Caveman & Counselor

Gregg Homme and Kelly Lewallen

Welcome to Caveman & Counselor, the podcast where Kelly Lewallen, a licensed therapist, and Gregg Homme, a behavioral health advocate, explore the complex world of behavioral health and wellness. Join this married couple as they share their expertise through personal anecdotes and expert advice. Kelly and Gregg discuss topics like eating disorders, addiction, and everything else encompassing behavioral health, providing practical tips for recovery and self-care. read less

Invisible Scars: Healing Sexual Trauma in Boys
Aug 21 2023
Invisible Scars: Healing Sexual Trauma in Boys
Sexual trauma is a topic often cloaked in silence and secrecy, particularly when it involves boys. In this essential episode, hosts Gregg Homme and Kelly Lewallen, MFT, shine a spotlight on this delicate subject, breaking down myths and barriers surrounding the emotional and psychological impacts on male survivors. CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses sexual trauma in young boys, its impacts, and the journey of recovery. The content can be deeply sensitive and potentially triggering for some listeners. Please prioritize your well-being and consider whether this episode is appropriate for you. This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide direct advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified professional. Guests: Carol Teitelbaum, Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in treating sexual trauma in boys, started the It Happens To Boys Too movement in the Coachella Valley. Carol brings a wealth of knowledge from her decades of working with survivors, addressing the complexities of societal expectations that make it challenging for boys to come forward. Daniel courageously shares his personal journey as a survivor of sexual trauma. Through his story, listeners get an intimate insight into the struggles and triumphs of healing. His raw and real experiences highlight the importance of breaking the silence and finding a support network. Resources: 1in6: This organization offers information, resources, and support for male survivors of sexual assault and abuse. MaleSurvivor: Provides critical resources to male survivors of sexual trauma and all their partners in recovery by building communities of Hope, Healing, & Support. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): While not exclusively for males, RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline and has resources for all survivors of sexual assault.Hotline: 800.656.HOPE (4673) Men Healing: Offers workshops and support for male survivors. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: @cavemanandcounselor Tik Tok: @cavemanandcounselor Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Navigating the Complex World of Anxiety
Aug 14 2023
Navigating the Complex World of Anxiety
Trouble finding calm amidst the chaos? In this episode we unpack the difference between feeling anxious and having an anxiety disorder and how to cope with your diagnosis. Tune in to understand first hand how anxiety can impact your mental and physical health and how to get a little bit more peace in your life.  Guests: Dr. Krista Burris, Internal medicine doctor in pediatrics at Coachella Valley Direct Primary Care, expert in the physiology of anxiety, has personally experienced an anxiety disorder James Gallegos, AMFT, Clinical Director for Mental Health Outpatient Services at Desert Marriage & Family Counseling Resources: The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne  Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by Dr. David D. Burns   DARE: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks by Barry McDonagh  Anxiety and Depression Association of America  About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at [email protected]. Instagram: @cavemanandcounselor Tik Tok: @cavemanandcounselor Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Candid Conversations: Parenting a Child with Autism
Jul 31 2023
Candid Conversations: Parenting a Child with Autism
Join us in this conversation between a mother and her adult son, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of parenting a child with autism. Gain insights into their experiences, love, and growth as they share valuable lessons to support families on a similar journey. Guests: Shelli, a parent of a child who is on the autism spectrum. Will, an audio engineer at a studio, is on the autism spectrum and brings forward his unique experiences living and working with autism. Resources: ⁠Manga Book⁠ on Autism - “My Brain is Different: Stories of ADHD and Other Developmental Disorders” ⁠Autistic Self Advocacy Network⁠ (ASAN), advocacy and empowerment for autistic individuals run by and for people with autism. Autism Speaks, autism advocacy organizations, offering a wealth of information about autism, resources for families, and news about research. Applied Behavioral Analysis, a therapy based on the science of learning and behavior. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Warning: For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Understanding Autism: A Conversation with Therapists and Real-Life Experiences
Jul 24 2023
Understanding Autism: A Conversation with Therapists and Real-Life Experiences
Tune in as we have a fun and light conversation about Autism, filled with insights from an individual living on the spectrum and a seasoned therapist with a background in supporting clients with autism. Guests: Wyatt Lewallen, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist with extensive experience in assisting adults and children on the spectrum, serves as the Director of Admissions & Business Development at Desert Marriage Family Counseling. Will, an audio engineer at a studio, is on the autism spectrum and brings forward his unique experiences living and working with autism. Resources: ⁠Manga Book⁠ on Autism - “My Brain is Different: Stories of ADHD and Other Developmental Disorders” ⁠Autistic Self Advocacy Network⁠ (ASAN), advocacy and empowerment for autistic individuals run by and for people with autism. Autism Speaks, autism advocacy organizations, offering a wealth of information about autism, resources for families, and news about research. Applied Behavioral Analysis, a therapy based on the science of learning and behavior.  About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠Patreon⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Warning:  For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Suicide Prevention: The Power of Connection
Jul 17 2023
Suicide Prevention: The Power of Connection
Join us as we delve into powerful accounts from a suicide survivor and a person who's endured multiple losses to suicide, and gain enlightening insights from Dr. Nicole Siegfried as she busts common suicide myths. Guests: Dr. Nicole Siegfried, a seasoned clinical psychologist and the Chief Clinical Officer at Lightfully Behavioral Health, a renowned mental health treatment center focusing on supporting individuals grappling with suicide. Benji Love, a brave individual who has survived suicide and Outreach Chair for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Orange County, and Outreach Manager for The Godden Center, a nonprofit serving addiction and mental health. Carmen Diaz, who has tragically lost several loved ones to suicide and severs as a board member on the Inland Empire and Desert Cities Chapter of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: A 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, as well as prevention and crisis resources for individuals and their loved ones. Contact: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or use the online chat at suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/. Crisis Text Line: A free, 24/7 text line for people in crisis. Text HOME to 741741 from anywhere in the United States. The Trevor Project: A 24/7 national hotline offering crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth. Contact: 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678. SAMHSA's National Helpline: A confidential, free, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. Contact: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357). NAMI Helpline (National Alliance on Mental Illness): Provides information, referrals, and support to people living with a mental health condition. Contact: 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-950-6264). ⁠American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)⁠: They provide information about suicide, stories of people who've survived, and ways to help those affected by suicide. Warning:  For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Confronting Problem Gambling
Jul 3 2023
Confronting Problem Gambling
Join Gregg and Kelly as they explore the topic of problem gambling. This episode features Joe, who is going under a pseudonym to share his personal journey of recovery from problem gambling, and Dr. Gary Lang, a renowned expert in the field. They discuss the various challenges that problem gambling presents and its detrimental effects on individuals and families. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of this often-overlooked issue and to learn about available resources for those struggling with problem gambling. Let's support each other in combating this harmful addiction. Warning: For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Body Positivity: The Guide to Self-Love
Jun 26 2023
Body Positivity: The Guide to Self-Love
In today's episode, we're excited to shed light on a topic that holds great importance: body positivity. Our navigator for this journey is the fantastic Kate Homet, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, who works with clients wrestling with body dysphoria. Kate has made it her mission to help us all see our bodies through a kinder lens. However, that's just the beginning. Also hitching a ride with us is David Malow, a recovery coach, an intervention specialist for substance use disorder, and most importantly, a real-life hero who’s overcome body image struggles. Ready to lay his journey bare, he’ll share how he turned personal adversity into a triumph of self-acceptance. Buckle up for a heart-tugging, inspiring story of transformation! So, turn up the volume, sit back, and be prepared for a roller-coaster of emotions as we navigate the exhilarating landscape of body positivity. Warning: For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Eating Disorder Recovery: A Family's Journey
Jun 19 2023
Eating Disorder Recovery: A Family's Journey
We're talking about eating disorder recovery! We have many experts on the show today including our cohost, therapist, and eating disorder specialist Kelly Lewallen and advocate Gregg Homme. We'll hear from two guests who have faced the realities of eating disorders firsthand: a father whose child is on the path to recovery and an individual courageously sharing their personal experience in overcoming an eating disorder. To help us dissect and better understand the questions and concerns raised by our guests, we're thrilled to have Ashley Lytwyn, a renowned expert in eating disorder recovery, join us on the show. Ashley's expertise will offer guidance and hope to those seeking answers and support in their own recovery journey or that of a loved one. Warning: This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Your Teenager's Perspective: Bridging the Understanding Gap with Your Teen
Jun 12 2023
Your Teenager's Perspective: Bridging the Understanding Gap with Your Teen
We're talking about teenagers! Robert Barron, LMFT, shares his expertise working with teenagers and high-risk youth on effective parenting and understanding your teens. We also interviewed a teenager to ask her thoughts on her own parents. This episode offers a rich source of information for parents striving to enhance their communication and deepen their relationships with their teenagers. Whether you're facing difficulties in understanding your teens behavior or you're simply keen to enhance your parenting skills, this episode will equip you with a wealth of knowledge and practical tips. So, tune in to uncover the secrets of successful parenting and learn to better nurture your teens, so they can be well prepared for adulthood. *This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Your Child's Perspective: Bridging the Understanding Gap with Young Children
Jun 5 2023
Your Child's Perspective: Bridging the Understanding Gap with Young Children
Are you a parent seeking actionable advice for common challenges faced in early childhood? Look no further! In this episode, we host renowned child therapist Diana Herrington, who shares her expert tips on effective parenting and understanding children's needs and desires. Inviting a unique perspective, we include interviews with kids sharing their thoughts on what they wish their parents understood. This episode offers a rich source of information for parents striving to enhance their communication and deepen their relationships with their children. Whether you're facing difficulties in understanding your child's behavior or you're simply keen to enhance your parenting skills, this episode will equip you with a wealth of knowledge and practical tips. So, tune in to uncover the secrets of successful parenting and learn to nurture your young ones in the most effective way. *This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Unlocking Sobriety: The Power of Relationships in Addiction Recovery
May 29 2023
Unlocking Sobriety: The Power of Relationships in Addiction Recovery
In this jam packed episode, we delve into the essential role relationships play in addiction recovery.  We speak with two individuals in different stages of recovery, hearing their illuminating real-life triumphs and challenges of sobriety. Plus, our co-host Gregg chimes in on his experience with addiction and sobriety. Dr. Jane Gaunt, an esteemed addiction recovery expert, offers invaluable insights into addiction and the power of relationships in fostering healing.  The episode provides a deep understanding of addiction recovery for those affected by it, their loved ones, and mental health professionals. It underscores the value of a strong support network in aiding long-term recovery. *This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Resources: Addiction affects millions of people worldwide, with the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) reporting that in 2019, 20.4 million people in the United States alone battled a substance use disorder. The road to recovery can be challenging, and studies have shown that strong relationships and social support networks can significantly improve the chances of long-term sobriety. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) Alcoholics Anonymous (AA): Website: https://www.aa.org/ Find a meeting: https://www.aa.org/pages/en_US/find-aa-resources Narcotics Anonymous (NA): Website: https://www.na.org/ Find a meeting: https://www.na.org/meetingsearch/ SMART Recovery: Website: https://www.smartrecovery.org/ Find a meeting: https://www.smartrecovery.org/community/ Al-Anon Family Groups: Website: https://al-anon.org/ Find a meeting: https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/find-an-al-anon-meeting/ About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Behind the Sirens: Uncovering the Mental Health Struggles of First Responders
May 22 2023
Behind the Sirens: Uncovering the Mental Health Struggles of First Responders
*This episode contains discussions of traumatic experiences faced by first responders, including graphic descriptions and intense emotions. Listener discretion is advised. Join Gregg and Kelly as they delve into the mental health challenges faced by first responders, including PTSD, addiction, and anxiety. Featuring Michael Tripet, MFT and former Peace Officer and Megan a retired first responder. This episode sheds light on the intense pressures of the job and provides valuable insights and resources for those in need. Listen now to support and understand the heroes who protect and serve our communities. Warning: This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Resources: What is EMDR? EMDR Therapy Find an EMDR Therapist Desert Marriage and Family Counseling About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Unraveling Codependency: Impact on Relationships & Happiness
May 15 2023
Unraveling Codependency: Impact on Relationships & Happiness
Dive into the complexities of codependency with behavioral health therapist Kelly Lewallen and advocate Gregg Homme in this insightful episode of Caveman & Counselor.  Codependency is a relationship pattern in which individuals prioritize the needs and desires of others above their own. We'll chat about what that looks like and offer some tips for anyone who might be struggling with it. We'll hear from a brave individual's recovery story and learn from expert Dr. Sandy Islands on the effects of codependency on relationships and overall happiness. So, come on and join us on this transformative journey! Don't forget to hit that subscribe button and share with your friends. Warning: This episode is for informational use only and not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman).  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist