Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 178 features callers from around the world unpacking their challenging conversations with Molly. Her first caller, Arthur, who volunteer-coaches a youth robotics team, calls in first about a recent not-so-helpful team dynamic. The team made it to the world championships (kudos!) and during the festivities, one young team member boasted about essentially “carrying the team” to their achievement. Hear Arthur and Molly discuss how to apply the Say It Skillfully Me–You–We framework, so he lets go of his (understandable) annoyance and turns a “negative” dynamic into a powerful learning experience for all. Then Maggie shares her struggle in “overthinking”, which makes it harder to give simple and direct feedback to those she’s mentoring. Maggie and Molly talk about the power of establishing her own intention—as one supporting another’s growth—and “transparency is your friend”. Big congratulations to Maggie for being promoted as well, making the transition from individual contributor to formal leader! We also discuss how to take advantage of the team’s early days to connect as human beings and co-create how best to collaborate and support each other’s growth. (16:40) Lastly, Greg, in his early 60’s, shares his experience in interviewing. He’s open about wrestling with people’s perception of being “end of career” and how to reinforce one’s clear skills, expertise and experience. He talks about dismissive behavior in a recent group zoom interview. Molly offers ways to “hold your own and lead yourself first” and not let others diminish your value add. Greg reinforces the need to maintain focus and be patient in the transition process. And a key takeaway is nurturing your network *every day*! (37:00) Don’t miss these top-of-mind conversations on all career phases—learn how to navigate work while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: “Make a choice to build a life you don’t regularly need to escape from.” —Venus Williams