Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinger Podcast

Ed and Phoebe Swinger

Welcome to Swinger University, a sexy, direct, and educational podcast about swinging. We are sex-positive, lifestyle educators, swingers, and sex worker advocates. You will hear information on sexual health, swinger parties, and vacations. If you’re curious about swinging, an experienced swinger, or a seasoned slut, we have something for you! Our goal is to help swingers and the sex-positive community by providing tips and practical advice through our direct experience and by curating credible resources for your listening and educational entertainment. Join us in exploring your sensuality and sexuality in the world of swinging and sharing. Feel free to reach out to us with questions, comments, experiences, and stories. Ed and Phoebe |  Patreon: http://patreon.com/swingerUniversity  |  SwingLinks.com - All our links in one place!  |  YouTube: YouTube.com/c/SwingerUniversityPodcast   |   Email/Call: swingeruniversity@gmail.com / (916) 538-0482 (Leave us a voicemail) #SwingerPodcast #LifestylePodcast

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Is a Prince Albert Piercing Sexually Satisfying?
May 29 2023
Is a Prince Albert Piercing Sexually Satisfying?
In my 20’s I was nervous about getting tattoos so I decided to get piercings instead. At the time getting a Prince Albert Piercing sounded like it would feel really good, so I went for it! Do I still stand by my decision?OUTLINE: What is a Prince Alert or PA?Genital piercingsDescribe the PAOrigin - Urban legends (chastity, hygiene) Most popular originBenefitsStimulation for both partnersCertain position work betterReverse PA for other positionsMileage may varyVisually appealing, if your into itRings and bent barbells for interesting looksWands - for sounding! Party trick - Happy to showPhoebe’s experienceHealingPretty quick 2-4 weeks Sometimes longer (6-8)No sex while healingClean and care - talk to piercerI started with a 10 gauge, stretched to a 6 gaugeThicker jewelry usually migrates lessDownsidesSome partners don’t even notice, or worse, it annoys themTeeth and jewelry painfulPainful to getNerve damageIncreased risk of infectionsCondom breakageIrritation of urethra and piercing siteUTIsRejectionJewelry collisions (ouch) and entanglementsEd’s #1 - peeing is weirdAsk Your PiercerInterview them how long in businessReputation onlineShop conditions - cleanlinessGet their run down on CostHealingAfter careSize of jewelry to start withRecommended final sizeREFERENCES: How Does A Prince Albert Work?Prince Albert Piercings Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
Moaning In The Bedroom - You Should Do It
May 1 2023
Moaning In The Bedroom - You Should Do It
In this episode, we explore the benefits of moaning during sex and foreplay. Moaning is a natural sound that can create a sense of intimacy and vulnerability between partners, transport us to a place of heightened sensory pleasure, and drop us into our core sexual energy. It's also a form of communication that tells your partner what feels good and what doesn't, resulting in a more pleasurable experience for both partners. However, faking a moan can set up miscommunication in the bedroom, so it's essential to own your moans and express your pleasure authentically. If you're feeling self-conscious about moaning, we provide some tips to help you gain confidence in your self-expression, including starting off with some mood lighting, talking to your partner ahead of time, incorporating different elements during foreplay, and practicing in front of the mirror. Tune in to discover how moaning can create a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.Sound = Important Role in LifeForm of communicationFaking = wrong road map!Tips for those feeling self-consciousSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
How To Be a Sexy Curious Girl
Apr 14 2023
How To Be a Sexy Curious Girl
Do you want to know how to turn your sex life around in 10 days?!  We talk to our very sexy guest, Layla London, from The Curious Girl Diaries who invites you as a voyeur into her diary of sexual encounters.  Layla also opens up about her past experiences with crappy encounters and offers valuable insights on how to turn things around and create great sexual experiences through a vetting process. You will also want to hear how we discuss shame in the lifestyle and the importance of addressing it a social setting.  Be sure to check out the time stamps below:Layla's Sex Party Experience [0:32:37]Phoebe Fingered it Out with a Woman [1:03:03]How to Address Being Shamed in a Social Setting [0:44:34] TAGS (Episode):  sexualfreedom sexpositive saynotoshame sexualconfidence swingeruniversity curiousdiaries sexualpotential normalizingsexuality enm cnm openrelationship GUEST LINKS:https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.comhttps://www.instagram.com/the_curiousgirldiaries/https://www.facebook.com/TheCuriousGirlLaylahttps://www.tumblr.com/blog/thecuriousgirl1https://twitter.com/thecurious_girl Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
Compersion, When Was The Last Time You Had A New Feeling?
