Caveman & Counselor

Gregg Homme and Kelly Lewallen

Welcome to Caveman & Counselor, the podcast where Kelly Lewallen, a licensed therapist, and Gregg Homme, a behavioral health advocate, explore the complex world of behavioral health and wellness. Join this married couple as they share their expertise through personal anecdotes and expert advice. Kelly and Gregg discuss topics like eating disorders, addiction, and everything else encompassing behavioral health, providing practical tips for recovery and self-care. read less
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Episodes

Unlocking Brain Health Secrets with Neurosurgeon Dr. Vikram Udani
Jan 29 2024
Unlocking Brain Health Secrets with Neurosurgeon Dr. Vikram Udani
Dive into the fascinating world of brain health with Caveman & Counselor as we welcome renowned neurosurgeon Dr. Vikram Udani. In this riveting episode, Dr. Udani sheds light on the pillars of maintaining a healthy brain, unraveling the impact of modern lifestyle choices—from the food we eat to the screens that captivate us. Discover the silent threats of eating disorders and digital consumption on our cognitive well-being. But that's not all—our host Kelly Lewallen shares a deeply personal narrative with Dr. Udani, revisiting their journey through the removal of a non-cancerous brain tumor. Parents, educators, and anyone intrigued by the marvels of the human brain will find invaluable insights on fostering optimal learning environments for children, ensuring they reach their highest potential. *This podcast is for informational purposes only. If you need professional advice, please consult a qualified healthcare provider. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Healing After Narcissism: A Story of Overcoming Anxiety & Depression
Jan 8 2024
Healing After Narcissism: A Story of Overcoming Anxiety & Depression
In this deeply moving and enlightening episode of our podcast, we explore the challenging yet inspiring journey of healing from the aftermath of narcissistic abuse. Our episode features a powerful narrative from a woman who has bravely faced anxiety, depression, and the long road to recovery after being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner. Our special guest shares her intimate experience, shedding light on the psychological impacts and emotional turmoil of living with a narcissist. Co-host Gregg Homme offers a unique perspective from their shared experience in a residential treatment center, providing valuable insights into mental health treatment and therapy, offering hope and guidance to those on a similar path. We also list the signs of narcissism in relationships and share a story of hope for those navigating their way through similar challenges. Join us in this heartfelt and informative episode as we navigate the path of healing from anxiety, depression, and narcissistic abuse, filled with real-life experience and insights. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: @cavemanandcounselor Tik Tok: @cavemanandcounselor Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #HealingAfterNarcissism #MentalHealthPodcast #AnxietyRecovery #DepressionHelp #NarcissisticAbuse #RecoveryStories
A Special Replay for Suicide Loss Survivors Day
Nov 18 2023
A Special Replay for Suicide Loss Survivors Day
Today we are honoring International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day. Join us as we delve into powerful accounts from a suicide survivor and a person who's endured multiple losses to suicide, and gain enlightening insights from Dr. Nicole Siegfried as she busts common suicide myths. Guests: ⁠Dr. Nicole Siegfried⁠, a seasoned clinical psychologist and the Chief Clinical Officer at ⁠Lightfully Behavioral Health⁠, a renowned mental health treatment center focusing on supporting individuals grappling with suicide. Benji Love, a brave individual who has survived suicide and Outreach Chair for the ⁠American Foundation for Suicide Prevention⁠ in Orange County, and Outreach Manager for ⁠The Godden Center⁠, a nonprofit serving addiction and mental health. Carmen Diaz, who has tragically lost several loved ones to suicide and severs as a board member on the Inland Empire and Desert Cities Chapter of the ⁠American Foundation for Suicide Prevention⁠. Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: A 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, as well as prevention and crisis resources for individuals and their loved ones. Contact: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or use the online chat at ⁠suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/⁠. Crisis Text Line: A free, 24/7 text line for people in crisis. Text HOME to 741741 from anywhere in the United States. The Trevor Project: A 24/7 national hotline offering crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth. Contact: 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678. SAMHSA's National Helpline: A confidential, free, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. Contact: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357). NAMI Helpline (National Alliance on Mental Illness): Provides information, referrals, and support to people living with a mental health condition. Contact: 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-950-6264). ⁠⁠American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)⁠⁠: They provide information about suicide, stories of people who've survived, and ways to help those affected by suicide. Warning:  For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Therapy and Healing Across Cultures
Oct 30 2023
Therapy and Healing Across Cultures
From undocumented immigrant to licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Graciela Cortes shares her journey of living and working for a better life in the US and how her perspective on the American Dream remains unwavered despite political divides. Through the lens of her rich cultural background and professional expertise, Graciela explores the nuances of mental health within the Latin community. We delve into how traditional Latin values can both help and hinder emotional well-being, and how therapy can be a safe space for navigating life's challenges, regardless of your cultural background. *This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide direct advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling.⁠⁠ Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes. Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Understanding Maternal Betrayal
Oct 18 2023
Understanding Maternal Betrayal
The relationship between mothers and children can often impact the child's health moving well into adulthood and beyond. In this empowering episode, we are joined by renowned author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Holli Kenley to explore the often hushed subject of maternal betrayal. Through Holli's expert insights, we delve into the emotional aftermath, the challenges of forgiveness, and most importantly, the healing journey that lies ahead. As someone who has extensively researched and written on relational betrayal, Holli guides us through what maternal betrayal looks like and personal anecdotes to help listeners transform their pain into empowerment. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that aims to help you reclaim your trust and find a path to healing and emotional freedom. *This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide direct advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified professional. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling.⁠ Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes. Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠ Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Invisible Scars: Healing Sexual Trauma in Boys
Aug 21 2023
Invisible Scars: Healing Sexual Trauma in Boys
Sexual trauma is a topic often cloaked in silence and secrecy, particularly when it involves boys. In this essential episode, hosts Gregg Homme and Kelly Lewallen, MFT, shine a spotlight on this delicate subject, breaking down myths and barriers surrounding the emotional and psychological impacts on male survivors. CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses sexual trauma in young boys, its impacts, and the journey of recovery. The content can be deeply sensitive and potentially triggering for some listeners. Please prioritize your well-being and consider whether this episode is appropriate for you. This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide direct advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, we encourage seeking support from a qualified professional. Guests: Carol Teitelbaum, Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in treating sexual trauma in boys, started the It Happens To Boys Too movement in the Coachella Valley. Carol brings a wealth of knowledge from her decades of working with survivors, addressing the complexities of societal expectations that make it challenging for boys to come forward. Daniel courageously shares his personal journey as a survivor of sexual trauma. Through his story, listeners get an intimate insight into the struggles and triumphs of healing. His raw and real experiences highlight the importance of breaking the silence and finding a support network. Resources: 1in6: This organization offers information, resources, and support for male survivors of sexual assault and abuse. MaleSurvivor: Provides critical resources to male survivors of sexual trauma and all their partners in recovery by building communities of Hope, Healing, & Support. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): While not exclusively for males, RAINN operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline and has resources for all survivors of sexual assault.Hotline: 800.656.HOPE (4673) Men Healing: Offers workshops and support for male survivors. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: @cavemanandcounselor Tik Tok: @cavemanandcounselor Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Navigating the Complex World of Anxiety
Aug 14 2023
Navigating the Complex World of Anxiety
Trouble finding calm amidst the chaos? In this episode we unpack the difference between feeling anxious and having an anxiety disorder and how to cope with your diagnosis. Tune in to understand first hand how anxiety can impact your mental and physical health and how to get a little bit more peace in your life.  Guests: Dr. Krista Burris, Internal medicine doctor in pediatrics at Coachella Valley Direct Primary Care, expert in the physiology of anxiety, has personally experienced an anxiety disorder James Gallegos, AMFT, Clinical Director for Mental Health Outpatient Services at Desert Marriage & Family Counseling Resources: The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne  Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by Dr. David D. Burns   DARE: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks by Barry McDonagh  Anxiety and Depression Association of America  About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by Desert Marriage and Family Counseling. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at [email protected]. Instagram: @cavemanandcounselor Tik Tok: @cavemanandcounselor Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Candid Conversations: Parenting a Child with Autism
