Preparing For Pregnancy After Loss

Natalee Facey

This podcast is for you if you’ve experienced challenges on your pregnancy journey such as pregnancy or infant loss, infertility, health conditions that impact fertility, a traumatic pregnancy or birth, etc. My name is Natalee Facey and I’m a mom to two angel babies, Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Inner Healing Guide. I believe that any experience that brings us unimaginable pain also has the potential to connect us to our deepest source of power. My work is to walk with you through it all. This podcast provides tips on gently moving through your inner healing, preparing for pregnancy and childbirth after loss, and giving birth to the powerful you that’s now wanting to emerge. Learn more about me at nataleefacey.com Say hello at hello@natalefacey.com or via IG @thebirthwarriors. read less
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Ep 55: We're Here to Birth Many Things!
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Ep 55: We're Here to Birth Many Things!
Our bodies are portals for creation. We have the ability to birth many, many expressions of life. But when our mainstream culture tells us that our worthiness is tied into birthing children, it creates a disconnection within ourselves if we accept that lie.    Today’s episode is an Instagram Live recording where I speak to:  Staying in connection with ourselves and our sense of worthiness regardless of where we are on the pregnancy journeyBirthing occurring on an energetic / spiritual level When it becomes problematic to make a business or project “your baby”Removing blockages or resistance in the creative/birthing process and A live Q&A on what reclaiming your womb, your yes, and your no might look like   ----- More About Me: I am a Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Emotional Healing Guide, walking alongside women and femmes like you who’ve experienced womb-related loss, such as infertility, a pregnancy loss, infant loss, traumatic pregnancy or childbirth, or missed opportunity to become pregnant. I provide support in releasing grief, shame, guilt and other heavy emotions; in restoring trust in your body; and reconnecting to your sense of wholeness—whether you’re working towards your next pregnancy or your personal Rebirth. I've been recognized by the Borough of Brooklyn, New York for supporting families who've experienced pregnancy and infant loss and have the honor of being a confidante, cheerleader, guide, and space-holder for beautiful beings like you across the world.   I was born on the island of Jamaica, where I credit my love for nature, music, dancing, and belly laughs as medicine! This healing work for me is sacred, a soul-calling...and it truly is a gift to weave and be woven in this incredible tapestry with you.  Learn more about me and my work at nataleefacey.com. And if you're feeling called, you can find me via the links below.    ----   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list via nataleefacey.com And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to support the ongoing production of the podcast or support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek emotional healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 54: The Podcast Is Changing
Aug 31 2024
Ep 54: The Podcast Is Changing
The podcast is changing, beloved. In beautiful ways though. I've been feeling called to expandind into other topics that speak to the whole of us...or the very least, more of us. These topics include our connection to ourselves, our connection to the earth, the healing of our families and intimate relationships, the systems in our society that lead to pain and stress in our lives, and more.  Some form of evolution is always happening. And as it's happening within me, I'm wanting the work or inspiration I offer to reflect that expansion as well. I'm grateful to you for being on this journey with me.    ----- More About Me: I am a Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Emotional Healing Guide, walking alongside women and femmes like you who’ve experienced womb-related loss, such as infertility, a pregnancy loss, infant loss, traumatic pregnancy or childbirth, or missed opportunity to become pregnant. I provide support in releasing grief, shame, guilt and other heavy emotions; in restoring trust in your body; and reconnecting to your sense of wholeness—whether you’re working towards your next pregnancy or your personal Rebirth. I've been recognized by the Borough of Brooklyn, New York for supporting families who've experienced pregnancy and infant loss and have the honor of being a confidante, cheerleader, guide, and space-holder for beautiful beings like you across the world.   I was born on the island of Jamaica, where I credit my love for nature, music, dancing, and belly laughs as medicine! This healing work for me is sacred, a soul-calling...and it truly is a gift to weave and be woven in this incredible tapestry with you.  Learn more about me and my work at nataleefacey.com. And if you're feeling called, you can find me via the links below.    ----   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list via nataleefacey.com And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 53: You Don't Have to Smile
Jun 30 2024
Ep 53: You Don't Have to Smile
You don't have to smile. You don't.  I've been sitting with what it would be like to have a world where we can each show up with all the emotions that are present with us—showing up with the grief, the regret, the fear, the frustration—without feeling the need to "fix" yourself or those emotions before being in the room again.  This episode explores the cultural patterns that train us into smiling for the camera even when we don't feel like it and dreams up a new way of being with the emotions that are authentic in each moment.   If you enjoy today's episode, please share the love with someone who might find it useful as well.    ----- More About Me: I am a Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Emotional Healing Guide, walking alongside women and femmes like you who’ve experienced womb-related loss, such as infertility, a pregnancy loss, infant loss, or a traumatic pregnancy. I provide support in releasing grief, shame, guilt and other heavy emotions; in restoring trust in your body; and reconnecting to your sense of wholeness—whether you’re working towards your next pregnancy or your personal Rebirth. I've been recognized by the Borough of Brooklyn, New York for supporting families who've experienced pregnancy and infant loss and have the honor of being a confidante, cheerleader, guide, and space-holder for beautiful beings like you across the world.   I was born on the island of Jamaica, where I credit my love for nature, music, dancing, and belly laughs as medicine! This healing work for me is sacred, a soul-calling...and it truly is a gift to weave and be woven in this incredible tapestry with you.  Learn more about me and my work at nataleefacey.com. And if you're feeling called, you can find me via the links below.    ----   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list via nataleefacey.com And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 52: How Somatic Therapy Can Support Your Healing
Jun 10 2024
Ep 52: How Somatic Therapy Can Support Your Healing
In today's episode, I get to share more about one of my favorite healing practices with you: Somatic Therapy (also known as Embodiment Healing). I walk through...  What Somatic Therapy isMy introduction to Somatic Therapy and the impact it's had on meThe difference between Talk Therapy & Somatic TherapyWhat happens in a Somatic Therapy sessionWisdom held in our DNA and wisdom from Higher Power that can be accessed through the body If you enjoy today's episode, please share the love with someone who might find it useful as well.    ----- More About Me: I am a Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Emotional Healing Guide, walking alongside women and femmes like you who’ve experienced womb-related loss, such as infertility, a pregnancy loss, infant loss, or a traumatic pregnancy. I provide support in releasing grief, shame, guilt and other heavy emotions; in restoring trust in your body; and reconnecting to your sense of wholeness—whether you’re working towards your next pregnancy or your personal Rebirth. I've been recognized by the Borough of Brooklyn, New York for supporting families who've experienced pregnancy and infant loss and have the honor of being a confidante, cheerleader, guide, and space-holder for beautiful beings like you across the world.   I was born on the island of Jamaica, where I credit my love for nature, music, dancing, and belly laughs as medicine! This healing work for me is sacred, a soul-calling...and it truly is a gift to weave and be woven in this incredible tapestry with you.  Learn more about me and my work at nataleefacey.com. And if you're feeling called, you can find me via the links below.    ----   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list via nataleefacey.com And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 51: No Version of Motherhood is Perfect
May 12 2024
Ep 51: No Version of Motherhood is Perfect
Today’s episode is about permission and grace. If you’re a mom/parent to angel babies, I encourage you to really give yourself the permission to do whatever supports your energy around this time. I also share how I respond when I’m asked if I’m a mother.  And if you’re currently parenting or caretaking kiddos who are physically here, I shed light on the lie that we need to strive to be perfect mothers or parents. Perfection doesn’t exist. It doesn’t. Being able to surrender to the messiness, the madness, the beauty, the creativity, the unpredictability…of life and parenting offers a kind of liberation that ends up being resourcing our body and being,  instead of depleting.    If you enjoy today's episode, please share it with someone who might find it useful as well.    ----- More About Me: I’m a Resilience Coach, Embodiment Healing Guide, Angel Mama, and Birth Doula. I support women and femmes who’ve gone through different forms of loss in their emotional healing, pregnancy, and giving birth to a more powerful, compassionate, authentic version of themself. Healing is the greatest gift one could give to themself or their family. And it’s an honor and privilege for me to be a form of support on that journey.   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list and receive a free guided meditation: https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 50: Being Gentle With Yourself
Apr 30 2024
Ep 50: Being Gentle With Yourself
Today’s episode is a prayer, an invitation to soften, to be gentle with yourself.  There’s sometimes the belief–even if unconscious–that softening might transform someone into becoming weak or diminish their ability to be resilient. I’ve observed and experienced the opposite: that it’s ignoring the body’s invitation to soften that eventually leads to shut down and disconnection. The softening, the exhale…creates the opening.  I invite you to receive today’s invitation if it resonates.   ----- More About Me: I’m a Resilience Coach, Embodiment Healing Guide, Angel Mama, and Birth Doula. I support women and femmes who’ve gone through different forms of loss in their emotional healing, pregnancy, and giving birth to a more powerful, compassionate, authentic version of themself. Healing is the greatest gift one could give to themself or their family. And it’s an honor and privilege for me to be a form of support on that journey.   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contactSend me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list and receive a free guided meditation: https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 49: The Imperfect Healing Journey
Dec 10 2023
Ep 49: The Imperfect Healing Journey
I used to think that my healing journey needed to look a certain way and have a definite outcome. That eventually--no matter how long it took--I needed to rise out of the ashes like a phoenix then tell the world about it.  Sitting with the realness of my unpredictable, and sometimes messy healing journey has taught me that there is no model for what healing should look like. You are an original. Your journey will be a unique one. And by releasing the expectations around who you ought to become and by when that needs to happen, perhaps that creates room for some unexpected, imperfect beauty to unfold.   In this episode, I share about: The ways in which our society creates “models” for who or what we should be How those models impact our healing journey The liberation that becomes possible through being present with your own journey Accessing the unique wisdom that wants to emerge through you   ----- More About Me: I’m a Resilience Coach, Embodiment Healing Guide, Angel Mama, and Birth Doula. I support women and femmes who’ve gone through different forms of loss in their emotional healing, pregnancy, and giving birth to a more powerful, compassionate, authentic version of themself. Healing is the greatest gift one could give to themself or their family. And it’s an honor and privilege for me to be a form of support on that journey.   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contactSend me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list and receive a free guided meditation: https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   Donate: If you'd like to donate to support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek to access healing sevices, please do so here.   With Love, Natalee
Ep 48: Suffering In Silence
Sep 6 2023
Ep 48: Suffering In Silence
Feeling as though you're suffering in silence is perhaps one of the most common experiences after going through a loss. Silence and solitude might be exactly what you need in the earlier stages of your healing journey. And at some point, the silence or isolation may no longer support your healing.    In this episode, I share: When silence and solitude are in service of our healing and When silence and solitude can lead to our declineSome simple tips for bringing "movement" and release to your body and being\ And here are the Grief playlists I referenced: Good Grief 1_Let Me Be 2_Finding Peace 3_Rise Again ----- More About Me: I’m a Resilience Coach, Embodiment Healing Guide, Angel Mama, and Birth Doula. I support women and femmes who’ve gone through womb-related loss in their emotional healing, pregnancy, and giving birth to a more powerful, compassionate, authentic version of themself. Healing is the greatest gift one could give to themself or their family. And it’s an honor and privilege for me to be a form of support on that journey.   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Learn more about healing inside The Rebirth Community: nataleefacey.com/communityBook a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contactSend me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list and receive a free guided meditation: https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   With Love, Natalee
Ep 46: Support Birth Healing & Liberation
Jun 18 2023
Ep 46: Support Birth Healing & Liberation
Today’s guest is Nicole JeanBaptiste, whom we met in Ep 20 of the podcast on “Honoring the Black Birthing Experience”. Nicole is a full spectrum Birth and Postpartum Doula, Oral Historian, and Social Justice Advocate working towards the liberation of Black and Brown birthing people and Birthworkers.   In this episode, we shift our attention to the healers and caretakers of the birthing world: Birthworkers.   We explore what it means to move towards birthing justice and liberation through tending to the needs and care of Black and Brown Birthworkers. We also discuss an upcoming retreat Nicole will be co-hosting that supports Black and Brown Birthworkers in their own healing and restoration.   Follow the links below to learn more about Nicole, her work, and to support Birthworkers who’d like to attend the retreat: Learn More about the retreat: www.sesebirthingfreedom.com/revelrebirth Donate to support Birthworkers in their healing and liberation: https://givebutter.com/RevelRebirth/nicolejeanbaptiste Explore Nicole's Birthing Services, Sésé Birthing Freedom: www.sesebirthingfreedom.com Connect with Nicole on Instagram: www.instagram.com/sese_birthingfreedomLearn More about Bx (Re)Birth & Progress Collective: www.bxrebirth.org    ----- More About Me: I’m a Resilience Coach, Embodiment Healing Guide, Angel Mama, and Birth Doula. I support women and femmes who’ve gone through womb-related loss in their emotional healing, pregnancy, and giving birth to a more powerful, compassionate, authentic version of themself. Healing is the greatest gift one could give to themself or their family. And it’s an honor and privilege for me to be a form of support on that journey.   Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Learn more about healing inside The Rebirth Community: nataleefacey.com/communityBook a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contactSend me any questions or reflections you have: hello@nataleefacey.comJoin my mailing list and receive a free guided meditation: https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0And let’s connect on IG if we haven’t already!: @thebirthwarriors   With Love, Natalee
Ep 43: Healing Relationships with Compassionate Communication
Aug 14 2022
Ep 43: Healing Relationships with Compassionate Communication
I consider myself a life-long learner, so it means a lot when I say that Compassionate Communication or Nonviolent Communication (NVC) has been one of the single most important practices I’ve learned. As my teacher, Steve Torma, puts it, Compassionate Communication isn’t just a tool for communication but a shift in consciousness.    I’ve referred Compassionate Communication to clients of mine because it becomes a game-changer for ANY conversation or relationship. And today, we have the pleasure of hearing Steve Torma share more about Compassionate Communication and how it can benefit you and your relationships.  We discuss:  What Compassionate Communication or NVC is and some of its many benefitsWhat violence looks like in conversations (it’s not just physical!)How the “Dominator Culture” we’re socialized in shows up in our self-talk and relationships Why men will likely grieve differently from womenThe patterns/imbalances that may become prevalent in relationships between men and womenHow Compassionate Communication can help create inner peace, as well as bring empathy and healing to relationships    Steve Torma’s Bio:  Steve (he/him) was born and raised on a family farm in Ashtabula, Ohio, and is a 25-year member of Earthaven Ecovillage. His ancestors are Hungarian and French Canadian.   Steve co-founded an intentional community in Ohio in 1980, where he lived until joining Earthaven Ecovillage in 1996. At Earthaven, he co-founded a thriving neighborhood, was president for three years, and has taught Nonviolent Communication for twelve years. In addition to his passion for community, Steve co-managed a natural foods co-op for 10 years, ran his own traveling bookstore business for over 20 years, and now teaches Nonviolent Communication and other relationship and community building skills through The REAL Center, which he co-founded in 2009.    As a lifelong peace, justice, and ecology educator and activist with over 40 years of community living, Steve has sought to integrate personal and social transformation in his own life, in the communities where he lives, and in the larger society. His passion for integral living and thinking has led him to study and experiment with a wide range of spiritualities, psychological systems, and social theories as they relate to creating a more just and sustainable world.   Steve has taught Nonviolent Communication for a variety of intentional communities, organizations, and regional gatherings, including Celo Community, The Mountain Retreat Center, Firefly Gathering, Southeast Permaculture Gathering, Organic Growers School, Kinnection Campout, LovEvolution Gathering, Compassion Camp, and many others.   Steve’s Website: http://therealcenter.org/ Seve’s Email: steve@therealcenter.org     The Resources We Reference: Book: The Chalice & The Blade by Riane Eisler: https://rianeeisler.com/the-chalice-and-the-blade-our-history-our-future/ Books: Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenburg (and related books through PuddleDancer Press): https://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/shop/  The Mankind Project: https://mankindproject.org/ NVC Asheville: https://www.nvcasheville.com/   Earthaven Ecovillage: https://www.earthaven.org/ —   If you’re curious as to what support might look like for you on your journey, here are some next steps to explore: 1. Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0   2. Schedule a Free Consultation Call to get clarity on what next steps can help with your healing and pregnancy journey. This entire journey can be so tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed, defeated, or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary call via this link: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min     3. Book an Emotional Release Session to identify where emotions are being stored in the body and to release them using gentle techniques that are a part of your body's blueprint. Sessions are a paced, meditative experience, with the results being quite profound. You can receive support with any emotions you’re struggling with, including, releasing fears and anxiety, releasing grief, creating a more loving connection with the body, increasing forgiveness and self-forgiveness, etc.    Learn more or book your session here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/emotional-release LEARN MORE ABOUT ME >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Thriving in Pregnancy After Loss Workshops: July 2022
Jul 14 2022
Thriving in Pregnancy After Loss Workshops: July 2022
If you’re currently pregnant and feel as though you’re holding fear and anxiety in your body, this month’s workshop is for you. Two sessions are being held: the first on Weds, Jul 20 at 7PM ET is for pregnant women/people and the second on Sat, Jul 30 at 1PM ET for pregnant women/people and expectant parents in general (invite your partner!).    In this recording, I share the impact or potential impact of fear and anxiety on your body, your pregnancy, your baby, and your confidence as a parent…and the tools you’ll learn in the workshop to remedy these.   HERE’S WHAT WE'LL COVER IN THE WORKSHOP:   1. Learn practices for reducing the impact of anxiety and fear on the body and baby   2. Have your questions answered on navigating pregnancy after loss. These might include: - anticipating and overcoming triggers - advocating for yourself, your partner, and your baby during medical care - building your birthing team - empowering your partner to support you - ways to connect with your baby, etc.   3. Learn tools to prepare the body, mind, and spirit for an empowered, more easeful birth   4. For Dads / Birthing partners: Learn ways to best support your partner during pregnancy and childbirth and overcome specific triggers that might come up for you BONUS: Make connections with other expectant families who are on a similar journey   —   If you’re curious about other ways to receive support, here are some next steps to explore: Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0 Schedule a Free Consultation Call to get clarity on what next steps can help with your healing and pregnancy journey. This entire journey can be so tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed, defeated, or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary call via this link: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Learn More About “Rebirth,” my group course kicking off again later this year. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Ep 42: Rada's Story - IVF, Pregnancy After Loss, & Inner Healing
Jul 2 2022
Ep 42: Rada's Story - IVF, Pregnancy After Loss, & Inner Healing
In this episode, Rada, a client of mine, reflects on our time working together and the impact that had on her pregnancy journey, inner healing, and her relationships.     She shares: - Feeling discouraged to try again after her losses even though she wanted to grow her family - The difference between listening to the podcast and being in a session - The different tools and practices we used during her IVF, pregnancy, and postpartum journey - Ways that she’s changed as a result of her inner healing - How her inner healing has impacted her relationship with her family    Thank you again for sharing your story, Rada!   —   If you’re curious as to what support might look like for you on your journey, here are some next steps to explore:   1. Subscribe to the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0   2. Attend this Month's Workshop on "Thriving in Your Pregnancy After Loss." This is being offered in 2 sessions: on Weds, July 20th at 7PM - 8:30PM ET for women/femmes who are currently pregnant  and on Sat, July 30th at 1PM - 2:30PM ET for expectant parents. The workshop will provide the tools to release the impact of fear and anxiety on your body and baby, and prepare for an empowering birth. Learn More or RSVP at https://www.nataleefacey.com/events    3. Schedule a Free Consultation Call to get clarity on what next steps can help with your healing and pregnancy journey. This entire journey can be so tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed, defeated, or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary call via this link: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min   4. Learn More About “Rebirth,” my group course kicking off again later this year. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Ep 41: Birth Story - Birthing in Community with Tia DeShazor
Jun 5 2022
Ep 41: Birth Story - Birthing in Community with Tia DeShazor
I had the pleasure of working with Tia during her pregnancy as her “space-holder,” resource-connector, co-strategist, and emotional healing guide. I’ve been excited to share our follow-up conversation because Tia’s story is such a powerful example of what’s possible when pregnancy and birth are supported by community—family, friends, and professionals who are equally competent as they are caring.    It’s a model that doesn’t simply center the pregnant / birthing person, but also makes them the director of their experience, and at the same time, allows them to feel safe enough, held enough so that they can surrender to the process.    The magic that unfolded in Tia’s birth is typically reserved for fantasies. But it was real and it came after a fair amount of self-advocacy and intentionality.    I also want to acknowledge that when you’ve gone through a loss or fertility challenges, it may feel safer to go with the hospital care we’ve learned to accept as the norm. But if you’ve been finding that unsatisfactory, I hope Tia’s story will spark ideas for the alternatives you have access to regardless of who you choose to be on your birthing team and where you choose to birth.   ------   Tia and I discuss: - Challenges she experienced receiving care within the hospital model - The ways she advocated for herself amidst push-back - Choosing a midwife and homebirth - Feeling supported by “prayers, friends, and angels” as she welcomed her baby earth-side   Links & Resources We Reference: - Bronx (Re)Birth & Progress: www.instagram.com/bxrebirthcollective  - Midwife Nubia-Earth Martin: https://birthfromtheearth.vpweb.com/  - Birth Doula, Jazzmin Brown: https://www.instagram.com/birthingfarah/  Tia’s Bio: Tia DeShazor works in the performing arts as an actor, writer of musicals, and career coach for artists. She’s also the co-founder of BOLD, an organization for Black Women in the Performing Arts. Originally from Detroit, she currently lives in Harlem with her husband CK Edwards and baby Lexington. Learn more about her at tiadeshazor.com.   —   And if you’d like support in your emotional healing, here are ways I can help: 1. Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0   2. Work 1:1 with me for your emotional healing or to gently guide you through a conception to childbirth plan for your next pregnancy. Pregnancy after loss or infertility is tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary strategy call with me to help you get clarity for the next phase of your journey: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min   3. Learn More About “Rebirth,” my group course kicking off again later this year. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Ep 40: Meet Birth & Postpartum Doula, Kris Bailey
May 17 2022
Ep 40: Meet Birth & Postpartum Doula, Kris Bailey
Today’s episode features one of my favorite Birth & Postpartum Doulas, Kris Bailey. Knowing that you can add a Birth and Postpartum Doula to your birthing team helps to take the “scary” out of childbirth. And so, I’m thrilled to have Kris share more about how doulas can improve your birthing experience.    Kris is also the founder of Birth Sent Lisi, an organization whose mission is to inform, educate and support birthing people on the island of Saint Lucia by providing access to maternal health services during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum period.  Kris and I discuss: - Her journey to becoming a Birthworker - Why a Birth and/or Postpartum Doula is an important part of your birthing team - Having awareness of the “strong, independent woman” archetype and asking for support - The difficult experiences of Black and Brown birthing people  - The wonderful work she’s cultivating in her home country of St. Lucia and how you can play a part in its success Links & Resources: - Kris’ Website: https://birthandbabyservices.com  - Birth Sent Lisi on IG: https://www.instagram.com/birthsentlisi  - Donate to Birth Sent Lisi buying a birth positive T-shirt: https://birthandbabyservices.com/community-initiatives-1  - Donate to Birth Sent Lisi’s fundraiser: https://givebutter.com/BIRTHSENTLISI  - Ancient Song Doula Training: https://www.ancientsongdoulaservices.com/  Kris’s Bio: Kris Bailey is a perinatal professional based in NYC with 8 years of experience in the birth and postpartum wellness industry. She offers a well rounded doula experience: Birth doula, postpartum doula, attachment parent coach, childbirth educator. She’s also a Certified lactation counselor and fertility advocate in training.    Kris’ role as a birth doula is to provide emotional and physical support to a birthing individual during their labor and delivery and reassurance and perspective to partners. Her goal during your pregnancy is to provide you with enough information and tools to feel confident on the onset of labor. —   And if you’d like support in your emotional healing, here are ways I can help: 1. Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0   2. Work 1:1 with me for your emotional healing or to gently guide you through a conception to childbirth plan for your next pregnancy. Pregnancy after loss or infertility is tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary strategy call with me to help you get clarity for the next phase of your journey: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min   3. Learn More About “Rebirth,” my group course kicking off again later this year. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Ep 39: For The Other Mothers
May 6 2022
Ep 39: For The Other Mothers
These words are in honor of the “other mothers”…those on the not-so-easy pregnancy journey whose stories I’ve had the privilege of holding sacred space for.    If today’s episode resonates with you, please share it with someone else whose motherhood journey might have been different from the one that’s often celebrated, but who knows themself to be a mother just the same.    Lots of love to you! Natalee   ---   If you’re ready to step into your healing after a loss, an infertility diagnosis, or birth trauma, here are ways in which I can support you: 1. Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0   2. Work 1:1 with me for your emotional healing or to gently guide you through a conception to childbirth plan for your next pregnancy. Pregnancy after loss or infertility is tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary strategy call with me to help you get clarity for the next phase of your journey: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min   3. Enroll in Rebirth, my group course with the next cohort kicking off in April 2022. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com
Ep 38: Embodied Healing with Thérèse Cator
Apr 2 2022
Ep 38: Embodied Healing with Thérèse Cator
I thoroughly enjoyed today’s soulful conversation with Thérèse Cator. Thérèse is one of my teachers and mentors, and her work has guided me in walking the path of my own calling with more clarity and confidence…in being able to do the work beneath the work. To know her and share space with her is a gift.      In this episode, we discuss: - What led to her doing the powerful work she’s currently doing - What Embodied Healing is - The impact of colonialism and trauma on our bodies and how to reclaim our healing - Finding balance and rhythm as an entrepreneur, mom, wife, leader… - Honoring the soul's calling - And SO MUCH MORE! More About Thérèse:    Thérèse Cator (she/her/hers) is the founder of Embodied Black Girl, an Embodiment Practitioner, Decolonial Leadership Coach and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner in-training. She works at the intersection of spirit, somatics and social justice rooted in a decolonial lens.   Thérèse is devoted to guiding people of all backgrounds to untether from the colonial and cultural conditioning that create cultures of disconnection. She invites them to unmap their bodies from supremacy and transgenerational trauma and in the process unearth the innate power and gifts essential to weaving the new world.    Thérèse holds a BA from NYU and MFA from Rutgers University. Her work has been featured in Essence, Forbes, Jezebel, MindBodyGreen among others.   If you’d like to connect with Thérèse, here are ways to do so: - Via IG: instagram.com/theresecator or instagram.com/embodiedblackgirl - Via Email: hello@theresecator.com or  - Visit her websites at theresecator.com and and embodiedsolidarity.org   ---- If you’re ready to step into your healing after a loss, an infertility diagnosis, or birth trauma, here are ways in which I can support you: 1. Get on the Birth Warrior Mailing List to receive inspiration and resources for your emotional healing. You’ll also be the first to learn about upcoming workshops and Healing Circles. AND you get two bonus gifts lovingly created by me when you sign up!  https://www.subscribepage.com/k8l9d0 2. Work 1:1 with me for your emotional healing or to gently guide you through a conception to childbirth plan for your next pregnancy. Pregnancy after loss or infertility is tough, and you do not have to feel overwhelmed or alone. You’ve been through enough, warrior! And you are so much stronger with the right support! Book a complimentary strategy call with me to help you get clarity for the next phase of your journey: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min 3. Enroll in Rebirth, my group course with the next cohort kicking off in April 2022. This will support you in diving even deeper into your healing and giving birth to a more powerful you. Learn more about Rebirth Here: https://www.nataleefacey.com/rebirth. And let’s chat to see if the program is a good fit for you: https://calendly.com/nataleefacey/rebirth-discovery LEARN MORE >> Learn more about who I am and why I love to do this work at nataleefacey.com  SAY HELLO >> On Instagram: @thebirthwarriors  >> Via Email: hello@nataleefacey.com