Mar 31 2023
Compersion, When Was The Last Time You Had A New Feeling?
Compersion is learning to grow through other feelings, in order to get to that one. Join us as we speak with the actors and play writes from "Compersion". Nik and Mik use their autobiographical stories to create an intimate and steamy theatrical experience. "Compersion" is an adult-only play that celebrates a healthy lifestyle in ethical nonmonogamy, where the characters explore real-life scenarios and participate in erotic intimacy scenes. The guests get to enjoy a meet and greet with the cast and crew, and the  opportunity to participate in the play, making it a truly interactive and immersive experience. For those who are curious about swinging, "Compersion" provides a real-life look into what one might expect in a swinger event or encounter. GUEST BIO:Nikki began her performing career with a dance-in-education company touring Australia before further training at Broadway Dance Studios, New York. On her return she ran the company for another 10 years whilst appearing in theatre, film and television. She works as a youth theatre director, specializing in disability arts and ASD, and is a social advocate for cultural diversity and recidivism projects with theatre companies and local government organizations. Mik is a Doctor of cultural anthropology, an actor, award-winning director, published playwright, and has toured in the UK, USA and Australia. In 2016 he broadcast the first ‘livestream performance’ from an Adelaide Fringe, based on his MPhil about an autistic theatre company for which he has presented findings at the Royal Anthropological Institute (UK). He is a freelance Creative Director for governments, commercial enterprises, and arts festivals, creating large-scale immersive art events.SHOW NOTES: About The Play The Concept - How it Began20 year Marriage - Getting Started - ExperiencesDeciding on ContentReal Sex? - Yes!Audience Participation/EngagementReciting Lines from the PlayTour DatesHow to Support - Patreon LINKS:Website:  www.steamyromantics.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SteamyRomanticsIG: @steamyromantics  https://www.instagram.com/steamyromantics/TW: @steamyromantics  Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
Exploring the Exciting World of BDSM with Dr. Tiffany "K."
Mar 17 2023
Exploring the Exciting World of BDSM with Dr. Tiffany "K."
In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of BDSM and Dominance and Submission (DS) relationships with Dr. Tiffany "K". We explore the basics of BDSM and the different practices that fall under this umbrella term, including kink and fetish.You will find out how to get started in BDSM and hear us emphasize the need for open and honest communication (even if it's uncomfortable) when discovering new things together. Join us in this episode as we learn and explore more about the world of BDSM, Dominance and Submission relationships, and hear some sexy experiences from your favorite hot couple, Ed and Phoebe.  Sex nerds unite!SHOW NOTES:  00:00:24:23        Who is Dr. Tiffany "K"?00:02:43:20        What is BDSM? 00:06:59:10        Dominance and Submission A Relationship Practice00:10:59:18        50 Shades of Grey - How bad was it?00:15:53:08        DS Maintaining Balance in a Relationship00:21:12:07        Establishing Healthy Dynamics00:23:14:07        Kink, BDSM, Fetish... the Venn Diagram of it all00:24:21:01        Is the Swing Lifestyle a Fetish?00:25:25:23        Safety and Consent00:30:30:17        Scene Dynamics - How Does it Work?00:32:54:19        How Often Do Playtimes Happen?00:34:26:10        Jealousy in DS00:35:46:15        Communication is so Important00:37:07:12        Rituals00:39:58:09        Flogging Rituals, and a Hot Couple Ed & Phoebe Watched00:42:26:11        Communication in the Lifestyle00:44:58:09        Drinking and Partying in Both Lifestyles00:47:39:03        BDSM, Psychology, Knife Play00:50:45:05        Practice and Progression in DS and Fetish play00:51:17:06        Uncomfortable Communication...or is it?00:53:39:01        Discovering New Things Together00:54:13:16     Ideas on How to Get Started in DS01:00:11:22        Sex Nerds Unite01:00:37:20        How Can Dr. K help You?01:02:53:09        Wrap Up Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
How to Achieve Shameless Sex with Jackie G
Mar 11 2023
How to Achieve Shameless Sex with Jackie G
Welcome to this episode of our podcast where we have the pleasure of interviewing Jackie Golob, a sex therapist, coach, and holistic healer. Jackie is the proud owner of Shameless Therapy & Consulting Services, LLC, a practice that incorporates sexual self-care into therapy and coaching sessions with individuals and couples. During our conversation, we delve into the world of sex therapy and explore the stigma surrounding therapy for couples. Jackie provides us with insights into the common anxiety and shame that couples may experience around sex and how they can overcome these issues. She also shares tips on how to deal with jealousy in relationships, emphasizing that comprehension is key. We discuss the party vs. connection lifestyle and how shame can affect a person's playtime. Jackie provides tips on how to overcome body image issues and encourages self-discovery through compassion for oneself. We also explore ways that couples can improve their communication and how emotional maturity plays a role in one's lifestyle. As a sex therapist, Jackie places importance on understanding pleasure zones and encourages exploring oneself and trying kink. She has also created a sexual self-help deck of cards with questions to enhance one's sexual self-care. Don't forget to check out Jackie's website, http://shamelesstherapy.org, where you can sign up for her newsletter and receive freebies. Follow her on YouTube @shamelessjackie and Instagram @sextherapistjackie for more insightful content. Jackie also made a  sexual self-care deck with questions to be able to use as a reflection tool to enhance your sexual self-care! Join us in this fascinating conversation and discover how to live your best, shameless, and sexy life! Show Notes:IntroWho is Jackie Golob?Which Couples Are Seeking Sex TherapyStigma Around TherapyCouples CoachingAnxiety and Shame Around SexJealousyJackie's Tips for Jealousy, Comprehension is Key!Lifestyle: Party vs. ConnectionHow Shame Can Affect Your Play TimeShame Around SexTips for Overcoming Body Image IssuesCompassion for Self, and Self-discoveryHow Can Couples Be Better CommunicatorsLifestyle and Emotional MaturityPlea Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
How to Ask for What You Want in Bed
Mar 3 2023
How to Ask for What You Want in Bed
Many people aren't experiencing the pleasure they want in the bedroom, simply because they don't know how to ask for it.  Do you ask for pleasure?  How do you ask for it?  You might be surprised by some of the simple techniques we discovered from Renée Yvonne, a Sex Therapy Coach from www.thegensexologist.comSHOW NOTES:00:00 - Start00:02 - Introduction - Renee Yvonne01:15 - Renée's Work01:36 - How to ask for what you want in bed03:06 - Having a voice in the bedroom04:48 - Asking for what you want05:36 - When to have the conversation06:09 - Yes, No... Maybe07:30 - Pick a playtime out of a bowl08:41 - Planning a "date" night10:10 - Why do women feel like they can't ask for what they want?13:18 - Orgasm gap and porn14:43 - How can men support women better?17:40 - Women explore your sexual zones20:49 - Quiet quitting22:00 - Great workshops for couples26:46 - Wrap upRenée's Links:Renée Yvonne:  www.thegensexologist.comGenexypodcast:  https://anchor.fm/gensexypodcastRenée Yvonne IG:  @thegensexologistHow to Tell Them What You Want When in Bed… Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
Ed and Phoebe Full Swap with Toronto Unicorn
Feb 3 2023
Ed and Phoebe Full Swap with Toronto Unicorn
Phoebe and I did a full swap with Toronto Unicorn and had a great time! We filmed it, and recorded audio too… Oh not THAT kind of full swap, but we did have about as much fun as you can recording a podcast. Listen in as we get to know each other a little better, learn about the Toronto lifestyle and their clubs, plus a few secrets for hunting unicorns. We also discuss safety, relationship risks, and Phoebe's early insecurities and deprogramming.  It's a wild ride and we think you'll like listening in.Swinging is more than sexEvangelizing swingingSwinger CruisesFluidity of sexToronto sex clubsSex positivity and body imageSingle malesDesires and fantasiesDominant unicornBait and switchArgument for clubsSafety in the lifestyleRisks for your relationshipPhoebe's insecurities & deprogramming https://twitter.com/toronto_unicornhttps://torontounicorn.com/https://www.youtube.com/TorontoUnicorn Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
How To Pick The Best Feeling Condom
Jan 20 2023
How To Pick The Best Feeling Condom
Do you have a love hate relationship with condoms?  You love the safety it provides to yourself and your partner but hate the insulating feel.  The size of the condom, the material it’s made of, and how thin it is; all play an important role for safety, comfort, and increased pleasure for both sexual partners.Show NotesWhen picking a condom that feels good and doesn't slip off, you want to know the following 4 important details:The 2 different measurements are critical to a good fit. The 3 different materials provide varying comfort and feel.  The difference between thick and thin.  The safety of a .001mm condom!For more information check out the following:How to Measure Your PenisCondom Size Chart: Find Your Best FitCondom Size Chart - A Guide for Calculating the Right Size CondomCondom Size by ThicknessEurope’s Condom King - Thinner Condoms Not Available in US16 Types of Condoms: Pros and ConsMore Condom Brands, Description, and SizesCondoms are Medical DevicesWhat is A Polyurethane Condom?@thotsandpodcast - Episode 10 - The Condom EpisodeSupport the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok
Swinger Cruise 2022 - Bliss Cruise Wrap-up
Dec 9 2022
Swinger Cruise 2022 - Bliss Cruise Wrap-up
It's time for our recap on the November 2022 Bliss Cruise.  Every time we go on a Swinger Cruise the experience is different.  It's a choose-your-own-adventure swing-cation; whatever you want, you will find it! SHIPCabin Options and Benefits!WIFI Dark Ages Food Quality & Variety Bars were Busy Photo Memories Shot! ENTERTAINMENT Comedy - DirectorsBurlesque - LaLa'sConcert - King's of QueenComedy Bomb!Comedy Relief & Encore - Jason BlanchardSWINGER EXPERIENCEPlaytime ExperienceBrown-Chicken-Brown Cow on the Balcony!Workshops & PresentationsPool Time Parties: Car Wash, Ring Around the Eggplant!Sexual Health BV Episodes: 49, 70, 80Swinger Definitions: Connectors v. Collectors / Window Shoppers v. Daters v. DTFers@peter_fitzwell14@iamnaomifoxxx@2hotwivespodcast@sapphicswingers@thotsandpodcast Support the showYou Can Vote Every Hour to Help Us WIN!asnlifestylemagazineawards.comOur Links: Patreon - Want to help support us? - plus you get sexy bonus and behind-the-scenes content Shameless Care - Risk matched, at-home STI testing, and ED Medication SDC - 7-day free trial membership, and join our group YouTube - Like to watch? We need your Likes, and shares, and be sure to subscribe Website - Contact/Call us, sexy products, educational articles, and a FREE Kasidie trial SwingLinks.club - See all our links in one place, including the spicy ones🌶️ Twitter - Follow us, and retweet our posts Instagram - Come see our updates Facebook - Follow us on Facebook TikTok