Jul 31 2023
Candid Conversations: Parenting a Child with Autism
Join us in this conversation between a mother and her adult son, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of parenting a child with autism. Gain insights into their experiences, love, and growth as they share valuable lessons to support families on a similar journey. Guests: Shelli, a parent of a child who is on the autism spectrum. Will, an audio engineer at a studio, is on the autism spectrum and brings forward his unique experiences living and working with autism. Resources: ⁠Manga Book⁠ on Autism - “My Brain is Different: Stories of ADHD and Other Developmental Disorders” ⁠Autistic Self Advocacy Network⁠ (ASAN), advocacy and empowerment for autistic individuals run by and for people with autism. Autism Speaks, autism advocacy organizations, offering a wealth of information about autism, resources for families, and news about research. Applied Behavioral Analysis, a therapy based on the science of learning and behavior. About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Support us on ⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠ and unlock early access to episodes.  Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Warning: For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Understanding Autism: A Conversation with Therapists and Real-Life Experiences
Jul 24 2023
Understanding Autism: A Conversation with Therapists and Real-Life Experiences
Tune in as we have a fun and light conversation about Autism, filled with insights from an individual living on the spectrum and a seasoned therapist with a background in supporting clients with autism. Guests: Wyatt Lewallen, an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist with extensive experience in assisting adults and children on the spectrum, serves as the Director of Admissions & Business Development at Desert Marriage Family Counseling. Will, an audio engineer at a studio, is on the autism spectrum and brings forward his unique experiences living and working with autism. Resources: ⁠Manga Book⁠ on Autism - “My Brain is Different: Stories of ADHD and Other Developmental Disorders” ⁠Autistic Self Advocacy Network⁠ (ASAN), advocacy and empowerment for autistic individuals run by and for people with autism. Autism Speaks, autism advocacy organizations, offering a wealth of information about autism, resources for families, and news about research. Applied Behavioral Analysis, a therapy based on the science of learning and behavior.  About Caveman & Counselor: Caveman & Counselor is a podcast that aims to answer the challenging questions about behavioral health and recovery, brought to you by ⁠Desert Marriage and Family Counseling⁠. Hosted by Kelly Lewallen the experienced therapist (aka Counselor) and behavioral health advocate Gregg Homme (our very own Caveman). Craving for more? Become a patron on ⁠Patreon⁠ and unlock a treasure trove of exclusive content, thoughtfully curated just for you. Let's dive into the depths of the mind, one episode at a time! Connect with us: Email us with questions, comments, and feedback at cavemanandcounselor@gmail.com. Instagram: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠@cavemanandcounselor⁠⁠ Warning:  For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Suicide Prevention: The Power of Connection
Jul 17 2023
Suicide Prevention: The Power of Connection
Join us as we delve into powerful accounts from a suicide survivor and a person who's endured multiple losses to suicide, and gain enlightening insights from Dr. Nicole Siegfried as she busts common suicide myths. Guests: Dr. Nicole Siegfried, a seasoned clinical psychologist and the Chief Clinical Officer at Lightfully Behavioral Health, a renowned mental health treatment center focusing on supporting individuals grappling with suicide. Benji Love, a brave individual who has survived suicide and Outreach Chair for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention in Orange County, and Outreach Manager for The Godden Center, a nonprofit serving addiction and mental health. Carmen Diaz, who has tragically lost several loved ones to suicide and severs as a board member on the Inland Empire and Desert Cities Chapter of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: A 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, as well as prevention and crisis resources for individuals and their loved ones. Contact: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or use the online chat at suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/. Crisis Text Line: A free, 24/7 text line for people in crisis. Text HOME to 741741 from anywhere in the United States. The Trevor Project: A 24/7 national hotline offering crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth. Contact: 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678. SAMHSA's National Helpline: A confidential, free, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders. Contact: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357). NAMI Helpline (National Alliance on Mental Illness): Provides information, referrals, and support to people living with a mental health condition. Contact: 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-950-6264). ⁠American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)⁠: They provide information about suicide, stories of people who've survived, and ways to help those affected by suicide. Warning:  For informational use only; not a substitute for professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, seek help from a qualified professional. Kelly Lewallen, MFT #37832 Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist