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Jamilah Lemieux, Zak Rosen, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Lucy Lopez share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens. read less

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The three hosts of Mom and Dad Are Fighting | Slate's parenting show podcast understand a few things. Parenting is hard and can seem like a thankless job. And sometimes, parents need advice themselves instead of giving advice to their kids. The hosts want to help fellow parents and have a little fun doing so. This parenting show's advice can be serious, but the tone is not.

Jamilah Lemieux, Zak Rose, and Elizabeth Newcamp host Mom and Dad Are Fighting | Slate's parenting show. The three hosts are parents who enjoy talking about parenting—and giving advice. Jamilah cowrites Slate's "Care and Feeding" parenting column. Zak hosts The Best Advice Show podcast. And Elizabeth writes the family travel blog Dutch, Dutch Goose!

Slate readers contact the Mom and Dad Are Fighting | Slate's parenting show hosts. They are looking for advice on children and family issues. The readers are progressive, and so are the hosts. Many of the queries are what one might expect from the site's readership. A mom says her first-grade girl wants to be a boy. Her child is angry that the mom went to buy what the mother referred to as "girl sweaters." The hosts advise the mother to support her child's gender identity. In another episode, the hosts say parents should get trained in Narcan if they ever see an overdose.

Other episodes give friendship advice for both the children and the parents. Much of it involves kids feeling left out at parties. Youth sports is also a perennial topic on Mom and Dad Are Fighting. The hosts think it is a "time-consuming juggernaut." And parents seem flustered about how to get their kids away from their screens. The hosts also give advice on picky eaters.

In some episodes, guests come in to help with the advice. Comedian Ophira Eisenberg hosts the Parenting Is a Joke podcast. She and the Mom and Dad Are Fighting hosts shared funny parenting stories.

New episodes of Mom and Dad Are Fighting | Slate's parenting show podcast come out several times a week. Many parents will appreciate this program.

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Episodes

Helping Little Wild Things Learn To Read
Mar 25 2024
Helping Little Wild Things Learn To Read
On this episode: Zak, Jamilah and Lucy offer some quick advice to a listener who’s wondering how to help a young student with possible ADHD focus up, particularly about homework. Then, Elizabeth sits down with Australian author Sally Rippin to discuss her book Wild Things — the story of her neurodivergent son’s struggles in school, and why it’s important to help kids learn when they need it.  Zak, Jamilah and Lucy also share a round of recommendations — and then, for Slate Plus, Elizabeth and Sally continue their conversation by sharing some recommendations for young readers. Jamilah recommends: The 50/50 Solution The Surprisingly Simple Choice that Makes Moms, Dads and Kids Happier After a Split by Emma Johnson Lucy recommends: WomensHistoryMonth.gov Zak recommends: School of Rock (2003) Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on Care and Feeding. Sign up now at slate.com/careplus to help support our work. Podcast produced by Maura Currie. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Should I Allow Compliments About How My Kid Looks?
Mar 11 2024
Should I Allow Compliments About How My Kid Looks?
On this episode: Elizabeth Newcamp, Zak Rosen, and Jamilah Lemieux answer a question that someone actually posed to Jamilah on Instagram… about whether it’s okay to entertain compliments about your kid’s appearance. A facilitator at school has suggested redirecting to character compliments when this toddler — the only Black kid in her class — is praised for her appearance. But is there place for just calling a cute kid a cute kid? We’ll also do a round of recommendations. And then, in the Slate Plus realm, we’re talking about a piece in NYTMag… asserting that the teen subculture as we knew it is dead. In its place? The *~ aesthetic ~* Recommendations: Jamilah recommends: Get a 64 oz water jug Zak recommends: Art Hub For Kids YouTube Channel Elizabeth recommends: UV Detection Stickers for Sunscreen (link to uVify)  Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on Care and Feeding. Sign up now at slate.com/careplus to help support our work. Podcast produced by Maura Currie. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
C&F After Dark: Sex and Parenting
Feb 12 2024
C&F After Dark: Sex and Parenting
On this episode: Elizabeth Newcamp, Zak Rosen, and Jamilah Lemieux talk about the birds and the bees.  Parents don’t often get to talk about their sex lives out in the open… So this Valentine’s week, we thought we’d open the door to all things romance.  First up: we answer a listener question about managing different sex drives and all the normal parenting stuff. Then you’ll hear from resident single mom Jamilah about the logistics of swiping and dating with a kid in the house. We’ll also share a round of recommendations — and then, if you’re in the Slate Plus club, we’ll basically have a “hating Valentine’s Day” support circle.  Recommendations:  Elizabeth recommends: Super Simple Biology Jamilah recommends: Grilling your PB&J Zak recommends: Recording your kids' laughter and dating it. Care & Feeding is sponsored by Betterhelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/CAREANDFEEDING today to get 10% off your first month. Join us on Facebook and email us at careandfeedingpod@slate.com to ask us new questions, tell us what you thought of today’s show, and give us ideas about what we should talk about in future episodes. You can also call our phone line: (646) 357-9318. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on Care and Feeding. Sign up now at slate.com/careplus to help support our work. Podcast produced by Maura Currie, with special thanks to Rosemary Belson. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices