“The old ball and chain.” When most people talk about marriage there is an almost sneer in their voice as though you are a sucker for getting married. With continually growing divorce rates, and changing cultural values why would anyone marry? In this episode, Shasta and Ian talk about WHY and HOW marriage became THE most freeing experience for them. They share the ancient wisdom path of Tantra and why it paradoxically might just save modern marriage. But, there’s a catch… In fact, there’s the absolute need to focus on one key value and it’s no contempt, keeping score or open relationships. Listen now to find out what it is…it actually is necessary in every relationship! You will also learn the correct definition of Tantra, and it may just change the way you look at yourself and the world. Listen now. Leave us a review or a comment on iTunes.

What would I be, do, creative, offer, receive, experience if I was free of fear? In a time of limited freedom – real or perceived - freedom is the biggest gift to give ourself. In this powerhouse episode, Shasta and Ian talk about Freedom and why it is not just a concept for special interest groups but ESSENTIAL to truly grasp to live a fulfilling life, and yet also be dedicated and committed to another. Seem like a paradox? Listen to this episode where they: Define freedom as being unlimited by the past, the wounds, the projections and the Shadow. Understand why and where you might not be free – take their 30 second self-evaluation. Learn why your brain limits the actual amount of free choice or any choice you think you are making. Hear how the ancient philosophy of Tantra gives you the EXACT blueprint to freedom, and why it includes love, sex and relationship as part of the path! Get your mind blown by why freedom contains boundaries and meaningful limits, and freedom also means negotiating with others and living in the social contract. Listen to these highlight now: 4:00    Why Freedom is so important. 8:50    Why awareness that freedom is even possible is so important. 12:00  How to be free in the TRUTH 18:01  Are you free in who you are? 27:25  The question to find out if you are free. Join the Freedom Soiree also for elixirs on living a 7 Star Life. Go to www.7starlove.com/freedom

The only way to get what you really want AND actually fulfill the reason you are on this planet, is to become “dangerous”. In this episode we share with you HOW to become the well treated woman and the first class man that you long to be AND how to have a totally orgasmic life because of it. This is not love and light nonsense. This is the willingness to get honest, real and totally alive! Think you have what that takes? Find out in this episode as Shasta and Ian share their list of HOW to become irresistible to the goodness in your life that is actually already waiting for you. And why you will NOT experience it playing by the rules, and yet, you can break them with real finesse and grace. Listen now! Check out these highlights: 4:44    How to really let go of baggage and think about being “dangerous” 5:55    The soul sucking agreement many men make. 7:55    Why selfishness is underrated and why it leads to generosity. 18:57  The Good Girl must die. 25:20  How to access The Unimaginable 27:35  The one thing that is key to a fabulous life and why the Unknown is the way. Join our Freedom Soiree at www.7starlove.com/freedom

“Stop telling people to be safe. The most interesting people are finding ways to be more dangerous.” Dave Asprey Unlock the “forbidden” secret of success in life, love, and sex…make Dangerous Decisions!!!!! Interestingly, 99% of humans are completely confused as to who they are really because they are confused about what is safe and what is dangerous. In this paradigm shattering episode, we talk about why is being “dangerous” is important, and what being dangerous really means. We don’t mean Jason Bourne stuff – we mean the decisions that you think you can’t make like sleeping with someone’s husband, leaving your marriage or just finally saying what you reallllly want… …Like we did… In other words, giving up the Good Girl or Good Boy “being nice” syndrome that is actually destroying your soul is THE best thing you can do! Learn what happens when you become dangerous and how FAST your dreams unfold. Understand why you should be dangerous to the toxic agreements you’ve unwittingly made. This is your permission slip to greatness! Listen now to these highlights: 3:22    Danger defined. 7:21    Why being nice is for frauds. 18:25  The jaw-dropper reveal of what we did to be together. Hearts were broken. 24:54  Why you need to break all the rules. 29:36 The true cost of following the rules. 35.24  The only real mantra you need. Join our Freedom Soiree at www.7starlove.com/freedom

How to Reverse Age, Make More Money & Heal Can better sex make you younger, wealthier and even prevent disease? Can you Benjamin Button yourself to look better thanks to orgasm? Can you have great intimacy if he’s soft and she’s dry? YES! YES! YES! In this episode we dispel many health, age-related and even sexual dysfunction myths. We tell you HOW to bio-hack your sex life and why you should. We will also share with you why “average” sex might be making you sick, old and broke, and what soulful sex is and how to achieve it. Listen to how women can experience more enjoyable sex, and sex that’s good for your skin! Learn also what men are dying the fastest on the planet, and how you can NOT be one of them. Listen Now: 2:38 – What is soulful sex versus mutual masturbation. 5.48 – The recipe for soulful sex. 15:17 – What happens to your health when you are unhappy with your sex life. 22:55 – What men are dying the fastest and are the sickest and how sex relates. 26:35 – What happens bio-chemically when women have vaginal orgasms 27:35 – Why non-ejaculation for men makes you younger and more virile. 30:45 – The pandemic and why we need to have great health and great sex. The Thrive Global article for even more insight https://thriveglobal.com/stories/2119766/ Sex Diary freebie for inspiration www.7starlove.com/secret

Think variety is the spice of life? Believe monogamy is against human nature? Wondering IF commitment really still exists? In this premier episode of Season 3, Ian and Shasta speak to why polyamory is for cowards, and why all of the beliefs we have about monogamy will leave you poor, lonely and completely unsatisfied. Listen now to hear WHY monogamy is so damn hard BUT what can happen when you fully devote so just one person…It’s called The JACKPOT FREQUENCY. They share how they overcame their own shit to be fully in and why resulted in money, success and healing. Listen now to these highlight: 4.00  – Why the paradigm of marriage and love might be wrong. 11.20 – The surprising transformative power of dedication and devotion. 15.20 – Why relationship is so fucking triggering, and what to do. 25.51 – Why Shasta sees variety WITH Ian and wants to make love, daily. 31.15 – The truth about The Jackpot Frequency. 40.00 – How to activate to the money, love and sex you want. Go to www.7starlove.com/secret to get your free gift too!

Do you have a sexual responsibility to your spouse? The answer is YES. Yet, this is rarely discussed and it can be a triggering topic!  This is NOT service sex, but it is an essential component of continued connection… In this episode Shasta and Ian discuss the concept of “sexual responsibility” including: What is Sexual Responsibility?What does this mean in a relationship? Why is it so important? How do you confront your own triggers, trauma and walls to ensure you are truly showing up for your lover in the bedroom and out. Is sexual “dysfunction” a stopping point or an opportunity – we talk about erectile dysfunction, lack of orgasm and fear of vulnerability in a powerful way.Do men have a different responsibility than women, and what is it exactly? Find out all the answers now in this raw, transparent and powerful episode. Listen now.

Your spouse might be your best friend but are you still having passionate sex? If not, you are headed for personal and relationship breakdown. Find out why and what to do in this episode.  Much of modern marriage advice tells us passion fades. But that’s dangerous. In this episode Shasta and Ian debunk this myth and speak to why lust creates love and love creates lust. They also share why lust AKA passion and desire for your spouse is required to ensure your marriage lasts.   Roommate/bestfriend style of marriage is headed to a collision course of breakdown, but it can be saved.  Shasta and Ian speak to: What lust really is and why it is essential in marriage. How to go from roommates or best friends to sparking sexual partners again.Why sex is the glue in marriage, no matter what.How to cultivate intimate connection and passion again.Should you pee with the door open? And other thoughts on keeping “mysterious”. Listen Now

There’s a secret yearning in the hearts, mind and wombs of women… Few women will admit it, and most men have no idea… Discover what that secret yearning is and how to unleash the passionate life and 7-star sex you desire…as a woman and a man… In this episode Ian and Shasta dive deep into this SECRET, and also speak to:  What is The Feminine and why is it still so challenging to embrace as women, and men. How women may be shutting down Feminine Power, AND turning OFF men unconsciously. Why WHOLENESS must include a return to the Feminine, and what the heck that looks like in this modern world. What the Prostitute Archetype versus the Love Goddess Archetype is, and why it matters…and how many women fall into The Prostitute unconsciously. Why love, sex and relationship can bring balance and GREATNESS for men and women. How to entwine the polarities of The Feminine and The Masculine. How to start to come into balance and reclaim wholeness – especially in and through relationship. What men can do to honour and celebrate the Real Modern Goddess…that makes them feel like superheroes.  Listen now. Get more free resources at www.7starlove.com   Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

What kind of relationship are you in?  Is it a soulmate relationship or a “role-mate” relationship? Find out in this episode… And learn WHY it’s important to create a soulmate relationship for not only lasting love, but also personal fulfillment. Shasta and Ian will help you get super clear on: What is a Soulmate relationship versus role-mate relationship. How to determine if you are in a soulmate or role-mate relationship. Why role-mate relationships are doomed and what to do NOW to shift things. If you are buying into an outdated belief system when it comes to love, marriage, relationship that is based in totally bogus information, but is extremely damaging. How to overcome resentments and “keeping score” to feel free and loved. How to turn your marriage into an opportunity for devotion, passion and personal fulfillment. Get the clarity, insight and empowered tools to make your relationship amazing! Listen now. Get more free resources at www.7starlove.com   Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

Roles have changed in our culture…Men and women are confused, separated and struggling to figure out what DOES Masculinity and Femininity look like now? Changing roles have affected your sex life, your health and also your libido. We go “inside the episode” in our conversation with Dr. John Gray, author of the Mars/Venus series. We dive into: The changing roles of men and women and what it really means for you, and for our culture. How to find balance in yourself, and success and sweetness your relationship with the changing gender roles. What to do if your partner doesn’t “need” you, and how Ian made a shift around this. What are the two paradigms we are all struggling with right now? What is the difference between Role Mate and Soulmate and how we moved from role mate to soulmate in our marriage. Understanding the biochemical side of things – hormonal side of things and why this is so significant to your relationship and overall health. Discover if you have too much testosterone as a woman or too much estrogen as a man? How we nurture “polarity” in our marriage to honour each of us AND create limitless passion and desire. Listen now   Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

The one-and-only John Gray, best-selling author of the Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus series is our special guest and he drops the explosive goods on sex and relationship. He shares insights on intimacy, sex, relationship and men and women that we guarantee you’ve never heard from him before. In this transparent and vulnerable interview, you will hear how: Gray kept his own passionate marriage alive for 4 decades, and how in his 70s he’s still having amazing sex, and possibly reverse aging! Why sex is both so triggering and satisfying, and how to overcome sexual insecurities. The role of The Masculine and The Feminine in relationship and how to balance them both. The role of hormones in sexual desire and how to balance them for greater libido and desire – male or female. What foreplay really is, and how to do it well. How to know if you are actually too Masculine as a woman or too Feminine as a man. Why the Orgasm Gap, and erectile dysfunction is related to your weight! Listen NOW. Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

Talk about a titan in “Lady Business! Rachel Braun Scherl joins us to talk about female arousal, the vocabulary of women’s sexuality or lack of it, and also her own humorous, heart-wrenching and ultimately wildly successful journey in the woman’s sexual health space. Rachel is a champion for women’s sexual reproductive health and a pioneer in the space and has built an international client list that includes Johnson & Johnson, Allergan, Pfizer, Bayer, and Church & Dwight, as well as venture-backed start-ups. As a Vagipreneur®, Rachel drives growth with businesses from menstruation through menopause, and while President and co-founder of Semprae Laboratories, Rachel and her team built a company that developed and marketed sexual health and wellness products for women - creating a new category. Semprae attracted significant media attention and industry interest and was sold to Innovus Pharmaceuticals in 2013. Needless to stay, she’s an EXPERT!!!! In this episode you will hear: The importance of a real language and vocabulary around women’s sexual desires and health. Why being part of the movement to create a dialogue and a vocabulary to give women and men the words to use to speak openly and honestly in that category remains critical. How to talk to your partner about sexual needs and desires, and to know if your female partner is holding back…she probably it!!! The most innovative and safe products and solutions that exist in the sexual health market, many of them created as the result of other women experiencing the same problems! How big the sexual health market really is, and if you are an entrepreneur HOW to leverage that now!   Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

With a divorce rate of over 50%, and nearly all couples “in trouble” seeking some sort of therapy, there is a pretty clear indication that things aren’t working! Shasta and Ian share their transparent story of what therapy did to their marriage and sex life, and what they did to repair their relationship, and the damage caused in therapy. If you’ve tried therapy and felt worse off there is a reason… If you are a therapist and you feel like you are either not really helping people or even might feel like a fraud yourself because of your own relationship issues, we understand. This episode is for you. You will hear: What is the #1 Flaw inherent in the therapy model. What neuroscience and the latest in neurophysiological (brain/body connection) tells us is actually working, and how to hack into that yourself. Why therapy may increase contempt rather than compassion in your relationship, and what a Seinfeld character knew about this…#festivus Why by doing this ONE thing you are making your brain, body and relationship worse off, and yet many people fall under the false belief that it’s what they should do. The #1 thing to do instead of therapy, that WILL save your marriage, your mind and your money!!! Listen Now Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

Think it’s normal for the spark to fade in long-term relationships? Think again. When love gets stale and predictable, we often blame biology or believe “that’s just the ways it is”. But it’s actually a call to go deeper. It’s a call to go past the distractions, accolades and responsibilities, that never truly satisfied you anyway. Since most people don’t have the tools or recognize this as an opening, they falter. Therapy doesn’t help. In this powerhouse episode Shasta and Ian give you the tools, mindsets and one POWERFUL way to start feeling waaaay more fulfilled in the bedroom and out. Find out where you are on the scale from 1 to 5 to 7 Stars! Learn what rules you need to break to get what you really want. Explore what the Super Humans know, that you might not and what that means in love, sex, finances and overall success. Hear the exact 4 Steps you need to consider to live a far more lux, fabulous and luscious life in the bedroom and out, even now! This episode is a Sacred. Divine. Profound. Invitation.  Listen now.   Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

Want more sex? Both men and women want more and better sex, but it takes more than just a demand for sex to be hot, fulfilling and constant. Most men approach sex with their female partner all wrong, and actually shut women down. And, the truth is your female partner is unlikely to tell you what you are doing right or wrong, man, and yet the Orgasm Gap grows and the frequency of sex diminishes. This means both men and women feel misunderstood, frustrated and resentful. In this episode we bare all the TRUTH about what you need to know to get a woman to open up and want to have sex with you again and again. This is THE episode to listen to just what your woman may want to tell you, but hasn’t’ yet…but we will! Listen NOW Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

With what’s unfolding in the US politics and the rise of hate, white supremacy and plain toxic behavior, we launch Season 2 with a deep dive into the Toxic Masculine. Are we seeing the rise of Toxic Masculinity right now or the death of an old system. And if it is on its way out, will it threaten to take us down with it? In this ground-breaking episode learn: What is toxic masculinity, and how is it changing in 2021. The specific map of how it shows up in love, sex and life. How to know if you have any small pattern of it in yourself – male or female.   The best steps in confronting and curbing toxic masculinity without losing your own centre, and humanity. We are in a potent time of human evolution and de-programming, but learning to identify, heal and transform these patterns are key for your own life and the legacy of love, connection and authentic expression in 2021 and beyond! Listen Now Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @the7starloveVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: 7starlove.com

Feeling the irritation of intimacy? Of being with your lover nearly 24/7 thanks to isolation and the corona virus? You are not alone. While many relationship improved during this time, and many more ended up in virtual divorce court, there is a “recipe” to keep desire alive and it means creating both distance and “newness”. In this episode, Shasta and Ian speak frankly to what they do daily to keep the fire burning but not burning out, as well as what they do to stay in their own individuality and state of peace. You will hear what research from noted psychologist Esther Perel has to say about DESIRE, and why the pandemic is almost the anti-thesis to it, but how you CAN actually deepen connection now. You will also hear some unique ways Shasta and Ian are dealing with stress, the loss of travel and being together 24/7. The sheer experience of being in each other’s presence nearly 24/7 and the way that can grate on the best of couples, but you will learn practical tools in this episode. Listen now. Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @theincomeandintimacyequationVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: theincomeandintimacyequation.com

Talking to your son about sex in an age of prolific porn use, dick pics and #metoo can feel uncomfortable, confounding and maybe something you’re avoiding. But the facts are 93% of young boys under the age of 18 have used online porn. It is a brave new world of sexuality from when we were kids and author, John Beede makes it easy to speak about the most taboo topics on the planet. We learned a ton from speaking to him in this show and realized the exact words to say to both young men and women to ensure they are well equipped to navigate sexuality and even a post-Covid isolation dating experience. You will learn how to: Talk about boundaries – your son’s and other people’s so he is well equipped to understand appropriate behavior and even his own impulsesNavigate dick pics – yes, chances are he has sent one!Online Porn + Oversexualization – John shares a perfect way to navigate porn usage and what to do to NOT shame your son but get him off the Hub.#metoo and Consent – learn how to educate and empower the young many in your life too! This is a must listen as a parent or caregiver of a young man or woman. In fact, we learned a ton about being better “models” for the younger generation and you will too. Listen Now Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @theincomeandintimacyequationVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: theincomeandintimacyequation.com

Are you having enough sex? What is a healthy amount, or does it even matter? This is a common worry for individuals and couples, and in a world of hyper-comparison and a desire to be normal, we often look to studies, other couples and national averages to know if we are ok. But there is actually another question, and result that you need to be asking that almost no one is. In this episode we share with you what you actually need to consider when it comes to your sex life and keeping a relationship healthy. The answer may surprise you. Listen now to learn IF you are having enough sex, and also what the #1 question should be when it comes to your sex life. Listen now. Want to share your thoughts? Visit sexellencepodcast.com and leave us a comment in a confidential form. Send us an email at connect@sexellencepodcast.com Connect with us on Instagram @sexellencepodcast and @theincomeandintimacyequationVisit our mentoring website for more tools and resources: theincomeandintimacyequation.com