Prepare for an enlightening discussion as we unpack the various theological perspectives within Christian circles that address sexuality. We explore the nuanced viewpoints labeled as Side A, Side B, Side Y, and Side X. Our dialogue provides insight into the affirming stance of Side A churches, celibate gay identity embraced by Side B, and the controversial views of x-gay and side-y approach. Our end goal? To equip you with a broader understanding of these divergent perspectives in the context of Christianity.Our conversation takes a twist as we inspect the complexities of 'x-gay' and 'side-x' labels, recounting firsthand experiences with these terms and their transformation over time. We shed light on the potential pitfalls of certain theological and therapeutic approaches within the x-gay movement, while acknowledging the positive impact made by organizations like Exodus International. The focus then progresses towards 'side-y', an emerging approach that underscores sanctification in overcoming same-sex attractions.The final part of our discussion grapples with the contentious belief of side y, which disowns the idea of a gay identity, endorsing instead, sanctification and transformation through God. We highlight the debates surrounding this conviction, and the stand of prominent figures like Rosario Butterfield against the acceptance of homosexuality. We further discuss the challenges faced within Christian ministry, particularly within the organization of Cru, and underscore the need for a balanced approach that blends empathy with guiding individuals towards sanctification. So, buckle up as we venture into this journey of understanding, navigating, and responding to these issues from a Christian perspective.Timestamps:(0:00:16) - Theological Frameworks of Sexuality(0:18:30) - X-Gay and Side Y Movements Analysis(0:24:57) - LGBTQ+ Christianity and Controversial Side B(0:44:37) - Challenges and Concerns in Christian MinistryJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Join us as we unravel the complexities surrounding marriage in today's culture. In this discourse, we dissect the factors contributing to the devaluation of marriage, including the impact of political ideologies and societal shifts. We grapple with weighty topics such as the implications of Marxist thought, the removal of sex from the context of marriage, and the rise of no-fault divorce and pornography. Our conversation also highlights the unique challenges faced by men in a society that often undervalues them, and the effects of court systems on family structure.Listen in as we examine the changing definitions of marriage and the implications for the church and individual roles. We tackle the subject of how marriage has been redefined and devalued, leading to a lack of commitment and understanding of its true purpose. We underscore the need for a biblical understanding of marriage and singleness within the church, discussing the importance of community involvement and the value of attending church regularly for a fulfilling marriage and life. We also share book recommendations that offer insightful perspectives on these matters.Join us as we navigate the tumultuous terrain of marriage in a post-Christian culture, shedding light on the church's role in the ongoing war on marriage. We highlight the need for churches to address sexual perversion and the challenges posed by cultural shifts in the perception of sex. We stress the importance of not getting caught up in technicalities or legalistic views, and instead focus on what best glorifies God. We also caution against rejecting biblical sexuality in response to the harm caused by purity culture. Tune in for a frank and open discussion on these important cultural issues.TIMESTAMPS:(0:00:00) - Culture's Marriage War(0:12:52) - Redefining Marriage, Church, and Roles(0:19:54) - Challenges of Marriage in Post-Christian Culture(0:30:15) - Addressing Perversion and Pornography in Church(0:45:32) - Risking Everything for Jesus and RelationshipsJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Marriage #Culture #LGBTQ

As we sat down with Josh Klein from Free Thinking Ministries, we tackled the intricate subject of homosexuality within Christianity. Together, we navigated a conversation set against the backdrop of the sexual revolution, looking at the seismic shift in attitudes towards sexuality and the role of Christianity within it. We dared to challenge misconceptions about Christian views on sexuality, shedding light on potential misuse of Christian teachings about marriage and its implications, particularly for women.This episode takes you on a journey through the church's interactions with the LGBTQ community, and the portrayal of homosexuality as a sin that needs to be 'fixed' before coming to Christ. We acknowledged the significant role of the church in shaping identity and addressed the frequent accusations of homophobia. We scrutinized the objections to biblical views on homosexuality, delved into the Greek translations of the Old Testament, and underscored the need for empathetic discipleship for those grappling with same-sex attractions.Our discussion extends to the church's response to members of the LGBTQ community, examining the hurt caused and the need for awareness when ministering to these individuals. We also explored responses when faced with a child struggling with same-sex attraction. We surveyed objections to biblical views on homosexuality, looking at scriptures like 1 Corinthians 6, Romans 1, 1 Timothy, Leviticus, and Sodom and Gomorrah. By the end, we hope to have enlightened you on the complexities of the issue and how to address homosexuality within Christianity in a respectful, Christ-centered manner. Join us, and let's unravel this together.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Timestamps:(0:00:16) - Navigating Homosexuality in Modern Christianity(0:08:53) - Christian Views on Sexuality Misunderstandings(0:18:27) - The Church's Response to LGBTQ Community(0:25:01) - Churches' Response to LGBTQ Individuals(0:38:55) - Objections to Biblical Views on Homosexuality(0:43:57) - Understanding and Addressing Homosexuality Within Christianity(0:54:31) - Church Conflict on Marriage and RelationshipsCheck out more from  @FreethinkingMinistries here:Website: https://freethinkingministries.comYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FreethinkingMinistriesOther ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Have you ever wondered about the modern trend of deconstruction within Christianity, especially amongst the younger generation? Join me as I engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Braxton Hunter, president of Trinity College of the Bible and Theological Seminary. We explore this deeply fascinating phenomenon in depth, digging into its roots and implications for the faith journey. We discuss its evolution from a healthy process of critical thinking to a path away from conservative, bible-based Christianity for some, and the critical importance of teaching our children to think for themselves.We're also not shying away from the challenging discourse around LGBT issues in Christian doctrine, addressing the harmful dichotomy often perpetuated by churches and the changing attitudes towards sin. We dismantle the misconceptions connected with 1 Corinthians 6, 9-11, bringing a fresh perspective to the expectations and burdens put on Christians, and how it impacts our understanding of selfhood in Christ. We speak candidly about the guilt, shame, and harm that can arise from these misunderstandings, highlighting the urgent need for Christians to stand with those grappling with sin.Finally, we dive into the powerful effects of social issues on deconstruction and deconversion, and how the dialogue on biblical sexuality can push people to question their beliefs. Braxton shares his insight on the shifting attitudes towards the LGBT community within Christian doctrine and how the gospel offers everyone, regardless of their struggles with sexuality, a promise of hope and acceptance. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking a deeper understanding of these pressing issues in contemporary Christianity. Don't miss it!Timestamps:(0:00:16) - God's Standard for Sexuality and Deconstructing Faith(0:15:18) - Discussing LGBT in Christian Doctrine(0:31:43) - False Expectations and Burdens in Christianity(0:38:30) - Understanding Inclusivity and Biblical Sexuality(0:54:46) - Impact of Social Issues on DeconversionFollow Braxton & Trinity Radio here:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UCzBRc0afgrS-PCrm6nka1_A Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trinity_radio/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrinityCrusadesRadioProgramLearn more about Trinity College of the Bible & Theological Seminary here:https://trinitysem.eduRhett & Link Deconstruction Playlist:https://youtu.be/JC9fHrLHBfM?si=Q31h2B_6bepjKU_mJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#LGBTQ #Deconstruction #TrinityRadio #BraxtonHunter #RhettandLink #GoodMythicalMorning #GMM

Imagine the transformative power of understanding God's standard for sexuality. This episode features an enlightening conversation with Matt Cline, founder and director of Restored Ministries, who is passionate about leading people out of sexual brokenness into a life of freedom and impact. We explore the far-reaching effects of sexual brokenness on all aspects of life and delve into how grace and mercy can reshape us into witnesses of hope. How does the church play a role in addressing sexual sin? Matt shares his insights on this crucial matter. We discuss the importance of pastors taking a lead in talking about sensitive topics like sex, the significance of gender-specific coaching, and the necessity of creating a church culture that believes in reconciliation and restoration. This episode emphasizes the real power that comes from understanding how to control our bodies and sexuality.As we navigate the complexities of biblical sexuality, we also touch on the unique struggles of those dealing with same-sex attraction. We discuss the need for churches to create secure environments for open conversations and the extra shame often felt by those with same-sex attraction. Matt shares his knowledge on serving this group effectively and motivating them to manage their sexuality in a Godly manner. This conversation aims to bring light into the often dark corners of our lives, and provide hope for restoration.To connect with Matt and Restored Ministries, check out these resources:Website: https://www.restoredministries.caPure Freedom Journey: https://www.restoredministries.ca/pfjPodcast: https://www.restoredministries.ca/purevictoryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/restoredminInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/restoredsexuality/?fbclid=IwAR3Cxzzlme8thUlB71K4r-VYRDdh7hUiNd8Abc8YzllmobCAcFiDMIuke-cYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@restoredministries8634Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

In this episode, we explore the recent trend of surrogacy and its popularity among same-sex couples. We navigate the often complex landscape of this modern approach to starting a family, highlighting the fact that although these families may not fit the traditional model, they still require an egg from a mother and a sperm from a father to bring a child into the world. The episode doesn't stop there, we also talk about the significant roles of both parents in a child's life and how it shapes them. Drawing attention to the fact that children who grow up without a father or mother face numerous challenges, we encourage compassion and understanding towards these situations. Additionally, we emphasize the importance of not holding a child accountable for the circumstances of their birth or the choices of their parents. Tune in as we underscore the need for believers to invest in these families, demonstrating love and support and, most importantly, sharing the message of God's redemption, hope, and grace.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

What happens when a popular pastor like Andy Stanley hosts a controversial conference advocating for same-sex marriage? This episode pulls back the curtain on the Unconditional Conference, exploring Stanley's sermon and the far-reaching implications of his stance. We tackle the hard questions around traditional marriage, compassion for the LGBTQ community, and the vital boundaries that theology imposes.Stanley's influence cannot be ignored, and neither can his shift from a Biblically grounded view of sexuality. We challenge the misleading narrative that rejecting someone's sexuality equates to not loving them, a misconception often amplified by the LGBTQ community. From the confusion between sexuality and personhood to the mistaken belief that chastity is unsustainable, we're peeling back the layers of these complex issues. We don't shy away from the tough conversations, questioning if individuals in same-sex marriages are aware of their sin but still opt for it, and debunking the flawed notion that marriage shouldn't be pursued for love, companionship, or family.Lastly, we raise red flags around the dangers of basing theology on personal experiences and emotions. Stanley's sermon left more questions than answers, and we're here to delve into that vagueness. We scrutinize his deviation from God's standard for sexuality and the potential spiritual fallout for his followers. Armed with grace, truth, and a wealth of resources, we invite you to join us as we navigate these tricky waters with open dialogues that strengthen faith and foster understanding.Timestamps:(0:00:16) - Andy Stanley's Controversial Conference and Response(0:08:26) - LGBTQ+ Issues and Biblical Marriage(0:16:30) - Concerns About Deceptive Theology and Vagueness(0:21:36) - Shift on Sexuality by Andy StanleyJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#AndyStanley #LGBTQ #Homosexuality

This week, Brady is joined by host of Real Men Talk Podcast, Anthony Curnutt, to talk about the lies men are told and what true biblical masculinity looks like.Anthony and Brady delve deeply into the transformative power of surrendering to God and the significance of apologizing for wrong-doing. They underscore the importance of treating our loved ones with respect and love, and the profound influence our actions can have on our children's future relationships. Anthony further elaborates on the essentiality of emotional leadership in fatherhood, underscoring the role of understanding our emotions in shaping our beliefs. Anthony and Brady navigate through the complexities of creating a safe space for men to express their vulnerabilities and the importance of supporting each other in our struggles. They also touch on the need for modeling forgiveness and repentance in our relationships, and the realization that our identity lies firmly in Jesus Christ, not in our own strength. In the challenging journey through life, the pair discuss how it still remains a choice to follow God and how our challenging circumstances can reveal the true nature of our hearts. Join us for this enlightening discussion; it's a conversation you won't want to miss.TIMESTAMPS:(0:00:09) - Understanding Biblical Sexuality and Masculinity(0:09:08) - Issues With Masculinity and Sexuality(0:20:48) - Transformation and Leadership in Masculinity(0:25:39) - Importance of Emotional Leadership in Fatherhood(0:37:38) - Role of Christian Men in Society(0:41:23) - Creating a Safe and Vulnerable Community(0:49:07) - Identity in JesusJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Join us for an enlightening discussion on overcoming sexual addiction and understanding true intimacy. This episode takes you through three key steps towards breaking free from sexual addiction, exploring the significance of true intimacy, and how it's more than just sex. Listen in as we shed light on the relational attachment model that lays the foundation for a healthy desire for intimacy. We emphasize the need to cut ties with old habits and patterns that hinder our progress towards genuine intimacy as God intends. You'll hear an inspiring story of a person who successfully transitioned from a life of addiction to a committed relationship.We then navigate the complex terrain of building healthy intimacy across all relationships, with a spotlight on our relationship with God. Our modern culture often skews our perception of sex, and similarly our relationship with God. We shed light on the necessity to cultivate a deeper relationship with God, which involves surrendering, knowing Him better, and trusting Him. We discuss the importance of sharing your struggles as a pathway to freedom and how sexual struggles often reveal deeper issues. Finally, we explore how discipleship is more than just an end result, but a process of growth and learning. We conclude by understanding how to pray and recognize any wrongful desires for intimacy.TIMESTAMPS:(0:00:17) - Steps to Overcoming Sexual AddictionFinding freedom from sexual addiction and building healthy intimacy through relational attachment and severing ties to previous habits.(0:08:21) - Healthy Intimacy and Freedom From AddictionBuilding healthy intimacy with God, discussing cultural sex distortions, surrendering, trusting, and sharing struggles for freedom.(0:18:20) - Understanding Intimacy and Seeking SupportWe pray, recognize wrong desires, rely on God's boundaries, and discuss true intimacy.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

In this candid discussion, Brady sheds light on the challenging subject of masturbation within the Christian community, a topic often met with shame, guilt, and silence. Listen in as he navigates through the complexities of this subject, discussing how societal norms and the absence of clear biblical guidance contribute to the controversy. Brady also examines the emotional toll that secret-keeping and guilt surrounding this topic can have on individuals.Further into our discussion, Brady takes a closer look at how the habit of masturbation, especially when it becomes addictive, can impact relationships. He unpacks how it can affect the dynamic between spouses and emphasize the importance of healthy sexuality, where we are not controlled by our urges, but instead are pursuing our spouse and directing our sexual energy towards them. This is a difficult, yet necessary conversation, so join us as we confront it with grace, humility, and openness.Timestamps:(0:00:16) - Exploring Masturbation in the Christian CommunityChristians discuss the controversial topic of masturbation, its implications, and the Bible's lack of direct address.(0:16:32) - The Impact of Masturbation on RelationshipsMasturbation can become addictive; endorphins released, but prioritize spouse, use to build intimacy, not control.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Join us for a stimulating dialogue with Mick Thornton as we unpack two contrasting perspectives on gender roles in the church and the home - Complementarianism and Egalitarianism. We take a critical look at the implications of these views in the context of church leadership and consider how the issue of authority plays a pivotal role in both the church and the family. We also examine the potential challenges churches may face when they hold strong views on gender roles, particularly when the most passionate members are female. Listen in as we explore how misinterpretations of Complementarianism and Egalitarianism can lead to extreme views and even abuse within the church. We take a journey through biblical texts, discussing figures such as Deborah, a female judge, and Jesus' advocacy for women's rights. Lastly, we navigate the controversial topic of authority and abuse in Christianity, exploring how these views can lead to the misuse of power and the importance of prioritizing people over organizations. Join us for this deep and enlightening conversation!Timestamps:(0:00:17) - Complementarianism vs. Egalitarianism in the ChurchBrady and Mick discuss gender roles in church and home, authority, and implications of complementarian and egalitarian views.(0:16:03) - Exploring Complementarianism and EgalitarianismDeborah, Jesus, Galatians, Ephesians 5, Complementarianism, Egalitarianism, and abuse discussed to champion women's rights and call for husbands to love their wives.(0:29:19) - Complementarianism and Its ConsequencesComplementarianism misused to justify emotional distance, traditional gender roles as financial servitude, theologians' differing views, and a child's experience.(0:35:22) - Authority and Abuse in ChristianityWe analyze misuse of Complementarianism and Egalitarianism, authority issues in the church, and safeguarding people over organizations.(0:44:25) - Objectification, Sacrifice, and Cherishing MomentsComplementarianism, Egalitarianism, cherishing moments with children, material possessions, unconditional love, and dying to self are discussed.(0:48:04) - God's Standard for Love and HumilityWe support families and churches through humility, grace, forgiveness, and understanding of gender roles and sexuality, cherishing moments and supporting God's mission.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#genderequality #Christianity #Theology #LGBTQ #BradyCone

I remember a time when my faith was clouded by skepticism, which is why I'm thrilled to have John Vandervelde, the Campus Director of Ratio Christi at Colorado Mesa University, join us for an intriguing discussion about his journey from skepticism to deep faith. John opened his heart to Jesus, a transformation made possible by the marriage of logical facts and a personal encounter with God through music.In a surprising twist, John made a career shift from mechanical engineering to professional ballet dancing. We take a deep look into this unique journey, from the reactions he received from his colleagues and his church community, to how dance became the conduit for revealing his artistic talents. Drawing from Psalm 139, John shares insight into how his dance journey was a process of self-discovery and understanding God's plan for his life.Our conversation transitions to the societal and church views on masculinity, challenging the set stereotypes often portrayed by the church and touching on the concept of faux masculinity. We explore how biblical masculinity should be applicable universally, regardless of culture, and how the church can be more inclusive by breaking away from a narrow definition of what it means to be a man. Finally, we reflect on the pivotal role of the Bible in shaping our understanding of masculinity, gender, and identity. You definitely won't want to miss out on this episode!Timestamps:(0:00:17) - Embracing Biblical Masculinity and Career Transitions(0:14:26) - From Engineer to Dancer(0:19:36) - Masculinity in Society and the Church(0:29:42) - Gender Roles and Stereotypes(0:44:06) - The Bible in Our LivesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Masculinity #Sexuality #LBGTQ #BiblicalManhood #Bible

As we journey through life, we often encounter moments that shape us and make us who we are. Today's episode introduces us to Donna Cole, a resilient and inspiring woman whose story of emotional pain and self-rejection, and her ultimate journey towards faith and healing, resonates powerfully with all of us who've felt defined by our past. From rejecting her femininity to finding solace in activities that boys traditionally do, Donna's early years were marked by a quest for validation and acceptance which led to a spiral of self-destruction.Donna's encounter with God became the pivotal point in her life journey, leading her to break free from the chains of her past and the lies that had been deeply ingrained since childhood. A testament to the transformative power of faith in Christ, Donna's story paints a vivid picture of how scripture and the beauty of nature can become powerful aids in healing and restoration. Through her experiences, Donna not only found wholeness in Christ, but she was also called to create her book, Peer Heart, and her ministry, amplifying her impact by offering hope and healing to those around the world.The episode isn't only about Donna's personal journey, though. We also address the important and timely issue of how cultural influences, especially regarding gender identity and lust, can impact our children, often leading to confusion and brokenness. With Donna's insightful commentary, we explore how these exposures can result in misguided solutions pushed by schools, potentially leading to lifelong consequences for our kids. But it's not all doom and gloom. We also discuss the tools we need to equip our children to navigate these complex issues and the role that healing plays in that journey. Join us for this enlightening conversation.TIMESTAMPS:(0:00:17) - Finding Wholeness in God's Standard(0:03:52) - Abusive Childhood and Finding Faith(0:13:36) - Overcoming Homosexuality and Finding Wholeness(0:17:16) - The Power of Healing and Transformation(0:26:19) - Challenges in Homosexuality and Gender Identity(0:40:11) - Teenage Girl Finds Faith, Faces ChallengesJoin us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#Jesus #LGBTQ #homosexuality #Christianity #bible

Have you ever stopped to consider the journey one takes to find Jesus? How does sexuality play into this deeply personal journey? This episode tackles the common errors we commit while ministering to the LGBTQ community and offers insight on how to modify our approach for better effectiveness. We discuss the need to earn the right to speak into someone's deeply personal sphere of life, like sexuality, and emphasize not on changing behavior, but rather on guiding them to Jesus. This episode journeys into understanding that the opposite of homosexuality isn't heterosexuality, but holiness, and that it is only Jesus who can bring about transformation from the inside out.We further delve into how our perspectives have been clouded by the culture war and our biases when dealing with the LGBTQ community. We discuss the importance of acknowledging individuals as bearers of God's image and focusing on facets beyond their sexuality. We take a hard look at the impact of past traumas on an individual's current expression of sexuality and the need to provide a safe space and time for them to process their experiences. We also stress on the power of listening more than talking, to understand the heart of the individual better. This episode aims to guide you towards being a more empathetic, understanding, and effective minister to all, regardless of their sexuality.Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations#lgbtq #homosexuality #Christian #Jesus #BradyCone

Brian Ellison joins Brady to talk about the unrelenting, overwhelming love of Christ that chased him down in the midst of his journey through a homosexual lifestyle. They about Brian's story from an early age, how he dealt with rejection from his father, turned to the LGBTQ community to fulfill misplaced desires, and ran right into the love of God. Brian's story is a powerful testimony to the overwhelming love that Christ has for all people and His desire to have a relationship with everyone. Enjoy this week's episode!Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

You've probably heard about the new movie, Sound Of Freedom. I'm thankful for this movie that exposes the true horrors of the human trafficking epidemic that exists throughout the world. What many people don't realize--or don't want to think about--is pornography feeds human trafficking. Pornography is a huge problem both inside and outside of the church. The statistics are clear that the link between porn and human trafficking are very real. In this week's episode, we'll discuss the sinister truth about pornography and how it can lead people who never thought they'd engage with human trafficking down that dark path. Join us weekly as we strive to embrace God's standard for sexuality. Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversationsFor more information about Brady and Calibrate Ministries, please visit www.CalibrateMinistries.com.....#SoundOfFreedom #Pornography #HumanTrafficking #LGBTQ #BradyCone

In this episode of Calibrate Conversations, Brady Cone and Logan have a conversation about Logan's personal journey with sexuality and faith. Logan shares his struggles with same-sex attraction and his experience seeking guidance from a youth pastor. They discuss Logan's upbringing, his internal conflict, and his search for answers. Logan reflects on finding contentment in his relationship with Christ and the challenges of discussing his struggles with his parents. They also discuss societal stereotypes of masculinity and the need for a biblical understanding of gender. They emphasize the importance of seeing individuals as multifaceted and not defining them solely by their sexual orientation. The episode concludes with a call to calibrate sexuality to God's standard while showing love and compassion to others.Timestamps:Growing up in a masculine environment [00:01:10] Logan discusses his upbringing in a hyper-masculine household and the challenges of expressing femininity.Discovering same-sex attraction [00:02:24] Logan shares his experience of realizing his same-sex attraction and the fear and confusion it brought.Seeking guidance from a youth pastor [00:06:07] Logan recounts his emotional meeting with a new youth pastor, where he finally opens up about his struggles and seeks guidance.The struggle to find answers [00:10:37] Logan discusses his discontent with the answers he found regarding his same-sex attraction and his search for clarity.The message of contentment [00:12:45] Logan shares his experience at a church service where the message emphasized the importance of being content in one's relationship with God.The tension of anticipation and contentment [00:16:11] Brady and Logan discuss the tension between seeking understanding and being content with the process of sanctification in one's journey with faith and sexuality.The struggle of admitting same-sex attraction [00:21:04] Logan discusses the difficulty of admitting his same-sex attraction and the fear of disappointing his parents.Different standards for sin [00:24:18] Logan talks about the double standards in the church when it comes to dealing with different sins, specifically comparing his own same-sex attraction to someone else's fornication.Finding healing through connection with heterosexual men [00:28:23] Brady shares his experience of finding healing through connection with heterosexual men who treated him as one of the guys, regardless of his same-sex attraction.Topic 1: Accepting oneself and masculinity [00:30:43] Discussion on coming to peace with one's masculinity and accepting oneself for who they are, including the value of sensitivity and artistic qualities in men.Topic 2: Stereotypes and assumptions [00:32:33] Challenging stereotypes and assumptions about same-sex attraction, discussing how outward mannerisms do not determine someone's struggle and the importance of not making assumptions.Topic 3: Redefining masculinity [00:35:18] Exploring the concept of faux masculinity and the need for a more accurate, biblical understanding of masculinity that celebrates sensitive and talented qualities in men.The importance of seeing beyond sexuality [00:41:25] Discussion on not defining people solely by their sexuality and the need to share hope and gospel with them.Jesus' focus on deeper meaning [00:42:22] Exploration of the interaction between Jesus and the Samaritan woman, highlighting the importance of looking beyond surface-level issues.Appreciation for Logan's story and future journey [00:44:17] Compliments and encouragement for Logan's story, with anticipation for future growth and the possibility of future appearances on the podcast.Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/ThegreatexchangeFor more resources, check out: calibrateministries.com

in this podcast episode, host Brady Cone reconnects with his friend Shannon to discuss Shannon's personal journey of embracing God's standard for sexuality. Shannon shares his experiences and struggles with sexuality, including early exposure to sexual activities, a porn addiction, and the impact on his relationships. He discusses the importance of finding support and accountability in a group of men who also struggle with sexual addiction. Shannon emphasizes the need to confront past baggage and be honest with one's partner in order to build a strong foundation in marriage. The episode also touches on misconceptions about same-sex attraction and the importance of open communication and reassurance for children. Overall, the episode provides insight and encouragement for those dealing with sexual addiction and seeking to embrace God's standard for sexuality.

In this episode, we explore an amazing story of patience, forgiveness, and speaking truth with love. Rachel shares her experience of holding onto her faith and hope, even when faced with doubts and theological confusion. She shares how her hope in Christ helped ultimately reconcile her relationship with her husband even in the midst of an intense trial. Discover how their journey of reconciliation and rebuilding trust in their marriage led them to find simplicity and clarity in their faith in Jesus.Timestamps:[00:00:52] Brent's Transition Journey Brent shares his journey of realizing he is transgender, leaving his pastoral ministry, and pursuing a transition.[00:02:34] Rachel's Perspective Rachel shares her side of the story, discussing her initial reactions, doubts, and the challenges she faced as Brent's wife.[00:07:48] Living Separately Rachel talks about the period when Brent moved to Rochester and they lived separately, with Rachel hoping it was just a phase.[00:11:39] Discovering Brent's Transition Brent's wife learns about his transition and struggles to understand and accept it.[00:13:49] Telling the Kids Brent and his wife discuss when and how they told their young children about his transition.[00:14:10] Living Apart Brent and his wife discuss their decision to live separately and the challenges they faced in their relationship.[00:22:16] Brent's hospital visit and the lingering feelings of care and honor.[00:23:29] Brent's torn feelings and desire for both separation and connection with Rachel.[00:27:28] Brent's vision of God putting him back together and becoming a new creation.[00:33:13] Struggling with God's plan and sin nature in marriageBrent discusses his internal struggle with following God's plan for his life and his sin nature's resistance to it, specifically in the context of his marriage.[00:34:34] Brent's surrender to God and trust in His planBrent reaches a point of surrender and trust in God, asking Him to take care of his spouse and not let him find someone else.[00:36:27] Brent's return to Jesus and the impact on his marriageBrent experiences a spiritual encounter with Jesus and decides to return to Him, leading to a positive change in his demeanor and a hopeful reunion with his wife and family.[00:45:29] The simplicity of finding God's love and a relationship with Jesus after a vision.[00:46:13] Transitioning from being transgender to becoming a Christian and bringing others to Christ.[00:52:56] The restoration of faith, marriage, and the ability to have children through God's grace.Join us weekly as we strive to exchange the lies we believe for the truth of God's word. Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/Thegreatexchange#Transgender #lgbtq #Marriage #Christian

Have you ever wondered about the rise of transgenderism and gender dysphoria in our culture? In this episode of the Create Exchange podcast, host Brady Cone talks to professional counselor Michael Costello about the history and current state of mental health diagnosis and treatment for these issues. The most valuable lesson from this episode is the importance of exploring the root causes of gender dysphoria, rather than simply providing gender affirming care as a quick fix solution.Michael explains that the majority of therapists are trained to assume that someone who claims to be in the wrong body is 100% accurate and there is no exploration of why they feel that way. This can be harmful, particularly for teenagers who may be influenced by peers or social media influencers to identify as transgender. Instead, Michael approaches gender dysphoria with what he calls gender identity therapy, which involves exploring the root causes of the individual's feelings and experiences.Brady and Michael also emphasize the importance of being a good listener and not dismissing someone's struggle with gender dysphoria. They both agree that shaming or affirming someone's gender identity without exploring the root causes can be harmful. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of gender dysphoria and transgenderism in our culture and how to effectively minister to them and show them the Love of Jesus. TIMESTAMPS:History of Gender Dysphoria Diagnosis [00:02:26] Michael Costello explains the history of gender dysphoria diagnosis and how it has evolved over the decades.Gender Affirming Care [00:05:07] Brady Cohn and Michael Costello discuss the concept of gender affirming care, including cross-sex hormones and puberty blockers, and how it is being pushed and advocated for in our culture.Harm of Gender Affirming Care [00:09:41] Michael Costello talks about the harm caused by gender affirming care and how traditional psychotherapeutic methods can help people with gender dysphoria come to terms with their body.The Emotional Distress of Gender Dysphoria [00:13:43] Speaker 2 discusses the emotional distress of gender dysphoria and how it is never addressed in gender affirming care.Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria [00:15:31] Speaker 1 talks about the rise of rapid onset gender dysphoria and how it is more of a social contagion than a biological issue.Autism and Gender Dysphoria [00:25:08] Speakers 1 and 2 discuss the high percentage of teenagers with rapid onset gender dysphoria who are on the autism spectrum and how this makes them more susceptible to feeling like they don't belong.Gender Identity Therapy [00:28:25] Michael Costello discusses his approach to gender identity therapy, which involves exploring the root causes of gender dysphoria through traditional psychotherapeutic methods.Affirmation Therapy [00:34:46] The dangers of affirmation therapy are discussed, with the suggestion that it is not the only option and may be harmful.Compassion and Grace [00:35:58] The importance of handling issues surrounding gender dysphoria with compassion and grace is emphasized, and listeners are encouraged to examine the lies they've believed and exchange them for God's truth.Join us weekly as we strive to exchange the lies we believe for the truth of God's word. Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/Thegreatexchangehttps://www.thegreatexchangepodcast.comhttps://calibrateministries.com#GenderDysphoria #Transgender #lgbtq #TheGreatExchange #BradyCone #CalibrateMinistries