Birth Education Center Podcast

Care Messer

My name is Care Messer, I’m an entrepreneur, childbirth educator birth and postpartum doula and the mom of two girls. Birth stories begin before your baby is even conceived and we’re here to talk about it. Join Ashley & I as we create discussions around connection, finding and using your voice and of course, birth stories! We will release an episode each week so be sure to subscribe so you don't miss a second! read less

006: Hypnobirthing: "You can do anything for 3 & 1/2 minutes!"
4d ago
006: Hypnobirthing: "You can do anything for 3 & 1/2 minutes!"
(Full video on YouTube) Introducing Lily! Lily opens up about her a strong determination for an unmedicated birth and explains the extensive Hypnobirthing preparation she undertook to increase her chances of success. She added daily breathing practice, birth affirmations and meditations to shift her mindset. Lily vividly describes her experience in the hospital lobby that is not to be missed! She emphasizes the significance of preparation, trust in the birthing process, and self-advocacy. She also mentions a midwife who went above and beyond to support her birth wishes. Lily also highlights the preparation she took to “train” her partner and her mom so she could stay in labor land and let them manage the hospital room. Definitely a birth story to take some notes and ideas from! Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/
005: What is Induction Season?
Sep 21 2023
005: What is Induction Season?
During this podcast episode, Ashley and I discuss the topic of induction. This show is meant to get you thinking about what you know about the reality of having an induction. We have an Induction 101 course that we include with our Hypnobirthing classes so parents have a detailed understanding of how induction works and what choices you have as parents to make informed decisions if you choose to have or medically need an induction. Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ When it seems like everyone you know has been induced – has it messed with you trusting that your body actually knows how to go into labor? Let us debunk the myth that your body will never go into labor on its own and emphasize that eventually, your body will give birth. As educators, we are concerned about the lack of accurate and unbiased information provided to families about the risks and benefits of induction. We see first-hand the pressure or coercion parents experience in making the decision to induce or say no to the suggestion. Autonomy in decision-making and the need for comprehensive information will help parents possibly avoid birth trauma or regrets with their birth experience. Our Induction 101 course is a great addition to any birth education, whether your birth class was taken in or out of the hospital. Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/
004: Meet Ashley, our multiples expert. How surprise triplets brought me into birthwork!
Sep 14 2023
004: Meet Ashley, our multiples expert. How surprise triplets brought me into birthwork!
In this podcast episode, Care introduces her co-host Ashley, a birth educator and doula. Ashley shares her personal journey into birth work, including her experience of having triplets and how it influenced her perspective on childbirth. Ashley is detail oriented educator who is able to combine the science with the spiritual aspects of birth and parenting. Ashley emphasizes the importance of education and preparation for birth, as well as the need to let go of expectations and embrace the transformative journey. They also discuss the challenges and complexities of motherhood, including having children with special needs(more to come in a future episode on that). They highlight the importance of finding support and creating positive and healing experiences for both parents and babies.   Find Ashley on IG: @AshleyStetsonBirth   Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/
003: Birth Story, Matt & Janet
Sep 7 2023
003: Birth Story, Matt & Janet
In this podcast episode, I interview former students Matt and Janet about their birth story. Matt and Janet share their fears and how they prepared for birth, including taking a hypnobirthing class. They also talk about their experience with hiring a doula and giving birth during the COVID-19 pandemic. Janet shares her determination to have a natural birth without an epidural, inspired by her mother's experience. Matt also opens up with a vulnerable topic that all partners should hear about before having a baby. They open up about the importance of communication and therapy in maintaining a strong relationship after having a baby. Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/
002: Care's Birth Story with the Birth Kweens
Sep 7 2023
002: Care's Birth Story with the Birth Kweens
In this podcast episode, Care Messer, host of the Birth Education Center podcast, travels back in time to join Karly and Ali, hosts of the Birth Kweens podcast. They discuss a range of topics, including Care's birth story with her daughter Finnley, her journey into being a doula and a childbirth educator. They also delve into the importance of sex in relation to birth and pregnancy. Care shares her personal experiences with childbirth, including her decision to give birth at a birthing center and the differences she noticed between the midwifery and medical models of care. They also discuss the transformative power of birth and the importance of processing and learning from previous birth experiences. The episode concludes with a discussion on the significance of sharing birth stories and experiences, the need for community and support within the birth community, and the importance of human connection and touch. Huge shout out to Karly and Ali for allowing us to republish this episode - - Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/
001: From Challenging Beginnings to Empowered Births: A Journey of Healing and Transformation
Sep 7 2023
001: From Challenging Beginnings to Empowered Births: A Journey of Healing and Transformation
In this episode of our Birth Education Center podcast, I'm here to introduce myself, Care Messer, and my amazing team. We're so excited to be restarting the podcast after a long pandemic break! Our goal with this podcast is to provide valuable information and support to all future and expecting parents out there. Throughout the episodes, we'll be covering a wide range of topics. We'll share inspiring birth stories, dive into educational topics, discuss doula training, explore effective communication, advocate for informed decision-making, and encourage taking ownership of your birth and life. I want this introductory show to be a bit more personal, so I'll be sharing my own stories and experiences related to birth and parenting. I come from a challenging family background, and I've had my own unique(and hard) birth experience with my own mother. By sharing these personal moments, I hope to connect with you on a deeper level. Connection is a key theme for us at the Center. We believe in the power of creating a strong bond with your baby and yourself before your baby is ever born. Through this podcast, we aim to be a bridge that helps you connect with your little one and find a deeper connection within yourself. So, get ready for an incredible journey with us on the Birth Education Center podcast. We can't wait to share our ideas, education, stories, and support with all of you. We also can’t wait to hear your comments, suggestions and unique backgrounds and stories. Here’s to embarking on this beautiful adventure together!   Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode? BirthEducationPodcast@gmail.com   Work with Care or Ashley: 858-251-4204   Join us on Socials: Instagram: @BirthEducationCenter TikTok: @BirthEducationCenter YouTube: @BirthEducationCenter FB: @BirthEducationCenter LinkedIn: @CareMesser   Online Courses: OMG I’m Pregnant: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/OMG-Im-Pregnant-Course/ Induction 101: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Induction-101-Course/ Mental Health: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/pregnancy-and-postpartum-mental-health/ Newborn Procedures: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/Newborn-Procedures-Course/ Epidurals Explained: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/epidurals-explained/ Meditations/Journal: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/   For Doulas Only: https://www.birtheducationcenter.com/shop/bundles/ebook-bundle/