mean you suck. It doesn't mean  you're a failure. It just means you are called for something else, and that's okay. - Melissa Batt Coaching The resources mentioned in this episode are: The free coaching workshop starts July 24th, 2023. Sign up now and get in on free coaching at https://www.melissabatt.com/registerfor12weeks The best website for Christians who love cute graphic tees (not an ad, just obsessed with this amazing company): https://www.beaconthreads.com/   Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.    Let's connect:   https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com

The Impact of Saying Yes: Sonya's Lessons in Setting Boundaries & Prioritizing - Priorities on Purpose Podcast Episode Today you get a BTS (behind the scenes) of a laser coaching session I did with someone participating inside of my free 12 Weeks to Success Workshop. Sonya has gigantic goals and knows where she wants to go. However, her constant need to say yes to everything and over-committing leads her to neglect her well-being and limits her time to work on her God-sized dreams. During this laser coaching session, I work with her on setting boundaries and rebalancing her life to prioritize what matters most. Some of her goals include becoming a life coach, creating a course to help women grow in their relationship with Jesus, and writing a book. This episode is a great example of what it is like to work with me. If you are a high achiever, constantly biting off more than you can chew, love to volunteer, and are always known as the 'yes girl', then get a pen and paper; you'll want to take notes. In this episode, you will be challenged to: Understand how important prioritizing self-care and your well-being is in your daily routines. Discover the profound impact of balance and boundary-setting for your daily peace. Realize the consequences of saying 'yes' to all and its influence on others. Grasp the underestimated importance of stillness and reflection in goal mapping. Take time to do a life audit to see how you are spending your time and why. Prioritize your goals - If you're struggling to figure out your goals or have trouble following through on them, this episode is precisely what you need. It will challenge you to reassess your goals and provide guidance on how to focus on what truly matters. Sign up for the next Twelve Weeks of Success workshop - This workshop will help you set and achieve your goals over the next twelve weeks. Look for the sign-up details in the show notes. My special guest is Sonya Smody from Set4Life. She's a high-achieving single mom who navigates life with resilience and unwavering determination. Continually pushing the boundaries of her comfort zone, Sonya knows her calling and purpose. However, without realizing it, she often overcommits herself leading her to self-sabotage. The Oxygen Mask Parable You've probably heard the safety announcement about securing your own oxygen mask before helping others on flights, right? It's a brilliant metaphor to explain why personal care matters. If we can't breathe, we can't help others breathe. This principle applies to our day-to-day lives as well. For those of us who struggle to see our worth the way God does, this lesson is hard to learn and will lead to old habits if we aren't careful. The Power of Moving Backwards Our culture often romanticizes the notion of always moving forward and depicts taking even a single step back as a failure. But sometimes, you have to go backward to leap forward. It's like drawing back an arrow before letting it fly. Indeed, revisiting past experiences, re-evaluating priorities, and resetting the course of life can seem daunting. But it can also create necessary growing spaces and ultimately leads to healing if you allow God to help. Sonya openly discussed her fear of going backward in the podcast. The Struggle with Priorities You know that feeling when you keep piling on more than you can physically carry? Well, that's what we're talking about. A lot of people, just like Sonya, get caught up in a whirlwind of responsibilities. They believe they can handle everything that comes their way, from personal commitments to endless volunteering opportunities. Unfortunately, it becomes a vicious cycle of always saying yes, leading them to overlook their health and well-being. As one might imagine, this imbalance can take a massive toll on overall happiness and lead to long-term physical and mental exhaustion. From Sonya's perspective, her constant yes attitude initially seemed like a noble trait, one which made lending a helping hand to others a no-brainer. But, it came at a major cost. The Martha Syndrome In the biblical account of Martha and Mary, Martha was so wrapped up in serving guests that she missed out on the moment's joy. People, like Sonya, who find it hard to say no, often end up being the 'Martha.' They keep volunteering, serving, and giving until they are spent. While giving back and volunteering are valuable qualities, it's equally important to find space to be still and maintain main priorities. During the podcast, Melissa used the story of Mary & Martha to provide Sonya with a different perspective on her situation. Sonya, as an inherent doer and giver, admitted to being a 'Martha.' The challenge for Sonya now is to balance her 'Martha'-like willingness to serve with the heart posture of Mary.   Want to know more about how to do a life audit? Click here    Sign up for the July workshop: https://www.melissabatt.com/registerfor12weeks   Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.    Let's connect:   https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/   https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial/ https://www.youtube.com/@prioritiesonpurpose https://www.melissabatt.com   Connect with Sonya: Click here

Did you know you always wanted to be a stay-at-home mom? Have you always had a dream to become a mom? 

Some people will think those two questions go together but it isn't quite the case for me. Listen in to hear more about my journey & struggles with motherhood and how even when I wasn't in direct sales, I was always the one at the Mary Kay and Pampered Chef parties telling my friends they should sign up. To me, it's a no-brainer.  There's very little cost to get started and it was an easy way to make extra money. And, honestly, I knew they would be good at it. All these years later, I'm still a massive cheerleader for those in the network marketing industry.  You will also hear more about how I became involved in the Thirty-One Gifts party plan company and what I learned while being a top leader. Spoiler Alert: It isn't what you would think it would be! And, if I loved it so much, why did I resign and how did I know God was in it and preparing me for the loss of income?  Why did I decide to start a coaching business? And, how did I know this was my passion? I tell it all in this short episode as I circle back to the very first episode of Priorities on Purpose.  Book a consult and let's chat! https://calendly.com/melissabattcoaching/30min Coaching women in life and business is my passion! I'd love to offer you a free consult to see if working together could be beneficial for you. You don't have to know what you need help with, you just have to book the call. It takes courage. Just DO IT.  Learn: www.melissabatt.com Connect: realtalktribe@mail.com  Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/  https://www.facebook.com/melissabattofficial