What's driving the current conversation around polyamory? How do people fall into it? What are the misconceptions about how it works? And what do you do if you find yourself at the crossroads of considering a polyamorous relationship? Audie asks Kevin Patterson, author of Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities and sex therapist Dr. Lexx Brown-James.  Share your thoughts or questions with us - we'd love to hear from you! Text or send a voice memo to: 202-854-8802.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices